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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Trust is an important issue when it comes to certain things you would like to try out every once in awhile, so would you let anyone you didn't know into your fantasy's.

I personally wouldn't but then I do have some friends I trust completely...

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville

Hell no!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No personally I wouldn't

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No and I wouldn't think there's many that would ....but might be wrong xx

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

No and I just delete the messages trying to sell me their fantasy meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope and sometimes the reality is so not like the fantasy so some things for me although i like the idea i will never take it to reality.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Trust is an important issue when it comes to certain things you would like to try out every once in awhile, so would you let anyone you didn't know into your fantasy's.

I personally wouldn't but then I do have some friends I trust completely... "

I think maybe I have used fantasy in the wrong context what I meant to say really was if you wanted to try a bit of whipping or something along with those lines would you let a stranger do it..

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

No I wouldn't, you have to know someone to do certain acts then the world is your oyster plus I would assume if they wanted to do something with me the first time they would with others so would loose its meaning

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There's only one person I trust to do anything like that with. I knew very early on I could trust him and I was right. I'm very lucky.

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

Never, and I'd think someone a nut and not meet them if they wanted me to fulfil their fantasies from the off!

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"No and I wouldn't think there's many that would ....but might be wrong xx"

Oh you'd be surprised!

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"No and I just delete the messages trying to sell me their fantasy meet."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Trust takes time to build and in my eyes isn't given away easily so when you do find a playmate whom you learn to trust then it adds more fun to the meets.

I've found someone I trust and boundaries are getting bulldozed and I'm enjoying every minute but by no means would I meet with someone I don't know let alone trust and live out my fantasies or theirs

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

I am not a trusting person in fact it's the hardest thing to do for me...I suppose its down to being shit on from great heights. However hell no i would not act out my fantasy with a stranger

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im too trusting - my feelings and emotions have been bashed on here before now. My own fault really. Re fantasies - dont have any but if I did it would have to be a longterm friend and total trust before I tell anything

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Trust is an important issue when it comes to certain things you would like to try out every once in awhile, so would you let anyone you didn't know into your fantasy's.

I personally wouldn't but then I do have some friends I trust completely...

I think maybe I have used fantasy in the wrong context what I meant to say really was if you wanted to try a bit of whipping or something along with those lines would you let a stranger do it.."
Nope

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" Trust takes time to build and in my eyes isn't given away easily so when you do find a playmate whom you learn to trust then it adds more fun to the meets."

^^^ this.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

But isn't that a big part of swinging?

You meet total strangers to live out your fantasies?

I fantasised about a FFM.

I fantasize about a MMF and someone recommended a club. I won't know them.. But to live out my fantasy, I will have to trust them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All the "Hell No's"

and "No Way!"

"No Chance"

Statements I'm seeing in this thread makes me think some of you must have some pretty deep fantasies!

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By *eareenaCouple
over a year ago

Rockford

Some involve strangers some are best left as fantasy and some will probably never happen because they require a person I think I shall never find.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I trust no-one!

So makes things harder for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I trust no-one!

So makes things harder for me "

And that's why I've never done the MMF

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I trust no-one!

So makes things harder for me "

Me too. My paranoia knows no bounds.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Trust is extremely important, I couldn't do just anything with a stranger

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By *irtyDee33Woman
over a year ago

South Yorkshire

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By *irtyDee33Woman
over a year ago

South Yorkshire

No definitely would have to trust someone completely!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I trust no-one!

So makes things harder for me

Me too. My paranoia knows no bounds. "

The Germans are coming!

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By *un_JuiceCouple
over a year ago

Nr Chester


"But isn't that a big part of swinging?

You meet total strangers to live out your fantasies?

I fantasised about a FFM.

I fantasize about a MMF and someone recommended a club. I won't know them.. But to live out my fantasy, I will have to trust them. "

That's what I was thinking tbh, all ideas and scenarios so far have been on the back of swinging so a 8 year friendship, two holidays, being the godparents of each isn't really realistic is it ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well that's how we came to be here!

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"But isn't that a big part of swinging?

You meet total strangers to live out your fantasies?

I fantasised about a FFM.

I fantasize about a MMF and someone recommended a club. I won't know them.. But to live out my fantasy, I will have to trust them. "

I think indulging in a MFM in a club is different to allowing a stranger to blindfold, handcuff and gag you to your bed!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"But isn't that a big part of swinging?

You meet total strangers to live out your fantasies?

I fantasised about a FFM.

I fantasize about a MMF and someone recommended a club. I won't know them.. But to live out my fantasy, I will have to trust them.

I think indulging in a MFM in a club is different to allowing a stranger to blindfold, handcuff and gag you to your bed! "

There are fetish/swinging clubs too. And I can't see where the OP mentioned anything about blinfolds or handcuffs

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By *renchbambi xWoman
over a year ago

Need to know basis

Regardless of what happens during the meet everytime you meet someone new and play/have sex with them, you are putting trust into them. So I really do not understand where all the 'Nos' come from?

Are you all having vamilla sex? I am not judging so please don't bite my head off, I am just quite surprised...isn't that what swinging is about? Meeting strangers and have sex with them to fulfill a fantasy, that fantasy being the appeal of the unknown?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Regardless of what happens during the meet everytime you meet someone new and play/have sex with them, you are putting trust into them. So I really do not understand where all the 'Nos' come from?

Are you all having vanilla sex? I am not judging so please don't bite my head off, I am just quite surprised...isn't that what swinging is about? Meeting strangers and have sex with them to fulfil a fantasy, that fantasy being the appeal of the unknown?"

I agree.. But vanilla sex or not.. A fantasy can be absolutely anything. Not just kink

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