FabSwingers.com forum: The Cheek

By *unlovers OP Couple
over a year ago

rotherham

Is it just me or do you other ladies have the problem of single guys who jump on you as soon as hubby leaves the room

I always enjoy meeting single guys but Im so pissed off with the ones who make a move as soon as my hubby nips out

If i mention it they get mardy

Do we not have the right to make the first move when we are comfortable and not when we feel pressured

Rant over...sorry

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Course you have the right..swift kick in the nads works

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In a number of cases it has been the husband leaving the room which has been the signal.... He returns shortly afterwards and joins in....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Went to a club, needed the loo, I told dave I would meet him in the bar so off he went. At that time a guy was coming down the stairs as I was waiting to go in the loo, he adked if I needed a hand. My reply was no thanks, been toilet trained since I was two x

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By *unlovers OP Couple
over a year ago

rotherham

We dont see it as a signal to start fun at all as we always explain what we want and how things work but in some cases they dont listen

Needless to say the last guy was sent packing as it put me off

Surely hubby is allowed to nip to loo or go make a drink without without thinking im gonna get jumped on

If someone is invited to our home then we will escort them to the bedroom if we wanna have fun but anyway dont really know why im going on about it

Just seems to happen a lot and its really putting me off inviting single guys here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Of course you have the right, dont let thr few spoil it for you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not once has the ever happened to me so as Sexycouple said don't let it put you off.

Also regardless of location anyone should respect your boundaries and wishes.

It isn't just single men that overstep the mark.

Hopefully your next meet will show you that the majority of single guys are very respectful.

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By *unlovers OP Couple
over a year ago

rotherham

Luckily over the years most of our guys have been very respectful but it just seems that recently we are going through a bad batch

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We use OH going put of the room as a signal because that's how we play. My OH finds it a turn on to go out and then to come back to find me with a guy, in a kind of 'catching me out' kind of fantasy.

But the single guys do understand this as when chatting all together, we do mention this is OHs fantasy.

I can understand what the OP means though. If it's not a planned thing and they prefer all to be involved at the start, then it's not appropriate. It would almost seem like the guys don't understand the dynamics of playing with a couple and have only met them to get to the female, with the male half pushed out in a way. This is rude and single guys should only contact couples to play if they are comfortable with the threesome scenario. It doesn't mean they have to be bi but it foes mean they have to be comfortable with getting naked and having sex in front of another man.

If this is unnerving for guys then don't contact couples, simple as. It's disrespectful to jump on a mans wife when his back is turned, unless, like us, they have made it clear they play I'm this way

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By *kywatcherMan
over a year ago

Southwick

"Luckily over the years most of our guys have been very respectful but it just seems that recently we are going through a bad batch

Mention it to the manufacturer and get them recalled. They might issue a new batch that is less flawed.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Luckily over the years most of our guys have been very respectful but it just seems that recently we are going through a bad batch

Mention it to the manufacturer and get them recalled. They might issue a new batch that is less flawed.

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funny

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By *kin BohnerMan
over a year ago

derby

No wonder some of us don't get much of a chance... please do not tar all us single guys with the same brush, some of us are good guys we just don't get the chance to prove it...

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