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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Seems that when you send a message they read and then keep it! But don't reply or delete it.

Understand ppl don't live for this site but simple yes, no, maybe could help!

Or am I going to get a massive influx of messages soon lol!!

Any ideas y this happens??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Any ideas y this happens?? "

She's either gonna message you back later

Or she hasn't clicked delete yet.

Or

She didn't think much of the message.

Wait and see..

But I find a follow up of "why the hell ain't you responded to me!" - normally gets dome sort of reaction.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


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But I find a follow up of "why the hell ain't you responded to me!" - normally gets dome sort of reaction. "

Isn't that coming across as pushy tho!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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But I find a follow up of "why the hell ain't you responded to me!" - normally gets dome sort of reaction.

Isn't that coming across as pushy tho!!"

Yes, that's what he meant when he said, 'gets some sort of reaction', ie not in a good way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

But I find a follow up of "why the hell ain't you responded to me!" - normally gets dome sort of reaction.

Isn't that coming across as pushy tho!!"

Na, works every time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Seems that when you send a message they read and then keep it! But don't reply or delete it.

"

If it was a 'yes', she would probably have replied. So it's a maybe (maybe they need to discuss it) or a no. Don't send a follow-up, or a 'maybe' will become a definite no.

See all the previous threads on this topic and don't obsess about the status of your sent items.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Isn't that coming across as pushy tho!!"

Uh..er...nah.

It's only pushy if you do it more than 3 times consecutively

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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Na, works every time "

Especially if you say it in block caps too!

That works really well!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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Na, works every time

Especially if you say it in block caps too!

That works really well! "

NEVER FAILS!

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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge

Only just replied to a message sent me 11 hours ago. Just haven't had time - some of us are actually busy!

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross


"Seems that when you send a message they read and then keep it! But don't reply or delete it.

Understand ppl don't live for this site but simple yes, no, maybe could help!

Or am I going to get a massive influx of messages soon lol!!

Any ideas y this happens?? "

Who are this mysterious they ?

If they is so rude don't write to they anymore.

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By *allDarkFoxForYouMan
over a year ago

Winchester/London


"Seems that when you send a message they read and then keep it! But don't reply or delete it.

If it was a 'yes', she would probably have replied. So it's a maybe (maybe they need to discuss it) or a no. Don't send a follow-up, or a 'maybe' will become a definite no.

See all the previous threads on this topic and don't obsess about the status of your sent items."

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

I block delete every so often!

Stop concentrating on your sent messages and just on what is in your inbox! That way you may get a pleasant surprise!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Stop reading too much into it. I never delete messages, just wait until they disappear.

If a person does not reply back then it's a no.

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By *livia_KWoman
over a year ago

South London

Or just do what one guy did to me - message again and ask what was wrong with my selection process when those on my veri list are morons and then jst throw in some school boy pathetic insults for good measure.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some women on this site earn 0.00000001p per click for every time a guy checks to see if his message has been read or deleted, some are making a great living at it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I block delete every so often!

Stop concentrating on your sent messages and just on what is in your inbox! That way you may get a pleasant surprise! "
Best way of looking at it. Although sure I have had one or two left read but undeleted....Its just wishful thinking. If they are interested they would reply relatively soon after reading. By that I mean a few days not hours!

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

Ignore your sent box. It'll drive you crazy otherwise. Just send and move on.

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By *on YonsonMan
over a year ago

London

If I don't get their national insurance number and bank acc details after my 10th message in a row [all read but not deleted], I block and delete. Timewasters!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just do a mass delete of everything read and unread every now and again.....most haven't been replied to

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We reply to most but some we just can't be arsed.

Follow up messages asking why no reply usually get a message telling why and a block

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Some women on this site earn 0.00000001p per click for every time a guy checks to see if his message has been read or deleted, some are making a great living at it "

Haha bloody gold diggers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some of us are still up trying to sift through 'newbie' mail here!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We all use this site in different ways and for different reasons. Concentrate on the ones that do answer and forget the ones that don't... It's as simple as that!

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