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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

When it comes to jobs/tasks/activities around the house and in society, etc. When does a remark cross the line as being a negative comment and when is it realistic?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why are your posts so deep and thoughtful.

Your 26 ...have a blast!

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

Oh there are definite blue jobs in the house. Taking the bins out, heavy lifting, fixing things etc

There are also pink jobs bit interestingly boyscan do pink jjobs but girls can't do blue jobs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why are your posts so deep and thoughtful.

Your 26 ...have a blast! "

Haha

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville


"When it comes to jobs/tasks/activities around the house and in society, etc. When does a remark cross the line as being a negative comment and when is it realistic?"
To me a remark becomes an insult when its got fuck all to do with anyone else how the dynamics of my relationship work.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Oh there are definite blue jobs in the house. Taking the bins out, heavy lifting, fixing things etc

There are also pink jobs bit interestingly boyscan do pink jjobs but girls can't do blue jobs "

That's not fair lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Why are your posts so deep and thoughtful.

Your 26 ...have a blast! "

I know i need a woman.

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"Oh there are definite blue jobs in the house. Taking the bins out, heavy lifting, fixing things etc

There are also pink jobs bit interestingly boyscan do pink jjobs but girls can't do blue jobs "

If the 'blue' jobs weren't done by this single woman, they wouldn't get done at all!

As for the OP, any remark crosses the line hen it attacks the person, not the behaviour being remarked on.

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"Oh there are definite blue jobs in the house. Taking the bins out, heavy lifting, fixing things etc

There are also pink jobs bit interestingly boyscan do pink jjobs but girls can't do blue jobs

If the 'blue' jobs weren't done by this single woman, they wouldn't get done at all!

As for the OP, any remark crosses the line hen it attacks the person, not the behaviour being remarked on."

*when

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham


"Oh there are definite blue jobs in the house. Taking the bins out, heavy lifting, fixing things etc

There are also pink jobs bit interestingly boyscan do pink jjobs but girls can't do blue jobs

If the 'blue' jobs weren't done by this single woman, they wouldn't get done at all!

As for the OP, any remark crosses the line hen it attacks the person, not the behaviour being remarked on."

There are always exceptions to the rule

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Make the kitchen soundproof and your good lady won't even hear remarks made

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Oh there are definite blue jobs in the house. Taking the bins out, heavy lifting, fixing things etc

There are also pink jobs bit interestingly boyscan do pink jjobs but girls can't do blue jobs

If the 'blue' jobs weren't done by this single woman, they wouldn't get done at all!

As for the OP, any remark crosses the line hen it attacks the person, not the behaviour being remarked on.

*when"

If I said men should do all the heavy lifting around the house and take the bins out (as that maybe considered as heavy lifting) and do various odd jobs such as fixing things and women should do the domestic things. Is that being realistic or a chauvinist?

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville


"Oh there are definite blue jobs in the house. Taking the bins out, heavy lifting, fixing things etc

There are also pink jobs bit interestingly boyscan do pink jjobs but girls can't do blue jobs

If the 'blue' jobs weren't done by this single woman, they wouldn't get done at all!

As for the OP, any remark crosses the line hen it attacks the person, not the behaviour being remarked on.

*when

If I said men should do all the heavy lifting around the house and take the bins out (as that maybe considered as heavy lifting) and do various odd jobs such as fixing things and women should do the domestic things. Is that being realistic or a chauvinist? "

I think that's a rather sweeping statement, some would say its chauvinist for me its spot on.

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville


"Make the kitchen soundproof and your good lady won't even hear remarks made "
Only the clanking of the chains and the tippy tap of killer heels.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Make the kitchen soundproof and your good lady won't even hear remarks made "

I'm on my own so I do all the jobs in the house. I wash the car, mow the lawn, change wall sockets (without getting electrocuted! I'm proud of that one), take the bins out and do the ironing.

I did all these jobs even when my ex lived here...

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound


"

If I said men should do all the heavy lifting around the house and take the bins out (as that maybe considered as heavy lifting) and do various odd jobs such as fixing things and women should do the domestic things. Is that being realistic or a chauvinist? "

My sister does all the odd jobs - she owns all the power tools. She also does all the cooking and making things like curtains etc. She puts out the rubbish and barbecues. Her husband also puts the rubbish out. He sorts out the washing and puts the clothes away. He'll wash up and clean. He does the muddy boots and the bikes. They split the tasks to those with the interest and best skills for the task. Surely that's what realistic is?

There's no point 'the man' doing the heavy lifting and odd jobs if he's completely incompetent at those tasks.

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By *aucy3Couple
over a year ago

glasgow

it's only birds that worry about the sexist,chauvinist thing,guys are more realistic.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Make the kitchen soundproof and your good lady won't even hear remarks made Only the clanking of the chains and the tippy tap of killer heels. "

sounds like a kinky gimp

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville


"Make the kitchen soundproof and your good lady won't even hear remarks made Only the clanking of the chains and the tippy tap of killer heels.

sounds like a kinky gimp "

I don't do gimp...do you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Make the kitchen soundproof and your good lady won't even hear remarks made Only the clanking of the chains and the tippy tap of killer heels.

sounds like a kinky gimp I don't do gimp...do you? "

Only if you asked me nicely

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville


"Make the kitchen soundproof and your good lady won't even hear remarks made Only the clanking of the chains and the tippy tap of killer heels.

sounds like a kinky gimp I don't do gimp...do you?

Only if you asked me nicely "

I will make note of that on my "Things to get Ben to do" page of my specialist swingers handbook.

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By *uckyinlustMan
over a year ago

manchester


"Make the kitchen soundproof and your good lady won't even hear remarks made Only the clanking of the chains and the tippy tap of killer heels.

sounds like a kinky gimp I don't do gimp...do you?

Only if you asked me nicely I will make note of that on my "Things to get Ben to do" page of my specialist swingers handbook. "

You're on my "to do" list

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville


"Make the kitchen soundproof and your good lady won't even hear remarks made Only the clanking of the chains and the tippy tap of killer heels.

sounds like a kinky gimp I don't do gimp...do you?

Only if you asked me nicely I will make note of that on my "Things to get Ben to do" page of my specialist swingers handbook.

You're on my "to do" list "

How long is the list?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have no interest in DIY, cars,football(sports in general),women are my equals in everything..except they can give birth..thats the only difference I see

plus they have fannys

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound


"I have no interest in DIY, cars,football(sports in general),women are my equals in everything..except they can give birth..thats the only difference I see

plus they have fannys"

And boobies (moobies aren't quite the same).

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple
over a year ago

in Lancashire


"

If I said men should do all the heavy lifting around the house and take the bins out (as that maybe considered as heavy lifting) and do various odd jobs such as fixing things and women should do the domestic things. Is that being realistic or a chauvinist? "

being a bit naïve I think..

the days of the big strong man and the domestic goddess are long gone now days for a lot of cpl's..

and we are better off or starting to get there, for it..

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By *uckyinlustMan
over a year ago

manchester


"Make the kitchen soundproof and your good lady won't even hear remarks made Only the clanking of the chains and the tippy tap of killer heels.

sounds like a kinky gimp I don't do gimp...do you?

Only if you asked me nicely I will make note of that on my "Things to get Ben to do" page of my specialist swingers handbook.

You're on my "to do" list How long is the list?"

A list with just you on it

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"If I said men should do all the heavy lifting around the house and take the bins out (as that maybe considered as heavy lifting) and do various odd jobs such as fixing things and women should do the domestic things. Is that being realistic or a chauvinist? "

Quaintly old fashioned. If a bloke can't manage a hoover then remind me never to go back to his!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If I said men should do all the heavy lifting around the house and take the bins out (as that maybe considered as heavy lifting) and do various odd jobs such as fixing things and women should do the domestic things. Is that being realistic or a chauvinist?

Quaintly old fashioned. If a bloke can't manage a hoover then remind me never to go back to his!"

well it sucks my cock well...

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"If I said men should do all the heavy lifting around the house and take the bins out (as that maybe considered as heavy lifting) and do various odd jobs such as fixing things and women should do the domestic things. Is that being realistic or a chauvinist?

Quaintly old fashioned. If a bloke can't manage a hoover then remind me never to go back to his!

well it sucks my cock well..."

Just be careful or you'll lose a few inches.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Make the kitchen soundproof and your good lady won't even hear remarks made Only the clanking of the chains and the tippy tap of killer heels.

sounds like a kinky gimp I don't do gimp...do you?

Only if you asked me nicely I will make note of that on my "Things to get Ben to do" page of my specialist swingers handbook. "

I hope its a long list... I really need to get up to the Midlands!

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