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By *iddlesticks OP   Man
15 hours ago

My nan’s spare room.

And it does me good like it ruddy well should.

I’m afraid I’m a bit of a cheeky tinker winker, watch out watch out because there’s a winker about.

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By *eroLondonMan
15 hours ago

Mayfair

I'm not really a winker. I rarely check my winks. I just checked now and have one recent wink sent on the back of a similar thread.

She knows.

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By *iddlesticks OP   Man
15 hours ago

My nan’s spare room.


"I'm not really a winker. I rarely check my winks. I just checked now and have one recent wink sent on the back of a similar thread.

She knows."

A wink from Nero is like a unicorn tear.

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By *eroLondonMan
15 hours ago

Mayfair


"I'm not really a winker. I rarely check my winks. I just checked now and have one recent wink sent on the back of a similar thread.

She knows.

·

A wink from Nero is like a unicorn tear. "

FFS.

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By *iddlesticks OP   Man
15 hours ago

My nan’s spare room.


"I'm not really a winker. I rarely check my winks. I just checked now and have one recent wink sent on the back of a similar thread.

She knows.

·

A wink from Nero is like a unicorn tear.

FFS. "

Work with me here.

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By *olvesxcoupleCouple
14 hours ago

Round the bend

I don't do winks and rarely look at them, but I'll make an exception for you fiddles 😉

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By *iddlesticks OP   Man
14 hours ago

My nan’s spare room.


"I don't do winks and rarely look at them, but I'll make an exception for you fiddles 😉"

😘😉😘😉😜😘

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By *verhard88Man
14 hours ago

Bolton

I never get winks, I'm forever winking.

I mean, I wink that much I can do it all day out of both eyes, but that's just blinking in my eyes

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By *olvesxcoupleCouple
14 hours ago

Round the bend


"I never get winks, I'm forever winking.

I mean, I wink that much I can do it all day out of both eyes, but that's just blinking in my eyes "

Ahem.

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By *verhard88Man
14 hours ago

Bolton


"I never get winks, I'm forever winking.

I mean, I wink that much I can do it all day out of both eyes, but that's just blinking in my eyes

Ahem. "

Ooo I got a wink. An actual wink!

Does that mean I get the go ahead to bombard you with sausage photos? Kidding. Too cold today

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By *etwife8230Couple
14 hours ago

Newport

I'm a occasional winker

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By *iddlesticks OP   Man
14 hours ago

My nan’s spare room.


"I'm a occasional winker"

It’s quite the occasion.

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By *lowupdollTV/TS
14 hours ago

Here. There.


"I'm not really a winker. I rarely check my winks. I just checked now and have one recent wink sent on the back of a similar thread.

She knows.

A wink from Nero is like a unicorn tear. "

I actually spat my coffee.

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By *olvesxcoupleCouple
14 hours ago

Round the bend


"I never get winks, I'm forever winking.

I mean, I wink that much I can do it all day out of both eyes, but that's just blinking in my eyes

Ahem.

Ooo I got a wink. An actual wink!

Does that mean I get the go ahead to bombard you with sausage photos? Kidding. Too cold today "

Yes. Please don't 😂😂😘

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By *okingham WillMan
14 hours ago

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A wink, in its purest form, is actually a great idea imho.

Assuming everyone was on the same page a wink heading your way is a great way to show initial interest (much like a swipe right) without the men having to construct a unique piece of prose for every woman or couple on here, or the women and couples having to wade through hundreds of messages and cock pics.

Get a wink, check the profile, if it’s of potential interest wink back, and THEN it’s up to the originator to write that eye catching message which will make or break their chances.

Sadly winking has a stigma now. Lazy. Unimaginative. “I don’t look at winks”.

So the concept is already sullied.

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By *avenwrexham75TV/TS
14 hours ago

Wrexham

I get winks and always check out who has sent it.. sometimes then I will wink or message back.

But , and I'm sorry if you are one of these, the majority get ignored.

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By *infullyObedientWoman
14 hours ago

Woodley

I said it the other day but dont waste a wink on me, I never check them. Sorry if youve winked me and feel ignored 😘

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By *onin25Man
14 hours ago

Durham

It's nice when you get a wink, but they don't stand out on your profile and I don't routinely check so I normally miss them.

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By *iver78Man
14 hours ago

barton upon humber


"A wink, in its purest form, is actually a great idea imho.

Assuming everyone was on the same page a wink heading your way is a great way to show initial interest (much like a swipe right) without the men having to construct a unique piece of prose for every woman or couple on here, or the women and couples having to wade through hundreds of messages and cock pics.

Get a wink, check the profile, if it’s of potential interest wink back, and THEN it’s up to the originator to write that eye catching message which will make or break their chances.

Sadly winking has a stigma now. Lazy. Unimaginative. “I don’t look at winks”.

So the concept is already sullied.

"

Exactly , if someone does not except a wink I automatically assume there stuck up there x own arses , why would you want someone to write an essay to only ignore it 🤔 bit needy I think , but guess it boosts there ego

Simple wink ,look and if there profile suits , a message

This site would work a lot better if you had to except a wink before ant chats lol

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By *ousteau72Man
14 hours ago

Wombourne

It's nice to receive a wink.

If only so that you can thank the winker in question and then make a joke about not using spell check.

Or is it just me?

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By *lowupdollTV/TS
13 hours ago

Here. There.

I don’t look at winks. I start from the theory that many in the tv category are the options only after the single M has messaged every woman in a given radius, and on that basis I ignore them.

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By *lowupdollTV/TS
13 hours ago

Here. There.


"I don’t look at winks. I start from the theory that many in the tv category are the options only after the single M has messaged every woman in a given radius, and on that basis I ignore them."

Actually oh that basis I ignore a lot of messages too.

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By *avinaTVTV/TS
13 hours ago

Transsexual Transylvania


"I don’t look at winks. I start from the theory that many in the tv category are the options only after the single M has messaged every woman in a given radius, and on that basis I ignore them.

Actually oh that basis I ignore a lot of messages too. "

Ah yes, when you're "the other white meat"... 🙄

If I look at the guy's profile, and he's straight with TV/TS excluded from his list of who he's looking for, then I also assume this.

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By *morousCouple8Couple
13 hours ago

Cumbria

We send and receive winks. But most are ignored because we’re not interested.

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By *eroLondonMan
13 hours ago

Mayfair

Fiiine! I'll send a wink or two, for goodness sake. Knowing my luck it will sit there ignored like a stray waif from an orphanage.

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By *infullyObedientWoman
13 hours ago

Woodley


"A wink, in its purest form, is actually a great idea imho.

Assuming everyone was on the same page a wink heading your way is a great way to show initial interest (much like a swipe right) without the men having to construct a unique piece of prose for every woman or couple on here, or the women and couples having to wade through hundreds of messages and cock pics.

Get a wink, check the profile, if it’s of potential interest wink back, and THEN it’s up to the originator to write that eye catching message which will make or break their chances.

Sadly winking has a stigma now. Lazy. Unimaginative. “I don’t look at winks”.

So the concept is already sullied.

Exactly , if someone does not except a wink I automatically assume there stuck up there x own arses , why would you want someone to write an essay to only ignore it 🤔 bit needy I think , but guess it boosts there ego

Simple wink ,look and if there profile suits , a message

This site would work a lot better if you had to except a wink before ant chats lol "

Intereting view point. I wouldnt say im stuck up my own arse but I dont look at them. I get hundreds of winks and it would take too long to check each profile to see if there is interest, anyone can wink even outside your preferences i believe. Messages I can apply filters on so that keeps them to a manageable number.

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By *opeye89Man
13 hours ago

London

I do send a wink to show my interest. I think my profile is detailed for someone to see if I might take their fancy. And if interested, hopefully wink back.

It’s worked for me before.

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By *olvesxcoupleCouple
13 hours ago

Round the bend


"It's nice to receive a wink.

If only so that you can thank the winker in question and then make a joke about not using spell check.

Or is it just me?"

I see what you did there 🤣🤣

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By *lowupdollTV/TS
13 hours ago

Here. There.


"I don’t look at winks. I start from the theory that many in the tv category are the options only after the single M has messaged every woman in a given radius, and on that basis I ignore them.

Actually oh that basis I ignore a lot of messages too.

Ah yes, when you're "the other white meat"... 🙄

If I look at the guy's profile, and he's straight with TV/TS excluded from his list of who he's looking for, then I also assume this. "

Maybe I should change to a M profile. I could even learn a few soccer ball phrases.

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By *sleWightCoupleCouple
13 hours ago

Ryde


"And it does me good like it ruddy well should. "

Just make you don't end up doing the Premature Ejaculation Waltz!

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By *oldmilkMan
13 hours ago

In trouble, apparently…

I don’t wink, I don’t get any winks (only photos of dicks from strange men).

I wouldn’t really know what to read into a wink anyway. If you like me, bloody well say so!

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By *olvesxcoupleCouple
13 hours ago

Round the bend


"A wink, in its purest form, is actually a great idea imho.

Assuming everyone was on the same page a wink heading your way is a great way to show initial interest (much like a swipe right) without the men having to construct a unique piece of prose for every woman or couple on here, or the women and couples having to wade through hundreds of messages and cock pics.

Get a wink, check the profile, if it’s of potential interest wink back, and THEN it’s up to the originator to write that eye catching message which will make or break their chances.

Sadly winking has a stigma now. Lazy. Unimaginative. “I don’t look at winks”.

So the concept is already sullied.

"

I like this. Sadly I'd imagine there are too many lazy people out there that send them out like the old copy and paste messages to the masses, hoping to strike it lucky with just anyone.

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By *olvesxcoupleCouple
13 hours ago

Round the bend


"A wink, in its purest form, is actually a great idea imho.

Assuming everyone was on the same page a wink heading your way is a great way to show initial interest (much like a swipe right) without the men having to construct a unique piece of prose for every woman or couple on here, or the women and couples having to wade through hundreds of messages and cock pics.

Get a wink, check the profile, if it’s of potential interest wink back, and THEN it’s up to the originator to write that eye catching message which will make or break their chances.

Sadly winking has a stigma now. Lazy. Unimaginative. “I don’t look at winks”.

So the concept is already sullied.

Exactly , if someone does not except a wink I automatically assume there stuck up there x own arses , why would you want someone to write an essay to only ignore it 🤔 bit needy I think , but guess it boosts there ego

Simple wink ,look and if there profile suits , a message

This site would work a lot better if you had to except a wink before ant chats lol "

Consider me stuck up my own arse then. The general reaction from someone who doesn't get a reaction from a lazy wink. I wouldn't want one from someone with that attitude either.

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
13 hours ago

Reading


"A wink, in its purest form, is actually a great idea imho.

Assuming everyone was on the same page a wink heading your way is a great way to show initial interest (much like a swipe right) without the men having to construct a unique piece of prose for every woman or couple on here, or the women and couples having to wade through hundreds of messages and cock pics.

Get a wink, check the profile, if it’s of potential interest wink back, and THEN it’s up to the originator to write that eye catching message which will make or break their chances.

Sadly winking has a stigma now. Lazy. Unimaginative. “I don’t look at winks”.

So the concept is already sullied.

"

This is how I approach winks but I just scan through them once in a while so I do miss some. I will look at profiles of winkers in my location and if I like the profile will wink back.

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By *atural_born_thriller_xMan
12 hours ago

Climax End

Never send them and forget to check them . When I do it’s mostly men .x

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By *iver78Man
11 hours ago

barton upon humber


"A wink, in its purest form, is actually a great idea imho.

Assuming everyone was on the same page a wink heading your way is a great way to show initial interest (much like a swipe right) without the men having to construct a unique piece of prose for every woman or couple on here, or the women and couples having to wade through hundreds of messages and cock pics.

Get a wink, check the profile, if it’s of potential interest wink back, and THEN it’s up to the originator to write that eye catching message which will make or break their chances.

Sadly winking has a stigma now. Lazy. Unimaginative. “I don’t look at winks”.

So the concept is already sullied.

Exactly , if someone does not except a wink I automatically assume there stuck up there x own arses , why would you want someone to write an essay to only ignore it 🤔 bit needy I think , but guess it boosts there ego

Simple wink ,look and if there profile suits , a message

This site would work a lot better if you had to except a wink before ant chats lol

Consider me stuck up my own arse then. The general reaction from someone who doesn't get a reaction from a lazy wink. I wouldn't want one from someone with that attitude either. "

How's it lazy 🤣 its to show your intrested without making sending a unwanted message ? Id rather get a wink than a hi , hello , at least you know that person is intrested in you , and give you an opportunity to view there profile and decide if there a suitable match , definitely not lazy

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By *tormQueenWoman
11 hours ago

All over the place


"A wink, in its purest form, is actually a great idea imho.

Assuming everyone was on the same page a wink heading your way is a great way to show initial interest (much like a swipe right) without the men having to construct a unique piece of prose for every woman or couple on here, or the women and couples having to wade through hundreds of messages and cock pics.

Get a wink, check the profile, if it’s of potential interest wink back, and THEN it’s up to the originator to write that eye catching message which will make or break their chances.

Sadly winking has a stigma now. Lazy. Unimaginative. “I don’t look at winks”.

So the concept is already sullied.

Exactly , if someone does not except a wink I automatically assume there stuck up there x own arses , why would you want someone to write an essay to only ignore it 🤔 bit needy I think , but guess it boosts there ego

Simple wink ,look and if there profile suits , a message

This site would work a lot better if you had to except a wink before ant chats lol

Consider me stuck up my own arse then. The general reaction from someone who doesn't get a reaction from a lazy wink. I wouldn't want one from someone with that attitude either. "

Im joining the stuck up group 🤣

I dont look at winks 😊

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By *earditallWoman
11 hours ago

Lancaster

I'm only half way stuck up my own arse not looking out of my throat yet.

I sometimes see them and respond if I like what I see and other times I forget to check them

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By *andering lionMan
11 hours ago

Cardiff

Hell of a winker me

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By *carlettsWoman
10 hours ago

Somewhere out there


"I'm not really a winker. I rarely check my winks. I just checked now and have one recent wink sent on the back of a similar thread.

She knows.

·

A wink from Nero is like a unicorn tear.

FFS. "

A shimmery gin liqueur infused with edible silver flakes?

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By *WB85Man
10 hours ago

Staffordshire

This reminds me of a men behaving badly episode.

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By *ow69Man
9 hours ago

Preston

I like getting a wink but don't bother winking as so many posts say they don't respond or even bother looking. So I figured it's a waste of time. 😄

Feel free to wink away. 😊

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By *teelCityCoupleCouple
9 hours ago

Sheffield

Too much winking makes you blind

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By *iddlesticks OP   Man
9 hours ago

My nan’s spare room.


"Too much winking makes you blind "

Who said that

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By *riefcase_WankerMan
8 hours ago

Milton Keynes

What kind of winkers are you though?

I mean...you've got your compulsive winkers who just can't help themselves, then there are the impulsive winkers who it's just more of a spur-of-the-moment "oh go on then", and then lastly - of course - you've got the hordes and hordes of repulsive winkers...

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By *lowupdollTV/TS
8 hours ago

Here. There.


"What kind of winkers are you though?

I mean...you've got your compulsive winkers who just can't help themselves, then there are the impulsive winkers who it's just more of a spur-of-the-moment "oh go on then", and then lastly - of course - you've got the hordes and hordes of repulsive winkers..."

Don’t forget the ones wanking over their phones, keep hitting it. The accidental wanker winkers.

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By *teelCityCoupleCouple
8 hours ago

Sheffield

What's better a wink or a wank??

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By *hunky GentMan
8 hours ago

Ely

I've been known to have the occasional wink or two.

When the mood takes me.

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By *aven.Woman
8 hours ago

no

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By *eroLondonMan
8 hours ago

Mayfair


"What's better a wink or a wank??"

I would say a wink if it's your first time. It's a seminal moment.

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By *lowupdollTV/TS
8 hours ago

Here. There.


"What's better a wink or a wank??

I would say a wink if it's your first time. It's a seminal moment."

Whereas the wank is a semenal one.

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By *r SproutMan
7 hours ago

Midlands

Done

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