FabSwingers.com forum: Why do men treat woman like meat on here

By *exyBlonde111 OP Woman
over a year ago

Glasgow

It has come to my attention that most single woman have to block guys on here because they just hound them with immature messages! what has happened to the gentlemen i wonder!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ooooh I can see this one being tonight's entertainment...

ted.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think women treat men pretty much the same to be fair.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't think a sex site is the best place to be if your looking for respect

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ive seen some women pursue men like they were pieces of meat

The men however love it ( some do )

If you find a gentleman send him my way though

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

I don't get hounded! I want my money back!

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By *andWCouple
over a year ago

Pontypridd

You will always get the odd few as you would in everyday life, block move on and look forward to the good ones, of which there seems to be plenty in these here forums x

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By *hyllyphyllyMan
over a year ago

Bradford

Me man, you woman, me hit on head with club

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We're right here, wishing there was a way we could still message single women after they've become annoyed with all the crap and blocked all single males, including the ones who do take the time to treat ladies as human beings and make a proper attempt to woo them.

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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge

Women are treated how they allow themselves to be treated. Any messages which treat me like that are reported (if abusive) and the sender is blocked.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think women treat men pretty much the same to be fair. "

Like the real world there are nice people and arseholes- you can't get rid of the latter but you can choose not to spend time with them

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By *exyBlonde111 OP Woman
over a year ago

Glasgow

I have only come across a few decent guys on here. Most are just arseholes lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There are loads of gentlemen on this site,in my experience they by far outweigh those that behave like knuckle dragging cavemen

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By *exyBlonde111 OP Woman
over a year ago

Glasgow

"Women are treated how they allow themselves to be treated. Any messages which treat me like that are reported (if abusive) and the sender is blocked. "
totally agree

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't think a sex site is the best place to be if your looking for respect

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They get further than the idiots...i don't talk to the idiots and have a few genuine guys i spend my time talking to...just ignore them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have only come across a few decent guys on here. Most are just arseholes lol"

I think there are more arsehole woman and couples on here, because they can pick and choose they treat men far worse than men treat women

Im a woman and I can still see that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have only come across a few decent guys on here. Most are just arseholes lol"

hehe can I have 2bls of your best buttocks please

(joke dont bite I could be a vegy)

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

"I have only come across a few decent guys on here. Most are just arseholes lol"

There are an awful lot of men on Fab. I am sure you haven't even come close to meeting most of them.

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By *exyBlonde111 OP Woman
over a year ago

Glasgow

Oooops what have i started!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is this not the meat market?

Damn

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe because some of the men that join this site have no social skills to begin with and think sites like these can guarantee some kind of sexual gratification without trying to hard to Sudduce a woman... !!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It has come to my attention that most single woman have to block guys on here because they just hound them with immature messages! what has happened to the gentlemen i wonder!"

Trying to stand out from the twats on this site is like trying stand out in a full football stadium

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im always nice and respectful in life thats just how I am as a person. Sometimes to nice. Dont understand why men are abusive on here. How do they expect to be successful been like that

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By *exyBlonde111 OP Woman
over a year ago

Glasgow

There is a good point...what has happened to the art of seducing some1? not just saying "fancy a fuck"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Oooops what have i started!

When the broken tables and blood is swept off the floor, your be the one who started it

hehe

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have only come across a few decent guys on here. Most are just arseholes lol"

There are plenty of Gentlemen on here - they are just too gentlemanly to shout about it.

Try altering your approach if you're not getting the right results for you.

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By *exyBlonde111 OP Woman
over a year ago

Glasgow

"Oooops what have i started!

When the broken tables and blood is swept off the floor, your be the one who started it

hehe"

Gee thanks! haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't think a sex site is the best place to be if your looking for respect

Really? I want respect,I give it too,being on a sex site does'nt change how I treat or want to be treated by people

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think a large percentage of guys are here to fantasize over the women who the think are here to fulfil their indulgences.

Ultimately were all here to get what we want, but the only way we're likely to find that is finding like minded sorts.

Treat someone like an object, I imagine you reduce your chances.....if you intended to meet in the first place ?

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By *ichaelangelaCouple
over a year ago

notts

"It has come to my attention that most single woman have to block guys on here because they just hound them with immature messages! what has happened to the gentlemen i wonder!"

there are alot of nice single guys on here, just that some spoil it and some people seem to tar them all with the same brush.

we had a crap one today, just laughed at it and ignored the person in question, posted a thread on it to hopefully give everyone else a laugh lol.

but, our filters are open and we reply to some even if its no thanks when we have time, if no time we just tend to not reply

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By *ancatMan
over a year ago

Norwich

I like to treat people the same way as I expet to be treated and the assholes that make it harder for rest of us.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Oooops what have i started!

When the broken tables and blood is swept off the floor, your be the one who started it

hehe

Gee thanks! haha"

Fab buns though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

On here they are definitely a dying breed although ive had some pretty immature and crass messages from couples too.I tend to block without thinking about it now.Its to be expected on a free site but that's another thread!

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By *hyllyphyllyMan
over a year ago

Bradford

Yo biatch, Can I ride dat ass? Dis mighty fine.

Cum on!!!! I need to shoot my load.

...... What?

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By *exyBlonde111 OP Woman
over a year ago

Glasgow

couples can be just as rude an pushy

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By *ickomxxxMan
over a year ago

Derbyshire

Gentlemen do exist in life and on Fabs, we may be in a minority but we know what we are doing when it comes to giving women pleasure--and very much enjoy doing it.

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By *exyBlonde111 OP Woman
over a year ago

Glasgow

"Yo biatch, Can I ride dat ass? Dis mighty fine.

Cum on!!!! I need to shoot my load.

...... What?

Shut it lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You'll find that paid swingers sites are saturated with such single males aswell, hence why I've suggested in the past that singles male swingers and established single male swingers should be separated into two categories.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We arent all like that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If blocking all males is what you feel you need to avoid the 'arseholes' - then that's fine!

It means you'll have to do more work yourself to find those you're interested in - but as long as you're willing to put the time and effort in then it may well work out fine for you!

Happy hunting!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It has come to my attention that most single woman have to block guys on here because they just hound them with immature messages! what has happened to the gentlemen i wonder!

Trying to stand out from the twats on this site is like trying stand out in a full football stadium"

The nice ones do stand out xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What's the difference and who sets 'the standard' though?

Why not just let people interact with those they choose to, in the manner they wish - and also allow them to ignore, avoid contact from and enable them to block those they're not interested in?

A bit like how the site works now really!

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By *lackshadow7Man
over a year ago

Toronto

"If blocking all males is what you feel you need to avoid the 'arseholes' - then that's fine!

It means you'll have to do more work yourself to find those you're interested in - but as long as you're willing to put the time and effort in then it may well work out fine for you!

Happy hunting!!

Listen to this guy, for he is wise

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Gents are here you maybe just unlucky.

When i decline folk i get crap too cos i am obviousy a catch

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have only come across a few decent guys on here. Most are just arseholes lol"

Most people in life are..well...arseholes.

Next time you get a seedy shitty message just say:

"Wow, that's such a fucking horny message to send me that you just gave my middle finger an erection" Block!

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By *ammyDodgaMan
over a year ago

Nottingham/and everywhere my location says i am ;)

"couples can be just as rude an pushy"

Anyone and everyone can be rude at some point.. Just take the time to see passed the bullshit before making an assumption is my view.

Their is lots of polite people on here along with lots of knobs..

Turn your profile off for a while and do some silent stalking of your own, find the people you like the sound of and msgs them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think women treat men pretty much the same to be fair. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have a very strange sense of humor ! I find even the rude ones amusing !! Life is way to short to get upset by words !!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That sounds like a plan!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"On here they are definitely a dying breed although ive had some pretty immature and crass messages from couples too.I tend to block without thinking about it now.Its to be expected on a free site but that's another thread!

What's the difference and who sets 'the standard' though?"

Quite simple - established single male swingers are those with multiple, written verifications, who have gained them from successful meets in the past -as the 'fancy a fuck?' crowd are unlikely to have such verifications, they can be blocked separately, easy.

"Why not just let people interact with those they choose to, in the manner they wish?"

As long as its not done in a nasty, unpleasant manner but rather one that is kind and respectful then that's fine - unfortunately many single males, and indeed some women and couples too are incapable of understanding this concept, and the blocking of an entire category of the site due to the actions of such guys is utterly unfair on those willing to make an effort on here.

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By *els_BellsWoman
over a year ago

with the moon n stars somewhere in gtr manc

It works both ways though.

If you find someone who is disrespectful, block them and do not give a second thought.

There are some women, who fall for all the bollocks men will say, and then think every man should worship the beige carpets she walks on. Which results in her possible treating the many genuinely nice guys like shite.

I'm not saying every woman does it btw and yes there is one or two twat heads who will treat women like a piece of meat, but I have found it to be a very minuscule minority.

OP, as I said earlier, if someone is disrespectful, block them.

All the best

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"couples can be just as rude an pushy"

So can single women!

Some single women contact us but even still they dont read our profile ( or read the bits they want) and think it doesnt apply to them

I would say with the ratio of single men to couples to single women, they all have the ability to be rude,pushy,demanding and not be able to read a profile and understand it fully.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That sounds like a plan!

Except that you'd simply create a divide where there was no scope for movement!

Perfectly polite, nice guys - new to the scene would find themselves in the general camp - whilst logic would dictate that couples and single females would go fishing in the 'established pool' giving newbies no chance to become 'established'!!

And I've met many an 'established' swinger - be they couple or single of either sex that I've personally thought were major arseholes!!!

So division by number of veri's? Not a great way to divide what you've established are the superior from the inferior!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't think a sex site is the best place to be if your looking for respect

Really? I want respect,I give it too,being on a sex site does'nt change how I treat or want to be treated by people"

I'm glad you chipped in with that as I couldn't act in anything other than a respectful way ... and was wondering if I was in the right place for a mo

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sex site or not people should be treated with respect at any time

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By *els_BellsWoman
over a year ago

with the moon n stars somewhere in gtr manc

"couples can be just as rude an pushy

So can single women!

Some single women contact us but even still they dont read our profile ( or read the bits they want) and think it doesnt apply to them

I would say with the ratio of single men to couples to single women, they all have the ability to be rude,pushy,demanding and not be able to read a profile and understand it fully."

I think it has f'all to do with gender and more to do with spoiled brattiness and lack of social skills/manners in some cases.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"couples can be just as rude an pushy

So can single women!

Some single women contact us but even still they dont read our profile ( or read the bits they want) and think it doesnt apply to them

I would say with the ratio of single men to couples to single women, they all have the ability to be rude,pushy,demanding and not be able to read a profile and understand it fully.

I think it has f'all to do with gender and more to do with spoiled brattiness and lack of social skills/manners in some cases."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Quite simple - established single male swingers are those with multiple, written verifications, who have gained them from successful meets in the past -as the 'fancy a fuck?' "

errrmmm.

I've only got 3 published on mine and that doesn't stop me getting meets.

In fact I've got a whole bunch.

So you know..not sure wtf your trying to say exactly.

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By *ondonpride69Couple
over a year ago

Blackpool

"It has come to my attention that most single woman have to block guys on here because they just hound them with immature messages! what has happened to the gentlemen i wonder!"

Is that single Men or men in couples as well?

Granted some men do just as some women do. Please don't tar all men like that.

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By *ikeC81Man
over a year ago

harrow

Interesting one.....

I would say that I have met during my time in the scene couples, males, and females who are push and rude.

I have been in the scene a while. I have not been very active on here mainly due to work and realllife commitments eg football.

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

I'm not one of those single women who get 100s of messages a day, but if I do get rude or abusive ones I just block and move on. It doesn't put me off meeting all single men, it just puts me off meeting them! I use the site actively, that is, I have removed 'looking for men' from my profile and if I want a meet I go looking for it. It's not guaranteed to get a meet (men are allowed to say no too) but it means I get messages from people I want messages from.

In the end, the site is as good as you make it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm not one of those single women who get 100s of messages a day, but if I do get rude or abusive ones I just block and move on. It doesn't put me off meeting all single men, it just puts me off meeting them! I use the site actively, that is, I have removed 'looking for men' from my profile and if I want a meet I go looking for it. It's not guaranteed to get a meet (men are allowed to say no too) but it means I get messages from people I want messages from.

In the end, the site is as good as you make it."

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By *andWCouple
over a year ago

Pontypridd

"I like to treat people the same way as I expet to be treated and the assholes that make it harder for rest of us.

Or glass half full, makes it easier for the good guys to stand out x

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo

You know these men bashing threads are becoming very tedious.

Both genders can be idiots , it isn't just the one sex.

Let's have some respect for all members whatever their gender instead of starting threads were posts have to be removed for the abuse in them

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