FabSwingers.com forum: HUMPING FOR HAITI

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

While i have posted on my profile i am not playing i am still organising parties and tonight i am having 14 couples around to my house for a 'humping for haiti' party, all proceeds from this contribution party will go towards the haiti disaster fund.

Just thougt it might be an idea to try get these organised up and down the country over the next month and see how much we as swingers can raise, we can post on here how much each party raised for the cause.

What do you think and please no comments about charity begins at home, this was a huge disaster and people are homeless with out medical help, at least in the uk we are looked after.

Will post proceeds tomorrow - so please go organise a small gettogether and lets raise money for this cause.

jenny

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

great idea and good luck xxxx hope you raise a lot of money and raise a few lovely cocks lol

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By *ot - CoupleCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow

Its a good idea but how do we know the proceeds will go to Haiti?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

if people say they will send the money they will... FFS !!! us genuine swingers are very honest people !have you not seen the news people are giving birth and dying in the bloody street for gods sake !

im going to suggest it to my friend tomorrow night he is having a party ! we wil have a whip round so to speak

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By *oe_Steve_NWestCouple
over a year ago

Bolton

Great idea Betty - hope it goes well - we probably won't be able to host one ourselves but would go to one for this good cause - martyrs that we are! Z

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By (user no longer on site)
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over a year ago

We're at a social tomorrow night,maybe we can get a little whip round going there if people are willing

We've put moiney in an open bucket at our supermarket this week

Don't know whether it will get to Haiti but as I hav'nt got time to deliver it personally ill just have to trust the people ive given it to

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i think thats a wonderful idea!!!

i seen it on the news last night and it showed you a care home and the residents with metal health problems and learnin disabilities lyin in the streets with 2 carers who survived tryin their best to look after them and the tears were streaming down my face the image will stay with me for a long time. i donated 10 quid as right now money is really tight and i hope for the little it is it helps someone. i hope your party goes well and a big well done to you for organising it xxx

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By *umcoveredpussyCouple
over a year ago

Nottingham

we would happerly hold one if anyone is intrested

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Its a good idea but how do we know the proceeds will go to Haiti?"

Because IT WILL

I am a nurse and if i thought i could get out there to help with medical response then i would be there in a shot, this is the next best thing i can do, but thank you for your vote of confidence, we arent all thieving skants. Some of us are actually honest.

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By *ot - CoupleCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow

"if people say they will send the money they will... FFS !!! us genuine swingers are very honest people !have you not seen the news people are giving birth and dying in the bloody street for gods sake !

im going to suggest it to my friend tomorrow night he is having a party ! we wil have a whip round so to speak "

Yes we have seen the news and yes a lot of us on here are honest swingers.

Do you remember the earthquake in Pakistan a few years ago people raised Millions of pounds for them but yet a lot of the money never went to Pakistan, there was a programe on the tv about it, so be careful make sure who you give money to is a registerd charity or you know for definate the money will goto a charity.

Its times like this that you will see a lot of scams.

Just being honest.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

THIS IS NOT A SCAM FFS!!!!!!

LIKE I SAID SOME OF US ARE HONEST, AND RESPECTED AMOUNG THE COMMUNITY.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

well u got my support!! so much for a major part of swingin bein about trust!!

hope u have a ball and whatever you donate will help! if i lived near u i would be there!! xx

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By *ickmealloverWoman
over a year ago

a very plush appartment off junt 7 M5

If they say the money goes to charity it will

If you have doubts, and want to give, go along to your nearest Red Cross shop and donate there

If you dont wish to donate maybe its best you dont comment xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ignore him betty, we have known you for years and can confirm that you are genuine, we remember the collection you did for south west hospice at one of your first parties and you made sure you had the receipt at the next party on the wall with the thank you letter recieved.

We will be there tonight at your party and will gladly contribute and its a fantastic idea. And yes lets get britain humping for haiti ( how long did it take you to come up with that one lol)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In defence of the OP I don't feel they are questioning the honesty of forumites.

Seems to me they are saying that avenues between forumites and Haiti can sometimes be used for money to be 'filtered' off and never reach your intended goal.

Gran x

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By *ot - CoupleCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow

"In defence of the OP I don't feel they are questioning the honesty of forumites.

Seems to me they are saying that avenues between forumites and Haiti can sometimes be used for money to be 'filtered' off and never reach your intended goal.

Gran x "

Thank you Gran

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By *ickmealloverWoman
over a year ago

a very plush appartment off junt 7 M5

"In defence of the OP I don't feel they are questioning the honesty of forumites.

Seems to me they are saying that avenues between forumites and Haiti can sometimes be used for money to be 'filtered' off and never reach your intended goal.

Gran x

Thank you Gran "

as I said

Donate to the red cross if you are concerned

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh bootie xxx you beat me too it.

As for the poster who is unsure of whether the monies will go to said fund. Perhaps you should have made it clearer in your opening post that you were not referring to bettyboo and was on about other avenues. Or is it a case of back tracking now seeing as everyone supports this.

And yes swinging is about trust, after all we let strangers into our homes!!

Well done betty, just wish i could be there tonight but i am on duty.

See you at the next one.

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By *imfromGlasgowMan
over a year ago

er...guess

There seems to be a helluva lot of charities all trying to do pretty much the same thing and all running large back-office staff in the UK and sometimes elsewhere.

You have to wonder how much dosh donated to, say, the Disasters Emergency Committee (DEC) actually gets to the front line once it has funded the admin etc of thirteen other charities.

Incidentally I overheard a conversation about how a guy refused to support the DEC because of the religious affiliations of some of the member organisations including the Catholic Agency For International Relief, Christian Aid and Islamic Relief.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

just googled Haiti to find out what happened - It's a shame for the innocents there a good job the people they hate of the USA have helped them with aid.

our thoughts are with them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well done Betty, hope the party is a fabulous success and you all have an amazing time while helping others, excellent idea xxx Raz xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it's a lovely thing you're doing.

Snide remarks and people having to google what is going on in the world doesn't surprise me or you, hence the comments in your OP.

I hope you all have a great time and raise more than money

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

see in all honesty from what iv seen in the papers and news if i could be over there offerin whatever form of help i could i would!

over 1 million children have been orphaned by the disaster alone and if i could give one of them a home i would.

when my world revolves around what goes on in a 3 mile radius of myself then i will know that my soul has gone completely.

someday somethin like this may happen in this country we never know and i would hope and pray other nations helped us. i imagine relief funds would need staff so therefore expect that a percentage of donations will be spent on that xx

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By *imfromGlasgowMan
over a year ago

er...guess

" .....i imagine relief funds would need staff so therefore expect that a percentage of donations will be spent on that xx"

Charities providing relief clearly need staff to run the business but there does seem to be a lot of unnecessary duplication. Similar charities doing similar work in similar parts of the work; each with a Chief Executive, often a Deputy or two or three, a press spokesperson and so on - many on substantial salaries.

That's before I get started on chuggers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i dont argue that they could probably be better organised and pay structured but at the end of the day they are the ones who organise the aid etc when some form of disaster strikes and maybe if they did all merge it would release more money for relief x

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By *ickmealloverWoman
over a year ago

a very plush appartment off junt 7 M5

thing is theyre doing it not paying lip service

plus

They are very vulnerable as there could be another earthquake and they could be killed themselves

They EARN EVERY PENNY

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By *imfromGlasgowMan
over a year ago

er...guess

Many never go outwith the M25 except on a photo-opportunity or on holiday.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we talkin politicians??xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think it's a lovely thing you're doing.

Snide remarks and people having to google what is going on in the world doesn't surprise me or you, hence the comments in your OP.

I hope you all have a great time and raise more than money

My remarks were not snide they were open, they are my opinion and I am entitled to them unless you have become prime minister, that may be the case as I never watch news channels and will never buy a newspaper, again my choice.

I do know that when the US were forcibly removed from Haiti the government condoned the killing of US citizens by the people they had riled into removing the US presence.

I support all aid to the innocents of Haiti and I commend the US for donating $100 million dollars to the relief fund and a lot of other aid to a government that treated them so shamefully.

We all know what governments do and the children and innocents of the Country all need our help, I have already made an online contribution to the British relief fund after reading this thread as I am sure you have too.

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By *imfromGlasgowMan
over a year ago

er...guess

"we talkin politicians??xx"

Nah, senior staff at UK based charities.

No shortage of politicians desperate to get their faces on camera. Ban Ki Moon was there a few days ago. Bill Clinton too. There's bound to be a Papal Visit sometime soon - just what Haiti needs, eh?

While we're at it. Dog knows how many tv film crews are over there, all struggling to get the most humanitarian story or the best photo. All taking up plane space, food, water, accommodation and needing protection.

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By *ickmealloverWoman
over a year ago

a very plush appartment off junt 7 M5

without the camera crews there, I doubt many regular folk would be making donations

All are still in danger on dying if there are further earthquakes

I admire all who go

There motives are always to raise awareness and keep the cash flowing in to help there people

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i dont often defend the media but realistically they are raising awareness and showin what is happenin in the area and they got to get there somehow!!

if the pope visitin raises awareness then so be it sometimes people after seein a figure in power bein there will donate and to me its a good thing, an even better thing would be these public figures dippin into the wee offshore accounts and makin a donation or taking a family to safety in their country if they wanted to leave xx

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By *imfromGlasgowMan
over a year ago

er...guess

"i dont often defend the media but realistically they are raising awareness and showin what is happenin in the area and they got to get there somehow!!

I have no problem with awareness raising - I just doubt it needs a film crew from almost every channel in almost every country in the world.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

media sells dear!! u think rupert murdoch etc in it for the love of the job!! the world is global so obviously u goin to have news crews from every corner! information may be power but doesnt mean its to make sense unfortunately! and i dont think anyone has thought of the one crew from one country and it would never happen anyway! x

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By *ickmealloverWoman
over a year ago

a very plush appartment off junt 7 M5

each country needs a figurehead it knows and respects to try to get the natives to donate

The more countries that donate the better

If it help the people of haiti, then I dont see how it can be a bad thing

Its not like the news network will send a bill for their services to the haitin government now is it

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By *imfromGlasgowMan
over a year ago

er...guess

"media sells dear!! u think rupert murdoch etc in it for the love of the job!! the world is global so obviously u goin to have news crews from every corner! information may be power but doesnt mean its to make sense unfortunately! and i dont think anyone has thought of the one crew from one country and it would never happen anyway! x"

I was thinking more in terms of one film crew full stop. Interviews and commentary could be dubbed back home - even into Gaelic

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By *imfromGlasgowMan
over a year ago

er...guess

"each country needs a figurehead it knows and respects to try to get the natives to donate

..............

So we send politicians? Respect isn't the first word that'd spring into most folks minds when describing politicians.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was thinking more in terms of one film crew full stop. Interviews and commentary could be dubbed back home - even into Gaelic

would never work it all boils down to money etc xx

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By *ickmealloverWoman
over a year ago

a very plush appartment off junt 7 M5

"each country needs a figurehead it knows and respects to try to get the natives to donate

..............

So we send politicians? Respect isn't the first word that'd spring into most folks minds when describing politicians. "

look the question isn't about that

The op is about raising funds

I dont suppose your busting a gut yourself

best leave i to those that will love and go moan to someone else

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By *b430Man
over a year ago

Tayside

"each country needs a figurehead it knows and respects to try to get the natives to donate

..............

So we send politicians? Respect isn't the first word that'd spring into most folks minds when describing politicians. "

I actually think she was meaning the news reporter was the figurehead. One that we all recognise in our own countries and not any politician or world leader.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"each country needs a figurehead it knows and respects to try to get the natives to donate

..............

So we send politicians? Respect isn't the first word that'd spring into most folks minds when describing politicians. "

lets see it from a different side when we send politicians.......aftershocks and civil unrest we may get rid of a few through that!!! x

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By *imfromGlasgowMan
over a year ago

er...guess

This thread doesn't deserve to have been relegated to page 3.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Wow what a night and such a fantastic bunch of folk,

Well done everyone we raised £250.00

I will take the money into the local collection point and obtain a receipt for it and it will be available to view at the next party on the 6th.

lets keep this going as it was so fun and i dont mind donating some more dresses for a naked auction lol

And scottie you left your hat you bought lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well done xxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

still recovering - what a night

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Well done xxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

still recovering - what a night

you left your socks lol

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By *ittlemorespiceCouple
over a year ago

North Cornwall

Oh boy we had fun!!! Betty is a good friend and as honest as the day is long! If only all fund raising was as fun! Your a gem Diva!

love SG xxxxxxxxxxx

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Glad you enjoyed hunni, and it was a good way to raise some dosh for the appeal, lets hope others organise events as well.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We would be willing to contribute to a whip round at a party for this good cause.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Another great night, wow, we're bloody aching now. Always happy to support a good cause and we are already looking forward to phase 2 on Feb 6th.

Think Kate was on a mission to shag everyboy who was sitting, standing or lying down don't know where she gets her energy

Thanks also for your hospitality

you're a very special lady xxxxxxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wish i had been there but i will see you on the 6th and i am happy to contribute to the cause when i see you.

£250 - WELL DONE

xxxxxxxxx sarah

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

see you there hunni xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

big well done to u all!! x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"big well done to u all!! x

It was hard work, but somebody had to do it lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Come on guys spill the beans how much did you manage to raise at your socials etc, many of you said you would get involved - lets see how we did.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

only a suggestion but some of the voluntery aids/ groups who help in disasters like that like the british red cross it may be an idea to pass directly onto them if you realy want to know where your money is going .

daz does a lot of voluntery work and has assisted them over the last few years and knows the money gets where its supposed to when it goes through them .

well done all who are having the partys and nice to see there are a few that care enough to do this ..

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

This saturday we are having another its gonna be called 'shag for the shake' hopefully we will match the £250 we raised last party and that will pay for a shelter box which is supplied by a local charity down here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

well done u yet again!! xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

bloody 'ell Betty, it's costin us a small fortune in condoms

Wonder if a manufacturer would sponsor us?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

but you keep telling me your HUGE!!! so you use industrial bin bags that you nick of the lorries.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Kate needs them for PVC fetish frocks

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Take her westward bound ya tight git lol she must get some funny looks wearing a dress that says property of cornwall district council. I know she is sub but come on,

Oh and im the tight jock so dont steal my thunder lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Take her westward bound ya tight git lol she must get some funny looks wearing a dress that says property of cornwall district council. I know she is sub but come on,

Oh and im the tight jock so dont steal my thunder lol

Kate, a sub? She's more dom than Ghengis Khan

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Well i didnt want to say she was a bossy cow seeing as she is staying at mine tomorrow or she would have me running after her with cups of tea lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Kate just asked if you've got a new kettle, cos yours was bust the last time we stayed over

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

yes i do its virginal white just like me lol

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