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"There no harm in just going for a chat and anything else is a bonus. girls in there 20's don't appeal to me (tony) too young, but doesn't stop me talking to them. Never looked at punching above my weight, if they like me they like me if they don't it's there choice." Absolutely agree. Never had this problem when I (mr h) was younger and nearly always had a positive response. Maybe it's just me getting older....or paranoia... | |||
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"I suppose fortune favours the brave " He who dares rodders he who dares | |||
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"I suppose fortune favours the brave He who dares rodders he who dares " Sooo funny | |||
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"Have to admit I never messaged anyone but I've been very lucky to meet some gorgeous men on this site, who have punched below their weight in my mind!! The only time I messaged first was during the dare show your face thread and I'm extremely glad I did " | |||
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"Im sure its happened to lots of people on here down through the years. You walk into a bar/club and see someone and you think whoooarr....but you won't approach them because you think you wouldn't stand a chance. Have you ever looked at a profile and just passed it by, for the only reason that you think you'd be punching above your weight...?" yeah all the time lol I get loads of messages from guys who are drop dead gorgeous but I don't reply because I think theres no way they will like me | |||
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"Im sure its happened to lots of people on here down through the years. You walk into a bar/club and see someone and you think whoooarr....but you won't approach them because you think you wouldn't stand a chance. Have you ever looked at a profile and just passed it by, for the only reason that you think you'd be punching above your weight...?" Often... Sounds morbid doesn't it. Then again I have pulled a few girls on a night out and I've thought how the hell did I manage that?! | |||
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"Im sure its happened to lots of people on here down through the years. You walk into a bar/club and see someone and you think whoooarr....but you won't approach them because you think you wouldn't stand a chance. Have you ever looked at a profile and just passed it by, for the only reason that you think you'd be punching above your weight...?" Simple answer...yes | |||
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"I've just met someone who I thought was out of my league. In fact we only traded banter for several months. Then the ice caps started to thaw and before you know it things were developing nicely. Give people a chance. Maybe not everyone is as shallow and image obsessed as I am. So glad they aren't. " Your penultimate sentence says it all. The out of my league thing would apply in my head if I thought they were intellectually beyond me and I couldn't keep up my end of the conversation. Looks fade, bodies sag so I would hate to think someone just chose me as I look low enough on this imaginary league table to be low hung fruit. Mixing my metaphors, I know. | |||
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"Im sure its happened to lots of people on here down through the years. You walk into a bar/club and see someone and you think whoooarr....but you won't approach them because you think you wouldn't stand a chance. Have you ever looked at a profile and just passed it by, for the only reason that you think you'd be punching above your weight...?i yeah all the time lol I get loads of messages from guys who are drop dead gorgeous but I don't reply because I think theres no way they will like me " So maybe that's why so many people don't reply to my messages! Lol (I don't think!). | |||
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"Having said that I also pass by people with slit, whore, etc in their names. Adding it all together with being an ugly bastard means my pool of likely meets is drier than a nuns knickers " So lets get this right......you're a bald, asmathic, specky rugby player.....surely no such thing... | |||
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"I suppose fortune favours the brave He who dares rodders he who dares " so true | |||
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"In bars I certainly do refrain from approaching chicks out my league. On fab I message all the fitties lol. In person, rejection is lot harder to take. " A long time a go I noticed that hot women often end up going home alone as nobody dared approach them. Since then I have never considered anyone to good or not good enough until after we have spoken. | |||
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"In bars I certainly do refrain from approaching chicks out my league. On fab I message all the fitties lol. In person, rejection is lot harder to take. A long time a go I noticed that hot women often end up going home alone as nobody dared approach them. Since then I have never considered anyone to good or not good enough until after we have spoken. " Phew! That's why I always ended up going home alone - I'm HOT! | |||
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"I'm 51 this year. I never think that way. They're interested or not and there's only one way to find out. " | |||
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" Phew! That's why I always ended up going home alone - I'm HOT! " Sizzling | |||
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"Yes. But thankfully I plucked up the courage to contact her. We have now been together for 2 1/2 years! " That's very sweet xxxxx sounds like you really like each other too x | |||
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"Never ever think like that ... if I like I like , lol up to them if thay like me or not. " That's very confident, good for you! I'm afraid I do look at profiles and think nah, they aren't for us lol. Usually couples in their early 20's. I find it very hard to understand why we would be interesting to them, so we politely decline. Yes Ive also had some great looking guys, and thought youd never look twice at me on the street. Its a burden I bear though to make them happy. | |||
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"Im sure its happened to lots of people on here down through the years. You walk into a bar/club and see someone and you think whoooarr....but you won't approach them because you think you wouldn't stand a chance. Have you ever looked at a profile and just passed it by, for the only reason that you think you'd be punching above your weight...?" Yes... | |||
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"I suppose fortune favours the brave He who dares rodders he who dares " | |||
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"It make sense now. This is why i hardly get any messages lol" Well I can vouch differently | |||
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"Im sure its happened to lots of people on here down through the years. You walk into a bar/club and see someone and you think whoooarr....but you won't approach them because you think you wouldn't stand a chance. Have you ever looked at a profile and just passed it by, for the only reason that you think you'd be punching above your weight...?" I never message first for this reason plus sometimes when I get a message I think are they just taking the micky | |||
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"Im sure its happened to lots of people on here down through the years. You walk into a bar/club and see someone and you think whoooarr....but you won't approach them because you think you wouldn't stand a chance. Have you ever looked at a profile and just passed it by, for the only reason that you think you'd be punching above your weight...? I never message first for this reason plus sometimes when I get a message I think are they just taking the micky " Seeing you profile that is definately not the case | |||
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"It make sense now. This is why i hardly get any messages lol Well I can vouch differently " Lol you certainly can again some time | |||
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