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By *isscheekychops OP   Woman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

Do you find it easy to bite your tongue...when you really just want to say something but you know it Will just cause a headache...??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do you find it easy to bite your tongue...when you really just want to say something but you know it Will just cause a headache...?? "

Nope. Not anymore say what I mean, mean what I say and if people don't like it... Not my problem... Spent too long keeping quiet.... Plus I prefer biting other things

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sometimes depends on the situation and who with.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

do you mean on the forums?

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By *isscheekychops OP   Woman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

nope

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

most of the time i keep quiet, if its my husband then i always say what i think because i have known him since i was 17. sometimes i think people can tell what you are thinking by the way you look and the way you act.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, very

Always say how it is..that way you know the last man standing is a friend and not a two faced looser lol

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By *isscheekychops OP   Woman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon


"Yes, very

Always say how it is..that way you know the last man standing is a friend and not a two faced looser lol "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Think it all depends how strongly I feel about something. Some comments made on here piss me off so much I can't help but open my mouth, other times I think about what's annoyed my, and if it's their problem or mine. Sometimes it's not worth the public drama or the ban!

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By *isscheekychops OP   Woman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon


"Think it all depends how strongly I feel about something. Some comments made on here piss me off so much I can't help but open my mouth, other times I think about what's annoyed my, and if it's their problem or mine. Sometimes it's not worth the public drama or the ban! "

I think what you are saying is so true...if its their issue then I let it carry on being their issue and that is in an everyday context

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm pretty good at biting my tongue but. It really does depend on who it is and how strongly I feel

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im better at it these days than what i used to be.. however i find myself getting annoyed because then i feel like a fence sitter when if we all were in a pub type setting id have no issues with telling people a few things

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A lot of my aggravation comes from some people's characteristics rather than something they have said, so I've kinda accepted that it's just their way and if I don't like it then that's not their fault. If that makes sense

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

I prefer to sit on the fence, think of fluffy bunnies and happy things.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sometimes its better not to 'participate' in the problem

Walking away or ignoring it is good for that

Saying that if someone really boils my goat then I will say something - some topics Im passionate about

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I prefer to sit on the fence, think of fluffy bunnies and happy things. "

That certainly woke me up, I has to check the poster three times

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A lot of my aggravation comes from some people's characteristics rather than something they have said, so I've kinda accepted that it's just their way and if I don't like it then that's not their fault. If that makes sense"

makes total sense to me and i guess thats how i feel too. I create initial views and opinions on people and have kinda attempted to be open minded but most of the time i wish i could just switch off from viewing their posts as it just winds ME up..

I know its my issue.

BTW im sure folk feel the same about me, i dont claim to be perfect im just expressing how i feel

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I prefer to sit on the fence, think of fluffy bunnies and happy things. "

whilst singing the hills are alive with the sound of music in a white floaty dress with flowers in your hair? lol xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I prefer to sit on the fence, think of fluffy bunnies and happy things. "

Course ya do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I find it hard to bite my tongue....on here im getting better at it.

In real life i have to say if something is annoying me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

On here I've gotta shut it.

I've been ban hammered once for a good stretch.

In real life?...nope. I'll say it as it is.

If my middle finger gets a boner, it gets a boner. What can I say.

Piss me off and your having it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do you find it easy to bite your tongue...when you really just want to say something but you know it Will just cause a headache...?? "

Biting your tongue is life's little 'delete text before sending' editing time - what makes you the person you are is the ability to consider the consequences of an action. Watch Jeremy Kyle for examples of what life's like without that edit time

x

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By *isscheekychops OP   Woman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon


"Do you find it easy to bite your tongue...when you really just want to say something but you know it Will just cause a headache...??

Biting your tongue is life's little 'delete text before sending' editing time - what makes you the person you are is the ability to consider the consequences of an action. Watch Jeremy Kyle for examples of what life's like without that edit time

x "

lol so true

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I prefer to sit on the fence, think of fluffy bunnies and happy things. "

Hahah I bet you do

Me personally, yes but I think that's a skill I've learnt through work. Living in a corporate world where you're just a number you learn to stay quiet for job preservation. But of course there are times where it is appropriate to "kick off"!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do you find it easy to bite your tongue...when you really just want to say something but you know it Will just cause a headache...?? "

depends on what.. sometimes I can be great.. other times I can't help myself. I have a few people on here I am biting on tongue with... Only risk of a ban or worse stops me from saying anything xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"On here I've gotta shut it.

I've been ban hammered once for a good stretch.

In real life?...nope. I'll say it as it is.

If my middle finger gets a boner, it gets a boner. What can I say.

Piss me off and your having it."

Oh I love it when you get all aggressive

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lol at this thread ! Im constantly told by sam to not say what i really want lol, in real life im quite blatant but always in jest or sarcastic and never mean any offence.

I can say though not biting my tongue has got me in trouble a few times so now i tend to stay quiet unless im really emoted by something

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Oh I love it when you get all aggressive "

You talking to me bitch?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In my job I bite my tongue daily

I go out to many many houses where I see things I don't agree with but cant do anything about it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Silence is golden

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In real world I find it very hard to bite my tongue.. on here I am learning but it's not easy.

and I have at least two people that my tongue is ready to unleash Hell on currently.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"In real world I find it very hard to bite my tongue.. on here I am learning but it's not easy.

and I have at least two people that my tongue is ready to unleash Hell on currently. "

Bite that tongue young lady !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Oh I love it when you get all aggressive

You talking to me bitch? "

Did you just pull my hair as you said that?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"In my job I bite my tongue daily

I go out to many many houses where I see things I don't agree with but cant do anything about it"
Same here I can't afford to speak my mind at work so I find other ways to let off steam

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"In real world I find it very hard to bite my tongue.. on here I am learning but it's not easy.

and I have at least two people that my tongue is ready to unleash Hell on currently.

Bite that tongue young lady ! "

I'm doing my best.. but it's getting harder x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you feel the need to make a point about something theres always ways to put it across without making yourself look aggressive

All of this yeah I say what I like and if you don't like it then its your problem just seems completely uneccessary to me,if someone came at me with that attitude my response would be an immediately on the defensive fuck right off gobshite

But approaching something with a bit of tact and diplomacy tends to get a much better result and you've said how you feel

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Yes, very

Always say how it is..that way you know the last man standing is a friend and not a two faced looser lol "

I agree up to a point. There are situations where saying it how it is has no positive purpose and keeping quiet is the best option but a true friend will always tell the truth when needed.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If you feel the need to make a point about something theres always ways to put it across without making yourself look aggressive

All of this yeah I say what I like and if you don't like it then its your problem just seems completely uneccessary to me,if someone came at me with that attitude my response would be an immediately on the defensive fuck right off gobshite

But approaching something with a bit of tact and diplomacy tends to get a much better result and you've said how you feel "

what you said

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I spent years and years biting my tongue, but after years of getting things out into the open with certain help, I feel now that i can say what I want to anybody and even means that if my best friend turns to me and says "What do i look like" I tell her it is suitable or not.

When I was shopping for my wedding dress there was a lady in the shop, a little on the larger side who trying on a meringue of a dress the assistant was going "Oh you look beautiful, it fits you like a glove" As she went off to get the next dress for her to try. I had to say something " Hmmmm excuse me, can i be really honest with you, that dress does nothing for you at all" In my mind i was thinking that maybe that was a step to far, but she smiled at me and said "Thank you" between us we found one that suited her and at half the price as well......

So if you are ever shopping in Essex and someone taps you the shoulder in the dressing room, it could be me and I may not bit my tougne.... Ruby

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I spent years and years biting my tongue, but after years of getting things out into the open with certain help, I feel now that i can say what I want to anybody and even means that if my best friend turns to me and says "What do i look like" I tell her it is suitable or not.

When I was shopping for my wedding dress there was a lady in the shop, a little on the larger side who trying on a meringue of a dress the assistant was going "Oh you look beautiful, it fits you like a glove" As she went off to get the next dress for her to try. I had to say something " Hmmmm excuse me, can i be really honest with you, that dress does nothing for you at all" In my mind i was thinking that maybe that was a step to far, but she smiled at me and said "Thank you" between us we found one that suited her and at half the price as well......

So if you are ever shopping in Essex and someone taps you the shoulder in the dressing room, it could be me and I may not bit my tougne.... Ruby"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My sissy friend would love shopping with Ruby!!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i find biting my tongue is painful

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Oh I love it when you get all aggressive

You talking to me bitch?

Did you just pull my hair as you said that? "

Shut your fucking filthy mouth..your hijacking cheekies thread.

Jk.

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"I prefer to sit on the fence, think of fluffy bunnies and happy things.

That certainly woke me up, I has to check the poster three times "

What are you implying?!!

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"I prefer to sit on the fence, think of fluffy bunnies and happy things.

whilst singing the hills are alive with the sound of music in a white floaty dress with flowers in your hair? lol xx "

Oooh, you saw my YouTube!

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By *isscheekychops OP   Woman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon


"

Oh I love it when you get all aggressive

You talking to me bitch?

Did you just pull my hair as you said that?

Shut your fucking filthy mouth..your hijacking cheekies thread.

Jk.

"

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"I prefer to sit on the fence, think of fluffy bunnies and happy things.

Hahah I bet you do

Me personally, yes but I think that's a skill I've learnt through work. Living in a corporate world where you're just a number you learn to stay quiet for job preservation. But of course there are times where it is appropriate to "kick off"!!"

I work in an environment where I could tell the General Secretary to fuck off in front of witnesses and nothing said but pulled up and reprimanded for telling a gay member of my staff I liked the shirt he was wearing!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I prefer to sit on the fence, think of fluffy bunnies and happy things.

Hahah I bet you do

Me personally, yes but I think that's a skill I've learnt through work. Living in a corporate world where you're just a number you learn to stay quiet for job preservation. But of course there are times where it is appropriate to "kick off"!!

I work in an environment where I could tell the General Secretary to fuck off in front of witnesses and nothing said but pulled up and reprimanded for telling a gay member of my staff I liked the shirt he was wearing!!! "

Is that because you said something like " that pink Girly blouse really matches your handbag?"!!!

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By *isscheekychops OP   Woman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

The reason I ask is I am having issues at work plus a personal matter so thanks for the feedback...work one I can resolve the other i just don't like being taken for an idiot....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Oh I love it when you get all aggressive

You talking to me bitch?

Did you just pull my hair as you said that?

Shut your fucking filthy mouth..your hijacking cheekies thread.

Jk.

"

Sorry cheeky!

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By *isscheekychops OP   Woman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon


"

Oh I love it when you get all aggressive

You talking to me bitch?

Did you just pull my hair as you said that?

Shut your fucking filthy mouth..your hijacking cheekies thread.

Jk.

Sorry cheeky!

"
lol i aint bothered by it...it was more what Ben said

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Oh I love it when you get all aggressive

You talking to me bitch?

Did you just pull my hair as you said that?

Shut your fucking filthy mouth..your hijacking cheekies thread.

Jk.

Sorry cheeky!

lol i aint bothered by it...it was more what Ben said "

I like it

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By *eareenaCouple
over a year ago

Rockford


"I prefer to sit on the fence, think of fluffy bunnies and happy things. "

I recognise and appreciate your sarcasm Here but I actually do feel this way. .. better to move over the irritants.... having said that I did get a slap on the wrist For name calling recently... everyone has limits.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have bitten my tongue so hard at times it's bleed , other times I let rip

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By *isscheekychops OP   Woman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon


"

Oh I love it when you get all aggressive

You talking to me bitch?

Did you just pull my hair as you said that?

Shut your fucking filthy mouth..your hijacking cheekies thread.

Jk.

Sorry cheeky!

lol i aint bothered by it...it was more what Ben said

I like it "

then my dear that is all that matters

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do this all the time at work. Have said some things here in msgs sometimes, if people dont accept my polite no. I dont like saying stuff though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Peeps who know me well rely on me to say it as it is, straight to the point with no messing about.

They know I don't lie, and do not have hidden agendas.

Diplomacy is not my strong point, never was and never will be.

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By *hyllyphyllyMan
over a year ago

Bradford

I can't bite my tongue. I have tried, but can't do it.

My mouth has lost it's connection to my brain

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

lol i aint bothered by it...it was more what Ben said "

Haha!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always speak my mind x

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By *isscheekychops OP   Woman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

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By *atisfy janeWoman
over a year ago

Torquay

Say what you think....everytime

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"I prefer to sit on the fence, think of fluffy bunnies and happy things.

Hahah I bet you do

Me personally, yes but I think that's a skill I've learnt through work. Living in a corporate world where you're just a number you learn to stay quiet for job preservation. But of course there are times where it is appropriate to "kick off"!!

I work in an environment where I could tell the General Secretary to fuck off in front of witnesses and nothing said but pulled up and reprimanded for telling a gay member of my staff I liked the shirt he was wearing!!!

Is that because you said something like " that pink Girly blouse really matches your handbag?"!!! "

For that I would be sacked!

I was in the lift with one of my assistants and the Director of Personnel. All I said was lovely colour, is that silk? and touched his arm.

As we were getting out of the lift the Director called me back and said my comments were inappropriate, touching was invasion of privacy and I was leaving myself open to charges of sexual harassment.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I prefer to sit on the fence, think of fluffy bunnies and happy things.

Hahah I bet you do

Me personally, yes but I think that's a skill I've learnt through work. Living in a corporate world where you're just a number you learn to stay quiet for job preservation. But of course there are times where it is appropriate to "kick off"!!

I work in an environment where I could tell the General Secretary to fuck off in front of witnesses and nothing said but pulled up and reprimanded for telling a gay member of my staff I liked the shirt he was wearing!!!

Is that because you said something like " that pink Girly blouse really matches your handbag?"!!!

For that I would be sacked!

I was in the lift with one of my assistants and the Director of Personnel. All I said was lovely colour, is that silk? and touched his arm.

As we were getting out of the lift the Director called me back and said my comments were inappropriate, touching was invasion of privacy and I was leaving myself open to charges of sexual harassment. "

Hmmm pales into insignifance with things that I've put up with through my career in engineering. I just laugh and shrug it off. Imagine I'd you'd have pinched his arse!! You'd be locked in the tower by now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I try bite my tongue on here had more bans than i care to renember

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I tend to keep my opinion to myself. I learned it was best to keep my mouth shut and just agree. Or be vague so they think I agree.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I usually just say it. Unless it's to a mate who's feeling shit. Then it's not needed

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