FabSwingers.com forum: No excuses?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

We all say we don't trust whoever or something for a reason and most of the time its down to personal experience or what we have witnessed in the past. So my question is how far can you stretch that theory

. For example you see decent people get into a shitty rut and sometimes they fall of the rails due to it. Is that an excuse to change your character and act like an idiot or cruel when normally you wouldn't have done that? Also even though I still stand by this and I assume others will too. There's no excuse to bully what so ever. However you find bullies are acting out due to personal frustration over their mentality/lifestyle or past.

Basically I wanted to know is it ever acceptable or even say you understand why a person has slipped below normal/acceptable behaviour and if so when is it acceptable?

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I suppose a lot depends on what that person means to you…….

We tend to forgive more easily those people who would normally posses the sort of redeeming personality traits we admire or for whom we share a common bond....

By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

You could mention the fact that their behaviour and attitude had surprised you and had changed. People react in different ways to stressy situations, and not always as you might expect.