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"Key ingredients? What makes some last for a season and others for a life time? Wy would we expect them to last a lifetime when we are changing so quickly? Just a thought? i think people think they aren't expendable but in reality they are" You mean everybody can be "substituted"? | |||
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"Key ingredients? What makes some last for a season and others for a life time? Wy would we expect them to last a lifetime when we are changing so quickly? Just a thought? i think people think they aren't expendable but in reality they areYou mean everybody can be "substituted"? " i think some people get cocksure and they think a friendship is one sided and people wont get rid as they are too good! if u know what i mean x | |||
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"Key ingredients? What makes some last for a season and others for a life time? Wy would we expect them to last a lifetime when we are changing so quickly? Just a thought? i think people think they aren't expendable but in reality they areYou mean everybody can be "substituted"? i think some people get cocksure and they think a friendship is one sided and people wont get rid as they are too good! if u know what i mean x " I think I know what you mean - it is people taking other people for granted sometime, right? | |||
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"I think they all last for a season. It just depends on the length of the season. Some are very long and don't end even after the death of one because you adapt to the new season together. I had a funny message from a friend today. Her husband died last year. She never took his name when he was alive but now that he has gone she has changed her name to his. Their seasons changed, a lot sometimes, but they always worked to change together." That sounds like a genuine "togetherness" beyond the concept of season really - amazing! | |||
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"Key ingredients? What makes some last for a season and others for a life time? Wy would we expect them to last a lifetime when we are changing so quickly? Just a thought? i think people think they aren't expendable but in reality they areYou mean everybody can be "substituted"? i think some people get cocksure and they think a friendship is one sided and people wont get rid as they are too good! if u know what i mean x I think I know what you mean - it is people taking other people for granted sometime, right? " yep and people not making an effort leaving it all to one person x (hope your well BTW) x | |||
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"Key ingredients? What makes some last for a season and others for a life time? Wy would we expect them to last a lifetime when we are changing so quickly? Just a thought? i think people think they aren't expendable but in reality they areYou mean everybody can be "substituted"? i think some people get cocksure and they think a friendship is one sided and people wont get rid as they are too good! if u know what i mean x I think I know what you mean - it is people taking other people for granted sometime, right? yep and people not making an effort leaving it all to one person x (hope your well BTW) x" Definitely know what you mean lol. Yes, I am fine, thanks xx I think that when you find a relationship is not based on equality and there is one who does a lot of taking and the other is doing a lot of giving.... the relationship wont last for long? | |||
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"Honesty, trust, communication, sharing the same interests/value in life, being there through thick and thin, accepting who they are as a person and not trying to change them. " That hits a few of my criteria too | |||
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"Honesty, trust, communication, sharing the same interests/value in life, being there through thick and thin, accepting who they are as a person and not trying to change them. That hits a few of my criteria too " and loyalty | |||
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"Honesty, trust, communication, sharing the same interests/value in life, being there through thick and thin, accepting who they are as a person and not trying to change them. That hits a few of my criteria too and loyalty " Really important to me, too - it is one of those traits that identifies genuine friends. | |||
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"Honesty, trust, communication, sharing the same interests/value in life, being there through thick and thin, accepting who they are as a person and not trying to change them. That hits a few of my criteria too and loyalty " Forgot to mention that. But that aspect is very important too | |||
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