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"Companionship, someone you can say anything to and they won't judge you....feeling secure and loved... " | |||
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"Regular sex..." I had loads of sex when I was single and quite a few regular guys lol | |||
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"hugs, regular sleeping and waking together...being able to share family times (ie normal boyfriend and girlfriend times)thats about it I think" This and someone to go on weekends away with. | |||
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"Cuddling up in bed after the end of a long day and feeling like you are loved. " | |||
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"hugs, regular sleeping and waking together...being able to share family times (ie normal boyfriend and girlfriend times)thats about it I think This and someone to go on weekends away with. " | |||
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"Companionship, someone you can say anything to and they won't judge you....feeling secure and loved... " | |||
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"Cuddling up in bed after the end of a long day and feeling like you are loved. " | |||
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"this makes interesting reading. I remember a line from Victoria Wood's "Dinner Ladies" spoken by a woman whose husband had left her she said that when you say something like "oh I've left the tomatoes on the back seat of the car" there's someone there to say "have you". " | |||
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"kisses cuddles and someone there where you come home fromm work late at night" | |||
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"What I don't miss is having to make polite conversations when I just want some peace and quiet after a long hard day! " This and a list of other things. I enjoy being single, don't feel like I'm missing out. Most of my married male friends are openly envious of the way I live my life. If my dynamic changes, I'm sure I'll enjoy being in a committed relationship again, but I don't miss it. | |||
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"What I don't miss is having to make polite conversations when I just want some peace and quiet after a long hard day! This and a list of other things. I enjoy being single, don't feel like I'm missing out. Most of my married male friends are openly envious of the way I live my life. If my dynamic changes, I'm sure I'll enjoy being in a committed relationship again, but I don't miss it. " . I lived on my own before and in between relationships, and I know I prefer to live on my own than to share my living space with another person. I have enough going on in my life without feeling incomplete or empty, and do not have the time and energy to invest on a full blown relationship. | |||
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"Companionship, someone you can say anything to and they won't judge you....feeling secure and loved... " This! | |||
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"I miss my mobile phone being thrown through my plaster board wall. I miss being told how much of a git I am. I miss being told to stop looking at other woman..and apparently I know what I'm doing and it's not on! I miss the conversations about how much og a wanker I am for buying a suitcase that doesnt match hers. I miss not being sworn at for not answering my phone immediately. Yeah I fucking miss all that. " Yes but that is one person not the whole...if I thought that I'd be thinking every bloke was going to attack me with a hammer or throw keys at my face or punch me...I know it scars you but us women are not all like that... | |||
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" Yes but that is one person not the whole...if I thought that I'd be thinking every bloke was going to attack me with a hammer or throw keys at my face or punch me..." That sucks! "I know it scars you but us women are not all like that... " True..but over time every women I've ever dated which I can count on 1 hand....has called me a git though! Even though I've never warrented it! Ha! Nah..seriously..there will come a point when I'll probably date again. .but that ain't gonna be for a while! | |||
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"Companionship, someone you can say anything to and they won't judge you....feeling secure and loved... Exactly like the above, especially feeling loved... Tenderness, cuddles and banter as well " Yes this xxx | |||
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"Companionship, someone you can say anything to and they won't judge you....feeling secure and loved... This! " Wohoo legs is back lol this aswell | |||
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"Having someone to go the theatre, cinema or gigs with. Or the beer garden on a day like today! " Go and see who can pick up at the beer garden then | |||
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"Companionship, someone you can say anything to and they won't judge you....feeling secure and loved... This! Wohoo legs is back lol this aswell " lol did you miss my legs? | |||
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"Cuddling up in bed after the end of a long day and feeling like you are loved. " ^this | |||
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"I don't feel like I'm missing out on anything. Prefer being single. Have enough friends with benefits that if I have the need for a cuddle or more I can. I love the freedom of doing what I want when I want with who I want how I want lol. I do admit to being a complete commitment phobe. " I agree with all that except the last sentence. I have no problem with commitment. Just not looking for it. | |||
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"I don't feel like I'm missing out on anything. Prefer being single. Have enough friends with benefits that if I have the need for a cuddle or more I can. I love the freedom of doing what I want when I want with who I want how I want lol. I do admit to being a complete commitment phobe. " You know I have had this conversation about commitment phobia with a friend recently who thinks I am exactly that. I don't really belive in commmitement phobia really - I mean if you are scared of committing to someone, doesn't that just mean they aren't the right person for you? I would like to think that if the right person came along I wouldn't be scared of committing to them at all. Or is it just the difference between wanting a relationship and not wanting a relationship? I just think I fall into the latter. If that's commitment phobia then so be it. | |||
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"My phobia of commitment is not that I'm afraid of it just that I don't want it. Phobia maybe the wrong word but it is how I'm described by most of my vanilla friends lol. " Exactly. There is a big difference between being scared of something and simply not wanting it! | |||
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"kisses cuddles and someone there where you come home fromm work late at night" And those moments when you just turn around and want to share a special moment with and they are there to listen | |||
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"Love is fine but the remote is mine! " | |||
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"kisses cuddles and someone there where you come home fromm work late at night" love cuddles n kisses and jus getting tingly on sofa xx | |||
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"I sometimes think it would be nice to have someone to sleep with, someone to cuddle upto in bed with and just chat daily rubbish with, someone to wake up with and have a morning shag lol but then I remember the down sides of a relationship, like having to answer to someone, not being able to come and go when I like, having someone want to know where your going, what time you'll be back, who your going with and I think fuck it i'll cuddle upto my dog and have a morning wank the bad point of a relationship outweight the good points for me so i'm staying single " sorry cant resist it!!!!!!!!!! am giggled | |||
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"Love is fine but the remote is mine! " My mum and dad have been together nearly sixty years and her secret to a happy marriage is give him his own telly and chair in the bedroom for when he watches the footy etc. She sits him down with a coffee or a dram a sandwich and some crisps then leaves him to it! Separate tv's and remotes for them works! | |||
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"I think I miss having someone special, but then when threads like this make me try to pinpoint what I miss about a relationship, I can't really think of anything in particular. I'm maybe just more content than I realised " This. That said, do I want to be on my own in 10 years? No! | |||
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"I think I miss having someone special, but then when threads like this make me try to pinpoint what I miss about a relationship, I can't really think of anything in particular. I'm maybe just more content than I realised This. That said, do I want to be on my own in 10 years? No!" I have no idea how I feel about the future, my eldest daughter keeps on at me about finding someone but I honestly don't want to, she says to me that im going to grow old and alone but it really does not bother me, when I look back on my life I can honestly say I have never been as happy as I am now, I had a very unhappy marriage and I just couldn't go thro all that again, plus I often think im far to old to be going thro all that dating crap, I just want a quiet and hassle free life which is what I have now so why chance it Tho if im going to be totally honest sometimes when i'm out and I see couples together who are obviously in love, holding hands, having a kiss etc I do sometimes feel envious as i've never had that and often wonder how it feel to have someone who cares for you sad twat I know lol | |||
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"I miss my mobile phone being thrown through my plaster board wall. I miss being told how much of a git I am. I miss being told to stop looking at other woman..and apparently I know what I'm doing and it's not on! I miss the conversations about how much og a wanker I am for buying a suitcase that doesnt match hers. I miss not being sworn at for not answering my phone immediately. Yeah I fucking miss all that. " Yeah, like fuck ya do | |||
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" Tho if im going to be totally honest sometimes when i'm out and I see couples together who are obviously in love, holding hands, having a kiss etc I do sometimes feel envious as i've never had that and often wonder how it feel to have someone who cares for you sad twat I know lol" After a crap marriage I had all the love you could imagine with my second partner, maybe that's why I think I'm content. I know I had the of love of my life with him after my shit husband and I won't meet another. So when I see others holding hands etc. I think that was me once and I feel blessed to have had it. Don't give up on all men because one wounded your heart. xxx | |||
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"I think I miss having someone special, but then when threads like this make me try to pinpoint what I miss about a relationship, I can't really think of anything in particular. I'm maybe just more content than I realised This. That said, do I want to be on my own in 10 years? No! I have no idea how I feel about the future, my eldest daughter keeps on at me about finding someone but I honestly don't want to, she says to me that im going to grow old and alone but it really does not bother me, when I look back on my life I can honestly say I have never been as happy as I am now, I had a very unhappy marriage and I just couldn't go thro all that again, plus I often think im far to old to be going thro all that dating crap, I just want a quiet and hassle free life which is what I have now so why chance it Tho if im going to be totally honest sometimes when i'm out and I see couples together who are obviously in love, holding hands, having a kiss etc I do sometimes feel envious as i've never had that and often wonder how it feel to have someone who cares for you sad twat I know lol" My marriage was very happy, the death of our only son broke us. Yesterday would have been our 32 wedding anniversary and I am sad we didn't make it. I've lived on my own with my two youngest daughters who have partners and feel sorry for me, bless em. My life at the moment is fine, I even go on holiday alone and thinking of moving to France. I just know I don't want to be by myself for ever. Having a best friend, confidant, lover all in one person would be nice for the future. | |||
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"I dont miss anything, i love being single. Having much more fun than being in a relationship " | |||
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"I miss someone to do the gardening, do all the heavy lifting, take rubbish to the dump and do the painting and decorating ......... after years of doing it for myself I'm not physically able to any more. Apart from that I'm used to being on my own and can't really see me sharing my home or my life with a man now, unless he worked away a lot and gave me space. I like eating what I want when I want, sitting up and reading half the night with no 'put the light out!' watching what I want on telly or days of not having it on at all. Spending my money on what I want, wearing what I want, doing nothing when I want, going to see friends or have them visit when I want. I like the boring predictable moments in my life and the spontaneous flights of fancy. I think more people should spend time on their own to realise what they can achieve by themselves without having a partner for emotional or financial support. Too many in this world think a partner is responsible for their own happiness, well being and financial security. There comes a time to accept you are captain of your own ship in life. Love is fine but the remote is mine! " | |||
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"i miss the feeling of being loved by someone and someone to go cinema with regularly (still ain't seen world war z yet) " u dont wanna its absolute fucking pish...altho thru the boredom u could get a few bjs etc at least | |||
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"Just realised another one - no one to rub suncream into my back to make sure that I'm not going to burn to a crisp. No one to sit in the garden with and relax alongside. " now that is something I miss | |||
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"kisses cuddles and someone there where you come home fromm work late at night" yep agree with that..x | |||
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"i miss the feeling of being loved by someone and someone to go cinema with regularly (still ain't seen world war z yet) u dont wanna its absolute fucking pish...altho thru the boredom u could get a few bjs etc at least" don't listen to him lol..it's great..go see | |||
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"i miss the feeling of being loved by someone and someone to go cinema with regularly (still ain't seen world war z yet) u dont wanna its absolute fucking pish...altho thru the boredom u could get a few bjs etc at least don't listen to him lol..it's great..go see" i want to see it either way (my sort of film) but that was my point i'm single and all my friends go cinema with there partners so i'm a bit stuck not gonna go alone that's just a bit weird | |||
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"only thing i miss is someone to help with the bills" +1 | |||
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"i miss the feeling of being loved by someone and someone to go cinema with regularly (still ain't seen world war z yet) u dont wanna its absolute fucking pish...altho thru the boredom u could get a few bjs etc at least don't listen to him lol..it's great..go see i want to see it either way (my sort of film) but that was my point i'm single and all my friends go cinema with there partners so i'm a bit stuck not gonna go alone that's just a bit weird " No it's not. I go to the cinema on my own all the time. | |||
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"Someone who understands that sometime all that is needed is someone to listen to you while you shout and scream then holds you till you stop crying making you laugh by telling you how sexy you look with red eyes and a snotty nose. " . Mmmmmm... Snotty noses! | |||
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