FabSwingers.com forum: why do people dislike single guys ??

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

hey peoples I am new to the whole swinging thing and to this site but most people I have mailed seem apprehensive because I am a single male any thoughts.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Paranoia maybe

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like single guys. That's who I'm here for

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What does the "s" stand for?

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By *lentyoffun40Couple
over a year ago

Lancashire

Pretend your a couple

Like a lot of numpties on here lol

Only joking!

Best advice. Write a clear profile with a bit about you as a person and not just your sexual desires

Have some pics other than just a cock

Send a face pic when mailing a couple

If you don't get a reply

Take it as your not what they are looking for . Move on and don't resort to sulking or slagging people off

Take time to chat in the forums let people get to know you

Be honest with yourself and others and most of all just be yourself

It make take a while to get up and running but once you are verified it will become a bit less of a hassle for you

Good luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They dont

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People don't dislike single guys. The amount of dudes on here compared to the amount of women is insane. The ladies/couples can pick and choose.

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By *lentyoffun40Couple
over a year ago

Lancashire

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thanx community ill give it a go

. Nd the s is just cuz I like writing peoples

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personally I LUV single guys

well some of them anyway

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville

I love single males, most are great, I think a small minority spoil it for the majority, although I do think the same of single females, I hear more horror stories from my single male friends than I ever have from single females.

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By *lentyoffun40Couple
over a year ago

Lancashire

"Thanx community ill give it a go

. Nd the s is just cuz I like writing peoples "

Next piece of advice

A lot of people can't stand the "text speak"

Better sticking to the queens English !!

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By *atisfy janeWoman
over a year ago

Torquay

People don't hate single males....but that doesn't mean that they have to reply to every message they get from single males though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I prefer single guys, especially if they can accommodate xxx

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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge

Bit of a sweeping statement. Some people. due to bad experiences, may have been put off single guys, but there are plenty of us who are actively looking for them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I adore single guys

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Bit of a sweeping statement. Some people. due to bad experiences, may have been put off single guys, but there are plenty of us who are actively looking for them."

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By *unky monkeyMan
over a year ago

in the night garden

Yobro! I can see you are new to this scene as you have posted this thread on the wrong day! U IS MAD BRO LOLZ

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm only looking for single males x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm only looking for single males x"
god why you so far away

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love single guys!!! xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm only looking for single males xgod why you so far away"

I'm not ..but you are lol xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm only looking for single males xgod why you so far away

I'm not ..but you are lol xx"
i am yes had a grey moment x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"hey peoples I am new to the whole swinging thing and to this site but most people I have mailed seem apprehensive because I am a single male any thoughts.

If you've mailed them I assume that their profile says they're looking for single men so why would they then be apprehensive about you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"hey peoples I am new to the whole swinging thing and to this site but most people I have mailed seem apprehensive because I am a single male any thoughts.

My thoughts - most of the single fems on here are looking for single guys, especially the ones who actually meet. A good percentage of the couples on here are looking for single guys.

If you come across people who are apprehensive, wish them well and move on. If they don't want single guys they probably have them blocked on their filters.

If they don't want you, don't waste time wandering why. Good luck.

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By *otlovefun42Couple
over a year ago

Costa Blanca Spain...

"Thanx community ill give it a go

. Nd the s is just cuz I like writing peoples

Next piece of advice

A lot of people can't stand the "text speak"

Better sticking to the queens English !! "

We love meeting single guys and we have met some really nice ones and some first class fucking idiots.

Therefore we no longer do personal meets but will happily arrange to meet when we are visiting a club.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Paranoia maybe

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Would be best going to those socials/clubs and get known.

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

I only meet single men: those that are older than my underwear and who take the effort to write a decent profile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Speak for yourself mate

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We like you guys xx

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

"hey peoples I am new to the whole swinging thing and to this site but most people I have mailed seem apprehensive because I am a single male any thoughts.

people aren't apprehensive about all single guys. If you feel this is the case for you I'd suggest two things, expnad your profile a bit and hide that verification from a person who says they "let" you fuck their fb, that in itself woudl make me very apprehensive. Otherwise I can see no reason why you should have any problems

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I only meet single guys, although I know some of em have been lying bastards... lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP: "People dislike single guys" is a bit of a sweeping statement. Some couples/ladies won't meet single guys at all, but very many will. And some single guys will never be popular, because they're not going about it the right way.

Bearing in mind single guys vastly outnumber the demand for single guys, it's important to make the right approach.

Firstly, you need to have the right profile. This should describe you, what you're looking for, and most importantly, what you think you have to offer (other than a penis!). Try to convey your personality and sense of humour. An ideal set of photos would include a good clear face-pic, a full body shot, and a teasing torso or bum pic. Keep cock-shots in private or friends only.

Secondly, you need to choose the right people to approach. Read their profile very carefully, and make sure you match at least 95% of what they're looking for. Check that they are looking for single guys, as some people don't use their filters.

Thirdly, take time to write an individual message for each profile you want to approach (we can spot copy + paste a mile away!). If you're approaching a couple, make sure to talk to both of them. Make sure your message covers why you find them attractive (it's best if you can refer to their profile text, not just their pictures). Most importantly, explain why you think they should choose you, out of the mass of messages they will have in their inbox.

Attach your face pic, or teasing body pic.

Send, and forget about it. If you get a response, that's great. If you don't get a response, don't pester them.

Good luck, and happy swinging!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I only meet single men: those that are older than my underwear...... "

Errrrr.... May one enquire as to the antiquity of your underwear....???

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By *un_JuiceCouple
over a year ago

Nr Chester

Welcome Jimmey, some good points made here for you to consider. Might be a good idea early on to keep abreast of social get togethers too.

We all have our own preferences on here and like everyone else respect those that do look to meet, those that don't.

Be patient, take any ignorance or lack of replies with a pinch of salt. Keep smiling homie.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lots of people are only here for single guys, your age will work against you for some, but the biggest drawbacks we can see is your impatience, 4 weeks is not much time to make an impression) and the 20 word profile, doesn't really sell you in a buyers market.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A lot of people are on here because they like recreational sex and enjoy putting their fantasies into reality. This might not involve single guys, but thank the stars for the lovely women and couples who do...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't dislike single guys just not what we are looking for

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thank you everyone I will take all the advice into.consideration

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