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By *umplay1969 OP   Man
over a year ago

Mayland

Ok, this may well hurt but need to know.

Been on here nearly a year now with only 1 meet from my time on fab.

I'm sending nice messages to people I'm interested in but rarely get a reply. Winks sent and never responded to.

I know some don't reply as they get so much mail but I'd hope for some replies.

So tell me, what's wrong with me or my profile ? I've changed my profile a few times, lots of info then little info.

I'm in a loveless and sexless relationship and just need some fun.

I'm not the only one in that situation am I surely ?

Trying to change myself too, but that's a bit harder.

I don't want a torrent of abuse, name calling I've heard before.

Just an honest opinion please.

There, I've done it.

Over to you......

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

It maybe that you are in a relationship that is putting them off...try and make your messages stand out..single ladies get dozens of nice messages but very few messages that stand out..I like messages that make me laugh and that stand out...if you make a woman laugh you are half way there..good luck!!

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By *umplay1969 OP   Man
over a year ago

Mayland

Thanks for that. I do try but it's getting to a point where I'm almost giving up and not 'trying' when typing a message.

Wrong I know.

As for the relationship I thought honesty was best ?

X

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

If you are in a loveless and sexless relationship, then surely it must be time to call it a day and move on.

I have just become single after a 6 year relationship, and although deep down I still have feelings for my ex, I know I would have been treading water if we hadn't decided to part company, but still remain friends.

As regards meets, I will leave that one up to others to point you in the right direction

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By *arkinberksMan
over a year ago

Ascot

Um... it's a little thing, but your emphasis in your profile is on what you want, not what you bring to the party. Might be worth rewriting it to see if that changes reactions. Bottom line is that there are zillions of single male profiles on here, so ladies and couples can be very choosy. Why get involved with someone who has baggage or who has availability issues ? It's a cruel world. You might have better luck in swinging clubs.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hi, How's you bitch?"

Usually does it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Being in a relationship will make your chances slim down I believe .

Also putting you may not be everyones cup of tea is not your best line as I am thinking , well, whats wrong with you. x

Re winks, I know I rarely check mine so if your sending a wink hoping for a response, maybe others dont check them much too?

Anyway, hope that helps, Good Luck.

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By *umplay1969 OP   Man
over a year ago

Mayland

All good points thanks guys, not so sure about the above one ? lol

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By *umplay1969 OP   Man
over a year ago

Mayland

I meant greedythump comment lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The being in a relationship part does limit you but i respect honesty. I would say participate in the forums or in chat so that people can get to know your personality. It is my opinion that it is actually harder for men to find a fwb here than just going out and meeting a women in a bar.

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By *umplay1969 OP   Man
over a year ago

Mayland

Thanks ms sugar, I'll change that then.

Never thought of it that way. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I meant greedythump comment lol

"

Ok try this one...

"Just sending you a nice hi, how's you.....while casually spanking my monkey".

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By *umplay1969 OP   Man
over a year ago

Mayland

Thanks krjc

Your right, it is so hard here. A bar is so much easier. X

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By *umplay1969 OP   Man
over a year ago

Mayland

Again greedy, not so sure. Any more ideas ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I meant greedythump comment lol

Ok try this one...

"Just sending you a nice hi, how's you.....while casually spanking my monkey".

"

I don't think you're helping lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

just read your post what a lovely reply

then I looked at your profile lady you are amazing remind me to show you my junk one day that will make you laugh.

I can tell you are a beautiful warm lady hope you have a wonderful life .

Take care Love you loads terry xxxxxxxxxxxxxx

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon


"Again greedy, not so sure. Any more ideas ? "

Ignore him....he is acting his shoe size this morning lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Again greedy, not so sure. Any more ideas ? "

I'm gonna invoice you for this.

Try this one...

"I'm totally hiding in your closet!"

I've actually said that.

What I would say and what others would say is subjective.

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon


"just read your post what a lovely reply

then I looked at your profile lady you are amazing remind me to show you my junk one day that will make you laugh.

I can tell you are a beautiful warm lady hope you have a wonderful life .

Take care Love you loads terry xxxxxxxxxxxxxx"

Who is that too...or is that a what he should type lol

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By *umplay1969 OP   Man
over a year ago

Mayland

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

U probably need to have a shave go to the gym and sort ur hair out lol and if that fails u may aswell bang a few trannys lol they usually love most cocks. Just a thought like

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By *umplay1969 OP   Man
over a year ago

Mayland

Confused.com

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Confused.com "

Oh I wouldn't put 'confused' in, you might attract the wrong sexes....

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By *umplay1969 OP   Man
over a year ago

Mayland

pmsl, fair point but any port in a storm ?

x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

it was to you cheekychops who else lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

you look like a nice guy I don't get reply's coz im an ugly monkey, someone once told me nice guys don't get laid I hope you do soon friend

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