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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

why am i struggling to get meets? i need tips.........p.s dont say because your ugly lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've no idea at all...... beats me!...

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

Couldn't tell you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cooooooooooooooooool user name

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No idea either

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

may aswell just delete the account to be fair.......all i want to do is fuck older women, they aint on it tho lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"may aswell just delete the account to be fair.......all i want to do is fuck older women, they aint on it tho lol"

Ha ha ha maybe they prefer the guys putting more effort into pleasing them than just wanting to fuck them

I dunno beats me

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Cooooooooooooooooool user name "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

id be perfectly blunt n honest but cant even be arsed and id more than likely get a ban.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"why am i struggling to get meets? i need tips.........p.s dont say because your ugly lol"

cause yam a brummie

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

if i fuck a woman she will be pleased (without sounding to big headed lol)

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"id be perfectly blunt n honest but cant even be arsed and id more than likely get a ban. "

I think you can say 'oh my god what sort of profile do you call that????' without getting banned.

Or is that me gone for a day or so?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

just how long did the 3 letters in your profile take you to type? Maybe the results reflect the total lack of effort?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"id be perfectly blunt n honest but cant even be arsed and id more than likely get a ban. "

Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And what about the meet verification from last month?

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

Cos

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

haha it must be, curse this mangled accent!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Try a bit of a write up anout yourself and what you are looking for

Youve had a few meets so far. More than a lot of blokes on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"id be perfectly blunt n honest but cant even be arsed and id more than likely get a ban.

I think you can say 'oh my god what sort of profile do you call that????' without getting banned.

Or is that me gone for a day or so?"

48 hour ban with the explanation of 'nit picking' i think

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

i mean a meet with sex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"if i fuck a woman she will be pleased (without sounding to big headed lol)"

This might be where your'e going wrong

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

I'm going for the put as much effort in my reply as the OP does in his profile approach (this doesn't count. It's just an explanation of my previous post)

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"id be perfectly blunt n honest but cant even be arsed and id more than likely get a ban.

I think you can say 'oh my god what sort of profile do you call that????' without getting banned.

Or is that me gone for a day or so?

48 hour ban with the explanation of 'nit picking' i think "

Ah bugger. Well, see you all Monday.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

*sigh*

go on then i'll shag ya

bet you wish you'd kept your gob shut now

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"may aswell just delete the account to be fair.......all i want to do is fuck older women, they aint on it tho lol

Ha ha ha maybe they prefer the guys putting more effort into pleasing them than just wanting to fuck them

I dunno beats me "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just looked at your profile.....its rubbish! Good grief man put some effort into it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm going for the put as much effort in my reply as the OP does in his profile approach (this doesn't count. It's just an explanation of my previous post)"

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

whats the problem with my profile, straight to the point

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By *istress-MazikeenWoman
over a year ago

bolton


"id be perfectly blunt n honest but cant even be arsed and id more than likely get a ban.

I think you can say 'oh my god what sort of profile do you call that????' without getting banned.

Or is that me gone for a day or so?

48 hour ban with the explanation of 'nit picking' i think "

Yep, makes you wonder when someone asks for an opinion, what do we say now?

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By *istress-MazikeenWoman
over a year ago

bolton


"Just looked at your profile.....its rubbish! Good grief man put some effort into it "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"whats the problem with my profile, straight to the point"

It's erm....minimalistic. That's polite for it says fuck all

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By *eareenaCouple
over a year ago

Rockford


"id be perfectly blunt n honest but cant even be arsed and id more than likely get a ban.

I think you can say 'oh my god what sort of profile do you call that????' without getting banned.

Or is that me gone for a day or so?"

Ha ha I do hope not but I fear yes

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham


"whats the problem with my profile, straight to the point"

All it tells me is you know how to spell sex but have no consideration for capital letters and punctuation

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why ask an opinion if you get defensive?

Its shit and says nothing about you there are 100's of guys on here with well written ones...the women are always going to choose them first

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

if people are interested they would ask for specifics i think

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do a forum search as there are about 1000 other threads asking the same thing and the advice is pretty much the same everytime.

From a brief look at your profile, it's crap. Having one word "sex" as your profile will get you no-where.

You need to say a little about what you are looking for, what interests you and what you are like.

You also need more varied pics.

When messaging people make sure you've read their profiles and you tailor your message to them. Don't use cut & paste and make it personal.

On this site the more effort you make, the more returns you get.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

im not gettin defensive far from it :p......i understand what your saying though and appreciate it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"if people are interested they would ask for specifics i think"

You have to get them interested to start with

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Do a forum search as there are about 1000 other threads asking the same thing and the advice is pretty much the same everytime.

From a brief look at your profile, it's crap. Having one word "sex" as your profile will get you no-where.

You need to say a little about what you are looking for, what interests you and what you are like.

You also need more varied pics.

When messaging people make sure you've read their profiles and you tailor your message to them. Don't use cut & paste and make it personal.

On this site the more effort you make, the more returns you get."

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham


"if people are interested they would ask for specifics i think"

How's that working out for you?

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By *eareenaCouple
over a year ago

Rockford


"Do a forum search as there are about 1000 other threads asking the same thing and the advice is pretty much the same everytime.

From a brief look at your profile, it's crap. Having one word "sex" as your profile will get you no-where.

You need to say a little about what you are looking for, what interests you and what you are like.

You also need more varied pics.

When messaging people make sure you've read their profiles and you tailor your message to them. Don't use cut & paste and make it personal.

On this site the more effort you make, the more returns you get."

sound advice... I concur

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

shit lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"if people are interested they would ask for specifics i think"

No they wouldn't....that's a total misconception you have there.

Time & again people say its all about the profile and the guys that listen & have good profiles have a lot if success.

You've have 5 verifications do your doing better then a lot of guys in here.

If you were female and you looked at you profile, would you message you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We all like sex, that's why we're here.

Just make an effort to make your profile stand out!!!

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

Well, I'll be honest, if you contacted me, unless it was a fantastic well worded message, giving me plenty of information about yourself, I wouldn't reply!

I'm a firm believer that you get out what you put in, therefore going by your profile alone it is very very lazy, and may just herein lie your problem! Just a hint mind you

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

personally i would, wouldnt you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i mean a meet with sex"

Hand meet cock, cock meet hand..... There you go, sorted

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

i think a change to the profile is needed! haha

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By *thwalescplCouple
over a year ago

brecon

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"I've no idea at all...... beats me!...

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...and me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i think a change to the profile is needed! haha"

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By *thwalescplCouple
over a year ago

brecon


"i think a change to the profile is needed! haha"

Well, a few more words would be a huge improvement!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

nah not at all i get quite a few girls in my actual life, if it was just about sex i woudnt be on here because i can get that......im on here purely to meet sexy older women, which is harder to do in my outside fab life

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"i think a change to the profile is needed! haha

Well, a few more words would be a huge improvement! "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"whats the problem with my profile, straight to the point"

Read some successful ones like mine...

And I'm not being arrogant when I say that unlike some...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"personally i would, wouldnt you?"

Obviously not or you would be non stop fucking older women

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ


"Just looked at your profile.....its rubbish! Good grief man put some effort into it "

He obviously puts all his effort into fucking women

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"if people are interested they would ask for specifics i think"

You have your answer then.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i think a change to the profile is needed! haha"

Why? It looks fine to me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"if people are interested they would ask for specifics i think

You have your answer then. "

Ha-ha,,,,,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"nah not at all i get quite a few girls in my actual life, if it was just about sex i woudnt be on here because i can get that......im on here purely to meet sexy older women, which is harder to do in my outside fab life"

Maybe change your age range to 27 to 99. At the moment it looks like you're looking for younger women too.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

will do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"whats the problem with my profile, straight to the point"

IF it were an ordinary adult sex site maybe it could work

Your message banter ???

Are you directing them to people in your own area

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"i think a change to the profile is needed! haha

Why? It looks fine to me. "

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

no to everyone really lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

so ermmmmmmmmm, anyone want to meet haha joking

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"if people are interested they would ask for specifics i think"

Except you have one word so not sure on what you base your idea that people would be interested enough to ask for specifics

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well, I'll be honest, if you contacted me, unless it was a fantastic well worded message, giving me plenty of information about yourself, I wouldn't reply!

I'm a firm believer that you get out what you put in, therefore going by your profile alone it is very very lazy, and may just herein lie your problem! Just a hint mind you "

Same here, if you messaged us with a profile like that, we would delete straight away. We're all here for sex, but your profile says nothing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"why am i struggling to get meets? i need tips.........p.s dont say because your ugly lol"

Because you're too beautiful

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How long's it take to write a few paragraphs about yourself? Ten minutes?

You've had more meets than me buddy so count yourself lucky.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"may aswell just delete the account to be fair.......all i want to do is fuck older women, they aint on it tho lol"

no we ain't on it, whatever it is. I think this is a massive wind up...

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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge


"so ermmmmmmmmm, anyone want to meet haha joking "

Looking at your lacklustre profile and the fact that your one meet in person did not end up in full sex which you claim to want I would skip over you simply as I would not see you as seriously wanting a proper meet.

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By *ashful BazMan
over a year ago

poole dorset


"why am i struggling to get meets? i need tips.........p.s dont say because your ugly lol"

PG tips, works for me everytime.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I'm being serious about meeting

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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge


"I'm being serious about meeting "

So do something about your profile as others have suggested.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"I'm being serious about meeting "

Ask the lady who left you a veri in June.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"I'm being serious about meeting "

Have a look at mine and spot the difference.

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By *atisfy janeWoman
over a year ago

Torquay

Your One word profile may be a reason that you are struggling to get meets....

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"I'm being serious about meeting "

I think you just ain't on it

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By *empting Devil.Woman
over a year ago

Sheffield

Men outnumber men by a huge proportion so if you want to be successful you have to stand out from the crowd.

Relying on youth to get meets isn't enough - there are thousands of young, fit, handsome men who are struggling.

Women tend to read profiles for information - why bother asking when they might get 50 or more messages a day? Asking 50 people "what are you into" would take more time than most are online for.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

THANK GOD you went to ALL THAT EFFORT and wrote S E X on your profile - otherwise ladies may have got confused and thort you were looking for a companion to go shopping!!

Seriously mate - are you having a bubble??

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By *ub bbwWoman
over a year ago

oldbury

wow that profile is impressive lol. As has already been said you need to put some effort in and make yourself stand out from the crowd. Nothing on your profile makes me want to even consider talking to you let alone meeting you.

I would put some effort in and also consider showing some respect its not all about just getting your cock wet its not dial a fuck on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"wow that profile is impressive lol. As has already been said you need to put some effort in and make yourself stand out from the crowd. Nothing on your profile makes me want to even consider talking to you let alone meeting you.

I would put some effort in and also consider showing some respect its not all about just getting your cock wet its not dial a fuck on here. "

B'ring b'ring

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

profile has nothing on it at all... yes u have pics, but women dont just go on pics.

u dont just walk in to a club and have sex so dont expect same on here.

filled in profile and good conversation can go a long way!!!

you get what you put in on here like anything...no input and lazyness..then u will find u get the same back

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By *eareenaCouple
over a year ago

Rockford


"THANK GOD you went to ALL THAT EFFORT and wrote S E X on your profile - otherwise ladies may have got confused and thort you were looking for a companion to go shopping!!

Seriously mate - are you having a bubble?? "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think that where people don't take any trouble with their profile it tends to mean they have some issues with their own sexuality and can't be honest with themselves. For instance, I'd have understood you writing you're particularly attracted to older women (though you've put the age range at 18-99), but you are just talking about fucking them. In any case, it's more likely you want them to fuck you - that is, take the lead? You've also said on your profile you want to meet couples, but is that really true? A guy who's too terrified to fill in a profile on a sex site would probably not be able to function sexually with another man in the room even if he's straight, so you need to explain this. Also it's very arrogant to just put a pic of yourself up and expect people to get in touch.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *aucy3Couple
over a year ago

glasgow


"may aswell just delete the account to be fair.......all i want to do is fuck older women, they aint on it tho lol"

lol

try

sex,coffin dodgers required.

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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge

Thread abandoned and no change to profile suggests there is no serious intent.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Thread abandoned and no change to profile suggests there is no serious intent. "

I suspect that the gent in question imagined all us olduns would jump at the chance of sex with a young man lol.....if we could jump that is

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"may aswell just delete the account to be fair.......all i want to do is fuck older women, they aint on it tho lol"

Tell you what mate, let me fuck your 20 something girlfriend and I'll let you fuck my 49 yr old wife.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I ain't left the thread I've been busy so not been on here, but ye I can see where your all coming from and it is appreciated and I will be changing my profile haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"just how long did the 3 letters in your profile take you to type? Maybe the results reflect the total lack of effort?"

He doesn't need to make an effort. He can please any woman.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

interesting thread

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