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By *irtyGirl OP   Woman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

This has probably been done to death but indulge me... I'm curious...

Does anyone ever arrange a meet out of the game threads? Do you send a message to someone if they've made it plain they fancy a shag or do you just consider it forum flirting?

I don't read those threads very often but sometimes (when things are slow and I'm a bit bored) I will and there's flirting going on all over the place. Then I read another thread about people not having the balls to message someone.

I think I want to know why not? What's the worst that could happen?

That's more than one question I guess... oops!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Snog

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By *irtyGirl OP   Woman
over a year ago

Edinburgh


"Snog"

Sharp!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

5

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By *livia_KWoman
over a year ago

South London

I am very confused right now.

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester

Im really not into 1 off shags no offence ment to those into em but for me I find them borring also I hate the stigma that come with being a single male so rarely send the 1st pm having said that I flert like feck on the streads

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In answer to the actual question......

I've not met anyone through the forum, I tend to use the forum for a little fun.

Any meets I have had haven't been initiated through the forum, but direct messaging.

I'm talking a previous profile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Snog

Sharp!!"

I was flippin serious, your lips are sweeeet looking

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

qa spark of interest, that can lead to something else..

the games are cyclic yes..but hey..they are fun for some

I rate my arse as the best on fab, beating even the OPs

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By *irtyGirl OP   Woman
over a year ago

Edinburgh


"Im really not into 1 off shags no offence ment to those into em but for me I find them borring also I hate the stigma that come with being a single male so rarely send the 1st pm having said that I flert like feck on the streads "

It doesn't necessarily have to just be one night though. It has to start there though doesn't it? You need to actually meet someone to figure out if you want to have sex once never mind whether you want to make a habit of it with someone.

Surely you can get a vibe as to whether someone is interested in you while you bounce round the forums? Are you sitting here watching things pass you buy cause you don't want the rejection of an offer? (I mean the general 'you' not you personally just to be clear)

I think life is short and how do you know if you don't do the one off shag to begin with?

I'm seriously making sense in my head but I probably should be in bed!

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By *irtyGirl OP   Woman
over a year ago

Edinburgh


"Snog

Sharp!!

I was flippin serious, your lips are sweeeet looking "

Shucks!

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By *renchbambi xWoman
over a year ago

Need to know basis

Apart from the very first person I played with, all other encounters came from me messaging them from one thread or another in the forums. Usually a game thread! Forums are a great source of hunky men and luscious ladies xx

And its interesting to be the one in 'fear' of the delete button

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester


"Im really not into 1 off shags no offence ment to those into em but for me I find them borring also I hate the stigma that come with being a single male so rarely send the 1st pm having said that I flert like feck on the streads

It doesn't necessarily have to just be one night though. It has to start there though doesn't it? You need to actually meet someone to figure out if you want to have sex once never mind whether you want to make a habit of it with someone.

Surely you can get a vibe as to whether someone is interested in you while you bounce round the forums? Are you sitting here watching things pass you buy cause you don't want the rejection of an offer? (I mean the general 'you' not you personally just to be clear)

I think life is short and how do you know if you don't do the one off shag to begin with?

I'm seriously making sense in my head but I probably should be in bed! "

in all honesty when it comes to some 1 likeing me I rarely see it myself an normally only see it if its pointed out to me guess in that way im pritty thick an again if im honest in myself im confident as fuck but really dont think im all that. No iv no problem with being rejected its life as you say what have you to loose. What I ment was id not arrange a meet knowing it was just a 1 off. Hope that makes more sence sorry x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"5"

Trip to Edinburgh perhaps?

Just a slight observance

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I flirt very rarely on the forums as ive had people take it literally and that makes me a little wary,if I do its friendly fun banter,I mostly keep my playtime and forum time as seperate entities

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

As I don't send out random messages, most pm's seem to be with forumites. Some of these lead to an exchange of phone no.s and possibly an eventual meet

The topic of the thread however is totally irrelevant, banter then conversation can originate from many sources

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester


"As I don't send out random messages, most pm's seem to be with forumites. Some of these lead to an exchange of phone no.s and possibly an eventual meet

The topic of the thread however is totally irrelevant, banter then conversation can originate from many sources "

now why didn't I just say that ffs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As I don't send out random messages, most pm's seem to be with forumites. Some of these lead to an exchange of phone no.s and possibly an eventual meet

The topic of the thread however is totally irrelevant, banter then conversation can originate from many sources "

This!

Over the last year or so I've had more meets (social as well as fun!) with folk I've initially 'met' via the forums than any other method of interaction. It's now very rare i'll PM off a search or a local update - as I definitely find the banter in the forums is usually replicated in real life once face to face with a lovely fellow forum nutjob!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

if Igot my meets from forum based stuff...I'd be down england lots!!!!!!

since I rarely use the scottish forums

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"if Igot my meets from forum based stuff...I'd be down england lots!!!!!!

since I rarely use the scottish forums"

Snap. I very rarely go into the Welsh forums either as they just seem to be full of threads about socials in S Wales or dogging location questions

I use the Forums as banter but have exchanged PM's with a few which is always nice. Oh and I've had a few pics Fab'd through being on here too

But to answer the OP if I lived closer to some of the gorgeous men on here and the banter was good then I might consider messaging Although I've never sent the first message on here so far lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Shameless repetition of my post on an earlier thread ....

The truth of it is that the 'games' in here are just another way to raise or shake those tail feathers in the ritual that procedes a successful mating. Your wit, charm and personality are your foil in here (a good ass pic helps too as Mr Keen has alluded to) and whether it leads to mating in the physical sense or just a meeting of minds it has its rewards.

Getting all this across in a short unsolicited message that 9 times out of 10 will be deleted without being read (statistic made up btw) can be a time consuming, difficult and thankless task.

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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago

In Your Bush

I just consider it flirting. Those threads normally turn into 4 or 5 people keep answering each other anyway

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

I used to get lots of PMS from lurkers.

Did have a fantastic meet with a guy when saw one of my nonsense threads lol. If I do flirt on the forms or have banter on the forums its just fun and doesn't mean I fancy them, apart from one person

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This has probably been done to death but indulge me... I'm curious...

Does anyone ever arrange a meet out of the game threads? Do you send a message to someone if they've made it plain they fancy a shag or do you just consider it forum flirting?

I don't read those threads very often but sometimes (when things are slow and I'm a bit bored) I will and there's flirting going on all over the place. Then I read another thread about people not having the balls to message someone.

I think I want to know why not? What's the worst that could happen?

That's more than one question I guess... oops! "
Some people flirt, some people have a go at flirting but aren't the best at it. Makes me cringe at times- I think these threads can be fun, depending on who is above, but there are too many of them, I cannot help but think a lack of Brain cells induce so many.

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

I ve met one new friend through the forum threads .. usually the people I banter and flirt with are too far away to meet

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