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By *londe tease and hubs OP   Couple
14 hours ago

notts/burton/derby

Why is it so hard to find single attractive men on here now? Last year was a blast found one every few days yesterday we had over 100 messages and only found one person

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By *okingham WillMan
14 hours ago

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I think in the interests of diversity and inclusion Fab have only been accepting munters for the last 12 months or so to balance things out

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By *viatrixCouple
14 hours ago

Gatwick


"I think in the interests of diversity and inclusion Fab have only been accepting munters for the last 12 months or so to balance things out "

😂😂😂😂😂 this may be true!

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By *londe tease and hubs OP   Couple
14 hours ago

notts/burton/derby

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By *londe tease and hubs OP   Couple
14 hours ago

notts/burton/derby


"I think in the interests of diversity and inclusion Fab have only been accepting munters for the last 12 months or so to balance things out "

Somethings definitely going on 🤣

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By *onin25Man
14 hours ago

Durham


"I think in the interests of diversity and inclusion Fab have only been accepting munters for the last 12 months or so to balance things out "

As someone who joined in the last 12 months I am disappointed by this but I also cannot refute it

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By *tormQueenWoman
14 hours ago

All over the place


"I think in the interests of diversity and inclusion Fab have only been accepting munters for the last 12 months or so to balance things out

As someone who joined in the last 12 months I am disappointed by this but I also cannot refute it "

I have never been more smug that I have tipped over the "more than a year" 🤣🤣

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By *wissArmyKnifeMan
14 hours ago

Second Star to the Right


"Why is it so hard to find single attractive men on here now? Last year was a blast found one every few days yesterday we had over 100 messages and only found one person"

You have already exhausted all the good stock perhaps? 🤔😂

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By *londe tease and hubs OP   Couple
14 hours ago

notts/burton/derby


"Why is it so hard to find single attractive men on here now? Last year was a blast found one every few days yesterday we had over 100 messages and only found one person

You have already exhausted all the good stock perhaps? 🤔😂"

Haha surely not,it just seems it's alot harder to meet nowadays no one reads the bios but that's nothing new

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By *ull of PuddinWoman
13 hours ago

isle of munters

You are looking for gentlemen

There's the problem lol

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By *earditallWoman
13 hours ago

Lancaster

I guess it depends on how often or quickly you like to meet.

I'm a bit if a slow burn there and takes a while for me to know if I want to meet them then like the build up before a meet.

But there seems to be no shortage of men that want to meet if that makes sense.

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By *verhard88Man
13 hours ago

Bolton

Always scared of actually taking that plunge after issues when younger but, I know once I get over that hump, so to speak, I'll be like a man possessed

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By *porty_and_NaughtyCouple
13 hours ago

Swansea

This isn't a criticism, merely a suggestion. Instead of waiting for the suitable guys to find your profile and message you, you could search for them yourselves and contact them.

Mrs S&N

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By *aomilatteCouple
13 hours ago

Midlands


"Why is it so hard to find single attractive men on here now? Last year was a blast found one every few days yesterday we had over 100 messages and only found one person"

Have you tried a club? If you choose the right night there will be lots of men there looking for fun.

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By *londe tease and hubs OP   Couple
13 hours ago

notts/burton/derby


"Why is it so hard to find single attractive men on here now? Last year was a blast found one every few days yesterday we had over 100 messages and only found one person

Have you tried a club? If you choose the right night there will be lots of men there looking for fun."

No not yet as the wife's pretty shy and is scared of getting groped all night by strangers but she is warming to the idea

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By *ithere0101Man
13 hours ago

near you

It hit or miss everyone has busy life’s goes both ways personally

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By *hristopherd999Man
13 hours ago

Brentwood


"You are looking for gentlemen

There's the problem lol"

I'm offended madam

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By *aomilatteCouple
13 hours ago

Midlands


"Why is it so hard to find single attractive men on here now? Last year was a blast found one every few days yesterday we had over 100 messages and only found one person

Have you tried a club? If you choose the right night there will be lots of men there looking for fun.

No not yet as the wife's pretty shy and is scared of getting groped all night by strangers but she is warming to the idea"

Nobody should grope anyone in a club without permission. If they did they'd get a slap then be removed from the club.

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By *londe tease and hubs OP   Couple
13 hours ago

notts/burton/derby


"Why is it so hard to find single attractive men on here now? Last year was a blast found one every few days yesterday we had over 100 messages and only found one person

Have you tried a club? If you choose the right night there will be lots of men there looking for fun.

No not yet as the wife's pretty shy and is scared of getting groped all night by strangers but she is warming to the idea

Nobody should grope anyone in a club without permission. If they did they'd get a slap then be removed from the club. "

Oh right we don't know the rules as of yet but that's good to hear suppose we're just expecting the worse haha

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By *ardener123Man
13 hours ago

totton

Don't know about others but being a single guy it's virtually impossible to get even a reply, let alone a meet. So I assume the op is just being sarcastic

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By *WB85Man
13 hours ago

Staffordshire

It has become harder to find suitable people, but i think its because many are just fantasists. They like the feel, but don't necessarily want to meet.

I know people suggest clubs are amazing, but i do disagree a little.

For me its a must faster, almost rushed approach that doesn't give you much time to think. Some love this, but its a no from me.

I hope you find what you're looking for.

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By *eroLondonMan
12 hours ago

Mayfair


"You are looking for gentlemen

There's the problem lol"

Tis true; we are a rare breed, and rarely bred.

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By *hat.coupleCouple
12 hours ago

Kent


"Why is it so hard to find single attractive men on here now? Last year was a blast found one every few days yesterday we had over 100 messages and only found one person

Have you tried a club? If you choose the right night there will be lots of men there looking for fun.

No not yet as the wife's pretty shy and is scared of getting groped all night by strangers but she is warming to the idea

Nobody should grope anyone in a club without permission. If they did they'd get a slap then be removed from the club.

Oh right we don't know the rules as of yet but that's good to hear suppose we're just expecting the worse haha"

No-one geopes anyone in a swinger club, they'd be kicked out if they did. No-one does anything without asking, it's not a free for all sex fest. It's all very sophisticated you know.

Mrs x

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By *iver78Man
12 hours ago

barton upon humber

Depends what you mean by attractive ? Maybe ( without being rude ) people dont find yourselfs attractive ? Its kinda a two way thing isent it ? Maybe you have unrealistic expectations

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By *oiluvfunMan
11 hours ago

Penrith


"Don't know about others but being a single guy it's virtually impossible to get even a reply, let alone a meet. So I assume the op is just being sarcastic "

I agree with your first statement, but would offer that the OP had such a good year last year, that they have indeed, exhausted the supply of attractive single males. As mentioned above; it's just us munters left....

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By *reen Eyed GuyMan
10 hours ago

Hereford

They've all been infected by the Wanking Dead virus and now they stumble around swinging clubs drooling and holding their cocks in their hands.

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By *eliWoman
10 hours ago

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It's not. They exist on here.

Reach out to people rather than waiting for those to come and message you. You're more likely to find people you're attracted to and who are attracted to you.

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By *omeotherguyMan
10 hours ago

Sheffield/London/Derbyshire


"Why is it so hard to find single attractive men on here now? Last year was a blast found one every few days yesterday we had over 100 messages and only found one person"

I sent you a message yesterday, ouch 🤣🤣🤣🤣

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By *oldmilkMan
10 hours ago

In trouble, apparently…

I can only apologise for the deficiencies of my gender, we’re not worthy

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By *etwife8230Couple
10 hours ago

Newport

There are plenty out there x

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By *earditallWoman
10 hours ago

Lancaster


"Why is it so hard to find single attractive men on here now? Last year was a blast found one every few days yesterday we had over 100 messages and only found one person

Have you tried a club? If you choose the right night there will be lots of men there looking for fun.

No not yet as the wife's pretty shy and is scared of getting groped all night by strangers but she is warming to the idea

Nobody should grope anyone in a club without permission. If they did they'd get a slap then be removed from the club.

Oh right we don't know the rules as of yet but that's good to hear suppose we're just expecting the worse haha"

The odd one may try I find a swift kick in the nuts or a back the fuck up works...and management will usually remove any thay think they are entitled to touch anyone without consent.

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By *aomilatteCouple
10 hours ago

Midlands


"Why is it so hard to find single attractive men on here now? Last year was a blast found one every few days yesterday we had over 100 messages and only found one person

Have you tried a club? If you choose the right night there will be lots of men there looking for fun.

No not yet as the wife's pretty shy and is scared of getting groped all night by strangers but she is warming to the idea

Nobody should grope anyone in a club without permission. If they did they'd get a slap then be removed from the club.

Oh right we don't know the rules as of yet but that's good to hear suppose we're just expecting the worse haha

The odd one may try I find a swift kick in the nuts or a back the fuck up works...and management will usually remove any thay think they are entitled to touch anyone without consent. "

Management should 100% remove anyone who touches without consent, or tell management you're leaving.

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By *ormal_ManMan
10 hours ago

Harrogate


"Why is it so hard to find single attractive men on here now? Last year was a blast found one every few days yesterday we had over 100 messages and only found one person"

Has your inbox exploded yet? If it makes you feel any better, the reverse is true for single women/couples…

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By *odgerMooreMan
10 hours ago

Rummage Up The Jumper


"Why is it so hard to find single attractive men on here now? Last year was a blast found one every few days yesterday we had over 100 messages and only found one person"

Feast and famine as always… its just fab … people come and go … and come back again… and go again… for some its just somewhere to perv and others for a myriad of reasons… you have tons of messages so potentially one or two will start to pique your interest x or just shag me .. but im not messaging you.. im playing hard to get!!

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By *aven.Woman
9 hours ago

no

Maybe the single attractive men have just got pickier?

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