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By *isscheekychops OP   Woman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

You know the one where you think I deffo want to see them again...do you think it's an instant thing or do you think it's one that can develop over time...

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By *hris148Man
over a year ago

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Instant

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

usualy after the second meeting.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Both

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

usually instant

but

can develope as you get to know the person

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Instant for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Instant usually.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely instant. In my situation it's not exactly a spark of attraction to the degree that im bowled over by them, because I'm part of a couple and I don't get feelings about other men. But I have met a few guys where I instantly know they could be a close friend had I met them in other circumstances. I could chat all night with them and it's like I've know them for years.

I've had that with couples too, that instant friend bonding thing. It is great when it happens

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By *livia_KWoman
over a year ago

South London

Instant for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You know the one where you think I deffo want to see them again...do you think it's an instant thing or do you think it's one that can develop over time... "

Instant

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's an instant thing for me too.

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By *ivWoman
over a year ago

Carmarthen

instant for me

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By *isscheekychops OP   Woman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

See it's over a period of time for me...I have been fucked over too many times and don't let my guard down. I think along with trust comes the spark with me...I feel a bit abnormal now lol..

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

If it wasn't instant how would you know if you wanted to see them again or not

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire


"See it's over a period of time for me...I have been fucked over too many times and don't let my guard down. I think along with trust comes the spark with me...I feel a bit abnormal now lol.. "
oh thought you was on about swinging

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By *isscheekychops OP   Woman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon


"See it's over a period of time for me...I have been fucked over too many times and don't let my guard down. I think along with trust comes the spark with me...I feel a bit abnormal now lol.. oh thought you was on about swinging"

In every scenario

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It was instant for both of us

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

instant

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire


"See it's over a period of time for me...I have been fucked over too many times and don't let my guard down. I think along with trust comes the spark with me...I feel a bit abnormal now lol.. oh thought you was on about swinging

In every scenario "
you don't need to let your guard down though when just meeting for sex. I dont

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By *isscheekychops OP   Woman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon


"See it's over a period of time for me...I have been fucked over too many times and don't let my guard down. I think along with trust comes the spark with me...I feel a bit abnormal now lol.. oh thought you was on about swinging

In every scenario you don't need to let your guard down though when just meeting for sex. I dont"

True

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By *livia_KWoman
over a year ago

South London


"See it's over a period of time for me...I have been fucked over too many times and don't let my guard down. I think along with trust comes the spark with me...I feel a bit abnormal now lol.. oh thought you was on about swinging

In every scenario you don't need to let your guard down though when just meeting for sex. I dont"

All you need to do is let your knickers down. Your guard can stay up if you like

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By *inky BunnyMan
over a year ago

Cardiff


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All you need to do is let your knickers down. Your guard can stay up if you like"

Good girl, nice & dirty & free x

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

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By *isscheekychops OP   Woman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon


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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"See it's over a period of time for me...I have been fucked over too many times and don't let my guard down. I think along with trust comes the spark with me...I feel a bit abnormal now lol.. "

i was the same as you something changed in feb this year and now im not letting no fucker in my head or heart

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Instant for me too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mostly instant but it can develop also ... Think always needs that initial attraction ...

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