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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

no not at all, I cant even pull my boxers up fully

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

One womans ugly is another womans hot, hot, HOT!

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By *opping_candyWoman
over a year ago

West Yorkshire


"One womans ugly is another womans hot, hot, HOT! "

This, ugly is very subjective

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd give up mate!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For me the word “ Ugly” should never be used to describe someone’s physical appearance…

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hey I was blessed with looking like shrek and no problem if your polite, respectful in meeting genuine peeps.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Ugly is too subjective to quantify but bearing in mind a lot of women prefer personality over looks and they can turn theblight out anyway, I'd say yeah.

Besides which, I've seen several GODAWFUL Montrous zombies on here, all with several happy veris.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only ugly personalities will have a problem

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Only ugly personalities will have a problem"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There's someone on here for everyone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

ask 100 people about someone you likely to get very different answers

i can never see the what people see in Brad Pit

There's someone for every one if they just look hard enough

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By *atcherofmyballsMan
over a year ago

hereford


"For me the word “ Ugly” should never be used to describe someone’s physical appearance… "

I guess "Butt Ugly " is also out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

well, I haven't, so the answer from me is 'no' lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"For me the word “ Ugly” should never be used to describe someone’s physical appearance… "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Only ugly personalities will have a problem"
true looks are only skin deep .......

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

ugly men... with negativity.... nah

ugly men... with confidence.... sure!!!

ugly men.... yep

desperate men.... no!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yes they can and they do. have seen some ugly men with verifications from fit looking women too.

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By *he Ring WraithMan
over a year ago

Bradford

Ugly makes it hard, old and ugly makes it harder - but I manage....

I must have something going for me, and its not that I am hung like a donkey !

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith

if you think of yourself as ugly, then you've already lost.

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By *on YonsonMan
over a year ago

London

I bloody hope so!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Look s are only a very small part of what makes up a nice sexy person .

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Look s are only a very small part of what makes up a nice sexy person ."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"if you think of yourself as ugly, then you've already lost."

very true.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

its been used to describe my appearance every single day of my life, hell even my parents have called me ugly before, great confidence boast that was.

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"its been used to describe my appearance every single day of my life, hell even my parents have called me ugly before, great confidence boast that was."

Parents aren't always the best judges. My mother called me fat all through my childhood and adolescence. I'm not by the way.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

trying telling that to the millions who judge purely on looks first, if they arent attracted to you by appearance, they won't bother getting to know you, even if you try and be confident, you just look like an ugly fucker trying to be confident

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its no different than a pub.ugly men aint going pull the stunbers.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Its no different than a pub.ugly men aint going pull the stunbers."
ur a stunner

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well I've not done too bad so far so yeah we can

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have looked at lots of ladies on here and thought no she is well out my league x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Its no different than a pub.ugly men aint going pull the stunbers."
In my time I have meet some men maybe not the best looking but had the gift of the gab and had woman and lovely fab woman all over them . why I say looks only a small part ... as I have come across more then one like this in my time .. just have something that shines ,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Its no different than a pub.ugly men aint going pull the stunbers."

Though of course in a pub you don't have to queue to talk to an attractive woman.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

...well unless she's the bar maid

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"Well I've not done too bad so far so yeah we can "

I think a lot of success on here is down to attitude more than looks.

I actually like unique looking men a lot more than conventionally good looking men. But a guy who comes across as defeatist and cynical aint going to warm my cockles at all!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have looked at lots of ladies on here and thought no she is well out my league x"

I think maybe we all do that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well I've not done too bad so far so yeah we can

I think a lot of success on here is down to attitude more than looks.

I actually like unique looking men a lot more than conventionally good looking men. But a guy who comes across as defeatist and cynical aint going to warm my cockles at all!"

I just see it as beauty is in the eye of the beholder.

I don't see myself as anything special! I'm just me but to someone else I might be good looking and to someone else I could be what they'd class as ugly.

But yes I agree, I find someone's personality and attitude more of an appeal.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There's someone on here for everyone "

Exactly!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There's a cup for every saucer !!

Beauty is in the eye of the beholder and just because you think your cup is chipped.. Someone with a chipped saucer might think you go together perfectly

This cup needs a pretty strong saucer though

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"Well I've not done too bad so far so yeah we can

I think a lot of success on here is down to attitude more than looks.

I actually like unique looking men a lot more than conventionally good looking men. But a guy who comes across as defeatist and cynical aint going to warm my cockles at all!

I just see it as beauty is in the eye of the beholder.

I don't see myself as anything special! I'm just me but to someone else I might be good looking and to someone else I could be what they'd class as ugly.

But yes I agree, I find someone's personality and attitude more of an appeal. "

I mean, if we take it to its logical conclusion, in the celeb world there's some right munters married to hot women (so what attracted you to the millionaire Paul Daniels? ), and the pressure to look good does tend to rest more on women than men. However I am sure that confidence can help a lot towards attracting the ladies. After all, we're not all stunnahs or models either.

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By *othingbetterthansexCouple
over a year ago

Accrington

A good sense of humour, pleasant demeanour and a dose of self worth and you'll be fine

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well I've not done too bad so far so yeah we can

I think a lot of success on here is down to attitude more than looks.

I actually like unique looking men a lot more than conventionally good looking men. But a guy who comes across as defeatist and cynical aint going to warm my cockles at all!

I just see it as beauty is in the eye of the beholder.

I don't see myself as anything special! I'm just me but to someone else I might be good looking and to someone else I could be what they'd class as ugly.

But yes I agree, I find someone's personality and attitude more of an appeal.

I mean, if we take it to its logical conclusion, in the celeb world there's some right munters married to hot women (so what attracted you to the millionaire Paul Daniels? ), and the pressure to look good does tend to rest more on women than men. However I am sure that confidence can help a lot towards attracting the ladies. After all, we're not all stunnahs or models either. "

Yes I agree..... So when we meeting up to discuss this issue further obviously

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have met 2 or 3 ladies on here that just started with chatting then texting. By time we decided to swap pics i knew i was going to meet them no matter what they looked like because we got on so well xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Its no different than a pub.ugly men aint going pull the stunbers.In my time I have meet some men maybe not the best looking but had the gift of the gab and had woman and lovely fab woman all over them . why I say looks only a small part ... as I have come across more then one like this in my time .. just have something that shines ,"

cum on me anytime...on my face...so it shines

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ugly is too subjective to quantify but bearing in mind a lot of women prefer personality over looks and they can turn theblight out anyway, I'd say yeah.

Besides which, I've seen several GODAWFUL Montrous zombies on here, all with several happy veris. "

Have you been looking at my profile?

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"...well unless she's the bar maid "

Pmsl that was a good one

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"Well I've not done too bad so far so yeah we can

I think a lot of success on here is down to attitude more than looks.

I actually like unique looking men a lot more than conventionally good looking men. But a guy who comes across as defeatist and cynical aint going to warm my cockles at all!

I just see it as beauty is in the eye of the beholder.

I don't see myself as anything special! I'm just me but to someone else I might be good looking and to someone else I could be what they'd class as ugly.

But yes I agree, I find someone's personality and attitude more of an appeal.

I mean, if we take it to its logical conclusion, in the celeb world there's some right munters married to hot women (so what attracted you to the millionaire Paul Daniels? ), and the pressure to look good does tend to rest more on women than men. However I am sure that confidence can help a lot towards attracting the ladies. After all, we're not all stunnahs or models either.

Yes I agree..... So when we meeting up to discuss this issue further obviously "

I'm at the Fab Forum social next weekend? You going?

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"Ugly is too subjective to quantify but bearing in mind a lot of women prefer personality over looks and they can turn theblight out anyway, I'd say yeah.

Besides which, I've seen several GODAWFUL Montrous zombies on here, all with several happy veris.

Have you been looking at my profile? :-

D"

Nope!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If beauty is skin deep . I need turning inside out x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well I've not done too bad so far so yeah we can

I think a lot of success on here is down to attitude more than looks.

I actually like unique looking men a lot more than conventionally good looking men. But a guy who comes across as defeatist and cynical aint going to warm my cockles at all!

I just see it as beauty is in the eye of the beholder.

I don't see myself as anything special! I'm just me but to someone else I might be good looking and to someone else I could be what they'd class as ugly.

But yes I agree, I find someone's personality and attitude more of an appeal.

I mean, if we take it to its logical conclusion, in the celeb world there's some right munters married to hot women (so what attracted you to the millionaire Paul Daniels? ), and the pressure to look good does tend to rest more on women than men. However I am sure that confidence can help a lot towards attracting the ladies. After all, we're not all stunnahs or models either.

Yes I agree..... So when we meeting up to discuss this issue further obviously

I'm at the Fab Forum social next weekend? You going?"

You mean Cupids??

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"Well I've not done too bad so far so yeah we can

I think a lot of success on here is down to attitude more than looks.

I actually like unique looking men a lot more than conventionally good looking men. But a guy who comes across as defeatist and cynical aint going to warm my cockles at all!

I just see it as beauty is in the eye of the beholder.

I don't see myself as anything special! I'm just me but to someone else I might be good looking and to someone else I could be what they'd class as ugly.

But yes I agree, I find someone's personality and attitude more of an appeal.

I mean, if we take it to its logical conclusion, in the celeb world there's some right munters married to hot women (so what attracted you to the millionaire Paul Daniels? ), and the pressure to look good does tend to rest more on women than men. However I am sure that confidence can help a lot towards attracting the ladies. After all, we're not all stunnahs or models either.

Yes I agree..... So when we meeting up to discuss this issue further obviously

I'm at the Fab Forum social next weekend? You going?

You mean Cupids?? "

Yep.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well I've not done too bad so far so yeah we can

I think a lot of success on here is down to attitude more than looks.

I actually like unique looking men a lot more than conventionally good looking men. But a guy who comes across as defeatist and cynical aint going to warm my cockles at all!

I just see it as beauty is in the eye of the beholder.

I don't see myself as anything special! I'm just me but to someone else I might be good looking and to someone else I could be what they'd class as ugly.

But yes I agree, I find someone's personality and attitude more of an appeal.

I mean, if we take it to its logical conclusion, in the celeb world there's some right munters married to hot women (so what attracted you to the millionaire Paul Daniels? ), and the pressure to look good does tend to rest more on women than men. However I am sure that confidence can help a lot towards attracting the ladies. After all, we're not all stunnahs or models either.

Yes I agree..... So when we meeting up to discuss this issue further obviously

I'm at the Fab Forum social next weekend? You going?

You mean Cupids??

Yep."

Yep I'll be there

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"I'm at the Fab Forum social next weekend? You going?

You mean Cupids??

Yep.

Yep I'll be there "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm at the Fab Forum social next weekend? You going?

You mean Cupids??

Yep.

Yep I'll be there

"

I'll be looking forward to it

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By *am123Man
over a year ago

essex chelmsford


"x"
dont know have you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Even the Elephant Man managed to get dates. Nice guy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No one is ugly. They just don't appeal to everyone.

I have limited appeal but have met some lovely people on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Only ugly personalities will have a problem"

This ^^^

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville

It seems so.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Beauty is in the eye of the beholder....i dont even know what the fuck that means lol x

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville


"Beauty is in the eye of the beholder....i dont even know what the fuck that means lol x

"
It means you have something in your eye.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Question is - pull what exactly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"One womans ugly is another womans hot, hot, HOT! "

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville


"Question is - pull what exactly "
My finger.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Question is - pull what exactly My finger..... "

Which one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Anyone can potentially pull on here.

It's the same as in the real world. If you have problems attracting playmates away from fabs then you to get your *ish together before you start to think you can "pull" on here.

A man with self confidence, no matter what physical characteristic he possesses, will attract people he wants to meet.

Silk

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pull ?

I know there's a lot of tugging going on .....

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By *eareenaCouple
over a year ago

Rockford


"Only ugly personalities will have a problem"

yes this

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By *ll-Knight-longMan
over a year ago

Derby/Notts(Long Eaton)


"There's a cup for every saucer !!

Beauty is in the eye of the beholder and just because you think your cup is chipped.. Someone with a chipped saucer might think you go together perfectly

This cup needs a pretty strong saucer though"

But what about mugs....they don't need saucers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hell I'm used to being called ugly and know that I won't pull....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im no oil painting and cant diss people's looks, wouldnt anyway. Nice guys come first for me. Yeah we all want a stunner be it a man or a woman, but in the end connection and ability to make me laugh is important

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By *eareenaCouple
over a year ago

Rockford


"Im no oil painting and cant diss people's looks, wouldnt anyway. Nice guys come first for me. Yeah we all want a stunner be it a man or a woman, but in the end connection and ability to make me laugh is important "

yes so agree

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Im no oil painting and cant diss people's looks, wouldnt anyway. Nice guys come first for me. Yeah we all want a stunner be it a man or a woman, but in the end connection and ability to make me laugh is important "
I can make you laugh hun if that helps

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

nope

you have to be female to be a minger and pull on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its not about pulling, you do that out on the town, its about swinging, if you are what people are looking for and vice versa then maybe you will meet if you/they arent compatible then you wont.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

'Ugly' reminds me of school years... people should grow out of it. What if you don't physically look acceptable? Those who judge clearly have an issue. I can't seem to put how I feel to words, as it's soo silly.

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