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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Does anyone value intelligence?

By intelligence I mean from someone who can string a sentence together through to someone quite articulate. I don't necessarily mean someone who is academically educated.

If you were offered a meet with a guy with a six pack or an ordinary guy who seems to be able to use his mind a bit - which one would you go for? Honestly.

I know some people think that meets are not about a spelling exam, and there is nothing wrong with that view.

I know some people have dyslexia, predictive texting causes mistakes and someone's social circumstances might have held them back.

But, in general, do smart people turn you on? Or are you not bothered?

(I'm not looking to put anyone down, or have digs. I am just curious to know people's thoughts)

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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago

In Your Bush

47p

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes... Sometimes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"47p"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"47p"

Next time someone says " penny for your thoughts" ...... Sell them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Eh¿

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By *issBehavingxxWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow


"If you were offered a meet with a guy with a six pack or an ordinary guy who seems to be able to use his mind a bit - which one would you go for? Honestly"

Honestly????

I'd just invite them both round for a threesome

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"47p"

inclusive or exclusive? Times are tough.....

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

No matter how I try and phrase my reply it sounds wrong. I like people to have a similar intelligence to mine because I like a bit of a spar verbally and if someones more intelligent I get beaten and if a rare person exists who is less intelligent then it's no fun either. Good conversation is sexy

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

I meet people who can convey a decent personality via the messaging system on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No matter how I try and phrase my reply it sounds wrong. I like people to have a similar intelligence to mine because I like a bit of a spar verbally and if someones more intelligent I get beaten and if a rare person exists who is less intelligent then it's no fun either. Good conversation is sexy "

Knickers!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"47p"

OMG…..47p…… has no one mentioned this is a time of austerity….

Sheeeesh,,,,,, would you knock 10% of for cash?

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By *ammyDodgaMan
over a year ago

Nottingham/and everywhere my location says i am ;)

It's all about the banter for me, if you don't stimulate my mind what's the point in going elsewhere. It's just mechanical then..

Who wants going through the motions sex??

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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago

In Your Bush

Oops, apparently intelligence is in decline. It is now on special offer for 30p

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By *allDarkFoxForYouMan
over a year ago

Winchester/London

The brain is a key instigator re sex and I am attracted to intelligence and common ground re a sense of humour.

As a rule of thumb I wouldn't meet anyone whom I didn't believe I'd have a fun and flowing conversation with if we were sat close together on a lengthy train journey

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

it does help if there is some intelligence there, that you can hold a conversation with someone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If you were offered a meet with a guy with a six pack or an ordinary guy who seems to be able to use his mind a bit - which one would you go for? Honestly."

How about them meeting an intelligent guy with a six pack, as just like having a big cock and knowing how to use it, they're not mutually exclusive attributes?

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By *oasterCockbumMan
over a year ago

Highway 61


"It's all about the banter for me, if you don't stimulate my mind what's the point in going elsewhere. It's just mechanical then..

Who wants going through the motions sex??"

Mime artists ? .....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If you were offered a meet with a guy with a six pack or an ordinary guy who seems to be able to use his mind a bit - which one would you go for? Honestly.

How about them meeting an intelligent guy with a six pack, as just like having a big cock and knowing how to use it, they're not mutually exclusive attributes?"

Don't forget though - a good body, a huge cock and a genius intellect probably wouldn't have got Joseph Carey Merrick a meet on here!!

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"If you were offered a meet with a guy with a six pack or an ordinary guy who seems to be able to use his mind a bit - which one would you go for? Honestly.

How about them meeting an intelligent guy with a six pack, as just like having a big cock and knowing how to use it, they're not mutually exclusive attributes?

Don't forget though - a good body, a huge cock and a genius intellect probably wouldn't have got Joseph Carey Merrick a meet on here!! "

It helps if they're nice too!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would always go with the intelligent woman.......as long as she's got huge tits

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By *eareenaCouple
over a year ago

Rockford

The brain is the sexiest thing... six packs and big cocks are nice but I personally Need mental stimulation most

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Who wants going through the motions sex??

Mime artists ? ..... "

This has made me laugh

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

If there is anyone interested, feel free to send me a message too. I do like smart women.

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By *lackshadow7Man
over a year ago

Toronto

Good try i guess.

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

To meet one to one then I do need some intellectual stimulation.

At a club... not so much.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A quirky brain is very much a stimulant. That's why I write a bit with folk first, to suss out whether there's something I can chew on (stop sniggering in the back). And it works - I have met and am still in touch with a gorgeous bloke who makes me laugh and think and is intellectually challenging and in fact is Mensa material. He stands out (now, what did I say!)*. But others have proved most entertaining, witty, and pleasant company as well.

* no, you can't bribe me. Not telling.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I meet people who can convey a decent personality via the messaging system on here."

We are with you on this. Its not necessarily intelligence. Its personality that shines through.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If you were offered a meet with a guy with a six pack or an ordinary guy who seems to be able to use his mind a bit - which one would you go for? Honestly.

How about them meeting an intelligent guy with a six pack, as just like having a big cock and knowing how to use it, they're not mutually exclusive attributes?"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Does anyone value intelligence?

By intelligence I mean from someone who can string a sentence together through to someone quite articulate. I don't necessarily mean someone who is academically educated.

If you were offered a meet with a guy with a six pack or an ordinary guy who seems to be able to use his mind a bit - which one would you go for? Honestly.

I know some people think that meets are not about a spelling exam, and there is nothing wrong with that view.

I know some people have dyslexia, predictive texting causes mistakes and someone's social circumstances might have held them back.

But, in general, do smart people turn you on? Or are you not bothered?

(I'm not looking to put anyone down, or have digs. I am just curious to know people's thoughts) "

from someone with no photo's and an avatar of a thumb ....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Intelligence or should I say interesting men for me any time I can't do JKP (Jeremy Kyle People) even if he has got a 9 inch dick and vibrating tongue. I need to have some kind of conversation in between recovery time.. For me the brain is the largest sexual organ

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville

Of course I do.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Intelligence and a witty personality does it for me

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"If you were offered a meet with a guy with a six pack or an ordinary guy who seems to be able to use his mind a bit - which one would you go for? Honestly.

How about them meeting an intelligent guy with a six pack, as just like having a big cock and knowing how to use it, they're not mutually exclusive attributes?"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Would rather meet a guy that can make me laugh and hold a half decent convo with than a great looking guy. Looks are not important to me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Would rather meet a guy that can make me laugh and hold a half decent convo with than a great looking guy. Looks are not important to me. "

A woman goes out on the town one night, and pulls a German guy. They go back to her hotel room, where he produces four springs and places them under the mattress, then asks her to make quacking noises as they're having sex - she thinks this is a bit strange but decides to go along with it, and is amazed when minutes later she enjoys an explosive orgasm!

'Wow, that was amazing! What do you call it!?' she asks him

'Four sprung duck technique'

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Does anyone value intelligence?

By intelligence I mean from someone who can string a sentence together through to someone quite articulate. I don't necessarily mean someone who is academically educated.

If you were offered a meet with a guy with a six pack or an ordinary guy who seems to be able to use his mind a bit - which one would you go for? Honestly.

I know some people think that meets are not about a spelling exam, and there is nothing wrong with that view.

I know some people have dyslexia, predictive texting causes mistakes and someone's social circumstances might have held them back.

But, in general, do smart people turn you on? Or are you not bothered?

(I'm not looking to put anyone down, or have digs. I am just curious to know people's thoughts)

from someone with no photo's and an avatar of a thumb .... "

And your point is?

Had your read my profile, which I never asked for it to be judged or advice sought, you might have realized that I do, indeed, have pics. Just private pics for personal reasons. My profile, has very little to do, if anything at all, with my question.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Intelligence and a witty personality does it for me "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

MissBehaving, wow!! Those eyes. Pity I'm too old.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Intelligence or should I say interesting men for me any time I can't do JKP (Jeremy Kyle People) even if he has got a 9 inch dick and vibrating tongue. I need to have some kind of conversation in between recovery time.. For me the brain is the largest sexual organ"

Exactly. No jkp for me too.

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By *irtyGirlWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

My biggest sexual organ is my brain.

I guess I don't particularly aim for one night stands. I think if it was just about a fuck and a fuck off I'd be less inclined to be so fussy about the smarts.

As it is, for me, the smarts are the important part.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Intelligence or should I say interesting men for me any time I can't do JKP (Jeremy Kyle People) even if he has got a 9 inch dick and vibrating tongue. I need to have some kind of conversation in between recovery time.. For me the brain is the largest sexual organ

Exactly. No jkp for me too. "

I'll happily admit to being a Jez Kyle watcher, it's an entertaining way to spend a morning in a bear baiting, ego massaging kinda way!

I wouldn't class myself as unintelligent though

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

i think it takes some intelligence to tease and be inventive sexually.. i just hope that is what some women want

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm a complete sucker for it

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By *ohneybegoodMan
over a year ago

Dublin 14

There are 7 type,s of intelligence Verbal, Visual, Physical, Musical, Mathematical ,Introspective and Interpersonal.I think most people have at least one type?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There are 7 type,s of intelligence Verbal, Visual, Physical, Musical, Mathematical ,Introspective and Interpersonal.I think most people have at least one type?"

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By *EXY50ishWoman
over a year ago

Anywhere and nowhere

Yes absolutely. I'm

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What kind of intelligence? I like people I can engage with, people I have something in common with or who I find interesting or an enigma, perhaps.

Does that need a huge IQ? Of course not but neither would a low IQ have those attractions.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What they look like has no bearing on whether they are intelligent or not

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I once shared a house with a hugely intelligent guy but he couldn't cook, couldn't even follow a recipe. Lived on takeaways. No idea what he was like sexually. Never saw him with a guy or a lady.

Look at Arthur Miller getting off with Marilyn Monroe. His attributes were not physical.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Intelligence with humour and a good all round personality incorporated with attractive looks is a perfect starter...

So we have the chemistry, physical attraction.... Then it's all down to sexual compatibility!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i like inteligent men, dont like meeting silly people who say silly things all the time, not that i am all that interested in talking when i meet someone. some inteligent people say silly things too though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Discretion is the better part of valour....not bothered too much about intelligence as long as they've had a few bottles of cop'on and know how to behave in company. As the famous Baz says....some of the most interesting people still don't know what that want to do at 40........oh and wear sunscreen...!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

With no strings sex I'm primarily initially attracted by the physical, but intellect is usually the trigger that makes me act on that initial impulse and keeps me interested.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just what I was thinking

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By *ser No Longer On SiteMan
over a year ago

Ghlaschu

Yes.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross


"47p"

Stupid. You put the nine back to front Doh ....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If you were offered a meet with a guy with a six pack or an ordinary guy who seems to be able to use his mind a bit - which one would you go for? Honestly

Honestly????

I'd just invite them both round for a threesome "

Ok then find someone with a six pack and we're good to go

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ideally, why can't someone have an athletic body and at the same time be intelligent?

But some people are all about the looks instead of the personality, which is fine.

At the end of the day most of us (not all) are on here for sexual gratification, so being the sharpest tool in the box upstairs doesn't always go in your favour.

Especially as a single guy.

But everyone has different requirements. Some will want the body, some will want the mind, others will prefer both. Just have to find which of the three is preferable to them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's all about the banter for me, if you don't stimulate my mind what's the point in going elsewhere. It's just mechanical then..

Who wants going through the motions sex??"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As an intelligent guy, I always turn up with a six pack.

If I really like you, its also chilled.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Bump

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, I like intelligent people to talk to. I think most people have something to say for themselves though, if you create the right atmosphere so they can feel like talking. I've been with a number who didn't have a lot of education but were interesting with a good sense of humour.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Eh¿"

How did you get that question mark upside down?

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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago

In Your Bush


"Eh¿

How did you get that question mark upside down? "

Like this ¿

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By *issBehavingxxWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow


"Eh¿

How did you get that question mark upside down? "

Or like that ¿

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Eh¿

How did you get that question mark upside down?

Like this ¿ "

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By *ustcutieWoman
over a year ago

edinburgh


"Eh¿

How did you get that question mark upside down?

Like this ¿ "

Ok tried turning Lappy upside down n everything...... Tell me.... Pretty please.... Supper n brown sauce for ya if you do

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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago

In Your Bush


"Eh¿

How did you get that question mark upside down?

Like this ¿

Ok tried turning Lappy upside down n everything...... Tell me.... Pretty please.... Supper n brown sauce for ya if you do "

Ok then but only because its you. Press the ¿ button

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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland


"Does anyone value intelligence?

By intelligence I mean from someone who can string a sentence together through to someone quite articulate. I don't necessarily mean someone who is academically educated.

If you were offered a meet with a guy with a six pack or an ordinary guy who seems to be able to use his mind a bit - which one would you go for? Honestly.

I know some people think that meets are not about a spelling exam, and there is nothing wrong with that view.

I know some people have dyslexia, predictive texting causes mistakes and someone's social circumstances might have held them back.

But, in general, do smart people turn you on? Or are you not bothered?

(I'm not looking to put anyone down, or have digs. I am just curious to know people's thoughts) "

It is the single most sexy, attractive, interesting, alluring component in meeting people -whether it is for friendship or a play meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Eh¿

How did you get that question mark upside down?

Like this ¿

Ok tried turning Lappy upside down n everything...... Tell me.... Pretty please.... Supper n brown sauce for ya if you do

Ok then but only because its you. Press the ¿ button "

Ryan - such a tease

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Does anyone value intelligence?

By intelligence I mean from someone who can string a sentence together through to someone quite articulate. I don't necessarily mean someone who is academically educated.

If you were offered a meet with a guy with a six pack or an ordinary guy who seems to be able to use his mind a bit - which one would you go for? Honestly.

I know some people think that meets are not about a spelling exam, and there is nothing wrong with that view.

I know some people have dyslexia, predictive texting causes mistakes and someone's social circumstances might have held them back.

But, in general, do smart people turn you on? Or are you not bothered?

(I'm not looking to put anyone down, or have digs. I am just curious to know people's thoughts)

It is the single most sexy, attractive, interesting, alluring component in meeting people -whether it is for friendship or a play meet. "

Glad we are on the same wavelength and I did appreciate that you took the question seriously.

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