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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Once a swinger always a swinger ??? Or can you go back to being vanilla ??

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

I suppose, if you meet the right person, but I have no intention of that happening anytime soon

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Vanilla with a filthy kinky man yes lol

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By *livia_KWoman
over a year ago

South London

Of course some people could go back to vanilla. Everyone is different - some see swinging as a lifestyle and as part of who they are. Others see swinging as just a bit of fun for now to maybe explore some fantasies for a bit and that's it.

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By *0sumthincoupleCouple
over a year ago

Birmingham

i know people who have left swinging behind.......... but they struggled.vanilla life is hard to get used to!!!.....apparently!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't label myself as a swinger. I am here because I am happy living the single life and this place fulfils my sexual needs!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't label myself as a swinger. I am here because I am happy living the single life and this place fulfils my sexual needs! "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't label myself as a swinger. I am here because I am happy living the single life and this place fulfils my sexual needs!

X1 "

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By *livia_KWoman
over a year ago

South London


"I don't label myself as a swinger. I am here because I am happy living the single life and this place fulfils my sexual needs!

X1

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't label myself as a swinger. I am here because I am happy living the single life and this place fulfils my sexual needs!

X1

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ


"I don't label myself as a swinger. I am here because I am happy living the single life and this place fulfils my sexual needs!

X1

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Once a swinger always a swinger ??? Or can you go back to being vanilla ??"

There is no medical or social reason you can't choose to. You can't become a virgin though but if you chose to abstain and lead a pious life you have the right to though god knows why you would do so.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Vanilla with a filthy kinky man yes lol "

This ^

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Once a swinger always a swinger ??? Or can you go back to being vanilla ??"

im.going back vanilla

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By *oxic1998Woman
over a year ago

Belfast

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By *hole Lotta RosieWoman
over a year ago

Deviant City

I'm vanilla, with a hint of mint choc chip

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By *oxic1998Woman
over a year ago

Belfast

I agree......Im single and dont class my self as a swinger and only here to satisfy my needs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Once a swinger always a swinger ??? Or can you go back to being vanilla ??"
its hard to go back to vanilla .it spices up the sex life .poppyxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well i like the swinger lifestyle with my hubby because i am very secure in our relationship and the love and the bond we have that transcends sex. If i was to ever find myself single again i feel any relationship i would have would have to be vanilla until i reach that level again. Of course i never see that day ever coming but you never know what life will throw at you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not sure I've ever been Vanilla, so going back to it would be difficult.

I am convinced I could live a more vanilla lifestyle if and when the time arrives.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I agree......Im single and dont class my self as a swinger and only here to satisfy my needs "

snap x

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By *eareenaCouple
over a year ago

Rockford


"Vanilla with a filthy kinky man yes lol "

this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm vanilla, with a hint of mint choc chip "
what a lovely treat

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham


"I'm vanilla, with a hint of mint choc chip "

I know someone who likes mint choc chip

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By *lle adie 2Woman
over a year ago

newcastle upon tyne

Nothing wrong with vanilla, but sometimes chocolate & chilli is good....

all depends on what kind of mood you're in, as long as you like either

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not sure I've ever been Vanilla, so going back to it would be difficult.

I am convinced I could live a more vanilla lifestyle if and when the time arrives."

This.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends how your defining "vanilla".

Vanilla is a subjective word.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You know, it strikes me that one persons 'Vanilla' is another persons 'Whacky Fruit & Nut'!

Its all subjective. For many on here, the activities and proclivities that this 'lifestyle choice' affords them are such second nature that they can, themselves, be considered 'vanilla' - from their own point of view.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Depends how your defining "vanilla".

Vanilla is a subjective word.

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it is indeed some of our singing is far from vanilla and then we do have sings that are very vanilla.bdsm however is about the mind not just the body and more than whips and chains.lots don't realise that..you can be seductive and sensual too in bdsm with the right people as its getting into their mind not just their pants.poppyxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Depends how your defining "vanilla".

Vanilla is a subjective word.

it is indeed some of our singing is far from vanilla and then we do have sings that are very vanilla.bdsm however is about the mind not just the body and more than whips and chains.lots don't realise that..you can be seductive and sensual too in bdsm with the right people as its

getting into their mind not just their pants.poppyxx "
swings typo xx

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By *imjohnCouple
over a year ago

Clacton on sea, Essex


"Well i like the swinger lifestyle with my hubby because i am very secure in our relationship and the love and the bond we have that transcends sex. If i was to ever find myself single again i feel any relationship i would have would have to be vanilla until i reach that level again. Of course i never see that day ever coming but you never know what life will throw at you."

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By *habsMan
over a year ago

Fortress of Solitude, Middlesex


"Once a swinger always a swinger ??? Or can you go back to being vanilla ??

im.going back vanilla"

I can't go back - can't see the point. Besides, Which vanilla woman will have me with the places my mouth has been??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't label myself as a swinger. I am here because I am happy living the single life and this place fulfils my sexual needs! "

ditto

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By *imjohnCouple
over a year ago

Clacton on sea, Essex

We have quite a few friends who after many years swinging or being in the sex industry have gone vanilla for different reasons.

We found vanilla American ladies will happily dish out bj's as they say its not sex...John had many happy times on our visits to Hedo lol!

As easily as people start to swing/have sex with others they can go go the opposite way depending on their lives at the time.

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By *imjohnCouple
over a year ago

Clacton on sea, Essex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm vanilla, with a hint of mint choc chip

I know someone who likes mint choc chip"

Tis true. Mint choc chop is my weakness

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We do go back frequently...

and then come back

But yes happy to stop - this is only a bit of fun from time to time, not a lifestyle for us.

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By *ackandkateCouple
over a year ago

Truro

To be totally honest, I don't think we'll swing again.

We started about 6yrs ago, but it's been over 2yrs since our last meet.

The last 2 meets we arrnged, the other couple cancelled, but really, instead of feeling pissed off, we just thought, "so what?"

I'm still on here most days though. I like the forums, but don't post as much as I used to

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