FabSwingers.com forum: interracial dating

By *arry50 OP Man
over a year ago

northern jersey

How do we feel about interracial date

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"How do we feel about interracial date"

No different to same race dating

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

I'm all for it. But then my whole family is a result of mixing things up. All the various racial groups represented along with all the major religions.

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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge

Are we even meant to feel anything?

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By *lackshadow7Man
over a year ago

Toronto

No problem with it. Some will be against it. Some won't. Just like most things in life.

I've dated both my race and outside it. Gotten a lot of shit from other people for both.

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

"How do we feel about interracial date"

Same as I feel about dating in general - not for me.

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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago

In Your Bush

Makes not a bit of difference to me whatsoever.

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By *nfieldishCouple
over a year ago

Enfield

I'm sure one or two people would have a thing to say about intergalactical dating.... Now there's a contentious issue for you....

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

"I'm sure one or two people would have a thing to say about intergalactical dating.... Now there's a contentious issue for you...."

Or inter-generational dating! Funkys time machine will come in handy for dating his great great great granny.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm sure one or two people would have a thing to say about intergalactical dating.... Now there's a contentious issue for you...."

You should try interdimensional dating- it's out if this universe

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not exactly dating, but I've had meets with girls of a number of ethnicities now and didn't meet them due to their race, but rather because I liked them for who they were and they excited me - intelligence, beauty and character are not the sole property of any singular race.

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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge

My ex hubby was Muslim. I'm not.

So what about inter religious partnerships?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd like to think (the majority of) we are past a point where you would decide wether or not to date someone based on their race....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just love homo-sapiens.

Honestly, why does it appear that those who claim to abhor "Racism" the most are actually those that speak in terms of different races in the first place?

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

Nothing against it at all....

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

"Nothing against it at all....

My ex husband was Mexican American and previous to that I have had relationships with black males...colour is not really the first thing I look at when meeting someone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For goodness sake, this is how accusations of racism start. Black, white, green or blue we are all the same and there should be no such thing as INTERRACIAL DATING, how bloody ridiculous!

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

"How do we feel about interracial date"

How do you feel about it?

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

I don't think anything of it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"For goodness sake, this is how accusations of racism start. Black, white, green or blue we are all the same and there should be no such thing as INTERRACIAL DATING, how bloody ridiculous!"

Spot On.

however, any reason why you have left out the yellow ones?

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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge

I'm skin coloured. Does that count?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"How do we feel about interracial date"

I don't feel any different about interracial dating than any other kind of dating!

Why should I? Surely the attraction lies with the person you're dating not the colour of their skin!

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By *arry50 OP Man
over a year ago

northern jersey

We all saying the right thing. But it still a issue to some. I met women who say they won't date outside there race. I what about personality do u have to put a color on it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We all saying the right thing. But it still a issue to some. I met women who say they won't date outside there race. I what about personality do u have to put a color on it."

I think you just enjoy the controversy of these kind of topics...

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By *arry50 OP Man
over a year ago

northern jersey

I like to hear how people think on different topics. I done fun topics too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We all saying the right thing. But it still a issue to some. I met women who say they won't date outside there race. I what about personality do u have to put a color on it."

Thats different issue to your original post. I for instance may not fancy white women. Therefore I won't date white women. But that doesnt mean I think there is anything wrong with a another asian guy having a relationship with a white woman.

Thats just an example by the way. I frickin love all women lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have always had so-called inter-racial relationships, as I do not find oriental males attractive, except for a handful of actors.

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

"How do we feel about interracial date"

lets put it this way....

in the us.. if i was walking in new york hand in hand with a white lady, you'd be stared at 24/7

in london, people wouldn't even batter an eyelid....

the us is getting there.... slowly... but the uk is light years ahead multiculturally....

my family have all mainly married white people..... not fussed about it at all

if a black lady finds me attractive... goodie...

if a white lady finds me attractive... goodie....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"How do we feel about interracial date"

I have no opinion on it either way to be honest

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"How do we feel about interracial date"

I steadfastly refuse to date outside the human race.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Am I right in thinking the OP is an American cousin?

In olde-English, we call this "dating"

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"We all saying the right thing. But it still a issue to some. I met women who say they won't date outside there race. I what about personality do u have to put a color on it."

There are plenty of people who wont date outside their race but very few who will admit it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My Mum is White (Blonde) and My Dad is Black (Blaaaaack)

I'm both.

More importantly OP check my Status for my thoughts, I've had that on there since the not even 24hrs since your last question you asked of a similar theme!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"For goodness sake, this is how accusations of racism start. Black, white, green or blue we are all the same and there should be no such thing as INTERRACIAL DATING, how bloody ridiculous!"

I dated a green girl once never again eww

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

I didn't realise the OP was American. I have found Americans need to do more work on understanding that different ethnicities can have sex and love and raise a family without society collapsing. It may even improve.

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By *ogistical NightmaresCouple
over a year ago

Manchester Area

"I didn't realise the OP was American. I have found Americans need to do more work on understanding that different ethnicities can have sex and love and raise a family without society collapsing. It may even improve."

Well said that gal

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't like the 'we're all the same' argument.

We're not and I like it that way.

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"I don't like the 'we're all the same' argument.

We're not and I like it that way."

Can we agree that we are all human?

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

I got called all sorts on base because my husband was Mexican...I have never heard such racism come out of people mouths. not every Mexican in America is a gang banger it irritated the shit out of me to be honest....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't like the 'we're all the same' argument.

We're not and I like it that way.

Can we agree that we are all human?"

Well most of the ones I've met..

My point was that rather than seeking to ignore differences maybe it's better to embrace them. It makes us interesting.

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"I don't like the 'we're all the same' argument.

We're not and I like it that way.

Can we agree that we are all human?

Well most of the ones I've met..

My point was that rather than seeking to ignore differences maybe it's better to embrace them. It makes us interesting."

Yes it does. I don't ignore difference but I don't like that difference is used to treat some as inferior.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do aliens have 2 cocks.....Id have a go of that

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By *ucy and CarlCouple
over a year ago

Broadstairs

I have played with one Black guy and probably one of the best meets. But probably nothing to do with colour. Was a very impromptu meet. Would definitely meet a black guy again if the attraction was there.

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By *otswoldMan
over a year ago

Cheltenham

Reminds me of a Jamaican friend who brought his father over to the UK for a holiday. The old man was shocked to see a pub called the 'Black Cock' and still would not believe that a cock and a rooster were one and the same thing.

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

"We all saying the right thing. But it still a issue to some. I met women who say they won't date outside there race. I what about personality do u have to put a color on it.

I think you just enjoy the controversy of these kind of topics...

I was thinking the same thing.

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By *andWCouple
over a year ago

Pontypridd

"How do we feel about interracial date

I steadfastly refuse to date outside the human race.

Damn it! So close...lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not a problem for us

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By *imiUKMan
over a year ago

Hereford

The 'inter-race' part I have no problem with.

I am not aware that I have ever 'dated' though, so I would be mildly confused by that.

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By *igSuki81Man
over a year ago

Retirement Village

"My ex hubby was Muslim. I'm not.

So what about inter religious partnerships? "

I personally don't have any issues with inter racial / religious dating or relationships but have found it still seen as a taboo in some parts of society.

The most serious relationship i've had was with a white girl and it broke up primarily because of the way we were always looked at be from my side (asian) or her side. As much as we didn't let it bother us we still got strange 'looks' & glances of disapproval when out together. Eventually it took its toll on us and we drifted apart.

So to answer your question OP if 2 people of differing race or religion are happy together i don't have any issues with it and i don't think its for anyone to judge

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Whenever I see questions based on race I cannot help but question the motive of the person asking the question.

Is it rooted in a degree of paranoia, do they think people may possibly being racist to them?

Is it because of experience, and a response to direct racism?

Is it because they themselves have race issues?

There are probably other motives behind asking these types of questions, but I'm struggling to think of many.

For clarity, I'm not suggesting these questions should not be asked, it is an open forum, but what motivates them?

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By *arry50 OP Man
over a year ago

northern jersey

We all have our preference on who we like to see. The reason I bring it up because about three women from this told me they don't date out they race. Not even getting to know me. So yes before anybody judge the book by it cover. Try to read it first. It will alway be a issue in my book

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By *aucy3Couple
over a year ago

glasgow

it's the future,in fact,most brits are already the produce of inter racial shenanigans.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wonder if you changed the word 'dating' with 'breeding', then you might get a different answer from some people.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love interacial dating I'm all for it it's the best thing since sliced bread, but then again I would say that as I am mixed race and wouldn't be here in the fourum with my white hot whit , and comical repartee and unbelievable bedroom prowess so thank you interacial dating thank you for the bones, flesh, and pulse I owe you one lol

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"We all have our preference on who we like to see. The reason I bring it up because about three women from this told me they don't date out they race. Not even getting to know me. So yes before anybody judge the book by it cover. Try to read it first. It will alway be a issue in my book"

So they have expressed their preference. If it's from here just move on to people who meet your preference and for whom you meet theirs. It's not dating, it's casual sex. Black, white and Asian men have experienced this over here.

That said, I do wonder whether the language used is because you're in America.

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By *arry50 OP Man
over a year ago

northern jersey

That for me to know and for you to find out

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

"Whenever I see questions based on race I cannot help but question the motive of the person asking the question.

Is it rooted in a degree of paranoia, do they think people may possibly being racist to them?

Is it because of experience, and a response to direct racism?

Is it because they themselves have race issues?

There are probably other motives behind asking these types of questions, but I'm struggling to think of many.

For clarity, I'm not suggesting these questions should not be asked, it is an open forum, but what motivates them?"

I think in this case it may be cultural if anything because it is very much treated very differently as an issue in the states than it is here.........

on this issue... I think the states are probably about 40-50 years behind where we are in the uk in that people here dont batter an eyelid if they see people of different races kissing or holding hands..... where as in the states it is still seen by a lot of people as very strange

so in that respect I kinda understand the language that was used....

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By *ucsparkMan
over a year ago

dudley

"For goodness sake, this is how accusations of racism start. Black, white, green or blue we are all the same and there should be no such thing as INTERRACIAL DATING, how bloody ridiculous!

I dated a green girl once never again eww

Where did you dig her up from

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By *arry50 OP Man
over a year ago

northern jersey

In the states some still think is taboo. But a lot of white women do fantasy about being with a black man.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm the result of this so it's gotta be a good thing lol and while I was in the states segregation stood out like a sore thumb and that was in New York

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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge

"In the states some still think is taboo. But a lot of white women do fantasy about being with a black man."

I find that attitude bizarre especially in a country which boasts its first black president.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"In the states some still think is taboo. But a lot of white women do fantasy about being with a black man.

I find that attitude bizarre especially in a country which boasts its first black president. "

From what I witnessed in the states interracial friendships seemed scarce let alone relationships or dating .

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over a year ago

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By *lackshadow7Man
over a year ago

Toronto

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By *lackshadow7Man
over a year ago

Toronto

"In the states some still think is taboo. But a lot of white women do fantasy about being with a black man.

I find that attitude bizarre especially in a country which boasts its first black president.

From what I witnessed in the states interracial friendships seemed scarce let alone relationships or dating ."

Eh...its more prevalent than in the US simply due to the sheer size of the country. Dunno where you were. Most of the US states i've visited or lived in have been fine for it.

I've had more older people cross the street to tell me to "be with my own kind" in the UK (north and south) than i ever had anyone say anything to me in the US.

YMMV.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"How do we feel about inter racial date"

I think its great, especially if their separate cultures are able to co-exist as well, it's the way of the future big man!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

mmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm

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By *otswoldMan
over a year ago

Cheltenham

I like to pretend to myself that I am racially colour-blind but a thread like this one always reminds me that I am not. But then I ask myself whether it is a question of colour or of culture.

For me it was the word ‘interracial’ that immediately identified the OP as American and at the same time triggered a number of knee-jerk negative responses. Is it strange that those responses subsided as soon as I recognised that the OP is black? Clearly I have demonstrated to myself that I am not colour-blind. And then I ask myself whether I really care.

However whether or not I am culture prejudiced is a very different question, and perhaps a question about which I should care a lot.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's the person inside not the skin colour

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Colour of skin is not a problem with me, we are all people after all said and done. The person or persons that make you happy and for filled is all that counts.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hey Barry! I got family in the states!

Whatever the race, if I find her attractive, I'm dating here. Simples!

However, even in today's day and age, it's something that some people won't consider but each to their own.

Oops! I mean that's fine.

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By *quirrelMan
over a year ago

East Manchester

Happy to go out and be seen with anyone from the human race. Its only those who seek to define a hierachy of races that want to make an issue of people of a different colour being together and having fun.

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By *arry50 OP Man
over a year ago

northern jersey

In the bigger city like New York City, Los Angeles, Miami and Atlanta just to name afew not such a pproblem because of the big population of ethnic group. But in small area were there are little to none ethnic group it a big problem. While in the military I met a guy from small town in the state of West Virginia he said he only seen five black people in his whole except tv. And he has problems adjusting to not only blacks but Latino and we had a Asian too. He survive boot camp but it was tough on him being around other people.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do have to say that I couldn't see myself dating outside of my own race...

But I would have to find a future partner attractive and I am have a thing for light hair, blue eyes etc... So really unlikely I would be attracted in the first place.

I don't have issues with others doing it.. but I can honestly say I wouldn't.. purely for reason above.

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By *un_JuiceCouple
over a year ago

Nr Chester

I'm from not too far from you Cali where not only are interracial relationships against the belief system, people from the next town too.

Each to their own, I am attracted to people regardless of skin colour,religion,race.

Human conditioning never got a grip of me though

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By *yLongJourneyMan
over a year ago

Lowestoft

i wouldn't mind trying with another race woman as i have never tried before and im really intrigued in what the difference would be, im only guessing none though but hey worth a shot though right?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Human conditioning never got a grip of me though"

don't really see that who I find attractive is human conditioning.. there are numerous white guys I don't fancy too.

Quick play colour is not important to me... but for something more serious I need to get on with them and be attracted to them.

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By *arry50 OP Man
over a year ago

northern jersey

"i wouldn't mind trying with another race woman as i have never tried before and im really intrigued in what the difference would be, im only guessing none though but hey worth a shot though right?"
they are black women that do you. You just have to ask

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By *heGoldenTongueMan
over a year ago

Chester(ish)

I'm still looking for that married woman in Cheshire that wants to sample the delights of the darker side. Anyone know of any haha

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By *arry50 OP Man
over a year ago

northern jersey

Any women who want to try it hit me up.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Any women who want to try it hit me up."

I can't help feeling that unless your location of 'Northern Jersey' means somewhere just up from St Brelades Bay, thats a REALLY long distance to travel for a date!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Any women who want to try it hit me up.

I can't help feeling that unless your location of 'Northern Jersey' means somewhere just up from St Brelades Bay, thats a REALLY long distance to travel for a date!!"

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By *abe1200Couple
over a year ago

belfast

"For goodness sake, this is how accusations of racism start. Black, white, green or blue we are all the same and there should be no such thing as INTERRACIAL DATING, how bloody ridiculous!

I dated a green girl once never again eww

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am I getting tipsy or wot?there are green people too.Jeeeee I may just have to put my glass down

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Reminds me of a Jamaican friend who brought his father over to the UK for a holiday. The old man was shocked to see a pub called the 'Black Cock' and still would not believe that a cock and a rooster were one and the same thing."

Then can you explain what the product made by Grace Foods in Jamaica, called Cock Soup is? Even our local Asda stocks it.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

"i wouldn't mind trying with another race woman as i have never tried before and im really intrigued in what the difference would be, im only guessing none though but hey worth a shot though right?"

The differences wouldn't stem from the colour.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

Then can you explain what the product made by Grace Foods in Jamaica, called Cock Soup is? Even our local Asda stocks it."

Soup

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

American television is now showing more images of mixed relationships, not just colour but age and sexuality too. It's good to see.

Have you noticed that adverts here are also showing more images of mixed relationships?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Then can you explain what the product made by Grace Foods in Jamaica, called Cock Soup is? Even our local Asda stocks it."
the word rooster is an American invention because the prudish yanks found the word cock rude

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By *nnyMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

It's maybe that I don't go to or look in the right places but I don't see very many interracial relationships in Scotland.

I reckon that's mostly 'cos we don't have anything like the number of non-white people up here compared to a similar sized English town.

Given the hostility which still greets dyke-jumping (Protestant with Catholic) relationships up here, it's maybe just as well.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When i invited a black man to my house once i was surprised when he said that my neighbours would be talking about me and saying ooh, shes got a black man in there today, in a jokey sort of way that made me laugh.

I take people as i find them usualy so if i met a black man who i liked then thats all that matters, as long as you arent too different in your beliefs.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"How do we feel about interracial date"

Is it really that much of an issue these days?

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By *obbygggMan
over a year ago

Birmingham

I've dated a few black girls (I'm white) and the only stick we got as a couple was from groups of black lads.

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