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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I need a bit of help, I have never had a meet or tbh not even many replies, I understand that people are busy and that I may not be what they're looking for but man come on I've sent loads of messages!! And their not just one liners! I put effort in to the messages, Can anyone cast an eye over my profile And give me some tips please

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By *livia_KWoman
over a year ago

South London

Well your profile says that a lady has to have something you're looking for. But you don;t say what you're looking for. Give a bit of a hint.

Also, your profile pic - your cock looks like it primed to smack me in the face. It's a bit too, erm, in my face.

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

Some body pics! And also whilst your profile is not the worst I am read it is all about you!

On here you also need to include what you can offer to someone, why they would want to meet you, just my advise x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

the text is ok... but one pic and thats ur cock avatar...the other pics?..yes can be sent but whats the issue with some body pics?

u cant accom

hid ur verification..(it does matter with people wanting to possibly meet u, most wont be interested in webcam verifies)

again, why choose u over the lots of other profiles that are a bit more willing to give more detail

the whole sex chat bit, some will think ur just in to get some filthy chat/cam/wanks in

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

AND you have only been here 2 months.these things take time.x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Now I love cocks ....in their place! but the avatar pic would stop me from even looking at the profile

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks for the help! Now you have all mentioned it, it seems so obvious! ill get on it now!! Would a full naked body pic be better??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bit demanding dude... And you could have someone's eye out with that cock!!

Subtly, humour go a long way!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

take your time mate and try put more pics ie body shots of your self to interest the prospective play mates .

after all people do like to see more then just a cock shot ..I think once you have had one good verification it will become much easier after that mate

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By *livia_KWoman
over a year ago

South London


"Thanks for the help! Now you have all mentioned it, it seems so obvious! ill get on it now!! Would a full naked body pic be better??"

Yes, but believe it or not, girls are actually interested in seeing things other than your willy. Well the vast majority anyway. I nice torso pic is always good.

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By *reelove1969Couple
over a year ago

bristol

ive not even opened your profile but your avatar and your name put me off instantly and I personally would delete any message you sent before opening it

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By *londeCazWoman
over a year ago

Arse End of the Universe, Cumbria

"I'm not going to pass on my face pics unless there is a reason too ie a meet!"

This may well put people off - I personally insist on a face pic with the first message

"There's a lot of people on this site that take them selves far too seriously, after all this is a site mainly for sex!"

Negativity like this also may put some off - you could probably get your point over by putting "I don't take myself too seriously and that's the sort of folk I'm looking for - aren't we mostly here for good sex?"

Would you really meet 99 year olds? If so, my Granny has a profile, check out ITakeMeTeethOutForBlowies_1914, she hasn't been getting much interest lately

Best of luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My advice mate is put the cock away and do some body shots .Not saying dont show your cock but it looks like its in 3D .. Just saying

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


""I'm not going to pass on my face pics unless there is a reason too ie a meet!"

This may well put people off - I personally insist on a face pic with the first message

"There's a lot of people on this site that take them selves far too seriously, after all this is a site mainly for sex!"

Negativity like this also may put some off - you could probably get your point over by putting "I don't take myself too seriously and that's the sort of folk I'm looking for - aren't we mostly here for good sex?"

Would you really meet 99 year olds? If so, my Granny has a profile, check out ITakeMeTeethOutForBlowies_1914, she hasn't been getting much interest lately

Best of luck"
I think ive veried your gran .. She was good

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By *reelove1969Couple
over a year ago

bristol


"

Best of luck I think ive veried your gran .. She was good "

sucks like a dyson ... so the rumour has it !

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By *ENGUYMan
over a year ago

Hull

Righto, where do I start?

Ditch the cock shots for private use when you are asked for them. people like to see face and body pics.

You can't accommodate; that will put people off, so if you can state why you can't!

You are competing against hundreds of other guys in your region, so you have to "sell" yourself. Expand your profile and state what you are seeking clearly, instead of leaving it to people's imaginations as to what you MIGHT want!

Get into Socials and clubs in your area and get involved in the Forums - it's all about getting noticed!

You've only been on here 2 months; this is not an Instant Fix site. You have to possess perseverance, patience and dare I say it, more patience!!!!

Good Luck.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"My advice mate is put the cock away and do some body shots .Not saying dont show your cock but it looks like its in 3D .. Just saying "

Haha 3D!! Fair point ill put it away!! Thanks pal

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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Best of luck I think ive veried your gran .. She was good

sucks like a dyson ... so the rumour has it ! "
Dont think she had a lot of action for a few years . It was like opening a cheese toastie

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Well your profile says that a lady has to have something you're looking for. But you don;t say what you're looking for. Give a bit of a hint.

Also, your profile pic - your cock looks like it primed to smack me in the face. It's a bit too, erm, in my face."

It's says on your profile that you're looking for single men mainly, yet you've blocked men from messaging you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well your profile says that a lady has to have something you're looking for. But you don;t say what you're looking for. Give a bit of a hint.

Also, your profile pic - your cock looks like it primed to smack me in the face. It's a bit too, erm, in my face.

It's says on your profile that you're looking for single men mainly, yet you've blocked men from messaging you?"

You obviously didn't read it all then.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Well your profile says that a lady has to have something you're looking for. But you don;t say what you're looking for. Give a bit of a hint.

Also, your profile pic - your cock looks like it primed to smack me in the face. It's a bit too, erm, in my face.

It's says on your profile that you're looking for single men mainly, yet you've blocked men from messaging you

You obviously didn't read it all then."

Please explain?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Read the last lines at the very bottom.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Read the last lines at the very bottom."

Right fair play that's why I was able to message her before! I didn't understand what that was, cheers

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By *irtydanMan
over a year ago

Blackpool

Oh no not again

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By *livia_KWoman
over a year ago

South London


"Read the last lines at the very bottom."

I am now moving those lines to the very top... sheesh.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Read the last lines at the very bottom.

Right fair play that's why I was able to message her before! I didn't understand what that was, cheers"

Well I was going to message her too but she distinctly asked for no weirdos or psychos.

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By *livia_KWoman
over a year ago

South London


"Read the last lines at the very bottom.

Right fair play that's why I was able to message her before! I didn't understand what that was, cheers

Well I was going to message her too but she distinctly asked for no weirdos or psychos."

And no elbows.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"ive not even opened your profile but your avatar and your name put me off instantly and I personally would delete any message you sent before opening it "

Same here, the name alone would be enough to put me off.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That said having read the profile it;s pretty dire. How long did it take to write? 2 minutes? Just how easy do you think it is on here, you need to stand out and a few generic lines won;t do that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"And no elbows."

I didn't see that bit, might want to put it at the top too...

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