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By *eerise OP   Woman
over a year ago

Manchester and that's all you need to know

Sorry for the rant but.....Why can't people accept a simple no without the backlash of immature swearing?!!!

Do we all not have a choice to select whomever we like?

Going forward it looks like I'll have no choice but to block all in-coming messages from men.

I will decide whom I send messages to and take control.

Rant over

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By *innamon!Woman
over a year ago

no matter

set your filters so only certain people can message you.. age /photos/ newbies etc can all be set up to suit yourself.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sorry for the rant but.....Why can't people accept a simple no without the backlash of immature swearing?!!!

Do we all not have a choice to select whomever we like?

Going forward it looks like I'll have no choice but to block all in-coming messages from men.

I will decide whom I send messages to and take control.

Rant over "
Easy for me to say ignore them, ive been lucky when ive sent no thank you messages. there are people here who are accepting of the polite rejection. we all have to control who we want to message and who we don't.

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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago

In Your Bush

Well just do it then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sorry for the rant but.....Why can't people accept a simple no without the backlash of immature swearing?!!!

Do we all not have a choice to select whomever we like?

Going forward it looks like I'll have no choice but to block all in-coming messages from men.

I will decide whom I send messages to and take control.

Rant over "
send me a no thanks i wont shout x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i dont get that very often, but i am surprised when i do get messages like that. maybe they were very disapointed not to be able to meet you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sorry for the rant but.....Why can't people accept a simple no without the backlash of immature swearing?!!!

Do we all not have a choice to select whomever we like?

Going forward it looks like I'll have no choice but to block all in-coming messages from men.

I will decide whom I send messages to and take control.

Rant over send me a no thanks i wont shout x"

You might bite x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Op - I remember us going over this months ago. Send the 'No Thanks' then block. Don't even give them the chance to send you something that annoys/upsets you.

ted.

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By *am123Man
over a year ago

essex chelmsford

we are not all like that, ive never sworn at anyone on here and i have had my fair share of rejection like the single man on this site.

you just have to block those idiots that do that sort of thing and look for the nice guys of which there are loads on here if u look hard enough

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i dont get that very often, but i am surprised when i do get messages like that. maybe they were very disapointed not to be able to meet you. "

Ive had 2nd messages sometimes asking why. I prefer not to say to them why, I say something nice, mostly its the distance thing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sorry for the rant but.....Why can't people accept a simple no without the backlash of immature swearing?!!!

Do we all not have a choice to select whomever we like?

Going forward it looks like I'll have no choice but to block all in-coming messages from men.

I will decide whom I send messages to and take control.

Rant over send me a no thanks i wont shout x

You might bite x "
forgot that lol x

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By *eerise OP   Woman
over a year ago

Manchester and that's all you need to know


"Op - I remember us going over this months ago. Send the 'No Thanks' then block. Don't even give them the chance to send you something that annoys/upsets you.

ted."

Actually I do remember you saying that, but after only coming back on this week after a very long time I thought peoples attitude's had changed.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

It's too hot to get stressed over idiots who neither have the wit nor manners to (obi)haive in an appropriate and adult manner.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sorry for the rant but.....Why can't people accept a simple no without the backlash of immature swearing?!!!

Do we all not have a choice to select whomever we like?

Going forward it looks like I'll have no choice but to block all in-coming messages from men.

I will decide whom I send messages to and take control.

Rant over send me a no thanks i wont shout x

You might bite x forgot that lol x"

I haven't got the mark to prove it x

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

Rants are not allowed on a Friday

*courtesy of the underworked thursday rant department*

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Rants are not allowed on a Friday

*courtesy of the underworked thursday rant department*"

Spoilsport

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By *eerise OP   Woman
over a year ago

Manchester and that's all you need to know


"we are not all like that, ive never sworn at anyone on here and i have had my fair share of rejection like the single man on this site.

you just have to block those idiots that do that sort of thing and look for the nice guys of which there are loads on here if u look hard enough "

Everyone is really nice on here until I say no, then the shock comes out and it's not nice.

In a way it just clarifies I was right to say no in the first place.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's too hot to get stressed over idiots who neither have the wit nor manners to (obi)haive in an appropriate and adult manner. "

Steve - anyone would think you were stalking me!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sorry for the rant but.....Why can't people accept a simple no without the backlash of immature swearing?!!!

Do we all not have a choice to select whomever we like?

Going forward it looks like I'll have no choice but to block all in-coming messages from men.

I will decide whom I send messages to and take control.

Rant over send me a no thanks i wont shout x

You might bite x forgot that lol x

I haven't got the mark to prove it x "
next time x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Taking control is the best option just remember not to get abusive if they say no

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Op - I remember us going over this months ago. Send the 'No Thanks' then block. Don't even give them the chance to send you something that annoys/upsets you.

ted.

Actually I do remember you saying that, but after only coming back on this week after a very long time I thought peoples attitude's had changed."

... think you may have been expecting a little too much....

ted.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Rants are not allowed on a Friday

*courtesy of the underworked thursday rant department*"

especially from people that know the score already as they're not new to the site

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sorry for the rant but.....Why can't people accept a simple no without the backlash of immature swearing?!!!

Do we all not have a choice to select whomever we like?

Going forward it looks like I'll have no choice but to block all in-coming messages from men.

I will decide whom I send messages to and take control.

Rant over send me a no thanks i wont shout x

You might bite x forgot that lol x

I haven't got the mark to prove it x next time x"

Oh yes x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Rants are not allowed on a Friday

*courtesy of the underworked thursday rant department*

especially from people that know the score already as they're not new to the site "

Aw.... and she said sorry up-front too....

ted.

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By *eerise OP   Woman
over a year ago

Manchester and that's all you need to know


"Taking control is the best option just remember not to get abusive if they say no "

Tee hee, hun if I get rejected so be it not everyone is going to like me

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By *am123Man
over a year ago

essex chelmsford


"we are not all like that, ive never sworn at anyone on here and i have had my fair share of rejection like the single man on this site.

you just have to block those idiots that do that sort of thing and look for the nice guys of which there are loads on here if u look hard enough

Everyone is really nice on here until I say no, then the shock comes out and it's not nice.

In a way it just clarifies I was right to say no in the first place. "
exactly if they act that way then u are better off out and a lucky escape so block and move on bt dont tar all the single guys with the cant take rejection brush, i love getting knocked back happens all the time

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By *eerise OP   Woman
over a year ago

Manchester and that's all you need to know


"Rants are not allowed on a Friday

*courtesy of the underworked thursday rant department*

especially from people that know the score already as they're not new to the site

Aw.... and she said sorry up-front too....

ted."

Ted I don't think they were talking about me, as I have never spoken to the person let alone spoken to themn for them to say I should know the score. If you remember I was only on the site for 4 weeks when this first happened hence me leaving for 8 months.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sorry for the rant but.....Why can't people accept a simple no without the backlash of immature swearing?!!!

Do we all not have a choice to select whomever we like?

Going forward it looks like I'll have no choice but to block all in-coming messages from men.

I will decide whom I send messages to and take control.

Rant over "

If there's something you don't like, pics or message, just block and forget. You're not obligated to send a "no thanks" reply.

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By *eerise OP   Woman
over a year ago

Manchester and that's all you need to know


"Sorry for the rant but.....Why can't people accept a simple no without the backlash of immature swearing?!!!

Do we all not have a choice to select whomever we like?

Going forward it looks like I'll have no choice but to block all in-coming messages from men.

I will decide whom I send messages to and take control.

Rant over

If there's something you don't like, pics or message, just block and forget. You're not obligated to send a "no thanks" reply."

Thank you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We've never received a negative response from a no thanks.

We mostly get a ok good luck or something similar. It must be irritating getting abisive ones, but let's be honest it does prove that your initial "no thanks" was correct

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

one message i got made me laugh, he kept messaging me and i kept saying thanks but your not realy my type.

then he said, that i should shave my pussy and that he wouldnt come near it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We've never received a negative response from a no thanks.

We mostly get a ok good luck or something similar. It must be irritating getting abisive ones, but let's be honest it does prove that your initial "no thanks" was correct"

I wonder why some people get ranty mails. I usually get a nice mail back saying thank you for my reply, even if it is a "no thank you".

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We've never received a negative response from a no thanks.

We mostly get a ok good luck or something similar. It must be irritating getting abisive ones, but let's be honest it does prove that your initial "no thanks" was correct

I wonder why some people get ranty mails. I usually get a nice mail back saying thank you for my reply, even if it is a "no thank you". "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We've never received a negative response from a no thanks.

We mostly get a ok good luck or something similar. It must be irritating getting abisive ones, but let's be honest it does prove that your initial "no thanks" was correct

I wonder why some people get ranty mails. I usually get a nice mail back saying thank you for my reply, even if it is a "no thank you". "

Who knows. I've only had one that questioned our decision but he did it in quite a nice way and when we made it clearer he was fine and wished us luck!

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