FabSwingers.com forum: Mobile number

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I love to text and chat so have given my mobile number to quite a few ladies .

Some have become great friends . Some with hindsight was not such a good idea .

So my question is " How long would you need too message someone before you gave out your number ? Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I only give mine out when a meet is arranged, not before, had too many abuse it like texting abuse at 5.30 am because I was chatting to a guy and dared go to bed

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By *illow PimpMan
over a year ago

Midlothian

The tool of choice should be a tenner fun phone for swinging and strangers and your personal phone for family and friends

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I only give mine out when a meet is arranged, not before, had too many abuse it like texting abuse at 5.30 am because I was chatting to a guy and dared go to bed

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Well i allways wait while 5.35 am too text . Like to give them a lie in

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By *MOOTH AND ROUGHCouple
over a year ago

tamworth

We tend to give mobile number out on day of meet and its always hubby's number so far not had no stalkers yet x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I only give mine out when a meet is arranged, not before, had too many abuse it like texting abuse at 5.30 am because I was chatting to a guy and dared go to bed

Well i allways wait while 5.35 am too text . Like to give them a lie in

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The tool of choice should be a tenner fun phone for swinging and strangers and your personal phone for family and friends

I only give out my play phone number when sorting a meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I only give out my number to those I trust and agreed to meet now. I've been on the receiving end of nasty texts and a two stalkers so don't give my number out willy nilly

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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago

In Your Bush

Very few have mine. I stalk them for a while first as well.

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By *illow PimpMan
over a year ago

Midlothian

"The tool of choice should be a tenner fun phone for swinging and strangers and your personal phone for family and friends

I only give out my play phone number when sorting a meet. "

Wise choice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only give it out if a lady im chattin to on here asks for it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My phone number is extremely important to me.

For me it isn't something that I can just change for may reasons. I guess that I'd need to "trust" the lady that I'm giving my number to.

I'm currently studying obsessive behaviour and having someone who is suffering from obsessive disorder, infatuation or just can't take "no" for an answer can be very scary, even worse if they know where you live.

My advice for what it's worth is never give out your phone number, use some other medium to communicate with. Unless you are happy to change your number of course.

Hope this helps

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only a few have got my no, those ive been chatting with for a while and those ive met, but seems once you meet them texting and messaging grinds to a almost halt. Must be something I don't do lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

wish someone wanted my number lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Only a few have got my no, those ive been chatting with for a while and those ive met, but seems once you meet them texting and messaging grinds to a almost halt. Must be something I don't do lol"
Must be something we both dont do cause i find that too xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've a cheap phone I use for meets. People get that number when we arrange the meet, but it's not on until a few hours before the agreed time.

If I have met several times and am comfortable with the person, know they're not a wierdo, then they get my personal number.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I love to text and chat so have given my mobile number to quite a few ladies .

Some have become great friends . Some with hindsight was not such a good idea .

So my question is " How long would you need too message someone before you gave out your number ? Xx

I can normally tell pretty quick who I'd give my number to.

If they are from the forums..it's easier to gauge because I'd already have a pretty good idea of them over a stretch of posts/comments.

If it was someone totally random...it all fepends on my gut feeling.

I trust my gut and it's usually right one way or another.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dont mind giving mine out android call blocker works well if they want to get nasty by call or txt

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey

The only time I will give out my phone number is when a meet has been arranged.

But then I am not one for talking on the phone even to my family and friends.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't have a problem with anyone having my number abuse it that's a different story.

I treat people's space with respect and will not rude text or ring to cause offence and expect the same back

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The tool of choice should be a tenner fun phone for swinging and strangers and your personal phone for family and friends

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

I can't be arsed carrying 2 phones around so when i give out my number its my personal one..I have Mr block so if someone pisses me off they just get blocked

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By *empting Devil.Woman
over a year ago

Sheffield

I don't give mine out till we've played at least once and I'm sure I'll want to play again.

I've had a stalker and three guys who think I should be available to text and chat all the time and get funny when I say it's not appropriate. So now I don't give my number.

There are a few who ask for it when chatting but if they are not happy with my reasons then that's fine - I move on to the next.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't give mine out till we've played at least once and I'm sure I'll want to play again.

I've had a stalker and three guys who think I should be available to text and chat all the time and get funny when I say it's not appropriate. So now I don't give my number.

There are a few who ask for it when chatting but if they are not happy with my reasons then that's fine - I move on to the next.

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spot on x

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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago

In Your Bush

"The only time I will give out my phone number is when a meet has been arranged.

But then I am not one for talking on the phone even to my family and friends.

I've got your number Bendy Roo

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always give my number out before arranging any meet as for me if I can't talk to them on phone won't be able to talk face to face. If all goes pear shaped I'm very good at just ignoring text and calls from those I don't wish to communicate with.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I usually trust instinct ... but after some mails on here and an element of ' yes this person is someone I would want to meet'

Saying that people change the facade of being a gentleman can fall away and they turn into wankheads

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My phone number is extremely important to me.

For me it isn't something that I can just change for may reasons. I guess that I'd need to "trust" the lady that I'm giving my number to.

My advice for what it's worth is never give out your phone number, use some other medium to communicate with. Unless you are happy to change your number of course.

Hope this helps "

Why are you studying that ?? for fun or for a job

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was just looking for a meet for next week and as I was looking through the profiles (ladies your looking lovely by the way) one ladie has posted her phone number on her status, wtf surely she should know better, I can understand a bloke doing it but I would have thought a woman would be a bit more carefull

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't give out my phone number. If we meet someone then sometimes we do give a number for contact but it is always my OHs number and they are aware of that. He's never had texts from people wanting to talk dirty

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

"Very few have mine. I stalk them for a while first as well. "

I think stalking is old hat

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Used to have a play phone and they are a great idea, however it started to play up so I gave up on after a year of only giving that number out. Some forumites have my real no and I feel comfortable with that, meet wise don't really give a number out as easy to check fabs on your phone and can finalise meets via messages.

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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago

In Your Bush

"Very few have mine. I stalk them for a while first as well.

I think stalking is old hat

Or new hat in your case

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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago

In Your Bush

"Used to have a play phone and they are a great idea, however it started to play up so I gave up on after a year of only giving that number out. Some forumites have my real no and I feel comfortable with that, meet wise don't really give a number out as easy to check fabs on your phone and can finalise meets via messages.

Hahaha easy ! Really?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Even scarier, one turned up at the hospital reception where I used to work and paged me with the message that my girlfriend was waiting for me, when we actually never met !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only a handful of people have my number and that's people I trust not to abuse it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hahaha easy ! Really?

Shut it you!! That is with mobile no's being exchanged as well, tis your fault

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A few people on here that I have met and trust have mine x

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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge

"I only give mine out when a meet is arranged, not before"

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By *ts artMan
over a year ago

Londonderry

No need for a second fone if you have a smart phone. Just use kik

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Only a few have got my no, those ive been chatting with for a while and those ive met, but seems once you meet them texting and messaging grinds to a almost halt. Must be something I don't do lol Must be something we both dont do cause i find that too xxx

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Im almost certain its my lack of experience in other things and not being able to travel further than my home town. Oh well, never mind hey

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Loads of people have my number but I am excellent at ignoring texts and calls so if they have annoyed me they don't get very far

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey

"The only time I will give out my phone number is when a meet has been arranged.

But then I am not one for talking on the phone even to my family and friends.

I've got your number Bendy Roo

* inserts new sim card *

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Few more then I would've have my number, I am now very protective of my number and only if I have arranged a meet do I give it out, as I already carry two phones (work & personal) I do not want a 3rd play phone.

I get a bit annoyed when on the 2nd messages someone starts asking for a number or what's app & I really didn't get on with Kik so deleted it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have a play phone but still won't give out that number until a meet is arranged. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have learned not to give my number out Willy nilly, have had stalkers & total freaks calling me at all hours but now my phone is super smart & is only audiable between 7am & midnight

Also quite happy to pass numbers to the police if I get harrassed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I was just looking for a meet for next week and as I was looking through the profiles (ladies your looking lovely by the way) one ladie has posted her phone number on her status, wtf surely she should know better, I can understand a bloke doing it but I would have thought a woman would be a bit more carefull"

It might not be a woman.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I love to text and chat so have given my mobile number to quite a few ladies .

Some have become great friends . Some with hindsight was not such a good idea .

So my question is " How long would you need too message someone before you gave out your number ? Xx

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we use a diff phone for swinging so its not much if an issue, you can always change the sim card

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

message them just a couple of times as sometimes i think its quicker to say hi on the phone rather than sending lots of messages on here.

i dont call them or text them unless they do first though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I love to text and chat so have given my mobile number to quite a few ladies .

Some have become great friends . Some with hindsight was not such a good idea .

So my question is " How long would you need too message someone before you gave out your number ? Xx

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i have just changed my number and we using hubs number in future as i hate when u get a text out of the blue and they take forever to say who they are. Guys are less inclined to text if its the male halfs number..or like someone else suggested..a seperate phone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hahaha easy ! Really?

Shut it you!! That is with mobile no's being exchanged as well, tis your fault

I got Julies too. Me and Ryan should form a cult!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have a "naughty" phone!

Only when I'm comfortable with the person do they get the working hours mobile.

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By *issHottieBottieWoman
over a year ago

Kent

I'm trying to count..

I think 5 people off here have my number. Will be one more later and one more that was my friend before fab so she had it anyway x

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By *rsIdiotWoman
over a year ago

Bedworth

How soon depends on the person. I have a play phone and most only ever get that number. Only a couple of special friends have my real number

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"How soon depends on the person. I have a play phone and most only ever get that number. Only a couple of special friends have my real number"

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By *win PeaksCouple
over a year ago

Northamptonshire

We have a cheap 'play' phone which we use, I never carry it around with me,except if we are on our way to meet someone, it is normally lives in a draw.

One 3 people on here have MY number, just because because I have met a person and played with them in a club, doesn't mean I trust them with my real life

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By *ucy and CarlCouple
over a year ago

Broadstairs

When a meet had been arranged.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

IBlacklist app works a treat - can control texts And calls

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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge

"IBlacklist app works a treat - can control texts And calls

If you have an iPhone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"IBlacklist app works a treat - can control texts And calls

If you have an iPhone."

Does help

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I only have one phone and only people I trust get my number

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only give my number if realistic chance of meet or if gut feeling is good about the other party.

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By *ittle nelWoman
over a year ago

Merseyside

only once we've met, no need with kik an Skype etc, ...... only one person ever got it before a meet but that "moment of madness" was soooooo worth it lol xx

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