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"Oral is on your mouth, and bareback is in your foof. Happy to help. " And another difference is what she ^^ said | |||
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"Oral is on your mouth, and bareback is in your foof. Happy to help. " Or muff! | |||
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"being totally honest ive often had similar thoughts on this subject too.. im still guilty of giving 'bareback' oral though only reasoning i can think of are that mouth enzymes are stronger and kill off potential infections.. i know you can get Herpes and Chlamydia through oral sex. " And gonerrea or however you spell it.. | |||
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"Oh you can't get pregnant through oral sex but you can get pregnant from the pull out method... " Thats what i told my ex when i didn't pull out of her mouth quick enough. | |||
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"Oh you can't get pregnant through oral sex but you can get pregnant from the pull out method... Thats what i told my ex when i didn't pull out of her mouth quick enough. " Boom boom | |||
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"being totally honest ive often had similar thoughts on this subject too.. im still guilty of giving 'bareback' oral though only reasoning i can think of are that mouth enzymes are stronger and kill off potential infections.. i know you can get Herpes and Chlamydia through oral sex. And gonerrea or however you spell it.." haha i left that out because i truly had no idea how to even attempt it.. and sypaliss i believe (omg how bad is that attempt at spelling that lol) | |||
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"i know you can get Herpes and Chlamydia through oral sex. " Da herpes is great at this time of the year | |||
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"Oh you can't get pregnant through oral sex but you can get pregnant from the pull out method... Thats what i told my ex when i didn't pull out of her mouth quick enough. Boom boom " And THATS what happened to ME when she got the frying pan out! | |||
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"Last I heard, a girl can't get pregnant by giving oral. That's just one difference..." Ah come on you know that's an urban myth. Look face it sex is risky....history shows us that having sex can lead to.... Divorce, getting punched by an angry bloke unhappy about you having sex in his bed, nutters cutting their wives heads off to have sex with their new wife, getting yourself plastered over a tabloid and loads more horrible things. Look don't have sex, its not worth the risk and if you're reading this you're probably a single bloke and not having it anyway. Be safe. | |||
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"Can I get an STI from oral sex? Yes, STIs can be transmitted during unprotected oral sex. Oral sex is a much lower risk activity than intercourse, but there's still a possibility for transmission. Not using a condom, dental dam, or other barrier puts both partners at risk. This means that performing and receiving oral sex puts you at risk. Some STIs are more likely to be transmitted during oral sex than others, including: Herpes Herpes is transmitted by skin-to-skin contact with a developing or existing sore. The virus can be transmitted from mouth to genitals if the person giving oral sex has or is developing a cold sore. It can also be transmitted from genitals to mouth if the person receiving oral sex has or is developing a genital sore. Gonorrhea Gonorrhea is transmitted when bacteria are present in body fluids. A person giving oral sex can get a gonorrhea infection of the throat if their partner has gonorrhea. HIV/AIDS For the person receiving oral sex, there's little chance of contracting HIV, although it's difficult to pinpoint when HIV has been transmitted because people rarely engage in only one type of sexual activity. In the case of fellatio (oral sex on a man), the HIV virus theoretically could gain entry from the mouth to the opening on the tip of the penis, or through an open cut or lesion on the penis. If you receive oral sex, however, you mainly expose yourself to saliva, which has negligible concentrations of HIV. For the cunnilingus (oral sex on a woman) recipient, the chance of HIV transmission is also low, although the entire vagina is a mucous membrane through which, theoretically, the virus can be transmitted. A woman receiving cunnilingus is more at risk of getting herpes or gonorrhea from her partner than HIV. The risk of HIV infection is greater for the partner who performs oral sex. A person performing oral sex on a woman should avoid it during her period, for menstrual blood can carry the HIV virus. Research presented at the 7th Conference on Retroviruses and Opportunistic Infections in February of 2000 concluded that 8 of 122 cases in an HIV-transmission study were possibly attributable to performing oral sex on a man. Of these 8 infected people, some reported having had recent dental work or having cuts in their mouths, suggesting that HIV transmission by oral sex is associated with cuts, lesions, or irritation of the tissues in the mouth. HPV HPV is transmitted through skin to skin contact and can be transmitted from the vagina, penis or anus to the mouth or vice versa. The risk for HPV-related oropharyngeal cancers (cancers of the throat, tonsils and base of the tongue) is believed to be linked to the number of oral sex partners that someone has had. Other STIs that can be transmitted through oral sex, although less commonly, include: Hepatitis B Syphilis Chlamydia Chancroid " Soooo, pretty much all of them! | |||
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"although the entire vagina is a mucous membrane " Well, I just call it a cunt. | |||
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"Can I get an STI from oral sex? Yes, STIs can be transmitted during unprotected oral sex. Oral sex is a much lower risk activity than intercourse, but there's still a possibility for transmission. Not using a condom, dental dam, or other barrier puts both partners at risk. This means that performing and receiving oral sex puts you at risk. Some STIs are more likely to be transmitted during oral sex than others, including: Herpes Herpes is transmitted by skin-to-skin contact with a developing or existing sore. The virus can be transmitted from mouth to genitals if the person giving oral sex has or is developing a cold sore. It can also be transmitted from genitals to mouth if the person receiving oral sex has or is developing a genital sore. Gonorrhea Gonorrhea is transmitted when bacteria are present in body fluids. A person giving oral sex can get a gonorrhea infection of the throat if their partner has gonorrhea. HIV/AIDS For the person receiving oral sex, there's little chance of contracting HIV, although it's difficult to pinpoint when HIV has been transmitted because people rarely engage in only one type of sexual activity. In the case of fellatio (oral sex on a man), the HIV virus theoretically could gain entry from the mouth to the opening on the tip of the penis, or through an open cut or lesion on the penis. If you receive oral sex, however, you mainly expose yourself to saliva, which has negligible concentrations of HIV. For the cunnilingus (oral sex on a woman) recipient, the chance of HIV transmission is also low, although the entire vagina is a mucous membrane through which, theoretically, the virus can be transmitted. A woman receiving cunnilingus is more at risk of getting herpes or gonorrhea from her partner than HIV. The risk of HIV infection is greater for the partner who performs oral sex. A person performing oral sex on a woman should avoid it during her period, for menstrual blood can carry the HIV virus. Research presented at the 7th Conference on Retroviruses and Opportunistic Infections in February of 2000 concluded that 8 of 122 cases in an HIV-transmission study were possibly attributable to performing oral sex on a man. Of these 8 infected people, some reported having had recent dental work or having cuts in their mouths, suggesting that HIV transmission by oral sex is associated with cuts, lesions, or irritation of the tissues in the mouth. HPV HPV is transmitted through skin to skin contact and can be transmitted from the vagina, penis or anus to the mouth or vice versa. The risk for HPV-related oropharyngeal cancers (cancers of the throat, tonsils and base of the tongue) is believed to be linked to the number of oral sex partners that someone has had. Other STIs that can be transmitted through oral sex, although less commonly, include: Hepatitis B Syphilis Chlamydia Chancroid " You just scared the crap outta me. | |||
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"You can get bad breath from oral" Yeah, tried that once, but it was crap and changed back to colgate! | |||
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"Oh you can't get pregnant through oral sex but you can get pregnant from the pull out method... " I heard there is a small chance of getting pregnant through anal sex as well, as cum can leak from the arse into the pussy. | |||
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"Oh you can't get pregnant through oral sex but you can get pregnant from the pull out method... I heard there is a small chance of getting pregnant through anal sex as well, as cum can leak from the arse into the pussy." Don't sit on her pussy afterwards then. | |||
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"Oh you can't get pregnant through oral sex but you can get pregnant from the pull out method... I heard there is a small chance of getting pregnant through anal sex as well, as cum can leak from the arse into the pussy." Yep a nurse told me they call them backdoor babies. | |||
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"Oh you can't get pregnant through oral sex but you can get pregnant from the pull out method... I heard there is a small chance of getting pregnant through anal sex as well, as cum can leak from the arse into the pussy. Yep a nurse told me they call them backdoor babies." How would you know that it's a 'backdoor' baby though? I mean especially if you are also having vaginal sex..? Or are there women who only have anal? | |||
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"Oh you can't get pregnant through oral sex but you can get pregnant from the pull out method... I heard there is a small chance of getting pregnant through anal sex as well, as cum can leak from the arse into the pussy. Yep a nurse told me they call them backdoor babies. How would you know that it's a 'backdoor' baby though? I mean especially if you are also having vaginal sex..? Or are there women who only have anal?" Yeah. But only if they have middle names like, Panasonic, Lg, Sony or Bush! | |||
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"Thought this was informative. . It boils down to getting tested regularly. Plain and simple." Getting tested regularly won't prevent you catching anything. It would only help you be a good 'sexual citizen' by not passing things on, but don't kid yourself, a positive test is too late for you. | |||
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"You can get bad breath from oral Ewwww penis breath " I was thinking more halibut-tosis. Everyone knows a penis smells like a strawberry | |||
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"Oh you can't get pregnant through oral sex but you can get pregnant from the pull out method... I heard there is a small chance of getting pregnant through anal sex as well, as cum can leak from the arse into the pussy. Yep a nurse told me they call them backdoor babies. How would you know that it's a 'backdoor' baby though? I mean especially if you are also having vaginal sex..? Or are there women who only have anal?" Only repeating what a nurse told me. I can only assume that as a health prfessional she had come across such things | |||
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"can someone explain this to me?" tons of difference safety wise... swinging is as much managing the risks you are taking.... liken it to for example crossing a road.... you can do it at a zebra crossing, or you can risk doing it across a busier road... or a 6 lane motorway..... | |||
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"can someone explain this to me? tons of difference safety wise... swinging is as much managing the risks you are taking.... liken it to for example crossing a road.... you can do it at a zebra crossing, or you can risk doing it across a busier road... or a 6 lane motorway....." Is it not dangerous crossing a road with some gals lips wrapped around your plums? | |||
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".... Or are there women who only have anal?" On a similar subject, I was chatting to a guy in Greece once, and he told me: "My wife was a virgin when we got married, she had only ever had anal sex". WTF!!!!! | |||
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"Thought this was informative. . It boils down to getting tested regularly. Plain and simple. Getting tested regularly won't prevent you catching anything. It would only help you be a good 'sexual citizen' by not passing things on, but don't kid yourself, a positive test is too late for you. " very true but the only alternative is no oral. .. I will keep doing it so I will keep getting tested. | |||
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"can someone explain this to me? tons of difference safety wise... swinging is as much managing the risks you are taking.... liken it to for example crossing a road.... you can do it at a zebra crossing, or you can risk doing it across a busier road... or a 6 lane motorway..... Is it not dangerous crossing a road with some gals lips wrapped around your plums? " oi... stop playing around with my point ya sod!!!!! lol lol.... the only true way of safe sex is no sex at all... ie... not crossing the road!, but then anything after that is a case of judging the risks.... | |||
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".... Or are there women who only have anal? On a similar subject, I was chatting to a guy in Greece once, and he told me: "My wife was a virgin when we got married, she had only ever had anal sex". WTF!!!!!" Technically speaking she was a virgin if all she'd ever had was anal. Losing your virginity requires sexual intercourse, ie penis in vagina sex. Otherwise you could lose your virginity with oral sex as well. Or fingers, or tongue or vibrator or any other type of sexual activity. | |||
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"Thought this was informative. . It boils down to getting tested regularly. Plain and simple. Getting tested regularly won't prevent you catching anything. It would only help you be a good 'sexual citizen' by not passing things on, but don't kid yourself, a positive test is too late for you. very true but the only alternative is no oral. .. I will keep doing it so I will keep getting tested." Well of course getting tested doesn't actually stop you catching anything. But what getting tested does do is catch anything you may have early so it can be treated before it gets worse and so you can stop passing it on to other folk. Many STIs, if left untreated, can leave you with long term or even permanent health and/or fertility issues. | |||
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"can someone explain this to me? tons of difference safety wise... swinging is as much managing the risks you are taking.... liken it to for example crossing a road.... you can do it at a zebra crossing, or you can risk doing it across a busier road... or a 6 lane motorway..... Is it not dangerous crossing a road with some gals lips wrapped around your plums? oi... stop playing around with my point ya sod!!!!! lol lol.... the only true way of safe sex is no sex at all... ie... not crossing the road!, but then anything after that is a case of judging the risks.... " Not crossing the road around here is dangerous too, there's a fucking big hole where the pavement should be. Maybe the answer is to avoid big holes? | |||
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"can someone explain this to me?" If you do not know the difference between where the mouth and foofoo are I think you need help. Seriously what sort of differences are you meaning? Teeth in mouth can bite during oral, you can get someone pregnant by bareback, both have STI risks.... | |||
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"There is no difference both carry risks...unprotected sex you have more chance of contracting std that cannot be passed through oral sex...however there is course a risk of contracting HIV etc if you have ulcers or cuts in your mouth " you would want to educate yourself. Every STD can be passed orally from HIV to herpes . | |||
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"although the entire vagina is a mucous membrane Well, I just call it a cunt." Yeah nice | |||
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"Oral without a condom won't get anyone pregnant. " Ask Boris Becker. He'll dispute your claim | |||
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"I work in a very dangerous industry. When looking at risk we have something called ALARP (as low as reasonably practicable)...my choice when having penetrative sex is to use condoms, but not for oral...I base this risk assessment on being sexually active for 30 years and only once getting a dose back in the pre AIDS days when I wasn't as sensible as I am now. As a swinger I have tests every 3 months, I'm aware that condoms are not Batfink's shield of steel but manage the risk in the way I and my playmates are comfortable with" | |||
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"I would recommend a discussion with a sexual health specialist." | |||
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