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By *isscheekychops OP   Woman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

Would you say you are na arguementive person? I try not to be but I got to say what is on my mind which usually ends up in an arguement.

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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland

Personally I rather have an argumentative person as a friend than one who does not argue but is not sincere in their "conflict avoidant " role. Not sure if that makes sense

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Would you say you are na arguementive person? I try not to be but I got to say what is on my mind which usually ends up in an arguement."

I can keep my mouth shut and don't mind someone thinking they have ""won". But if they are arguing something as simple as the correct way of spelling something,or the date of something and I know I am right, I won't let go.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i was going to try and lie and say i wasnt an agrumentative person, but i couldnt even type it with a straight face!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like a good debate but not an argument, I am one for speaking my opinion when I feel it's worthwhile doing.

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

Oh blimey, if I think I'm right I can be a right shrew. My whole family are argumentative but with them I always lose, so when I'm with mates I can be tenacious. I always bite.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No im not but if something is unjust , incorrect or people are being wank-heads sometimes you have to say it how it is !!!

Saying that some aren't worth my energy in arguing with

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By *irtyGirlWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

I've never had an argument with anyone other than my family.

I think maybe I'd like to have one with a bloke so I could have the make up sex!

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By *els_BellsWoman
over a year ago

with the moon n stars somewhere in gtr manc

I try not to if I can help it.

However, if I get pushed far enough then that's it.

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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland

I also think that everybody has their own very unique experience of the world and a particular situation so that is of course one of the cause of conflict. 2 people experiencing the SAME situation in 2 very different ways - hence the conflict.

What would be so wrong with acknowledging that both are "right" to some extent and that some things are a matter of perception? Just a thought!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm too lazy to argue.

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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland


"No im not but if something is unjust , incorrect or people are being wank-heads sometimes you have to say it how it is !!!

Saying that some aren't worth my energy in arguing with "
Whats a wank head?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No its pointless once I have said my piece I am done with it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like banter but not arguments. I'm the conflict avoidance type.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No im not but if something is unjust , incorrect or people are being wank-heads sometimes you have to say it how it is !!!

Saying that some aren't worth my energy in arguing with "

This i normally dont buy into an argument but if they are wrong then i will let them know that

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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland


"I like banter but not arguments. I'm the conflict avoidance type. "
I dont like conflict either and as such I am conflict avoidant if I possibly can. That said, I will take a stance if I think a stance needs to be taken - if that makes sense to anybody else but me

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By *isscheekychops OP   Woman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

I am a passionate person..If I believe something I will voice it..I think its come out of me since coming out of an abusive relationship where I had no say.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I am a passionate person..If I believe something I will voice it..I think its come out of me since coming out of an abusive relationship where I had no say. "

That's good. x

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By *reelove1969Couple
over a year ago

bristol

I was with a guy for 8 years and hand on heart I can say that we never once had an argument .. it drove me mental to be honest as it seemed what ever I said was good to go or right .. which clearly is not the case ..I am now living with a guy I have been with for 14 years and we do have explosive episodes from time to time but it is a much healthier relationship

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I am a passionate person..If I believe something I will voice it..I think its come out of me since coming out of an abusive relationship where I had no say. "

+1

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Arguments are pointless... Have your point and set out, fairly and make it clear what you want.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I try to avoid arguing as I feel it is wasted energy, but when I reach a point I can't help it I go full on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I am a passionate person..If I believe something I will voice it..I think its come out of me since coming out of an abusive relationship where I had no say.

+1 "

and here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had a massive argument with my flatmate at the weekend..,. Due to his lack of paying rent.... I felt better for it as I was in the right..., he broke his tenancy agreement...., a friend had to step in though to stop me strangling him.....,..arguments are great when you know there's a resolution.....

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

I'm really laid back until something pisses me off. Jay and I hardly ever have cross words. I'm to old for those kinds of relationships now, I like an easy life.

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By *hyllyphyllyMan
over a year ago

Bradford

Clears throat.....

You can't beat a mass debate.

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Back on topic, when the exwife and I were together, she would try and start arguments with me. I would only say "OK" back!

It takes two to argue, 1 person is just ranting!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

ill stand my ground, which usually ends in argument.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

if I know I'm right, yes..Iam

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

generally im pretty laid back but some people have no tact and will take every fucking oppertunity to rub salt in wounds.. seriously pisses me off

takes a lot of will power to keep my mouth shut.. but id rather be the adult and hold my head high then stoop that low

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"generally im pretty laid back but some people have no tact and will take every fucking oppertunity to rub salt in wounds.. seriously pisses me off

takes a lot of will power to keep my mouth shut.. but id rather be the adult and hold my head high then stoop that low "

an open mouth is always welcome

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester

Frankly im shocked cheeky me argue never they dont call me easy going blade for nothing you no

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester


"generally im pretty laid back but some people have no tact and will take every fucking oppertunity to rub salt in wounds.. seriously pisses me off

takes a lot of will power to keep my mouth shut.. but id rather be the adult and hold my head high then stoop that low "

so how come you mailed me shergars head then Hmmmmm lolol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I try not to argue with anyone as I'm usually right if I feel the need, and I do hate being a smug b'stard


"I've never had an argument with anyone other than my family.

I think maybe I'd like to have one with a bloke so I could have the make up sex! "

Shurrup woman, you're wrong

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville

I think everyone can be under certain circumstances.

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