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Why did you start swinging ?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Looking to spice up your sex life? Bored with same old things .? Loved sex and wished for more .?

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By *azzaahhWoman
over a year ago

north wales / chester

i had left my hubby and didnt want relationship but I missed the sexual side and was told about Fab ..never looked back that was almost 3 years ago

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By *HAEDRUS2013Man
over a year ago

LONDON


"Looking to spice up your sex life? Bored with same old things .? Loved sex and wished for more .? "

All three! An interesting question is why can't I stop?! Lol. Probably all three...

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By *rsIdiotWoman
over a year ago

Bedworth

Lack of sex in my otherwise happy marriage. After talking things over with hubby he gave the green light for me to do what I want. Eventually I found my way to fab

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By *eareenaCouple
over a year ago

Rockford

Loved sex wished for more... and.. I'm so fail at relationships. I must embrace this fact and have fun with friends in my own way.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To have a sex life without emotional attachments or relationship...

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By *unky monkey 351Man
over a year ago

Wolverhampton

Boring sex life with my ex wife need to explore more

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm here but nothing yet... but yes, broaden the horizons. I'm only going to live once unfortunately

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By *urvywelshCouple
over a year ago

Everywhere and nowhere baby

My OH used to swing years ago with his then lady. When we met he mentioned he liked it but it took me over a year to pluck up the courage to try it myself.

Now I embrace it with open arms (and legs) x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

not getting enough sex with my hubby.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Looking to spice up your sex life? Bored with same old things .? Loved sex and wished for more .? "

It's a question I ask myself everyday!

WHY would a guy like me allow himself to become a sex toy to a bunch of sex hungry fiends??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ours was not only to add spice and variety, but to get us out of what we called our "Ground Hog Day" because of what we do....

Not looked back and had a fabulous time and met loads of lovely interesting people and been to lots of great places also...Ruby

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By *imjohnCouple
over a year ago

Clacton on sea, Essex

We were shooting/starring in films for several years before we found out about swinging, we find swinging a relaxing alternative to our work which even though its fun can sometimes become a chore lol!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd come out of a long boring relationship, was on the wine one night and an advert for a swinging site came up on my screen so thought Id have a nose. Stayed on that site a couple of months then a man I'd met suggested this one. Been on and off a few times over the last four years and enjoying it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Looking to spice up your sex life? Bored with same old things .? Loved sex and wished for more .? "

I lost my subby bed friend (she fell in love) dam my niceness.. went mad for 3 or 4 weeks woundering where I would be lucky enough to find another fun person to play with when someone gave me this address. thankyou fab don't feel so alone in this country now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It just sort of happened. We started meeting other people too and went from there. Now I am one and loving it.

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

wanted no strings fun...now i just use it for the forums as I want a little more strings

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Had a violent wife for yrs not sure i want relationship again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I liked girls and noone knew....swinging seemed the best way to meet other bisexual women without anyone finding out.

Also now i dont want a relationship i just want open minded friends and lots of fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I liked girls and noone knew....swinging seemed the best way to meet other bisexual women without anyone finding out.

Also now i dont want a relationship i just want open minded friends and lots of fun "

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By *mallteaserWoman
over a year ago

Central

Hubby is very straight laced, so just a chance too see what else there is x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love sex and i love doing outrageously kinky things. Needed to find a place where there were people with a similar mindset.

...i may not look it. But i have a very naughty dark side lol and this is the place where i can let it come out..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No time for relationships and not one for the bar scene, some of the things im into couldn't get away with on a regular 1 night stand

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By *plpxp2Couple
over a year ago

Middlesbrough

About 18 years ago, happy in our relationship and the sex was good. That said we both wondered about trying new things, especially another woman for me (and like every other bloke he didn't say no to that lol). Never looked back!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well I was living with my brother and his ex was on. So I joined and been on and off for a long time.. But I think the social side of it it's awesome and can be a lot of fun and not every meet ends in sex but in friendship x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A friend of mine got me to join but only chatted in the chat rooms for the first 10 months. I had just come out of a long term relationship, so I wanted to make sure it was the right thing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well I was living with my brother and his ex was on. So I joined and been on and off for a long time.. But I think the social side of it it's awesome and can be a lot of fun and not every meet ends in sex but in friendship x"

this

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By *atcherofmyballsMan
over a year ago

hereford


"i had left my hubby and didnt want relationship but I missed the sexual side and was told about Fab ..never looked back that was almost 3 years ago"

This ^^^^ and still looking (hint hint )

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we started before we married, I cheated on my now wife by going with an ex, so she went with my best mate, then we went with others as and when we could, then got fully into swinging with couples and then guys and now bi guys and bi woman she was just 16 when we met, and have swung since

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Like Ruby said earlier, for us as a couple it provided a release from the boring repetition of putting up with each other! Lol!

For me, the very first time I swung/swapped when I was 20, was solely cos I fancied the arse of my GF's best mate (well, seems as good a reason as any!). But when I got into it 'proper' it was because a later GF was into the scene unknown to me (as were her Mum and Dad too!!!!!!) and she just took me to a party after we'd been together 3 weeks without telling what 'sort' of party it was.... Wasn't I a lucky boy???? Gave me a little secret to smile about with my vanilla mates for a few years back then too....

ted.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Like Ruby said earlier, for us as a couple it provided a release from the boring repetition of putting up with each other! Lol!

For me, the very first time I swung/swapped when I was 20, was solely cos I fancied the arse of my GF's best mate (well, seems as good a reason as any!). But when I got into it 'proper' it was because a later GF was into the scene unknown to me (as were her Mum and Dad too!!!!!!) and she just took me to a party after we'd been together 3 weeks without telling what 'sort' of party it was.... Wasn't I a lucky boy???? Gave me a little secret to smile about with my vanilla mates for a few years back then too....

ted."
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Oh big Ted you are tooooo much! Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Like Ruby said earlier, for us as a couple it provided a release from the boring repetition of putting up with each other! Lol!

For me, the very first time I swung/swapped when I was 20, was solely cos I fancied the arse of my GF's best mate (well, seems as good a reason as any!). But when I got into it 'proper' it was because a later GF was into the scene unknown to me (as were her Mum and Dad too!!!!!!) and she just took me to a party after we'd been together 3 weeks without telling what 'sort' of party it was.... Wasn't I a lucky boy???? Gave me a little secret to smile about with my vanilla mates for a few years back then too....

ted. :

Oh big Ted you are tooooo much! Lol "

Awwwwww.... you're too kind... and not the first to make that observation either.....

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