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By *ub bbw OP Woman
over a year ago

oldbury

GRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRR I need a rant.

Why do people ask you for your opinion or advice and then go mental on you when they take your advice but dont get the outcome they wanted. A friend was going through something and i suggested maybe talking to her mum would be a good idea as she would be hurt if it was her daughter keeping it from her. Her mum has now pretty much told her what she thinks and it wasnt very nice but to be honest i think my friend needed to hear this as what her mother has stated is true her kids are a little unstable at the moment due to their dad leaving but keep coming back and sleeping with mommy then walking out. My friend is now blaming me for the whole situation because she has been given a few home truths. I didnt make her tell her mom i just suggested it. Rant over and breathe

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Good to get it off your chest hun xx

By *ub bbw OP Woman
over a year ago

oldbury

feels a little better yes thanks

By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

OP - your friends seem like hard work.

People always react badly to the things they already know voiced by others.

By *ub bbw OP Woman
over a year ago

oldbury

lickety yes they are i tend to remove people from my life that are too much and i have distanced myself lately from this one but she reached out to me with a problem so i tried to support her but it was a little too big to handle on my own

By *ucsparkMan
over a year ago

dudley

Hearing the truth does not suit everyone. A true friend tells you the home truth and waits to help you pick up the bits.

By *ondonpride69Couple
over a year ago

Blackpool

Your friend will see that being a true friend, you don't always get the answers/outcome they want. The fact that you was there for her speaks volumes and hope she sees that real soon.

By *ub bbw OP Woman
over a year ago

oldbury

thanks guys