FabSwingers.com forum: preferences

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

So carrying on from the the asian thread..

It has been said that calling black people black is stereotyping as some are white?

Orientals don't have different eyes? So a chinese man can have european shaped eyes?

I d on't find dark skin attractive.. I'm not here for long term love so for me personality isn't that important.

Also was said that saying its a prefence is cos you can't be truthful by saying you don't like asians etc.. Maybe someone should tell my half indian son this!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

So by the logic said not all bbw are overweight?

If you don't find bbw attractive its cos you hate them?

Straight people don't find the same sex attractive cos they are stereotyping them?

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By *kywatcherMan
over a year ago

Southwick

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By *livia_KWoman
over a year ago

South London

WTF?

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

I have no idea what the op is going on about

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By *kywatcherMan
over a year ago

Southwick

"I have no idea what the op is going on about"

You and me both ....

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By *livia_KWoman
over a year ago

South London

"I have no idea what the op is going on about"

Glad I'm not the only one.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

As I said.. Carrying on from the asian thread in swingers chat

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By *livia_KWoman
over a year ago

South London

"As I said.. Carrying on from the asian thread in swingers chat"

That's all well and good, but your post makes absolutely no sense!

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By *kywatcherMan
over a year ago

Southwick

"As I said.. Carrying on from the asian thread in swingers chat"

Not read it tbh....but you didn't mention swingers chat in OP....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

too late at night for this !!!

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

As travel has progressed and become more accessible to all humankind, it is inevitable that all races will eventually become more watered down so to speak. The same can be said of language.

Are you (tick appropriate box)

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Well I am mentioning it now that its in swingers chat. If you haven't read it then not much point commenting on here really

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Op if someone is black how can they be white

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By *kywatcherMan
over a year ago

Southwick

"Op if someone is black how can they be white

Without reading the thread that OP mentioned I was wondering exactly this. I'm sure a clue maybe there though...

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Op if someone is black how can they be white

Exactly! But it was said that people should look as individuals and not stereotype a race.. Even tho I pointed out I don't find dark skin attractive :/

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By *livia_KWoman
over a year ago

South London

I have read the other thread. But your post is totally rambling and completely illogical. Therefore makes no sense.

Calling a black person black is not stereotyping them. It's describing the colour of their skin. A black person cannot be white because they're, erm, black. Unless you mean mixed race?

Why would you hate someone just because you're not attrated to them? If that was the case I would hate all of my friends.

Straight people are not stereotyping people of the same sex by not finding them attractive. They just aren't attracted to people of the same sex because they're straight and not gay. That's sexuality, not stereotyping.

So basically I am seriously confused by your post and initially assumed you'd had a bit of a drink....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

carrying on yes brenda, then i dont know ur circumstances about having a half indian son..regardless if u had him or not, u had sex with an indian man, perhaps u had sex just for the fuck of it at the time...

not trying to judge, but as I previously stated, there are many types of people in races that dont fit stereotypical images of that particular race.

is it not like me saying brenda ur bum is big, but great its not black, but saying it is black, cos black woman have big bums...

I tend not to sit on any race leaning, despite my own colouring..and I can find sexual attraction on people I have never previously thought I would be attracted to(for me, its been living with my white side of my family, so other people were rare to meet, let alone think sexually about)..but in my open lifestyle, Ive met too many people to discount them as sexually attractive, especially if its in regards to race

it is another cyclic thread about preferences, and almost everyone agrees on them.what we dont agree on, is broad generalizations that make no scientific sense, and its not PC talk, it is basically just an understanding of actual diversity(not the group)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have no idea what the op is going on about

You and me both ...."
me neither. Confused.com

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Op if someone is black how can they be white

Have you forgotten about michael jackson?

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By *livia_KWoman
over a year ago

South London

"Op if someone is black how can they be white

Have you forgotten about michael jackson?"

But he said it doesn't matter if you're black or white

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Op if someone is black how can they be white

Have you forgotten about michael jackson?"

He said it does not matter if your black and white. Then tried to become white but that is another thread this one is confusing enough already

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Op if someone is black how can they be white

Have you forgotten about michael jackson?

But he said it doesn't matter if you're black or white

Thats because he couldnt make up his mind

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I know you mean well but I'm confused. What you trying to say?

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By *livia_KWoman
over a year ago

South London

"Op if someone is black how can they be white

Have you forgotten about michael jackson?

He said it does not matter if your black and white. Then tried to become white but that is another thread this one is confusing enough already

Jinx

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

I read the asian thread and nowhere did it say that peoples preferences were to be ignored. However paddy made a good point following on from anothers post-not all black people are black. Not all east asians have the epicanthic fold.

What the asian post was trying to say was posting that you won't meet asians because a guy who happened to be asian upset you 20 years ago is stereotyping a whole race because of the behaviour of one person.

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By *livia_KWoman
over a year ago

South London

"I know you mean well but I'm confused. What you trying to say?

Rogue we are all very confused!

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

Now even I'm getting confused about what I posted earlier

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By *livia_KWoman
over a year ago

South London

"Now even I'm getting confused about what I posted earlier

But I thought you were easily confused anyway

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"carrying on yes brenda, then i dont know ur circumstances about having a half indian son..regardless if u had him or not, u had sex with an indian man, perhaps u had sex just for the fuck of it at the time...

not trying to judge, but as I previously stated, there are many types of people in races that dont fit stereotypical images of that particular race.

is it not like me saying brenda ur bum is big, but great its not black, but saying it is black, cos black woman have big bums...

I was in a relationship with my sons father for 5 years.. I'm not shallow when it comes to a relationship like I am when it comes to nsa.

Regardless of what different features some blacks or asians may have, it doesn't overcome the dark skin problem.

If preference is stereotyping on race then it has to be said for every preference.. Age, gender, size etc..

Everyone is entitled for preference regardless of their reasons for it. afterall everyone is entitled to their own perception of attraction.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I read the asian thread and nowhere did it say that peoples preferences were to be ignored. However paddy made a good point following on from anothers post-not all black people are black. Not all east asians have the epicanthic fold.

It was said that a preference is a stereotype and a lame excuse for saying you hate all asians.. Shocking really

Also who said they had a bad experience with one person

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can't be bothered to go read a thread in a other forum that will probably wind me up just so I can have half a clue about this one

Most threads about race and preference make me want to poke some peoples eyes out so I think ill just leave it thanks

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I can't be bothered to go read a thread in a other forum that will probably wind me up just so I can have half a clue about this one

Most threads about race and preference make me want to poke some peoples eyes out so I think ill just leave it thanks

Noone asked you too.. You could of just clicked off this thread too.. Just a thought

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Is there not irony in saying that those who stereotpying a race by saying its not their preferece is in fact stereotyping everyone who says they don't like a certain race??

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By *livia_KWoman
over a year ago

South London

Brenda I am not sure you understand the meaning of the word 'stereotype'...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I can't be bothered to go read a thread in a other forum that will probably wind me up just so I can have half a clue about this one

Most threads about race and preference make me want to poke some peoples eyes out so I think ill just leave it thanks

Noone asked you too.. You could of just clicked off this thread too.. Just a thought"

Open forum can say what I like thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Is there not irony in saying that those who stereotpying a race by saying its not their preferece is in fact stereotyping everyone who says they don't like a certain race??"

EXACTLY!

why i always disagree on almost anything u say when it gets to these posts...sounds like utter shit to me EVERY time

honestly wonder if ur possibly dark skinned child would wonder what someone else was saying in the same ilk...u urself will know the answer

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By *lack_BoltMan
over a year ago

oxford

"Is there not irony in saying that those who stereotpying a race by saying its not their preferece is in fact stereotyping everyone who says they don't like a certain race??"

This thread has been very confusing and extremely difficult to understand but I think, perhaps, I've finally got what you're trying to say.

It is true that expressing a preference could indeed be based upon a stereotype, but this is surely based upon the extent of the preference. For instance, a true "preference" indicates a tendency to prefer one thing over another and doesn't exclude other options.

However a "stereotype" tends to exclude other options, usually based on narrowly defined parameters, and in general tends to be negative.

The race issue is always emotive, but just because someone doesn't find a particular race "attractive" doesn't necessarily mean that same person won't have close friends and acquaintances with whom they get on extremely well.

So essentially there is conflict. Context is everything.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

not trying to judge, but as I previously stated, there are many types of people in races that dont fit stereotypical images of that particular race.

is it not like me saying brenda ur bum is big, but great its not black, but saying it is black, cos black woman have big bums...

I was in a relationship with my sons father for 5 years.. I'm not shallow when it comes to a relationship like I am when it comes to nsa.

Regardless of what different features some blacks or asians may have, it doesn't overcome the dark skin problem.

If preference is stereotyping on race then it has to be said for every preference.. Age, gender, size etc..

Everyone is entitled for preference regardless of their reasons for it. afterall everyone is entitled to their own perception of attraction."
dark skin problem ? Overcome ? Digging that great big hole

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

not trying to judge, but as I previously stated, there are many types of people in races that dont fit stereotypical images of that particular race.

is it not like me saying brenda ur bum is big, but great its not black, but saying it is black, cos black woman have big bums...

I was in a relationship with my sons father for 5 years.. I'm not shallow when it comes to a relationship like I am when it comes to nsa.

Regardless of what different features some blacks or asians may have, it doesn't overcome the dark skin problem.

If preference is stereotyping on race then it has to be said for every preference.. Age, gender, size etc..

Everyone is entitled for preference regardless of their reasons for it. afterall everyone is entitled to their own perception of attraction.dark skin problem ? Overcome ? Digging that great big hole

What hole woyld that be?

As I said I don't find dark features or skin attractive.. That prob lem for me

I think you need to read what's written fully

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Is there not irony in saying that those who stereotpying a race by saying its not their preferece is in fact stereotyping everyone who says they don't like a certain race??

EXACTLY!

why i always disagree on almost anything u say when it gets to these posts...sounds like utter shit to me EVERY time

honestly wonder if ur possibly dark skinned child would wonder what someone else was saying in the same ilk...u urself will know the answer"

I don't understand what you mean by my child would know ?

Also my son is my little doppleganger and therefore is actually only tanned looking, not that I'm sure that is relevant to anything

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