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" Now sadly, it seems they also come with an optional 'Scoreboard' facility, which is sure to generate more negatives than positives for some people. " This and it has become a stalkers paradise! | |||
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"With the new addition to the verification system... I'm curious, do people not favour discretion any more or is that part of old school swinging times? " You know what.. I don't publish mine. Sure I'll leave em for others. I don't ask for em either. The people I've met know I've met em..let's just say that. Dick waving aint my thing. Like a meet saturday night I had. She asked me why I don't publish em. I said. .it makes me look easy..and I aint. | |||
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"Sorry I really didn't answer the op. I know we're all here for the same reason but I still like a little discretion. " That's cool... I like a varied discussion! I notice some people are suggesting the new system shouldn't be opt out. I'm not sure why people insist on relying on other people's opinions as to who they're going to have sex with. It makes me chuckle cause I just don't get it. Why would you eat marmite just because Mr Jones down the road is eating marmite? You'd surely decide for yourself if you liked marmite rather than taking his word for it right? | |||
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"Sorry I really didn't answer the op. I know we're all here for the same reason but I still like a little discretion. That's cool... I like a varied discussion! I notice some people are suggesting the new system shouldn't be opt out. I'm not sure why people insist on relying on other people's opinions as to who they're going to have sex with. It makes me chuckle cause I just don't get it. Why would you eat marmite just because Mr Jones down the road is eating marmite? You'd surely decide for yourself if you liked marmite rather than taking his word for it right? " I agree 100% with you, however looking through people's profiles, some have clearly stated, that they will only meet people that are verified. Guess you can't win. | |||
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"Sorry I really didn't answer the op. I know we're all here for the same reason but I still like a little discretion. That's cool... I like a varied discussion! I notice some people are suggesting the new system shouldn't be opt out. I'm not sure why people insist on relying on other people's opinions as to who they're going to have sex with. It makes me chuckle cause I just don't get it. Why would you eat marmite just because Mr Jones down the road is eating marmite? You'd surely decide for yourself if you liked marmite rather than taking his word for it right? " | |||
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"I don't give much information away, and when I do it's usually contradictary. (is that a word?!) I like discreet people. I don't like people knowing my business and asking what I'm up to. ." Wot he said. Discretion is much more fun and have always felt a bit odd on the few times people have been less than discreet about an encounter | |||
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"I don't give much information away, and when I do it's usually contradictary. (is that a word?!) I like discreet people. I don't like people knowing my business and asking what I'm up to. We have veri's displayed on our couple profile but I never do on mine. I leave veri's for other people and I can tell when people have found me from reading those veri's. It's quite amusing." so what are you up to now??? | |||
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"I don't give much information away, and when I do it's usually contradictary. (is that a word?!) I like discreet people. I don't like people knowing my business and asking what I'm up to. We have veri's displayed on our couple profile but I never do on mine. I leave veri's for other people and I can tell when people have found me from reading those veri's. It's quite amusing. so what are you up to now??? " Yeah go on tell us you know you wanna | |||
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"I don't give much information away, and when I do it's usually contradictary. (is that a word?!) I like discreet people. I don't like people knowing my business and asking what I'm up to. We have veri's displayed on our couple profile but I never do on mine. I leave veri's for other people and I can tell when people have found me from reading those veri's. It's quite amusing. so what are you up to now??? Yeah go on tell us you know you wanna " I am reading this thread and scratching my bollocks. | |||
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"I don't give much information away, and when I do it's usually contradictary. (is that a word?!) I like discreet people. I don't like people knowing my business and asking what I'm up to. We have veri's displayed on our couple profile but I never do on mine. I leave veri's for other people and I can tell when people have found me from reading those veri's. It's quite amusing. so what are you up to now??? Yeah go on tell us you know you wanna I am reading this thread and scratching my bollocks. " Ahh maybe you can help out then, which one hangs lower please | |||
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"I think discretion along with bonafide respect has dissipated in the swinging scene over the last few years, which is sad. " That's exactly what I think. I read a post elsewhere about the same topic and someone said that the scene hasn't changed, the people have. I wonder if its because its so much more mainstream now. It appears to be much more socially acceptable, less taboo and people are less concerned about being found out. I think I liked the old days better when discretion was valued, verifications were gut instincts and not everyone needs to know every detail. The admin post on the new verification summary made my eyes pop out that people think it's okay to take recommendations from other Fab users. Recommendations? Like you're a book worth a read? FFS! If I caught someone discussing me in such a way there's no danger they'd get anywhere near me. | |||
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"I think discretion along with bonafide respect has dissipated in the swinging scene over the last few years, which is sad. " I'm proud to be old skool! | |||
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"I think discretion along with bonafide respect has dissipated in the swinging scene over the last few years, which is sad. I'm proud to be old skool! " Does 2006 count as old skool?! If yes, I'm with you. If no, I'm gatecrashing! | |||
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