FabSwingers.com forum: Dare to show the neighbours

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

During the lovely hot weather how many sunbathing either topless or naked in your garden,where if your neighbours looked out of their window you could be seen.Who,s in?

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By *hyllyphyllyMan
over a year ago

Bradford

nope as many of my neighbour's houses contain young children.

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

No thanks what if they had kids and they looked out the window.....public exposure and all of that...

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Public in your own garden topless??? how can that be wrong.

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

The only place you are likely to be 'in' is the local Nick. Just because you like being nakedddoesn't mean you should force viewing your naked body on others.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No because most of my neighbours have young children.

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

"Public in your own garden topless??? how can that be wrong."

Maybe you should read up on the law lol and as you are hoping your neighbours will see you you are doing it to cause shock or offence and that is illegal.

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By *ohohoWoman
over a year ago

Up North

I was already caught by my neighbour this morning. It was just embarrassing. I have to see him every day.

I do have a secluded spot in my garden I can sunbathe naked unseen, I think I will stick to that.

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

"Public in your own garden topless??? how can that be wrong."

Just because its your own garden does not mean you can prance around naked for your neighbour or their kids to see...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I did actually catch 1 of my neighbours havin a peek at me yesterday... Shes an older lady that always tries to flirt might ask her to join me today

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

So topless/naked in your garden your forcing someone to look out of their window so that that can complain,think we are getting naturism mixed up with full on sex here.

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

Do what you like...

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By *empting Devil.Woman
over a year ago

Sheffield

If someone is offended then it becomes an offense.

Obviously if your garden is totally enclosed and they have had to make an effort to look in then that is different.

But if you are overlooked then you run the risk of problems.

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

"So topless/naked in your garden your forcing someone to look out of their window so that that can complain,think we are getting naturism mixed up with full on sex here."

No you said you were doing it in the hope that your neighbours that over look you would see. Why should they have to look out of their window yo see your widger??

Sunbath naked all you like in places where you know people can't see you. If you so it where you know you will be over looked you are doing it with intent.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My neighbour will be seeing my nakedness later but I won't be sunbathing that's for sure

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your back garden is not a dedicated matures spot tho is it. Being naked or showing genitals in public view of others is indecent exposure.

I wouldn't ever sunbathe naked anywhere but if I was a naturist them I'd go to a naturist beach

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Guessing i have more of what you would call " know how the world works" neighbours.All of a sudden everone wants to quote the law,ohh 33 in a 30 guess no one has ever done it lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Guessing i have more of what you would call " know how the world works" neighbours.All of a sudden everone wants to quote the law,ohh 33 in a 30 guess no one has ever done it lol"

if you lived next to me it wouldn't bother me.. however it would bother my girls greatly... so you would get me warning you just once before I reported you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

** naturist that was meant to read

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

"Guessing i have more of what you would call " know how the world works" neighbours.All of a sudden everone wants to quote the law,ohh 33 in a 30 guess no one has ever done it lol"

Yep, done it. Got caught and paid the fine. If I break the law I take the punishment

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

I have a nice big umbrella that shields me from view but if the guy who every summer finds something to do on his garage roof when I'm sunbathing naked sees me..... I reckon its his fault.

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

Plus my neighbour is my dad so no way would I ever do it lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My elderly neighbours would need to climb a tree in order to catch a crafty peek at my back garden,,,,

So rather than risk sending them into shock and potentially falling out of said tree,,,, I keep my man boobs covered,,,

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By *empting Devil.Woman
over a year ago

Sheffield

You run the risk of getting a reputation as the person who goes naked for children to see.

In that context it stops being fun and becomes much blacker.

Unless you are confident that you are not overlooked and there is no risk of children seeing then it could be dodgy.

One of my neighbours used to sunbathe topless when I was a kid. She had a totally enclosed garden. But the kids next door had a telescope and access to the roof... Some parents would get upset by that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I sunbathe topless in my garden. I only have a neighbour one side who has to stand in her border and look over a wall to see. She knows I enjoy lying in the sun so will always call out if she thinks I'm there. I would never lie there topless otherwise!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

how can it b illigal to go topless in your own back garden but not on the beach??

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

"how can it b illigal to go topless in your own back garden but not on the beach?? "

There is only very few beaches that you can now sun bath over here...And there are signs to say that there maybe topless sun bathing so you are given the choice to enter or not...

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

"how can it b illigal to go topless in your own back garden but not on the beach??

There is only very few beaches that you can now sun bath over here...And there are signs to say that there maybe topless sun bathing so you are given the choice to enter or not..."

*sun bathe topless

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

"how can it b illigal to go topless in your own back garden but not on expectach?? "

Because there are signs go say it's a topless area etc so people know what to expwct. People don't expect to look out of their own garden to see naked people.

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

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By *empting Devil.Woman
over a year ago

Sheffield

Btw OP the name you gave this thread is troublesome - if you set out to show the neighbours your naked body then that is indecent exposure.

If they accidentally catch sight when you have made every attempt to be discreet in what you thought was an unseen corner of your garden then that's different.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"You run the risk of getting a reputation as the person who goes naked for children to see.

In that context it stops being fun and becomes much blacker.

Unless you are confident that you are not overlooked and there is no risk of children seeing then it could be dodgy.

I'd be extremely upset with the kids in this situation, you simply cannot live your life in case someones children have a telescope. Respect other people is my motto and that respect goes both ways, if my kids were looking at a topless sunbather through a telescope I'd tell them to mind their own business and concentrate on the constellations!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You run the risk of getting a reputation as the person who goes naked for children to see.

In that context it stops being fun and becomes much blacker.

Unless you are confident that you are not overlooked and there is no risk of children seeing then it could be dodgy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

makes me laugh that people r so "offended" that some1 may go topless in there own garden incase kids saw but are happy to admit to havin gang bangs in their home while the kids are asleep in bed!! pretty sure who runs the biggest risk of bein in trouble with the police!!!

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

I am against flashing and public nudity in a sexual context in any form where peopel who don't want to see can't avoid it there is never any justifcation for that. However sunbathing quietly topless in your garden while your neighbour opens his copy of The Sun to page three is harmless surely.

Be discreet, don't lay in the middle of the lawn if you're overlooked on both sides and use a windbreak to shield you from prying eyes.

I think the OP was posting tongue in cheek and enjoying the fantasy aspect of this rather than running about with a loudspeaker announcing his nudity

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

My top floor balcony is not overlooked by anybody.

Just off out to crack one off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"makes me laugh that people r so "offended" that some1 may go topless in there own garden incase kids saw but are happy to admit to havin gang bangs in their home while the kids are asleep in bed!! pretty sure who runs the biggest risk of bein in trouble with the police!!!"

the person that gets reported for exposing themselves to minors.. as while I haven't had gangbangs in my house with kids in but have had meets in the past.. having people into your house to have sex with isn't a police matter.. but I know for a fact if I went naked in my garden I would be reported rather quickly.

I would not do so if people could easily view me..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

bein topless in ur own back garden is hardly exposing urself to minors!! if my neighbours were topless in their garden and the kids saw i would tell not to b so nosy!!

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By *essiCouple
over a year ago

suffolk

Am lucky in that my garden is fairly big and although some of my neighbours can see into my garden those that do don't have kids..if its a day like today and its quiet with just the two of us home then yes topless or nude it has to be....and we know a Cpl of naturists close to us that are naked once through there front door

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By *drianukMan
over a year ago

Spain, Lancs

The law was changed some years ago. You can even be naked in your front garden if you so choose.

The fault is deemed to lie with the people looking into your property.

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

Naturism and the Law - In Your Garden

Can you do as you please in your own garden?

If you want to wander around your garden naked and you are overlooked neighbours then you have to be careful - an Englishman's home is not quite his castle and your garden is not exempt from the law.

In an ideal world, your relationship with your neighbours would be such that they would not object to you gardening in the buff and they would never dream of calling the police.

In the real world, however, you would be well advised to take some simple precautions, including explaining to you neighbours that:

You want to sunbathe without clothes but,

You have no wish to offend or upset them

You will be discreet

You hope they have no objection.

Confining you naturism to a part of the garden which can be screened from the view will obviously solve the problem. If none of the above is possible, you will have to decide whether your desire to be naked in your garden is more important to you than being on friendly terms with those around you.

While the police may well be reluctant to become involved in a dispute between neighbours they are bound to investigate an allegation of "indecent exposure" or "outraging public decency".

If the worst happens and the Police were called, you would be advised to make it clear that all reasonable steps had been taken to prevent someone from seeing and that there was no intention to insult or to cause anyone alarm or distress.

On the other hand, no-one has the right to spy on you and if you find that your neighbour is leaning out of an upstairs window or standing on the top of a step ladder in order to see you then he or she may well be committing an offence.

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

taken from a naturist website and as the OP was intending on his neihbours 'catching him' i'm guessing he wont have fon to the lengths outlined above.

The fault lying with the viewee is onl applicbe of they have to go to great lengths to actualy get an eyeful, if they merely have to glance out of their bedroom window and find something offensive then the fault lies with the naked person

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Holy guacamole - lighten up everyone, it's summer - be happy

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

"Holy guacamole - lighten up everyone, it's summer - be happy

just makin sure the good people of fab continue to enjoy the nice weather, instead of looking at it through bars - im nice like that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am now contemplating throwing off my simmet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can't believe that you cannot go topless on a beach without the appropriate warning signs........... this must be the most prudish country - that cant be right - that's sexism - surely???

Anyway, I'm hopping outside to make a few lambs & chickens scream!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hello Naughtyus mamximus.

"I can't believe that you cannot go topless on a beach without the appropriate warning signs."

exactly, it's utter nonsense.

Quote - I've heard that public nudity is legal in the UK and that I can't be arrested for nude sunbathing on an unofficial nudist beach. Is that true?

Answer: Well yes and no. Technically, there is no law against being nude in public in the United Kingdom. Simple nudity is not illegal. However,using nudity to "harass, alarm or distress" others is an offence against the Public Order Act of 1986.

In practice, this means that if you are nude, minding your own business and practicing good nude beach etiquette on a beach that is unofficial but, by common consent, considered to be a nude beach, you are unlikely to have any problem. In England and Wales, if someone - a policeman or a member of the public - asks you to cover up, you should do so or you could be arrested. To be charged, someone would have to prove that you were deliberately trying to cause offence. But in practice, refusing to cover up when asked could cause you a great deal of inconvenience.

This doe mention beaches but it is not restricted to that.

There seems to be this attitude that young children should not see naked adults,but this is due to the adults who have a problem with this. A naked body means nothing to children but if their parents or others make a fuss should this occur then that is where the child gets the feeling that there is something wrong with nudity. No wonder we have such a repressed society with perpetrating such attitudes. Remember, nudity and sex are quite separate if you have a sensible attitude.

I understand this statement is going to have some people hopping up and down but there you are, just think rationally about it.

Alec

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"During the lovely hot weather how many sunbathing either topless or naked in your garden,where if your neighbours looked out of their window you could be seen.Who,s in?"

Our garden is private and not overlooked so I sometimes sunbathe naked and always topless

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I position right in my garden then no one can overlook me sunbathing topless, unfortunatley the sun has shrunk my fencing pannels and there are now gaps... some are about a cm wide which my neighbours could peek through so I think il give it a miss this year!

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