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"Is it me who just gets frustrated whith a one word answer. if you cant converse then obviously you shouldn't be messaging now I'm anticipating quite a few 'yes' and 'no' answers " If you ask closed questions, you're going to get one word answers. | |||
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"I hate one word answers and I always ask a varied type of open questions?" So what question are you asking in your post (above)? | |||
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"Ur hot bbe - whatever luv the profile - whatever Wanna chat? - whatever nice shoes - whatever Hi - whatever wow - whatever See it works really well... I thought." Might have to steal this one ![]() | |||
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"I get this alot.. U send a decent message askin how the person is to get a 'gd' not even a 'gd thanks you?'..... Pretty frustrating yh haha" any idea how many times a lady on here is asked "hey how's you"? ![]() | |||
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"Ur hot bbe - whatever luv the profile - whatever Wanna chat? - whatever nice shoes - whatever Hi - whatever wow - whatever See it works really well... I thought." love it ![]() | |||
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"I would assume it meant they are not interested but hoped by responding it may prevent another 'my message got delete' thread ![]() Indeed, but as we see: damned if you do, damned if you don't! ![]() | |||
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"I get this alot.. U send a decent message askin how the person is to get a 'gd' not even a 'gd thanks you?'..... Pretty frustrating yh hahaany idea how many times a lady on here is asked "hey how's you"? ![]() I'm rather amazed that 'how are you' is classed as a decent message! It makes me cringe when I get a how are you message when my status would clearly indicate things aren't good. Sometimes I just ignore and sometimes I let them have it. 'Well seeing as you asked....' | |||
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"Ur hot bbe - whatever luv the profile - whatever Wanna chat? - whatever nice shoes - whatever Hi - whatever wow - whatever See it works really well... I thought." I wouldn't be at all surprised to find many of the men sending monosyllabic messages describe themselves as 'articulate and intelligent' on their profile. The moral seems to be - if you're going to let your mother write your profile, you'll have to get her to write your messages too. ![]() | |||
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"Have I got this right? Your initial message was "your hot" and you're wondering why no conversation ensued?" My bad x I have never and would never send such a message x No usually I craft a two or three line message depending on their profile content , not too long but long enough Often I then receive , yer ur hot or nice bod I would then try usually laugh that off modestly and perhaps pose a question or two to which the reply is just yes or a smiley face , so again I might try , to receive a yes or a smile again . Bear in mind usually my message is going to aim to give the lady something to continue the conversation x | |||
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"If you don't like send an open question - rather than a closed one! ![]() I've had "OK" as a reply to "is there anything that you would like me to bring?" I have been on here before and the one word answers seem to come from the male half of couples profiles where they have been on the site a while with no verifications- draw your own conclusions. ![]() | |||
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"If I get those replies I usually get the message. If I'm sending those its coz I can't be bothered to talk to someone and hope they get the message. Lol x" This^^^ ![]() | |||
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"Is it me who just gets frustrated whith a one word answer." As that is a closed question what sort of answer were you expecting? | |||
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"if I get to the point im sending single word replies or im getting them I stop mailing, its usually means they arnt interested or im struggling to find thinsg to say so its time to stop" Nail/head. | |||
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"Organised = opinions ![]() Hope you get the fun you deserve, clearly a decent, intelligent guy and as a guy I can see why the ladies would see that bit extra needed as well as your above mentioned attributes. This gents is the quality of male member you are up against and why you may struggle with no pics, a short effortless profile and the charm and persuasive powers of Finbarr Saunders. | |||
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"I hate one word answers and I always ask a varied type of open questions? So what question are you asking in your post (above)?" Reading the profile first and askin them questions relating to their wants or needs | |||
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