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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Ok I think I have had enough now, I feel like I need to do what is probably impossible and find me that one special person that I can be happy with for the rest of my life I mean I just saw a thread on here about cum snorting ffs I just don't know if I can do this anymore I'm one foot here and one foot vanilla and I don't know which side to fall.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ok I think I have had enough now, I feel like I need to do what is probably impossible and find me that one special person that I can be happy with for the rest of my life I mean I just saw a thread on here about cum snorting ffs I just don't know if I can do this anymore I'm one foot here and one foot vanilla and I don't know which side to fall."

Do what you think will make you happy sweetness. At the end of the day, if you do give this up and it doesn't work, we'll still all be here when you return, however she may not be

Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

lol x stay on here for the craic, but look for love elsewhere x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Stay in both camps.... This site is fun and might lead to additional fun on top of vanilla land....

You dont need me to tell you that this is a swinging site.... Not instafuck.com....

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I just feel like I'm not going to be happy in a relationship, it's never worked before for me, and I have two fuck buddies who are so fantastic just the best girls you could wish to mee, but it's not enough, I know those relationships are going nowhere and if one of them ends the relationship ill just replace her, and that's quite sad that I can do that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Take a break...

Its tough meeting people... Hope you find your happiness...

ive nearly found over, he just doesn't realise it yet...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

U need a night out dude i think

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Take a break...

Its tough meeting people... Hope you find your happiness...

ive nearly found over, he just doesn't realise it yet... "

Awwwwww.... Yes I do....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"U need a night out dude i think"

Ohhhh can I come?

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

That sounds as if you're getting a little jaded and cynical. Take a break would be my advice because you seem on the edge of showing disdain for people who are doing precisely what you are. That isn't a criticism just pointing out what can happen when the joy goes out of recreational sex.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"U need a night out dude i think

Ohhhh can I come?

"
of course never turn down a lady x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Take a break...

Its tough meeting people... Hope you find your happiness...

ive nearly found one, he just doesn't realise it yet...

Awwwwww.... Yes I do.... "

Err... Nope we haven't met

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Take a break...

Its tough meeting people... Hope you find your happiness...

ive nearly found one, he just doesn't realise it yet...

Awwwwww.... Yes I do....

Err... Nope we haven't met"

You didnt recognise me in my masterful disguise....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just because someone snorts cum ( lol@the thought) doesnt mean you have to! Just enjoy what you enjoy and forget the rest. Theres a block button and filters for the things you find disturbing and we can assure you it works beautifully

Just get on with your own pleasures and forget anything else.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I just feel like I'm not going to be happy in a relationship, it's never worked before for me, and I have two fuck buddies who are so fantastic just the best girls you could wish to mee, but it's not enough, I know those relationships are going nowhere and if one of them ends the relationship ill just replace her, and that's quite sad that I can do that"
The trick is finding that one that you can't replace!

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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago

In Your Bush

20:1 you're still here tomorrow

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lol nope eurotongue.. Where's the fens...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"20:1 you're still here tomorrow "

Im going racing next week,pick me a winner!

OP stick around and just enjoy the fun side,don't take any notice of the other shit that freaks you out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Lol nope eurotongue.. Where's the fens..."

230 miles from you....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Lol nope eurotongue.. Where's the fens...

230 miles from you.... "

That's a canny distance pet...

Wonder what op decides....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I may sound brutal here, but I think the best thing for anyone who reaches an emotional crossroads is to make clean break and see where life takes you….

After-all it’s easy enough to rejoin this lifestyle if you find your life is still missing something having taken the chance to step way from it….!.

But unless you make a clean break you’ll never know what could have been….!.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"That sounds as if you're getting a little jaded and cynical. Take a break would be my advice because you seem on the edge of showing disdain for people who are doing precisely what you are. That isn't a criticism just pointing out what can happen when the joy goes out of recreational sex."

I have nothing but respect for the people on here, it was the fact that I sat there ad read the thread, I have become board with it all basically I haven't messages anyone for ages except to answer mail I wish I was still excited about it all but I'm not perhaps I should look for something more meaningful on here, rather than just sex,

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull

not saying it wont happen but if your looking for meaningful with whoever takes your fancy on here you might get hurt

sure some people do meet on here and make it permanent and I've seen some profiles where the woman states she wants more than just lots of different partners so you might be lucky

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By *allDarkFoxForYouMan
over a year ago

Winchester/London


"That sounds as if you're getting a little jaded and cynical. Take a break would be my advice because you seem on the edge of showing disdain for people who are doing precisely what you are. That isn't a criticism just pointing out what can happen when the joy goes out of recreational sex.

I have nothing but respect for the people on here, it was the fact that I sat there ad read the thread, I have become board with it all basically I haven't messages anyone for ages except to answer mail I wish I was still excited about it all but I'm not perhaps I should look for something more meaningful on here, rather than just sex,"

Why not knock the casual sex on the head for a bit and look for a lasting relationship elsewhere and see how you feel ?

You can still dip in and out of fabs via the forums

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

i would love a relationship, but i dont want to hurt anyone, i dont think i can do manogomy

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"U need a night out dude i think

Ohhhh can I come?

"

course you can

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

just do vanilla .. with a twist ... how twisted you go is up to you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"U need a night out dude i think

Ohhhh can I come?

course you can "

Whoooooop. Night out.. On it till I vomit (not that I watch Geordie shore a lot)

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"U need a night out dude i think

Ohhhh can I come?

course you can

Whoooooop. Night out.. On it till I vomit (not that I watch Geordie shore a lot)"

Tash on pet? Lol

I had a sleep on it feel much better now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So.. You're staying?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I just feel like I'm not going to be happy in a relationship, it's never worked before for me, and I have two fuck buddies who are so fantastic just the best girls you could wish to mee, but it's not enough, I know those relationships are going nowhere and if one of them ends the relationship ill just replace her, and that's quite sad that I can do thatThe trick is finding that one that you can't replace! "

Yeah but it also has to work both ways or the other half gets hurt... Just like me

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross


"Ok I think I have had enough now, I feel like I need to do what is probably impossible and find me that one special person that I can be happy with for the rest of my life I mean I just saw a thread on here about cum snorting ffs I just don't know if I can do this anymore I'm one foot here and one foot vanilla and I don't know which side to fall."

I don't think it's that you want a steady relationship and reading what you've put I think you know that yourself.

I guessing, that like many, you are 'dismayed by' , 'tired of', 'confused by' some of the odd, sick, perverted , childish , stuff that gets posted here by those who confuse swinging with fetishes and porn.

I'm not one of the 'anything goes' brigade for the following reason.

What people find a turn on is okay for them and it's okay by me too , as long as I don't have to read about it or have conversations about it.

One of the joys of profiles and messaging is that you can find people who like what you like and you can chat , meet and act out to your hearts content.

I think that you are just questioning what any sane , sex seeking, adult swingers would question.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

In brief I have an open attitude toward sex, I think it's part and parcel of life. I don't want to know if your aunty eats dog shit.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I think it more a case of when I look at people in vanilla relationships, I think I would like that, but I don't think I really want that I just think its what I should want, in short I don't want to have a relationship cos I know I would end up cheating on her, but I wish I could.

So in short I'm staying, going to take it easy for a while, not try too hard and let life just roll out the way it wants too.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"In brief I have an open attitude toward sex, I think it's part and parcel of life. I don't want to know if your aunty eats dog shit."

No she has cats lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"That sounds as if you're getting a little jaded and cynical. Take a break would be my advice because you seem on the edge of showing disdain for people who are doing precisely what you are. That isn't a criticism just pointing out what can happen when the joy goes out of recreational sex."

Great post.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ok I think I have had enough now, I feel like I need to do what is probably impossible and find me that one special person that I can be happy with for the rest of my life I mean I just saw a thread on here about cum snorting ffs I just don't know if I can do this anymore I'm one foot here and one foot vanilla and I don't know which side to fall.

I don't think it's that you want a steady relationship and reading what you've put I think you know that yourself.

I guessing, that like many, you are 'dismayed by' , 'tired of', 'confused by' some of the odd, sick, perverted , childish , stuff that gets posted here by those who confuse swinging with fetishes and porn.

I'm not one of the 'anything goes' brigade for the following reason.

What people find a turn on is okay for them and it's okay by me too , as long as I don't have to read about it or have conversations about it.

One of the joys of profiles and messaging is that you can find people who like what you like and you can chat , meet and act out to your hearts content.

I think that you are just questioning what any sane , sex seeking, adult swingers would question. "

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"In brief I have an open attitude toward sex, I think it's part and parcel of life. I don't want to know if your aunty eats dog shit."

Blimey! Well she doesn't as far as I know

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"So.. You're staying?"

Yeah I'm staying

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well just enjoy this place for what it is.. And remember you don't gave to just mix with web people.... Theres a whole real world out there....

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By *ubmissiveMissCouple
over a year ago

staffs

i think its lovely to see that men can feel this way too.thought it was just me! Sometimes ,although i think i am not cut out for a cosy live together relationship,I feel like I really want something more meaningful.I need mad bad sex but it doesnt mean i don't appreciate love too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why don't you do what YOU want to do

Im forever thinking this is not the place for me - Im too prudish for one .. I don't like the cheesy innuendos and I have many more reasons that would result in me being removed

People have opinions ... people have their own thoughts - you are the one who has to be happy with it

No one else

For what its worth - maybe if you met the right person you would feel no reason to question the little stuff

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ok I think I have had enough now, I feel like I need to do what is probably impossible and find me that one special person that I can be happy with for the rest of my life I mean I just saw a thread on here about cum snorting ffs I just don't know if I can do this anymore I'm one foot here and one foot vanilla and I don't know which side to fall."

Just find someone who you can share swinging with and have the best of both worlds x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thinking about knocking it on the head and just using this place for the craic. Can't be arsed with meeting at the moment, too many wankers and bullshitters for my liking...

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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago

In Your Bush

Ah bollox I'm out too. I'm off to join a tasty snack forum.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thinking about knocking it on the head and just using this place for the craic. Can't be arsed with meeting at the moment, too many wankers and bullshitters for my liking... "

Wankheads is a great word .. you can use it with my complete blessing

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By *exycleanerWoman
over a year ago

pontefract

been there done that .i do it all the time

can never decide if i should be on here

or dating sites looking for a man ,

i keep going round in circles trying to decide what to do with my life ,it drives me nuts at times cos i just dont know what to do xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thinking about knocking it on the head and just using this place for the craic. Can't be arsed with meeting at the moment, too many wankers and bullshitters for my liking...

Wankheads is a great word .. you can use it with my complete blessing "

haha I like that word... tis my new word for the day. and thankyouuu muchly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thinking about knocking it on the head and just using this place for the craic. Can't be arsed with meeting at the moment, too many wankers and bullshitters for my liking...

Wankheads is a great word .. you can use it with my complete blessing

haha I like that word... tis my new word for the day. and thankyouuu muchly "

I love word of the day

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ok I think I have had enough now, I feel like I need to do what is probably impossible and find me that one special person that I can be happy with for the rest of my life I mean I just saw a thread on here about cum snorting ffs I just don't know if I can do this anymore I'm one foot here and one foot vanilla and I don't know which side to fall.

Just find someone who you can share swinging with and have the best of both worlds x"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"been there done that .i do it all the time

can never decide if i should be on here

or dating sites looking for a man ,

i keep going round in circles trying to decide what to do with my life ,it drives me nuts at times cos i just dont know what to do xx "

I'm not lookin for any kind of relationship. My ex did a good enough job to put me off. Just fed up of the meeting bit! I'm sure ill be back to my usual naughty self once I've moved back to Manchester... till then, tis flirtin only!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Lots of good advice, a good nights sleep, an energy drink and a bacon butty I think I'm going to be ok

Thanks guys x

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