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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

What's the pros and cons of being a newbie?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pros your fresh meat and niave

Cons your doomed to get stuck here forever

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Part of the downside is .... you have to work hard and be patient.

Please don't post in 2 weeks moaning that you haven't yet had a meet

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By *livia_KWoman
over a year ago

South London

Don't make the mistake of thinking it's instantshag.com. It isn't.

You boys have to unfortunately work harder than most to get a meet. And it most probably will take some time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Best I can say is stick to the forums and let people get to know your personality instead of making the cardinal sin of just "fancy a shag" and sending a cock pic

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Pros your fresh meat and niave

Cons your doomed to get stuck here forever "

Yip. It's like being in Hotel California.

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By *ammyDodgaMan
over a year ago

Nottingham/and everywhere my location says i am ;)


"Pros your fresh meat and niave

Cons your doomed to get stuck here forever

Yip. It's like being in Hotel California."

Does mirrors on the ceiling come with membership then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've messaged hundreds of people through the search and got next to nothing back. I've posted a good few posts on the forums and get people messaging me

I dont post things like "is my profile ok?" or "I'm not getting any meets". Mainly because I dont really care what people think of me (kind of, i do want to meet people ) I just come on and speak how I would as if I was face to face

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Become bi-curious and you get the best of both worlds.

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By *aucy3Couple
over a year ago

glasgow


"What's the pros and cons of being a newbie?"

It's no easier getting a shag on fab,than it is just going to the pub,or the dancing,and picking up a bird.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm new and finding my feet, hopefully got my first meet next week, I've found being yourself and natural is the best way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's hard when you first come on as you are not verified and a lot of ppl won't bother due to the amount of fakes or picture collectors that they come across,which is the down side and I don't understand why ppl come on here to waste ppl's time..shame I know but that's the truth...so just be you and try to enjoy talking to ppl

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Pros your fresh meat and niave

Cons your doomed to get stuck here forever

Yip. It's like being in Hotel California.

Does mirrors on the ceiling come with membership then"

Only Gold members get mirrors. And wine.

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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago

In Your Bush


"I'm new and finding my feet, hopefully got my first meet next week, I've found being yourself and natural is the best way"

Oops found your feet but lost your desire

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By *anchesterman87Man
over a year ago

middleton

Interesting post i think i say change tack. i have been chatting on the chat room for a while and sending messages without much luck. I see myself as an easy going guy who is non pushy but i guess that first message is always gonna be difficult haha

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By *ammyDodgaMan
over a year ago

Nottingham/and everywhere my location says i am ;)


"Pros your fresh meat and niave

Cons your doomed to get stuck here forever

Yip. It's like being in Hotel California.

Does mirrors on the ceiling come with membership then

Only Gold members get mirrors. And wine."

Guess ill just get stabbed with steally knives then

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Very true however if you don't ask you don't get lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Best I can say is stick to the forums and let people get to know your personality instead of making the cardinal sin of just "fancy a shag" and sending a cock pic "

Fancy a shag and cock pics are two of the major turn offs for a woman on here...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Think it works 50/50 I'm new to this doesn't mean I'm new to the real world

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Best I can say is stick to the forums and let people get to know your personality instead of making the cardinal sin of just "fancy a shag" and sending a cock pic

Fancy a shag and cock pics are two of the major turn offs for a woman on here..."
mate that told me about it doesn't seem to have any problem with his cock pics

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Best I can say is stick to the forums and let people get to know your personality instead of making the cardinal sin of just "fancy a shag" and sending a cock pic

Fancy a shag and cock pics are two of the major turn offs for a woman on here..."

I need to change my technique

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Putting some pics on your profile would help you too... Use a varitey of shots, ass, torso, face and not too many cock pics!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Best I can say is stick to the forums and let people get to know your personality instead of making the cardinal sin of just "fancy a shag" and sending a cock pic

Fancy a shag and cock pics are two of the major turn offs for a woman on here... mate that told me about it doesn't seem to have any problem with his cock pics "

Each to their own, but if your looking for a quality shag, then I suggest you avoid too many cocks! Just my opinion of course...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I'm very discreet but well assured I'm endowed better than most males here ( no cock pics here) but I've only recently found out its better I attach a pic as we chat

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What's the pros and cons of being a newbie?"
check to see if there a couple or not like it seams 2 be a lot on here pretending 2 be one

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Mate if it works for you keep it lol your profile suggest it does, if it ain't broke don't fix it

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Very true own who you build a rapport with, that's what I'm getting from this site

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm very discreet but well assured I'm endowed better than most males here ( no cock pics here) but I've only recently found out its better I attach a pic as we chat "

Can I ask how you are well assured of this? Have you seen alot of men's dicks? Or have the women you have been meeting been saying this? Cos women do say things to flatter men's egos just as men say stuff to flatter women's...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm very discreet but well assured I'm endowed better than most males here ( no cock pics here) but I've only recently found out its better I attach a pic as we chat

Can I ask how you are well assured of this? Have you seen alot of men's dicks? Or have the women you have been meeting been saying this? Cos women do say things to flatter men's egos just as men say stuff to flatter women's... "

I have peered into the depths of my boxer shorts and alas it looks like it needs watering and a bit of gro more. This man speaketh truth, a hero has risen from the single man and he puts us all to shame with his John Thomas.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

In all honesty the pics on some women's profile says it all and in real life I've got a good resume

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In all honesty all I can say is be yourself and don't take it to hard if thay reply with no thanks just say thanks and move on as thats what I did and then thay mailed me for a chat and now got a meet arranged for the weekend

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What's the pros and cons of being a newbie?

It's no easier getting a shag on fab,than it is just going to the pub,or the dancing,and picking up a bird. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm very discreet but well assured I'm endowed better than most males here ( no cock pics here) but I've only recently found out its better I attach a pic as we chat

Have you seen alot of men's dicks? Or have the women you have been meeting been saying this? Cos women do say things to flatter men's egos just as men say stuff to flatter women's... "

Now tou tell me

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