FabSwingers.com forum: Would you agree ??

By *riskygaz OP Man
over a year ago

birmingham

I often wonder what a guy gets out of having another guy shag his wife, if the other guy is bringing his partner then all is clear, you both get to shag someone new

but when it is just a threesome, I cant help thinking the guy weather he has said it or not must be bi, or bi curious, and is using the meet to get close to a naked man, and maybe see if something ends up happening between the two guys. What do you think am I right, or just got a suspicious mind lol ???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

a narrow mind perhaps

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Or the guy just gets off on watching his wife get fucked by another man

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By *hoosy_strumpetCouple
over a year ago

W S AREA

Why MUST he be bi or bi curious?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Or the guy just gets off on watching his wife get fucked by another man "

this - my fella does

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I often wonder what a guy gets out of having another guy shag his wife, if the other guy is bringing his partner then all is clear, you both get to shag someone new

when I read that I looked at your profile and was honestly shocked to see you are 48, I thought you was going to be 18 ish

I apologise to all the young guys on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Apology accepted and i fow 1used to love watching my ex wife getting shagged by others all the pleasure none of the work

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

couldnt agree less, my man is not a bit bi, he likes what he calls "live porn" and its starring the person he loves most in the world ...me!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

weather he has said it or not must be bi, or bi curious, and is using the meet to get close to a naked man

AND YOU DONT LOOK AT OTHER MENS PROFILES WAKE UP AND SMELL THE COFFEE

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is hilarious! So if you watch porn you must be bi unless it's purely lesbian porn. Get a grip.

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By *taffsfella1Man
over a year ago

Newcastle-under-Lyme

What about guys who sit in another room while their partner's are playing? Are they bi-curious too?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Him likes to watch me have fun, its what he gets off on, I'm the star of the show not the other guy!!

Her

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I suspect this question comes from someone who assumes that all female partners will only fuck a real man and that the male partner isn't a real man.

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By *urvywelshCouple
over a year ago

Everywhere and nowhere baby

"couldnt agree less, my man is not a bit bi, he likes what he calls "live porn" and its starring the person he loves most in the world ...me!"

Ditto. And he loves to take pics/ videos x

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple
over a year ago

in Lancashire

"I suspect this question comes from someone who assumes that all female partners will only fuck a real man and that the male partner isn't a real man. "

and has never been in a three or more some were other ahem men are nekkid..

and if so, did tell everyone 'am not bi you know'..

methink the OP doth ponder too much on the bi thing..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Last time another man fucked my missus ( at least that i was aware of ) i left em too it and took his Labrador for a waddle.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have no idea where you have got that idea from op.

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By *ust_for_laughsCouple
over a year ago

Hinckley

"I suspect this question comes from someone who assumes that all female partners will only fuck a real man and that the male partner isn't a real man. "

Got it in a nutshell ! And the male partner also wants to fuck the real man !

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By *thwalescplCouple
over a year ago

brecon

Hmmmmm..... where to start?

"I often wonder what a guy gets out of having another guy shag his wife..."

I love watching Jayne having fun, be that with one or more guys, or girls, but it isn't my choice, its hers.

"...if the other guy is bringing his partner then all is clear, you both get to shag someone new..."

Not necessarily, surely the other couple have a choice too?

"...but when it is just a threesome, I cant help thinking the guy weather he has said it or not must be bi, or bi curious, and is using the meet to get close to a naked man, and maybe see if something ends up happening between the two guys."

Maybe that's how you think, and are looking for some form of justification?

"What do you think am I right, or just got a suspicious mind lol ???"

I think you are so far in the closet you need a passport to get out of Narnia!

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey

Would you agree?

No!

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By *livia_KWoman
over a year ago

South London

I have threesomes with two men, and believe me NONE of them were bi. I wouldn't have had a problem if they were mind. But couldn't they just see it as 'live porn' or something and just get off on that?

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By *nnyMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

"I often wonder what a guy gets out of having another guy shag his wife, ..................."

It's a control thing.

I'm not saying it's about the guy having control over his wife (or girlfriend or FWB or ......) but control over the situation and whether or not the other guy gets a shag.

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By *atisfy janeWoman
over a year ago

Torquay

"I often wonder what a guy gets out of having another guy shag his wife, ...................

It's a control thing.

I'm not saying it's about the guy having control over his wife (or girlfriend or FWB or ......) but control over the situation and whether or not the other guy gets a shag."

Or....total lack of control in some circumstances

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey

[Removed by poster at 17/07/13 19:13:09]

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey

"I often wonder what a guy gets out of having another guy shag his wife, ...................

It's a control thing.

I'm not saying it's about the guy having control over his wife (or girlfriend or FWB or ......) but control over the situation and whether or not the other guy gets a shag."

No for us it's not....

Some people just enjoy watching their partners with other people (male or female)

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

"I often wonder what a guy gets out of having another guy shag his wife, if the other guy is bringing his partner then all is clear, you both get to shag someone new

if that is the attitude you take into meets... I know a lot of people wouldn't give you the time of day...

it is as if there is a lack of understanding as to what couples get out of swinging,

it isn't normally a case of replacing something that isn't there... but a case of enhancing on what they have.....

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By *stmateMan
over a year ago

Notts

I'm pretty sure if the hubby wanted to play with maracas he would say so. Most folk just enjoy watching their wife get pleasured. The question u should be asking is how would he react if it was a case of premature ejaculation. Lol

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By *nnyMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

"I often wonder what a guy gets out of having another guy shag his wife, ...................

It's a control thing.

I'm not saying it's about the guy having control over his wife (or girlfriend or FWB or ......) but control over the situation and whether or not the other guy gets a shag.

No for us it's not....

Some people just enjoy watching their partners with other people (male or female)

I hope this isn't against the rules and apologise if it is, but I'd be interested to know whether the male or female of the couple gave the above answer.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Quite a narrow minded opinion... But each to their own!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I thought the OP would be about 18 too, but being the age he is, well I can only say 'oh dear' .....

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By *ust_for_laughsCouple
over a year ago

Hinckley

"I often wonder what a guy gets out of having another guy shag his wife, if the other guy is bringing his partner then all is clear, you both get to shag someone new

if that is the attitude you take into meets... I know a lot of people wouldn't give you the time of day...

it is as if there is a lack of understanding as to what couples get out of swinging,

it isn't normally a case of replacing something that isn't there... but a case of enhancing on what they have....."

Precisely ! Guys that come along with the attitude that they're doing us a favour, get very sorry shrift !

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By *nnyMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

"Quite a narrow minded opinion... But each to their own!"

Whose?

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By *andWCouple
over a year ago

Pontypridd

I would just like to take this moment to say goodbye to everyone, clearly Scott has been lying to me for years, I see now he is bi, not just 'loving watching me with somebody else'

dramatic hair flick and exit stage left...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Or perhaps we are just more secure about our sexuality and know being naked in front of another man doesn't mean we have to have sex with them or even want to.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bless the complete ignorance of some people on here

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville

"I often wonder what a guy gets out of having another guy shag his wife, if the other guy is bringing his partner then all is clear, you both get to shag someone new

I'm lost for words.........

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I would just like to take this moment to say goodbye to everyone, clearly Scott has been lying to me for years, I see now he is bi, not just 'loving watching me with somebody else'

dramatic hair flick and exit stage left..."

PMSL!!! Brilliant!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thanks op I needed a good giggle

No I don't agree.

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By *irtycpl7980Couple
over a year ago

Northumberland

Im not BI or BI curious and love seeing Lucy being fucked hard. Its dirty and fun. Think it may be YOU that is slightly confused by your sexuality. Are you saying that YOU would be turned on by another man if he was there? or that you would want to touch??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nah OP, I think its just because they fancy a night off - you know maybe there's a good pub quiz on, or the football or something. Perhaps its a chance to get round to doing a few of the jobs she's been asking you to do?

The power of delegation....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP..

I think u need educating in psychosexual interests, technically someone shouldnt get turned on from sniffing knickers..let alone actually be aroused.

have u even grasped the aspect of enjoying seeing a partner being fucked?

and at the end of it, who normally gets to be with their partner for the actual love side of things??..its certainly not me is it?

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By *easing_twoCouple
over a year ago

Bristol, Thornbury

Im not saying much as I got a ban for 5 days last time.

This is the most narrow minded ridiculous post i have ever seen.

You need to look at why you are here if you feel like this. Are you sure you are not bi and trying to get a reaction or just trying to cause arguments or trouble

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I often wonder what a guy gets out of having another guy shag his wife, if the other guy is bringing his partner then all is clear, you both get to shag someone new

Omg I have "read" it all now

every single bloke I have ever met is desperate to get in my OH's boxers not my pants... Where have I gone wrong???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I would just like to take this moment to say goodbye to everyone, clearly Scott has been lying to me for years, I see now he is bi, not just 'loving watching me with somebody else'

dramatic hair flick and exit stage left..."

Ha beat us to it. Yes the OP has outed me, we have met single guys because I want to see their nudey pee-pees.

Great thread.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

most of the male contact I have is during spitroasting sessions and highfiving

I came when our palms touched

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

julie_the_wonder

we would both bang the fuck out off you xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"julie_the_wonder

we would both bang the fuck out off you xx"

shes waiting for me appartently get in line...or join in

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"julie_the_wonder

we would both bang the fuck out off you xx"

Now does that make you both lesbians?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"julie_the_wonder

we would both bang the fuck out off you xx

shes waiting for me appartently get in line...or join in"

You must be bi then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I often wonder what a guy gets out of having another guy shag his wife, if the other guy is bringing his partner then all is clear, you both get to shag someone new

You either haven't put much thought into your post, or you really don't understand the dynamics of couples swinging, you couldn't be any further away from why most couples meet single men!

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By *andWCouple
over a year ago

Pontypridd

"I would just like to take this moment to say goodbye to everyone, clearly Scott has been lying to me for years, I see now he is bi, not just 'loving watching me with somebody else'

dramatic hair flick and exit stage left...

PMSL!!! Brilliant!

Why thankyou! And...bow! Ha I've come over all theatrical this evening x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I would just like to take this moment to say goodbye to everyone, clearly Scott has been lying to me for years, I see now he is bi, not just 'loving watching me with somebody else'

dramatic hair flick and exit stage left...

PMSL!!! Brilliant!

Why thankyou! And...bow! Ha I've come over all theatrical this evening x"

keep bowing...am close behind..tho scott appears to be watching my bum a bit

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By *andWCouple
over a year ago

Pontypridd

"I would just like to take this moment to say goodbye to everyone, clearly Scott has been lying to me for years, I see now he is bi, not just 'loving watching me with somebody else'

dramatic hair flick and exit stage left...

PMSL!!! Brilliant!

Why thankyou! And...bow! Ha I've come over all theatrical this evening x

keep bowing...am close behind..tho scott appears to be watching my bum a bit"

Honestly watch him! I'm now very concerned! If he messages you asking to meet on Thursdays then run I have work!!

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By *andWCouple
over a year ago

Pontypridd

[Removed by poster at 18/07/13 00:22:29]

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey

"I often wonder what a guy gets out of having another guy shag his wife, ...................

It's a control thing.

I'm not saying it's about the guy having control over his wife (or girlfriend or FWB or ......) but control over the situation and whether or not the other guy gets a shag.

No for us it's not....

Some people just enjoy watching their partners with other people (male or female)

I hope this isn't against the rules and apologise if it is, but I'd be interested to know whether the male or female of the couple gave the above answer."

Female

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By *teveanddebsCouple
over a year ago

Norwich

"Why MUST he be bi or bi curious?"

Wishful thinking on the OPs part?

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