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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

How the heck do you know if someone likes you??!?!

For example at a club... I would have no idea if someone wanted to play or if they were just being friendly.

Unless he or she blatantly said so... Then there's a chance I might get the message.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

its in their body language and teh things they say. Men will look directly into your eyes and a certain look comes over their face, they stand or sit close to you and find excuses to touch your hand or arm

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

Usually by the way they act with you..usually by touching or flirty comments. I tend to tell a person I like them

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By *ezebelWoman
over a year ago

North of The Wall - youll need your vest

Or they start tugging away underneath their towel before they lean over and grab your fanny

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By *lentyoffun40Couple
over a year ago

Lancashire


"Or they start tugging away underneath their towel before they lean over and grab your fanny "

Lmao

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex


"Or they start tugging away underneath their towel before they lean over and grab your fanny "

lol yea there's that too

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By *issHottieBottieWoman
over a year ago

Kent


"Or they start tugging away underneath their towel before they lean over and grab your fanny "

Cheers for that jez my yoghurt just shot out my nose x lol x

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Usually when they suction their lips to mine

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Or they start tugging away underneath their towel before they lean over and grab your fanny "

Ha ha ha I've just snorted diet everywhere!

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

i think one tell for a woman is when she lifts both arms over her head and plays with her hair thus raising her breasts and exposing her armpits (ok ..shoot me down in flames) lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I never get the message unless they say so

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

I'm so bad at picking up signals I end up asking them outright.

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

Sometimes I am quite guarded and sometimes I won't tell someone I like them possibly of how they may act as rejection is not in my dictionary lol

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

or just ask .lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How the heck do you know if someone likes you??!?!

For example at a club... I would have no idea if someone wanted to play or if they were just being friendly.

Unless he or she blatantly said so... Then there's a chance I might get the message. "

Usually when they start wanking infront of me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And I thought it was just guys that couldn't read signals

I'm pretty crap at knowing if someone likes me or not ....

I need the "cavewoman" technique - "club me over the head and drag me off to bed"

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'm so bad at picking up signals I end up asking them outright."

I wouldn't dare ask in case they laughed at me. Hence my predicament.

Nice one about a guy tugging under his towel. I still might not notice though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have had a mix in swingers clubs.Sometimes it's looks and cheeky smiles . Sometimes I have been asked directly by the lady and other times the guy if the couple strikes up the convo I guess to see if he feels relaxed with me before he lets me play with his wife. But ya can usually tell by body language and looks x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've been to quite a few clubs now:

Cupids, the VA, No3club, Citylickers London Chams and Abfabs and I've always found that people are either VERY obvious about it OR they make it VERY clear they do NOT want to play.

I've found there is not really any middle Ground.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How the heck do you know if someone likes you??!?!

For example at a club... I would have no idea if someone wanted to play or if they were just being friendly.

Unless he or she blatantly said so... Then there's a chance I might get the message. "

Most blokes don't tend to be that subtle at clubs - it's usually more of an issue avoiding the ones you don't like!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When they asked the blokes I was with if they think I'd let them play ..... They needed to ask me not them lol . Otherwise I wouldn't have a clue x

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By *issHottieBottieWoman
over a year ago

Kent


"How the heck do you know if someone likes you??!?!

For example at a club... I would have no idea if someone wanted to play or if they were just being friendly.

Unless he or she blatantly said so... Then there's a chance I might get the message.

Usually when they start wanking infront of me "

That would just gross me out!! Lol. I think clubs are not my thing at all! X

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