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By *rtydeedsdnedrtcheap OP   Man
4 hours ago

Wirral

When you view a profile or a message l, things that makes you instantly think this account is fake, lying or outright dangerous?

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By *earditallWoman
4 hours ago

Lancaster

10 year old action shots

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By *hickthighs-26Woman
4 hours ago

the land of vagina

Anything gaping attached to the message

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By *oastofReadingMan
4 hours ago

Reading

Sydney university legal disclaimer

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By *mf123Man
4 hours ago

with one foot out the door

China

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By *hickthighs-26Woman
4 hours ago

the land of vagina


"China

"

🤣

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By *rtydeedsdnedrtcheap OP   Man
4 hours ago

Wirral

Mine is current location is thousands of miles from named location. Yes people go on holiday but if that's the case and I liked the profile, I'd hotlist them and check back in a couple of weeks.

I've noticed distances for profiles can change drastically in seconds like the person forgot to set their fakegps app on their phone before logging in

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod

4 hours ago

East Sussex

Photos of other people taking up much of the screen with just their thumb or a tiny bit of leg in

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By *lice_XDTV/TS
4 hours ago

Wednesbury


"Sydney university legal disclaimer "

Lol what is it with those and why do they specifically mention Sydney Uni? It's crazy how things spread without any critical thinking!

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By *lofeldMan
4 hours ago

Redhill

Not photo verified is the biggest.

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By *ornyYorkie26Man
4 hours ago

Manchester

Couples accounts just offering the man

Couples accounts with only pictures of the woman.

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By *urFantasy21Couple
4 hours ago

Shrewsbury

Single male opening with "are you discreet?" Usually leads to "I'm married"

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By *vaRoseWoman
4 hours ago

Ankh-Morpork


"When you view a profile or a message l, things that makes you instantly think this account is fake, lying or outright dangerous? "

When it comes to photos:

Action shots

Penis centric galleries

Badly cropped pics

Photos clearly pinched from porn

Photos you can smell

Photos of several different bodies. Sir your nipples don’t change and that mole on your arse is now missing but you had an appendectomy last week I see.

.

Bios:

Too many wannabe Doms boasting about how they’ll get you to say your safe word - this is not how it works morons

How they’ll guarantee to make you cum/squirt/gush while they finger blast you with the same dirty nails in their photos

Blank bios.

In discussions, refusal to send face pics.

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By * nice oneMan
4 hours ago

north east

No green flag, an absolute alarm bell

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By *oastofReadingMan
4 hours ago

Reading


"Couples accounts just offering the man

Couples accounts with only pictures of the woman. "

When I was part of a couple, we made sure that there was equal photos of the male and female and also photos together.

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By *hat.coupleCouple
3 hours ago

Kent

When they ask for nude photos, fake! There's plenty on my profile to look at.

One line verifications, fake!

Usually saying something like "met few times, genuine account"

And when they get crude really fast, fake! Women rarely talk about graphic sex acts in ky experience, so it usually means it's a man posing as a woman when this happens.

Mrs x

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By *earditallWoman
3 hours ago

Lancaster


"When you view a profile or a message l, things that makes you instantly think this account is fake, lying or outright dangerous?

When it comes to photos:

Action shots

Penis centric galleries

Badly cropped pics

Photos clearly pinched from porn

Photos you can smell

Photos of several different bodies. Sir your nipples don’t change and that mole on your arse is now missing but you had an appendectomy last week I see.

.

Bios:

Too many wannabe Doms boasting about how they’ll get you to say your safe word - this is not how it works morons

How they’ll guarantee to make you cum/squirt/gush while they finger blast you with the same dirty nails in their photos

Blank bios.

In discussions, refusal to send face pics.

"

Same with the bios

Any name with squirt,dom or daddy

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By *mf123Man
3 hours ago

with one foot out the door


"Anything gaping attached to the message "
ffs that my fave

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By *vaRoseWoman
3 hours ago

Ankh-Morpork


"When you view a profile or a message l, things that makes you instantly think this account is fake, lying or outright dangerous?

When it comes to photos:

Action shots

Penis centric galleries

Badly cropped pics

Photos clearly pinched from porn

Photos you can smell

Photos of several different bodies. Sir your nipples don’t change and that mole on your arse is now missing but you had an appendectomy last week I see.

.

Bios:

Too many wannabe Doms boasting about how they’ll get you to say your safe word - this is not how it works morons

How they’ll guarantee to make you cum/squirt/gush while they finger blast you with the same dirty nails in their photos

Blank bios.

In discussions, refusal to send face pics.

Same with the bios

Any name with squirt,dom or daddy"

Yes! Alpha too

Oh and if they immediately ask to move off site

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By *hickthighs-26Woman
3 hours ago

the land of vagina


"Anything gaping attached to the message ffs that my fave "

Thats not what you said when i sent it

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By *007ManMan
3 hours ago

Worthing

Their opening message is a single words or emojis. Never goes anywhere.

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By *hinstrapMan
3 hours ago

sheffield

When they clearly haven't read the profile

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By *mf123Man
3 hours ago

with one foot out the door


"Anything gaping attached to the message ffs that my fave

Thats not what you said when i sent it "

no i my exact words were echo echo cho cho ho ho o o o

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By *rtydeedsdnedrtcheap OP   Man
3 hours ago

Wirral

If their profile contains their social meeds. Just after your money

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By *hunky GentMan
3 hours ago

Ely

When the message starts:

'Fuck off fatty'

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I'm pretty good at reading between the lines.

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By *rinceless PrincessWoman
2 hours ago

UK

I don’t publicly share my red flags because I don’t want people to hide them

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By *a LunaWoman
2 hours ago

Wales


"When you view a profile or a message l, things that makes you instantly think this account is fake, lying or outright dangerous?

When it comes to photos:

Action shots

Penis centric galleries

Badly cropped pics

Photos clearly pinched from porn

Photos you can smell

Photos of several different bodies. Sir your nipples don’t change and that mole on your arse is now missing but you had an appendectomy last week I see.

.

Bios:

Too many wannabe Doms boasting about how they’ll get you to say your safe word - this is not how it works morons

How they’ll guarantee to make you cum/squirt/gush while they finger blast you with the same dirty nails in their photos

Blank bios.

In discussions, refusal to send face pics.

"

This! (Thanks Eva, you saved me typing it all out!)

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By *975manMan
2 hours ago

DARLINGTON

[Removed by poster at 14/08/26 13:51:05]

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By *975manMan
2 hours ago

DARLINGTON

Women with no pics but yet requesting the son of Zeus to attend to their needs - egos and anyone requesting £ to meet

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By *rs_ReformedWoman
1 hour ago

your hotlist...

No pics on profile asking to meet

Miles away

First messages saying meet now

Demanding hotel meets when it clearly says in my profile clubs

So many really...

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By *oris and doris wolvesCouple
1 hour ago

Wolverhampton

A 24 year old female alone wanting to meet us now was a good one

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By *ircumsalot44Man
1 hour ago

Huddersfield

Only pictures of the man or woman in a couples profile

Things hanging out of people arses

People that have rules from meeting them that they dont follow themselves

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By *ANiCURETV/TS
1 hour ago

Winchester

[Removed by poster at 14/08/26 14:12:31]

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By *JUltraCouple
1 hour ago

Chelmsford

We feel our profile pretty much sums up where we are with it and what we are. Yet we recieve message after message offering the opposite.

How can you bother to send a message without reading the profile. Less a red flag and more a giant red iceberg bobbing past.

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
1 hour ago

Leeds

Verified by one person 15 years ago.

The mr

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By *hunky GentMan
1 hour ago

Ely

When couple profile only has one veri and it's from a guy who looks exactly like the male of the couple.

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