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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Why do couples put not looking single men on there profile but yet they are looking in the single men section.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Their choice thats why.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"but yet they are looking in the single men section. "

How can you possibly know where they are looking?..

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

You know because you see them in there you go into singles and they are on line there as well as couples.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So they can pick and choose I imagine, rather than be swamped by hopefuls. Or they could just be entertaining themselves at all the desperate men....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Where is there a single men section?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You know because you see them in there you go into singles and they are on line there as well as couples. "

Mate. I don't give it that much thought.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

You know what I mean lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So they can pick and choose I imagine, rather than be swamped by hopefuls. "

Same for plenty of single females that block single men.

OP using the filters to stop someone messaging you doesn't necessarily equate to doesnt play with

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why do couples put not looking single men on there profile but yet they are looking in the single men section. "

So they can pick and choose...and be nosy!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

You are right there nosy

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead


"You know what I mean lol"

it means they can do the pick and choosing.... or people on their friends list can contact them....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you select an option in the 'looking for' you show up on those searches. Some people prefer to go looking rarher than get lots of mail.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just seen a fem near me. Literally just joined. Not looking for single men and men at the same time

Give it a day before she posts its boring on here as no messages

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why do couples put not looking single men on there profile but yet they are looking in the single men section. "

Maybe because they want to choose who they contact rather than face the flood of messages from single men. This happens even when you say you aren't seeking single men.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

maybe they put no single men to limit the amount of guys who mail them, maybe they prefer to go looking and mail men themselves rather than getting dozens on messages from guys they have no interest in who then moan when they don't get a reply

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just seen a fem near me. Literally just joined. Not looking for single men and men at the same time

Give it a day before she posts its boring on here as no messages"

Haha yeah too true. I have seen that happen.

On the subject of it - I just think it filters out the crap. Stops a load of messages they might not want.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Yes I know but you not think that is having your cake and eating it as well

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