FabSwingers.com forum: Public apology

By *ce Winger OP Man
over a year ago

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To everyone who was at Cupids Beach Party on Saturday.

It appears that I upset some people and let not only myself, but others down and would therefore like to offer my unreserved apologies.

Firstly to Minnie as I was supposed to be your knight in shining armour

Ruby for organising what appeared to be an excellent do

Bambi, Purring Pussy & Minxie also deserve my admittance of humiliation

Paul said he will keep ma Kiss Me Quick hat until next time

*hangs head in shame

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Good of you to post Rich!

Regardless of what happened later - was nice to meet you at the pub!

And glad you tracked your hat down!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Apology accepted

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You're not gonna be let off that easily.

The 99.9% of forumites who were not there on the night would love to know what happened so that we can all either pass judgement and/or forgive you...

Go on, you know you want to...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well done for this apology.

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By *egan_CDTV/TS
over a year ago

In the closet

"Go on, you know you want to..."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Go on, you know you want to...

What goes on tour, stays on tour.

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By *oxerjoshleeMan
over a year ago

Sheffield

Fair play to you. Takes guts to apologise and we all do stupid things sometimes. .... we're only human afterall.

Would love to know what you did tho

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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago

In Your Bush

Obviously I wasn't there but whatever you did big

for eating humble. Now how many lashes are you prepared to take?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Go on, you know you want to...

What goes on tour, stays on tour. "

Especially Rams hat, Bens shirt and Julies iphone!

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By *nfieldishCouple
over a year ago

Enfield

Tell tell tell......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Perhaps your apology will push others to apologise if needed.

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By *ce Winger OP Man
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

"Would love to know what you did tho

Funnily enough, so would I

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep I agree with the others well done for apologising!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nooo it making my toes curl with embarrassment

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well I for one don’t want to know what happened ,,,,

It’s enough for me to know all the great people whose company I enjoy here in forums are magnanimous enough to accept your unreserved apology.

Thumbs up to you all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Go on, you know you want to...

What goes on tour, stays on tour.

Especially Rams hat, Bens shirt and Julies iphone!

hahaha. I kept my top on too

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By *ce Winger OP Man
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

"Apology accepted"

Thank's Ruby, I made a fool of maself at my first social, not good

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"To everyone who was at Cupids Beach Party on Saturday.

It appears that I upset some people and let not only myself, but others down and would therefore like to offer my unreserved apologies.

Firstly to Minnie as I was supposed to be your knight in shining armour

Ruby for organising what appeared to be an excellent do

Bambi, Purring Pussy & Minxie also deserve my admittance of humiliation

Paul said he will keep ma Kiss Me Quick hat until next time

*hangs head in shame

That takes some guts to apologise publicly!

Big

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

not sure what you did but it takes balls to apologise in public and that deserves some respect.

However those you think that you offended are the ones to accept or decline not us

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By *taffsfella1Man
over a year ago

Newcastle-under-Lyme

Takes a big man to apologise. Great post, I'm taking my hat off to you

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By *ce Winger OP Man
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

"Obviously I wasn't there but whatever you did big

for eating humble. Now how many lashes are you prepared to take?"

I hope you're talking

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Apology accepted

Thank's Ruby, I made a fool of maself at my first social, not good

Possibly nerves. It happens. x

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

Good for you Superramfan. It takes guts to apologise. It shouldn't but it does.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's rather a useless thread really on a public forum. Why dont you just message those who attended and apologise. If you don't want to share and only start cryptic threads then it seems silly to broadcast it to everyone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Well I for one don’t want to know what happened ,,,,

It’s enough for me to know all the great people whose company I enjoy here in forums are magnanimous enough to accept your unreserved apology.

Thumbs up to you all

Agreed!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hey Bro we all make fuck ups.

I'm not exactly sure what happened, I personally didn't see anything.

But I gotta say major fucking Kudos for apologising!

You gotta know when your on the fuck up, you acknowledged it and a big thumbs up!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I hope I'm still d*unkenly making an arse of myself at 51. Kudos for apologising though. I don't know what you did as I wasn't there (which I think equally pissed people off)

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By *andWCouple
over a year ago

Pontypridd

"Apology accepted

Thank's Ruby, I made a fool of maself at my first social, not good

I haven't read the whole thread yet, but, if it was a d*unk thing and you were nervous we have all been there, apologise, mean it and that's all you can do x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Especially Rams hat, Bens shirt and Julies iphone!

Ha!..Obi, they found my shirt.

And I'm damn well not asking WHERE they found it!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's rather a useless thread really on a public forum. Why dont you just message those who attended and apologise. If you don't want to share and only start cryptic threads then it seems silly to broadcast it to everyone. "

this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I hope I'm still d*unkenly making an arse of myself at 51. Kudos for apologising though. I don't know what you did as I wasn't there (which I think equally pissed people off)"

Apologise! Why weren't you there??? I was well pissed off.

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By *andWCouple
over a year ago

Pontypridd

Actually seeing as it was mostly attended by forum regulars it seems a good place to do it x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Awww bless ya well done sure those that need apologizing to will accept xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Apology accepted

Thank's Ruby, I made a fool of maself at my first social, not good

Possibly nerves. It happens. x"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Especially Rams hat, Bens shirt and Julies iphone!

Ha!..Obi, they found my shirt.

And I'm damn well not asking WHERE they found it!!

You looked fine without it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Apology accepted

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By *ce Winger OP Man
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

"Especially Rams hat, Bens shirt and Julies iphone!

hahaha. I kept my top on too

Yeah, but I couldn't even keep ma t shirt on, even though it was a picture of a woman in a wet t shirt

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By *andWCouple
over a year ago

Pontypridd

Actually I'm already editing my speech ready for my xtasia weekend any tips greatly appreciated lol x

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By *ce Winger OP Man
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

"Apology accepted"

Awwww cheers hun, so sowwy

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

I have fucked up on a lot of occasions...it happens x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I hope I'm still d*unkenly making an arse of myself at 51. Kudos for apologising though. I don't know what you did as I wasn't there (which I think equally pissed people off)

Apologise! Why weren't you there??? I was well pissed off.

So were a lot of people. Sure, a lot of people will say they don't know me but there just giving me the silent treatment. I apologize

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

Actually seeing as it was mostly attended by forum regulars it seems a good place to do it x"

Plus anyone who wasn't there but is on the rumour mill also gets to see the apology. Salicious gossip is faster than the reparations gossip.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You looked fine without it.

Straight back at ya!

/sorry superram not jacking ya thread.

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By *andWCouple
over a year ago

Pontypridd

I haven't heard any gossip in all fairness x

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By *reelove1969Couple
over a year ago

bristol

we know who to hang around at the next social ... whoo hooo ... our forum barman established !

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By *ce Winger OP Man
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

I'm sorry to suggest otherwise, but I do want to share my sentiments with people that were actually there.

I see nothing cryptic in that

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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago

In Your Bush

Wouldn't that be like a hundred mails ! Copy and paste is forbidden for males, that would be like hard labour punishment

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By *ce Winger OP Man
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

You looked fine without it.

Straight back at ya!

/sorry superram not jacking ya thread."

It's ok Thumpster, I enjoyed ya company on Saturday

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh Ive been to many socials and mostly always made an arse of myself

I think it became a normal thing for me to do

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

Wouldn't that be like a hundred mails ! Copy and paste is forbidden for males, that would be like hard labour punishment

Plus the filters and blocks...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well done for being big enough to say sorry

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Apologies can be rejected of accepted but the starting point is offering it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"To everyone who was at Cupids Beach Party on Saturday.

It appears that I upset some people and let not only myself, but others down and would therefore like to offer my unreserved apologies.

Firstly to Minnie as I was supposed to be your knight in shining armour

Ruby for organising what appeared to be an excellent do

Bambi, Purring Pussy & Minxie also deserve my admittance of humiliation

Paul said he will keep ma Kiss Me Quick hat until next time

*hangs head in shame

Big

we all make mistakes I more than most lol so put it down to experience and respect to you for public apology. Shame I was not there to see lol

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By *ce Winger OP Man
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

"Well done for being big enough to say sorry

Thank you, Elton John got it right I think with "Sorry Seems To Be The Hardest Word".

It's easy to say though, but whether you actually mean it or are just saying it to go through the motions to appease people, only time will tell.

I know I let folk down and it has genuinely upset me

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester

Ended up working couldn't go so no idea what happened but seems to me if your man enough to say you was wrong you can't be all bad

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By *ce Winger OP Man
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

"Ended up working couldn't go so no idea what happened but seems to me if your man enough to say you was wrong you can't be all bad

Cheers mate, I'm just a little bit bad though

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By *kywatcherMan
over a year ago

Southwick

"Ended up working couldn't go so no idea what happened but seems to me if your man enough to say you was wrong you can't be all bad

Cheers mate, I'm just a little bit bad though

It's all in the choice of hat!!

When I bought my bullrider in Fort Worth the sales guy told me black=bad white=good brown=somewhere in between.

Gave me plenty of scope! !!

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By *HAEDRUS2013Man
over a year ago

LONDON

"To everyone who was at Cupids Beach Party on Saturday.

It appears that I upset some people and let not only myself, but others down and would therefore like to offer my unreserved apologies.

Firstly to Minnie as I was supposed to be your knight in shining armour

Ruby for organising what appeared to be an excellent do

Bambi, Purring Pussy & Minxie also deserve my admittance of humiliation

Paul said he will keep ma Kiss Me Quick hat until next time

*hangs head in shame

Very big of you to say so-good for you!

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By *oulou45Woman
over a year ago

Bucks

Well done, we dont need to know what happend.you have been big enough to say sorry. Good on you.

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By *ce Winger OP Man
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

"It's all in the choice of hat!!

When I bought my bullrider in Fort Worth the sales guy told me black=bad white=good brown=somewhere in between.

Gave me plenty of scope! !!

Ah, but what about the grey area inbetween

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By *kywatcherMan
over a year ago

Southwick

"It's all in the choice of hat!!

When I bought my bullrider in Fort Worth the sales guy told me black=bad white=good brown=somewhere in between.

Gave me plenty of scope! !!

Ah, but what about the grey area inbetween

Depends on your mood....

Btw well done to you for the public apology....takes a big character to do that

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By *nfieldishCouple
over a year ago

Enfield

"Well done, we dont need to know what happend.you have been big enough to say sorry. Good on you."

Errrr...Scuse me...we do need to know everything that happened......

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By *ce Winger OP Man
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

"Btw well done to you for the public apology....takes a big character to do that

Thanks, but it seems like I was a big dickhead on Saturday

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By *kywatcherMan
over a year ago

Southwick

"Btw well done to you for the public apology....takes a big character to do that

Thanks, but it seems like I was a big dickhead on Saturday

That's why you've got a big hat!! Lol

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By *londeCazWoman
over a year ago

Arse End of the Universe, Cumbria

Respect for apologising Rich, was great to meet you at Shagfest Central prior to the main event xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Respect for the public apology, we've all been there, well most of us

What's done is done , now it can be buried

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By *ce Winger OP Man
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

Cheers Caz, was lovely to meet you too x

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By *ohohoWoman
over a year ago

Up North

Never even got the chance to say Hi that night

But that is really nice of you to say sorry to those you may have upset.

I don't think you were alone in nerves though that night xx

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By *he Original TTMan
over a year ago

Brackley, Northants

"To everyone who was at Cupids Beach Party on Saturday.

It appears that I upset some people and let not only myself, but others down and would therefore like to offer my unreserved apologies.

Firstly to Minnie as I was supposed to be your knight in shining armour

Ruby for organising what appeared to be an excellent do

Bambi, Purring Pussy & Minxie also deserve my admittance of humiliation

Paul said he will keep ma Kiss Me Quick hat until next time

*hangs head in shame

Good on you for apologising Rich - it does take guts to do it in such a public way.

And anyone that wasn't there - it doesn't matter what happened, what matters I'd that he is contrite and has apologised. The past can stay in the past. I am sure our Super has learnt a valuable lesson from this and won't repeat it. I am also sure that he will be welcome to any future events without TOO much ribbing from those that were there...!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Whatever happened has happened rich. I'm sure we will learn from it. Its just a shame others aren't more gracious

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

However those you think that you offended are the ones to accept or decline not us"

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

Indeed!

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By *ce Winger OP Man
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

Well thank you to all that have contributed to this thread, I am pleasantly relieved by the support and encouragement I've had not only on here but in pm's as well

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By *uper_gMan
over a year ago

london

Alright!!! Sounds like apology accepted!!!!

How about a forfeit!!!

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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago

In Your Bush

If its any consolation and I'm sure it's not. I'm a prime contender for making a twat of myself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"To everyone who was at Cupids Beach Party on Saturday.

It appears that I upset some people and let not only myself, but others down and would therefore like to offer my unreserved apologies.

Firstly to Minnie as I was supposed to be your knight in shining armour

Ruby for organising what appeared to be an excellent do

Bambi, Purring Pussy & Minxie also deserve my admittance of humiliation

Paul said he will keep ma Kiss Me Quick hat until next time

*hangs head in shame

Good on you for apologising Rich - it does take guts to do it in such a public way.

Considering that it is the OP that has brought his behaviour to the attention of the vast majority of forum users who weren't there and had no idea, I actually think it's a little rich to tell us all that it doesn't matter and isn;t our business.

Personally I don't care what he did, but if it warrants a public apology it would make me wary of being around him at future socials. It may be a storm in a teacup, this may be nothing more than a look at me thread, or it may be an apology for something totally inappropriatte, I don't know and no way I would take the risk of finding out.

I agree with the earlier poster who said a direct apology to those effected would have been sufficient and more appropriate. If the behaviour was such that a public apology to all attendees and anyone that may have heard rumours of what may or may not have happened then personally that makes me very uncomfortable.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If its any consolation and I'm sure it's not. I'm a prime contender for making a twat of myself

Me too although I never learn

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nice one mate, not an easy thing to do

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By *ce Winger OP Man
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

"Nice one mate, not an easy thing to do

Cheers mate, it has been "kettling ma swede" in Manc terms, so it's a relief to know that support is in abundance on the forums

Was brill to meet you on Saturday btw

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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago

In Your Bush

"If its any consolation and I'm sure it's not. I'm a prime contender for making a twat of myself

Me too although I never learn

I done well tonight though. I only had three Paddington stares

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By *aucy3Couple
over a year ago

glasgow

"To everyone who was at Cupids Beach Party on Saturday.

It appears that I upset some people and let not only myself, but others down and would therefore like to offer my unreserved apologies.

Firstly to Minnie as I was supposed to be your knight in shining armour

Ruby for organising what appeared to be an excellent do

Bambi, Purring Pussy & Minxie also deserve my admittance of humiliation

Paul said he will keep ma Kiss Me Quick hat until next time

*hangs head in shame

Good on you for apologising Rich - it does take guts to do it in such a public way.

on the other hand,the people who attended the social,were mainly forumites.

so apologising on the forums,would seem to be a logical choice.

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By *hole Lotta RosieWoman
over a year ago

Deviant City

I've not been in the forums at all today, so only just noticed this.

Thank you so very much for apologising, it means a lot. Your apology is accepted.

I have my filters on, so I'm aware you can't message me directly, so kudos to posting it in a public, open forum.

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By *hole Lotta RosieWoman
over a year ago

Deviant City

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By *hole Lotta RosieWoman
over a year ago

Deviant City

PS, I saw your hat on Monday, one of the cupid statues was wearing it!

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By *taffsfella1Man
over a year ago

Newcastle-under-Lyme

"To everyone who was at Cupids Beach Party on Saturday.

It appears that I upset some people and let not only myself, but others down and would therefore like to offer my unreserved apologies.

Firstly to Minnie as I was supposed to be your knight in shining armour

Ruby for organising what appeared to be an excellent do

Bambi, Purring Pussy & Minxie also deserve my admittance of humiliation

Paul said he will keep ma Kiss Me Quick hat until next time

*hangs head in shame

Good on you for apologising Rich - it does take guts to do it in such a public way.

Well personally I prefer to take people at face value when I meet them rather than form opinions from rumours I read online. The OP made a mistake on the night and another mistake in starting a public thread about it so surely a public apology in the forums is the best place to make amends. I for one, having been there, would be more than happy to buy the OP a beer should our paths meet in the future

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Apology accepted

Thank's Ruby, I made a fool of maself at my first social, not good

We have all done that at some point in time.

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By *ce Winger OP Man
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

"PS, I saw your hat on Monday, one of the cupid statues was wearing it!

Cheers for that PP, but I think it probably looks better on the statue than it ver would have done on me lol

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By *lackshadow7Man
over a year ago

Toronto

Good on you for apologising, must not have been easy, but as you can see, was appreciated by the majority.

Learn from the mistake and all will be well

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Learn from the mistake and all will be well

IF as I suspect the apology was for imbibing too much fun juice, learn from it and don't do it too often! we have occasions where it gets away from us, J did it a few weeks ago, and had to apologise to friends from all over Europe, but would never say don't do it again just don't do it every time!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OMG. I will ask then, seeing nobody else has yet:

Tell us all the full story!!??!

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By *taffsfella1Man
over a year ago

Newcastle-under-Lyme

"OMG. I will ask then, seeing nobody else has yet:

Tell us all the full story!!??!

*shakes head in disbelief*

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By *erendipity99Woman
over a year ago

Runcorn

"To everyone who was at Cupids Beach Party on Saturday.

It appears that I upset some people and let not only myself, but others down and would therefore like to offer my unreserved apologies.

Firstly to Minnie as I was supposed to be your knight in shining armour

Ruby for organising what appeared to be an excellent do

Bambi, Purring Pussy & Minxie also deserve my admittance of humiliation

Paul said he will keep ma Kiss Me Quick hat until next time

*hangs head in shame

Good on you for apologising Rich - it does take guts to do it in such a public way.

I agree. Apologies should have been private. By making the apology public all the OP has done is put SOME people off ever meeting him. I am one of those people. I don't know what went on. However it suggests after few drinks the OP can change in behaviour.

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By *un_JuiceCouple
over a year ago

Nr Chester

Was it a Direby hat you had on ?

Seriously, what could be more shameful and embarrasing than that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Good on you ram..

Takes a better person to publically apologise. I for one give it the

up. Eating humple pie is not an easy thing to do in front of a crowd..

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over a year ago

And yet.... The thing that would put me off meeting someone is more likely to be a sanctimonious, holier than thou, practically perfect, never made a mistake in my life, judgemental opinion, from someone who wasn't even there.... But maybe that's just me...

Mahoosive thumbs up Rich.... And a similar thumbs up to those forumites who were at the forum social for accepting a fellow forumites public apology, in the forums....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hey Bro we all make fuck ups.

I'm not exactly sure what happened, I personally didn't see anything.

But I gotta say major fucking Kudos for apologising!

You gotta know when your on the fuck up, you acknowledged it and a big thumbs up!

How many times are we supposed to use the "f" word in a thread. Sorry I'm new hear so don't know forum rules.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hey Bro we all make fuck ups.

I'm not exactly sure what happened, I personally didn't see anything.

But I gotta say major fucking Kudos for apologising!

You gotta know when your on the fuck up, you acknowledged it and a big thumbs up!

How many times are we supposed to use the "f" word in a thread. Sorry I'm new hear so don't know forum rules.

New here

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By *un_JuiceCouple
over a year ago

Nr Chester

I'm loving this come on Rich. Just admit it's pre season nerves. When Non League Nige goes who's next Big Kev Francis ? One chop ? Phillip Gee.

Heheheh. Just sounds like a few too many scoops. Them mutton fiddlers cannae sup

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I hope I'm still d*unkenly making an arse of myself at 51. Kudos for apologising though. I don't know what you did as I wasn't there (which I think equally pissed people off)"

Lol is 51 really old then ?

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over a year ago

"Hey Bro we all make fuck ups.

I'm not exactly sure what happened, I personally didn't see anything.

But I gotta say major fucking Kudos for apologising!

You gotta know when your on the fuck up, you acknowledged it and a big thumbs up!

How many times are we supposed to use the "f" word in a thread. Sorry I'm new hear so don't know forum rules.

The use of expletives is permitted, as long as it isnt name calling.... Or telling someone to "expletive" off....;-);-);-)

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over a year ago

"I hope I'm still d*unkenly making an arse of myself at 51. Kudos for apologising though. I don't know what you did as I wasn't there (which I think equally pissed people off)

Lol is 51 really old then ? "

No it fucking isnt...

See what I did there...???

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

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By *urvywelshCouple
over a year ago

Everywhere and nowhere baby

Mahoosive thumbs up Rich.... And a similar thumbs up to those forumites who were at the forum social for accepting a fellow forumites public apology, in the forums....

Well said Eurotongue

Cast the first stone etc.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hey Bro we all make fuck ups.

I'm not exactly sure what happened, I personally didn't see anything.

But I gotta say major fucking Kudos for apologising!

You gotta know when your on the fuck up, you acknowledged it and a big thumbs up!

How many times are we supposed to use the "f" word in a thread. Sorry I'm new hear so don't know forum rules.

I'm still waiting for the app that spell checks my swear words, hey smart people at samsung where the kuck were you on this thread?!

....jeez that was quick it's bucking working!

I'm honestly trying to swear less an I think its sort of working cos the other day I blurted out holy ship!

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

Oh the irony!

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By *ohohoWoman
over a year ago

Up North

"Whatever happened has happened rich. I'm sure we will learn from it. Its just a shame others aren't more gracious "

But thanks to the woman who poured her punch all over my escorts body. It was delicious licking it off.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh the irony!

True... But I didnt want to add that one to an already long list....

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By *lackshadow7Man
over a year ago

Toronto

Maybe the thread has run its course now......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I hope I'm still d*unkenly making an arse of myself at 51. Kudos for apologising though. I don't know what you did as I wasn't there (which I think equally pissed people off)

Lol is 51 really old then ?

No it fucking isnt...

See what I did there...???

Oh Amazing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mahoosive thumbs up Rich.... And a similar thumbs up to those forumites who were at the forum social for accepting a fellow forumites public apology, in the forums....

As others have already noted the irony in this post is unintentionally hilarious.

I have a very simple rule in life - if someone or something is likely to bring hassle or drama in my life then I don't want to know. The OP has said himself that he can't remember what went on, the acceptance of the apology is noticeably muted. Swinging clubs and swinging socials need to be a safe environment. So i stand by my ci

comments and condemnation of the OP'S behavior.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All i can say is bloody fair play to the OP !! We all make mistakes and NO ONE is perfect !!

To have the testicular fortitude to step up and apologise in an open forum shows courage, integrity and acceptance.

If only more people were like this !!

Well done matey and the fairest of plays to you

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By *unky monkeyMan
over a year ago

in the night garden

Anybody wanting to know what he did PM me and I'll tell you, it's unbelievable.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Anybody wanting to know what he did PM me and I'll tell you, it's unbelievable.

Pmsl

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By *lackshadow7Man
over a year ago

Toronto

"Anybody wanting to know what he did PM me and I'll tell you, it's unbelievable.

*inbox explosion*

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Anybody wanting to know what he did PM me and I'll tell you, it's unbelievable.

OMG did he kill someones shirt?

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By *renchbambi xWoman
over a year ago

Need to know basis

Thank you Superramfan and apology accepted without reserves!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Anybody wanting to know what he did PM me and I'll tell you, it's unbelievable.

OMG did he kill someones shirt?"

No, the shirt has been found so it must be something else lol and for the record Id happily speak to you at any social OP. Not that Im ever likely to go to any from here but you know what I mean

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over a year ago

"Anybody wanting to know what he did PM me and I'll tell you, it's unbelievable.

OMG did he kill someones shirt?

No, the shirt has been found so it must be something else lol and for the record Id happily speak to you at any social OP. Not that Im ever likely to go to any from here but you know what I mean

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By *unky monkeyMan
over a year ago

in the night garden

"Anybody wanting to know what he did PM me and I'll tell you, it's unbelievable.

*inbox explosion*

Indeed!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe you was just very nervous meeting new people ... and everyone let their hair down at parties .. well the fun ones do.

That's what puts me off going to sociales the after chat ..

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By *ce Winger OP Man
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

"Anybody wanting to know what he did PM me and I'll tell you, it's unbelievable.

Crikey are you stalking me now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You wasn't the only one.

I fucked up too big time, and not for the first either, I have said Sorry in Private. But because of what happened it has made me look at what i really want out of this site and my lovely partner Ted. Changes are going to be made but because i want it and not for others telling me.

It was the best club that i have been too with the best atmosphere... But with lack of sleep and a 4 hour drive, no food, the mixture of drinks from the pub, to vodka shots etc did not make a good night..... Like i have said to others "If i could do the night again it would be VERY different"...........Ruby

PS: if anyone was to get to know well, you would know that i am not like i was on Saturday at all..........

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over a year ago

"You wasn't the only one.

PS: if anyone was to get to know well, you would know that i am not like i was on Saturday at all.........."

We all have an off night once in a while.

Will look forward to meeting you both again at the next social

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By *lackshadow7Man
over a year ago

Toronto

"You wasn't the only one.

PS: if anyone was to get to know well, you would know that i am not like i was on Saturday at all.........."

I second that it was lovely meeting you as well. While whatever you did on the night didn't affect me personally, the fact that you have accepted it and are not in denial is highly commendable. i'm sure those you apologised to appreciated it. So no worries

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am sure all is forgiven and you can both put it behind you!

It's good that you have you have taken personal responsibility for your actions!

But just put it behind you now

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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago

In Your Bush

Ok who's next?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I am sure all is forgiven and you can both put it behind you!

It's good that you have you have taken personal responsibility for your actions!

But just put it behind you now

much love ...Ruby xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is he allowed to take the hair shirt off now

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By *innamon!Woman
over a year ago

no matter

Ohhh dammit I want to know..

the mind is boggling and I have my first meet in a month or so

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ok who's next?

You. You know what you did!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Takes a big man to apologise. Great post, I'm taking my hat off to you

don't take your hat off as the op said he lost his so might nick yours xx

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By *londeCazWoman
over a year ago

Arse End of the Universe, Cumbria

"Is he allowed to take the hair shirt off now

Is that where Ben's shirt got to?

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"Ok who's next?

Me. I am utterly ashamed of myself. I made a right tit of myself getting my tits out. I was expecting an intact wet t-shirt contest not an adulterated t-shirt.

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By *ohohoWoman
over a year ago

Up North

"Ok who's next?

Me. I am utterly ashamed of myself. I made a right tit of myself getting my tits out. I was expecting an intact wet t-shirt contest not an adulterated t-shirt."

Was that you? Cheating at the wet t-shirt contest with the holes in the t-shirt, displaying a magnificent sight?

About time you apologised!

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"Ok who's next?

Me. I am utterly ashamed of myself. I made a right tit of myself getting my tits out. I was expecting an intact wet t-shirt contest not an adulterated t-shirt.

Was that you? Cheating at the wet t-shirt contest with the holes in the t-shirt, displaying a magnificent sight?

About time you apologised! "

I put a t-shirt on. Someone else adulterated it. I feel ashamed of myself. I'm surprised the t-shirt snipper hasn't owned up and apologised publicly for her part in this.

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By *ohohoWoman
over a year ago

Up North

I just thought you were showing off those magnificent breasts. Cheating did cross my mind at the time.

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By *habsMan
over a year ago

Fortress of Solitude, Middlesex

I'm still gutted that, in true fashion, missed it and only found out after the event!

I swear I'd miss a gangbang and only realised after the cleaners had been in to tidy the place up!!!

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over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"I'm still gutted that, in true fashion, missed it and only found out after the event!

I swear I'd miss a gangbang and only realised after the cleaners had been in to tidy the place up!!!"

You organise the next one and we'll all turn up. I promise to send you a reminder.

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over a year ago

Fortress of Solitude, Middlesex

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By *habsMan
over a year ago

Fortress of Solitude, Middlesex

Mahoosive thumbs up Rich.... And a similar thumbs up to those forumites who were at the forum social for accepting a fellow forumites public apology, in the forums....

Lol, like people that think "oh, if he thinks that I won't be meeting him then!" about someone they haven't even exchanged so much as a wink with yet? Like some "as-yet-undeterminable-future-in-alternate-timestream" shag that hence will never be because the person dared to have a different opinion on a topic? lol.

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By *habsMan
over a year ago

Fortress of Solitude, Middlesex

"I'm still gutted that, in true fashion, missed it and only found out after the event!

I swear I'd miss a gangbang and only realised after the cleaners had been in to tidy the place up!!!

You organise the next one and we'll all turn up. I promise to send you a reminder."

You're most welcome - But why did I not think of that? .. Leaving myself a reminder that is

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over a year ago

"I'm still gutted that, in true fashion, missed it and only found out after the event!

I swear I'd miss a gangbang and only realised after the cleaners had been in to tidy the place up!!!

You organise the next one and we'll all turn up. I promise to send you a reminder.

You're most welcome - But why did I not think of that? .. Leaving myself a reminder that is

You forgot to send youself a reminder about the reminder

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By *habsMan
over a year ago

Fortress of Solitude, Middlesex

"I'm still gutted that, in true fashion, missed it and only found out after the event!

I swear I'd miss a gangbang and only realised after the cleaners had been in to tidy the place up!!!

You organise the next one and we'll all turn up. I promise to send you a reminder.

You're most welcome - But why did I not think of that? .. Leaving myself a reminder that is

You forgot to send youself a reminder about the reminder

Oh crap.. the plan is unravelling even before its come together!

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over a year ago

"I'm still gutted that, in true fashion, missed it and only found out after the event!

I swear I'd miss a gangbang and only realised after the cleaners had been in to tidy the place up!!!

You organise the next one and we'll all turn up. I promise to send you a reminder.

You're most welcome - But why did I not think of that? .. Leaving myself a reminder that is

You forgot to send youself a reminder about the reminder

Oh crap.. the plan is unravelling even before its come together!"

Plan ahead

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"I'm still gutted that, in true fashion, missed it and only found out after the event!

I swear I'd miss a gangbang and only realised after the cleaners had been in to tidy the place up!!!

You organise the next one and we'll all turn up. I promise to send you a reminder.

You're most welcome - But why did I not think of that? .. Leaving myself a reminder that is

You forgot to send youself a reminder about the reminder

Oh crap.. the plan is unravelling even before its come together!"

No, no, no! You set it up and leave the reminders to me. I have an elephantine memory. You can trust me with the reminding task.

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By *habsMan
over a year ago

Fortress of Solitude, Middlesex

"I'm still gutted that, in true fashion, missed it and only found out after the event!

I swear I'd miss a gangbang and only realised after the cleaners had been in to tidy the place up!!!

You organise the next one and we'll all turn up. I promise to send you a reminder.

You're most welcome - But why did I not think of that? .. Leaving myself a reminder that is

You forgot to send youself a reminder about the reminder

Oh crap.. the plan is unravelling even before its come together!

Plan ahead

Wait.. ahead of the social I've forgotten to remind myself of so its not the past?

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over a year ago

"I'm still gutted that, in true fashion, missed it and only found out after the event!

I swear I'd miss a gangbang and only realised after the cleaners had been in to tidy the place up!!!

You organise the next one and we'll all turn up. I promise to send you a reminder.

You're most welcome - But why did I not think of that? .. Leaving myself a reminder that is

You forgot to send youself a reminder about the reminder

Oh crap.. the plan is unravelling even before its come together!

No, no, no! You set it up and leave the reminders to me. I have an elephantine memory. You can trust me with the reminding task."

Good one lickety

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By *habsMan
over a year ago

Fortress of Solitude, Middlesex

"I'm still gutted that, in true fashion, missed it and only found out after the event!

I swear I'd miss a gangbang and only realised after the cleaners had been in to tidy the place up!!!

You organise the next one and we'll all turn up. I promise to send you a reminder.

You're most welcome - But why did I not think of that? .. Leaving myself a reminder that is

You forgot to send youself a reminder about the reminder

Oh crap.. the plan is unravelling even before its come together!

No, no, no! You set it up and leave the reminders to me. I have an elephantine memory. You can trust me with the reminding task."

Ah, I (think) that makes sense

To the OP, irrespective of what happened - don't ever let a female stranger telly you "Well I won't be meeting you for a shag then!",.. she;s simply admitting she fancied you even though you had no clue who she was and now throwing toys out

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By *taffsfella1Man
over a year ago

Newcastle-under-Lyme

"I'm still gutted that, in true fashion, missed it and only found out after the event!

I swear I'd miss a gangbang and only realised after the cleaners had been in to tidy the place up!!!"

Pssst, there's another one on 21st September in Kent. Set yourself a reminder

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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago

In Your Bush

"I have an elephantine memory. You can trust me with the reminding task."

I have noticed that particular ability of yours

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only just seen this. Well done rich for apologising. We've all done it. And next time you'll be more prepared.

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"I have an elephantine memory. You can trust me with the reminding task.

I have noticed that particular ability of yours

It goes with the elephantine body. I just need a trunk.

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