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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Why can't this site regulate who is genuine and who's not?

Just had some lady ask if we was on skype. So the reply was mr is yes. As we are a couple and now we've been blocked so it was clearly a male trying to get a wank.

Why are us genuine swingers allowed to be harassed by these wanna be's?

Sorry for the rant but it really winds us up.

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By *MeisterMan
over a year ago

Lincolnshire


"Why can't this site regulate who is genuine and who's not?

Just had some lady ask if we was on skype. So the reply was mr is yes. As we are a couple and now we've been blocked so it was clearly a male trying to get a wank.

Why are us genuine swingers allowed to be harassed by these wanna be's?

Sorry for the rant but it really winds us up. "

I hear ya, it gives us genuine single guys a bad name and it obviously makes it harder for genuine people!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe cause the site dont know them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

same reason you cant tell whose genuine and not !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thats the one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The site uses a system whereby the users verify one another as genuine. That's about as good as it can get really. How would you suggest a more effective system?

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By *empting Devil.Woman
over a year ago

Sheffield

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By *ilmisseCouple
over a year ago

leicestershire


"Why are us genuine swingers allowed to be harassed by these wanna be's?"

Why are you any more genuine than they are? Were they verified? if not why were you talking to them? Maybe you should just look at what you are doing to attract them? Or just stop whining and accept its part and parcel of this great site.

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By *empting Devil.Woman
over a year ago

Sheffield


"Why can't this site regulate who is genuine and who's not?

Just had some lady ask if we was on skype. So the reply was mr is yes. As we are a couple and now we've been blocked so it was clearly a male trying to get a wank.

Why are us genuine swingers allowed to be harassed by these wanna be's?

Sorry for the rant but it really winds us up.

Perhaps it was a genuine lady who wanted the female to speak to the female but she now thinks you're a single guy who just wanted to wank on skype! "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why can't this site regulate who is genuine and who's not?

Just had some lady ask if we was on skype. So the reply was mr is yes. As we are a couple and now we've been blocked so it was clearly a male trying to get a wank.

Why are us genuine swingers allowed to be harassed by these wanna be's?

Sorry for the rant but it really winds us up.

Perhaps it was a genuine lady who wanted the female to speak to the female but she now thinks you're a single guy who just wanted to wank on skype! "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its all been said, but maybe if little vexations wind you up, this isn't the best choice of past times for you.

It involves the commodity of people. Were all different, so just walk by those that don't fit your profiling desire ?

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By *haunMan
over a year ago

Halton


"Why are us genuine swingers allowed to be harassed by these wanna be's?

Why are you any more genuine than they are? Were they verified? if not why were you talking to them? Maybe you should just look at what you are doing to attract them? Or just stop whining and accept its part and parcel of this great site. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why are us genuine swingers allowed to be harassed by these wanna be's?

Why are you any more genuine than they are? Were they verified? if not why were you talking to them? Maybe you should just look at what you are doing to attract them? Or just stop whining and accept its part and parcel of this great site.

"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Let's be honest, if you go into chat rooms half if not more of the couples cams have a bloke walking on his own. Does that mean they're all fakes? She or he may well have thought you were one of those "couples" where only the bloke exists

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP you are having a little tantrum because you were blocked for the male half being on cam,so you've spat your dummy out by calling the other person fake.....how very mature

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross


"Why can't this site regulate who is genuine and who's not?

Just had some lady ask if we was on skype. So the reply was mr is yes. As we are a couple and now we've been blocked so it was clearly a male trying to get a wank.

Why are us genuine swingers allowed to be harassed by these wanna be's?

Sorry for the rant but it really winds us up. "

They were speaking to a couple ( you )

They asked if they could speak to you via skype.

You said - The male half has skype.

They blocked.

Seems reasonable to me.

My guess is they think YOU are a single bloke pretending to be a couple.

I would too.

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By *azzaahhWoman
over a year ago

north wales / chester


"Why can't this site regulate who is genuine and who's not?

Just had some lady ask if we was on skype. So the reply was mr is yes. As we are a couple and now we've been blocked so it was clearly a male trying to get a wank.

Why are us genuine swingers allowed to be harassed by these wanna be's?

Sorry for the rant but it really winds us up.

They were speaking to a couple ( you )

They asked if they could speak to you via skype.

You said - The male half has skype.

They blocked.

Seems reasonable to me.

My guess is they think YOU are a single bloke pretending to be a couple.

I would too. "

exactly this ..i think the same x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why can't this site regulate who is genuine and who's not?"

Because its not the site's job!!!

The site is there to provide a means of contacting people, viewing profiles and pics to establish interest, chatrooms to interact with others, forums to engage in discussion and ask questions - and all for the princely sum of sod all, if you don't wish to be a site supporter!!

The job of verifying people are genuine falls on those using the site! Which most are more than happy to do via the verification system!!

If you use the tools available - in the right way - and add a healthy dose of common sense, no sense of expectancy and a dash of realism - you'll live a long and happy 'Fab life'.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Also if everyone used their own arbitrary definitions of who is fake then no one would be here.

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead


"Why can't this site regulate who is genuine and who's not?

Just had some lady ask if we was on skype. So the reply was mr is yes. As we are a couple and now we've been blocked so it was clearly a male trying to get a wank.

Why are us genuine swingers allowed to be harassed by these wanna be's?

Sorry for the rant but it really winds us up.

They were speaking to a couple ( you )

They asked if they could speak to you via skype.

You said - The male half has skype.

They blocked.

Seems reasonable to me.

My guess is they think YOU are a single bloke pretending to be a couple.

I would too.

exactly this ..i think the same x"

have to say i agree with these two........

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How do you suppose admin regulate this site then?? Are they going to interveiw each and everyone of us in person?? NO!

Verifications (meeting are better than cam) Will give us the choice to see if people have met and turned up at meets. The rest is down to you to do your homework and work it out!!!

You get from this site what you put in....

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I'm not having a tantrum. I'm asking a question.

I have no idea how to regulate it but i'm sure there is a much better way than the system that already stands.

I'm not annoyed at being blocked. To be honest it doesn't bother me.

One way I suppose would be to make everyone on the site do a pic veri with the piece of paper with fabswingers wrote on it. That would still be passable but would be hard unless your very good with photoshop.

And lol about the just a bloke comment. I think peeps have ssen us both enough times to know we are real and a couple lol


"OP you are having a little tantrum because you were blocked for the male half being on cam,so you've spat your dummy out by calling the other person fake.....how very mature "

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By *ouplefunukCouple
over a year ago

North Bristol

This thread is hilarious. Oh the irony.....

*Her

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

even users who verified by meeting can still let people down anyway!

happend to me twice.. one id met already..said on way and didnt turn up.

other guy was verified by meeting peeps...we chatted on phone and texed.. he let me know was setting off....i got ready...then...NOTHING!

i texed him...was ignored

he was later online and blocked me.

obviously no intention comming at all... and yes does ruin it for genuine people and makes people wary.

but i was all dolled up anyways so thought right his loss...and got someone else round!

if someones a tit or lets you down...just move on as plenty on here who are genuine and actualy mean what they say profile wise etc

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm not having a tantrum. I'm asking a question.

I have no idea how to regulate it but i'm sure there is a much better way than the system that already stands.

I'm not annoyed at being blocked. To be honest it doesn't bother me.

One way I suppose would be to make everyone on the site do a pic veri with the piece of paper with fabswingers wrote on it. That would still be passable but would be hard unless your very good with photoshop.

And lol about the just a bloke comment. I think peeps have ssen us both enough times to know we are real and a couple lol

OP you are having a little tantrum because you were blocked for the male half being on cam,so you've spat your dummy out by calling the other person fake.....how very mature "

Really it's easy to fake a sign so photo veri is way to easy.

Like has been said the female probably thought your a single playing as a cpl so lets be honest who looks more fake in this scenario ????

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By *reelove1969Couple
over a year ago

bristol

it never fails to baffle me what people expect from a free site

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville

How are they going to do that, interview personally?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Fake? Really? When she clearly saw us both on cam until we came off?

So your saying us that do actually have pics are fake? Yet I mention a lady with no pics or nothing and i'm slated for it. Lmao was only saying what I thought.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"it never fails to baffle me what people expect from a free site "

I know

they want every option going in the search and to only have genuine people on here

I swear next they will be just expecting the site to set them up with a meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why can't this site regulate who is genuine and who's not?

Because its not the site's job!!!

The site is there to provide a means of contacting people, viewing profiles and pics to establish interest, chatrooms to interact with others, forums to engage in discussion and ask questions - and all for the princely sum of sod all, if you don't wish to be a site supporter!!

The job of verifying people are genuine falls on those using the site! Which most are more than happy to do via the verification system!!

If you use the tools available - in the right way - and add a healthy dose of common sense, no sense of expectancy and a dash of realism - you'll live a long and happy 'Fab life'. "

I've had a beer, but what he said

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