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" For the women here — what’s your favourite way to spot someone worth talking to? " When it happens I'll let you know | |||
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Currently not feeling confident enough to return to a club.
Plus timing a weekend when I'm free is a bit difficult at the moment.
But I think clubs overall are your best bet. Messaging on here seems to be pointless. | |||
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"Organised group social ☺️" hey there, what's happening with the Manchester social, I heard a rumour | |||
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"Don't rely on fab alone , in my experience its harder to meet someone on here than most other ways . Id say clubs but from my experience there a bit seedy and creepy 😳 especially if your a single male , and can be quite clique , iv met couples at house - garden parties vy invite and always enjoyed them and a good way to meet people and a lot less creepy for a single male as youve been invited not just turned up , my favorite way is a app called bumble , my profile is honest to what im looking for and you dont message women they message you , which I find a lot nicer But as always lol thats my opinion but works for me "Bumble was the best of the dating apps for me. Hinge could be hit and miss. Tinder was just dreadful. | |||
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"Organised group social ☺️ hey there, what's happening with the Manchester social, I heard a rumour " Now have a Bananarama earworm 
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. Ive met some really lovely people through messaging profiles i like the look of and feel they would be a fit.
One of my best connections was with believe it or not an absolutely blank profile | |||
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"I tend to seek out anyone who may be of interest to me very rarely meet from those messaging." FAF? | |||
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"I find most of my connections and meets from messaging ive never met anyone from the forum. Tbh i had thought about it but seeing how utterly ridiculous and childish some peoples behaviour can be, the lampost pissing and the jealousy on here its put me off even considering it and i just stick to finding connections myself with people i chat to rather than from the forum . Ive met some really lovely people through messaging profiles i like the look of and feel they would be a fit.
One of my best connections was with believe it or not an absolutely blank profile "It is interesting how so many people end up meeting people who don't post on the forums. I wonder if it is because there are familiar faces on the forums so it kinda gets rid of that mystique feeling. If that makes sense? | |||
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" One of my best connections was with believe it or not an absolutely blank profile "Snap They guy had no pictures, very little bio. (This was when I was last on) He was an absolute gent, great banter in messages and I met him 3 times. Unfortunately he moved away with his job. | |||
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" One of my best connections was with believe it or not an absolutely blank profile
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They guy had no pictures, very little bio.
(This was when I was last on)
He was an absolute gent, great banter in messages and I met him 3 times.
Unfortunately he moved away with his job."Thats why i dont mind blank profiles if they send me a good message that shows there personality i will give them a shot | |||
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"I find most of my connections and meets from messaging ive never met anyone from the forum. Tbh i had thought about it but seeing how utterly ridiculous and childish some peoples behaviour can be, the lampost pissing and the jealousy on here its put me off even considering it and i just stick to finding connections myself with people i chat to rather than from the forum . Ive met some really lovely people through messaging profiles i like the look of and feel they would be a fit.
One of my best connections was with believe it or not an absolutely blank profile
It is interesting how so many people end up meeting people who don't post on the forums.
I wonder if it is because there are familiar faces on the forums so it kinda gets rid of that mystique feeling. If that makes sense?"Yeah i think so, also i think logistics as half the people are miles away. Also although we know we are all meeting people in messages thats kept private we dont have to see the person we are talking to fawning over and telling 10 people the same as you repeatedly like you do on the forums. Obviously not everyone will feel this way but i do find it offputting personally 🤣 | |||
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" One of my best connections was with believe it or not an absolutely blank profile
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They guy had no pictures, very little bio.
(This was when I was last on)
He was an absolute gent, great banter in messages and I met him 3 times.
Unfortunately he moved away with his job.
Thats why i dont mind blank profiles if they send me a good message that shows there personality i will give them a shot "I'm exactly the same. I know a lot of people make the deciding factor on a person's profile whether to reply to a message or not, but for me it's the opposite, it's the message. | |||
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" One of my best connections was with believe it or not an absolutely blank profile
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They guy had no pictures, very little bio.
(This was when I was last on)
He was an absolute gent, great banter in messages and I met him 3 times.
Unfortunately he moved away with his job.
Thats why i dont mind blank profiles if they send me a good message that shows there personality i will give them a shot
I'm exactly the same.
I know a lot of people make the deciding factor on a person's profile whether to reply to a message or not, but for me it's the opposite, it's the message."Im glad they do. Leaves the decent no profilers to us 🤭 | |||
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"I find most of my connections and meets from messaging ive never met anyone from the forum. Tbh i had thought about it but seeing how utterly ridiculous and childish some peoples behaviour can be, the lampost pissing and the jealousy on here its put me off even considering it and i just stick to finding connections myself with people i chat to rather than from the forum . Ive met some really lovely people through messaging profiles i like the look of and feel they would be a fit.
One of my best connections was with believe it or not an absolutely blank profile
It is interesting how so many people end up meeting people who don't post on the forums.
I wonder if it is because there are familiar faces on the forums so it kinda gets rid of that mystique feeling. If that makes sense?"The pool is far bigger than the forums.... | |||
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"I find most of my connections and meets from messaging ive never met anyone from the forum. Tbh i had thought about it but seeing how utterly ridiculous and childish some peoples behaviour can be, the lampost pissing and the jealousy on here its put me off even considering it and i just stick to finding connections myself with people i chat to rather than from the forum . Ive met some really lovely people through messaging profiles i like the look of and feel they would be a fit.
One of my best connections was with believe it or not an absolutely blank profile
It is interesting how so many people end up meeting people who don't post on the forums.
I wonder if it is because there are familiar faces on the forums so it kinda gets rid of that mystique feeling. If that makes sense?"I avoid any guys on the forums. LPS the lot of them | |||
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" One of my best connections was with believe it or not an absolutely blank profile
Snap
They guy had no pictures, very little bio.
(This was when I was last on)
He was an absolute gent, great banter in messages and I met him 3 times.
Unfortunately he moved away with his job.
Thats why i dont mind blank profiles if they send me a good message that shows there personality i will give them a shot "Have to admit my local guy I see only had 2 photo and haf only joined the week before he messaged me but his message was just hilarious and hot us talking and a couple of weeks later we met. | |||
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" One of my best connections was with believe it or not an absolutely blank profile
Snap
They guy had no pictures, very little bio.
(This was when I was last on)
He was an absolute gent, great banter in messages and I met him 3 times.
Unfortunately he moved away with his job.
Thats why i dont mind blank profiles if they send me a good message that shows there personality i will give them a shot
Have to admit my local guy I see only had 2 photo and haf only joined the week before he messaged me but his message was just hilarious and hot us talking and a couple of weeks later we met."This was similar to me | |||
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"I find most of my connections and meets from messaging ive never met anyone from the forum. Tbh i had thought about it but seeing how utterly ridiculous and childish some peoples behaviour can be, the lampost pissing and the jealousy on here its put me off even considering it and i just stick to finding connections myself with people i chat to rather than from the forum . Ive met some really lovely people through messaging profiles i like the look of and feel they would be a fit.
One of my best connections was with believe it or not an absolutely blank profile
It is interesting how so many people end up meeting people who don't post on the forums.
I wonder if it is because there are familiar faces on the forums so it kinda gets rid of that mystique feeling. If that makes sense?
The pool is far bigger than the forums...."Trueee very true | |||
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"I lie waiting in the long grass. Eventually,somebody who takes my fancy walks past, sees me and screams..." Oh you're that guy who gives massages" . And we take it from there. " The bush people!!! | |||
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"I find most of my connections and meets from messaging ive never met anyone from the forum. Tbh i had thought about it but seeing how utterly ridiculous and childish some peoples behaviour can be, the lampost pissing and the jealousy on here its put me off even considering it and i just stick to finding connections myself with people i chat to rather than from the forum . Ive met some really lovely people through messaging profiles i like the look of and feel they would be a fit.
One of my best connections was with believe it or not an absolutely blank profile
It is interesting how so many people end up meeting people who don't post on the forums.
I wonder if it is because there are familiar faces on the forums so it kinda gets rid of that mystique feeling. If that makes sense?
I avoid any guys on the forums. LPS the lot of them "We are not all bad. Or are we 🤔🤔 | |||
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"I find most of my connections and meets from messaging ive never met anyone from the forum. Tbh i had thought about it but seeing how utterly ridiculous and childish some peoples behaviour can be, the lampost pissing and the jealousy on here its put me off even considering it and i just stick to finding connections myself with people i chat to rather than from the forum . Ive met some really lovely people through messaging profiles i like the look of and feel they would be a fit.
One of my best connections was with believe it or not an absolutely blank profile
It is interesting how so many people end up meeting people who don't post on the forums.
I wonder if it is because there are familiar faces on the forums so it kinda gets rid of that mystique feeling. If that makes sense?
I avoid any guys on the forums. LPS the lot of them "Intrigued as the what LPS stands for
I do think some of the forum guys are ok but some are like dogs with 10 dicks 🤣 | |||
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"I find most of my connections and meets from messaging ive never met anyone from the forum. Tbh i had thought about it but seeing how utterly ridiculous and childish some peoples behaviour can be, the lampost pissing and the jealousy on here its put me off even considering it and i just stick to finding connections myself with people i chat to rather than from the forum . Ive met some really lovely people through messaging profiles i like the look of and feel they would be a fit.
One of my best connections was with believe it or not an absolutely blank profile
It is interesting how so many people end up meeting people who don't post on the forums.
I wonder if it is because there are familiar faces on the forums so it kinda gets rid of that mystique feeling. If that makes sense?
I avoid any guys on the forums. LPS the lot of them
Intrigued as the what LPS stands for
I do think some of the forum guys are ok but some are like dogs with 10 dicks 🤣"So am I! I may have got the letters wrong 🤣 | |||
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We also have to remember that the forum is only a microcosmos of the Universe that is Fab.
As said above, my most significant and long-lasting connection came after a first message with a blank profile but a gorgeous face photo sent. 🩷🎀 | |||
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"It is interesting how so many people end up meeting people who don't post on the forums. I wonder if it is because there are familiar faces on the forums so it kinda gets rid of that mystique feeling. If that makes sense?" Or because there are people away from the forums and it makes things easier. You don't run the risk of flouncing because of whatever or being flavour of the week one, discarded the next. And you don't have to watch the cringy crap flirting. And - some people meet other forum users but come up with bollocks about how they don't. I've done it. | |||
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" For the women here — what’s your favourite way to spot someone worth talking to? When it happens I'll let you know" It's Tuesday. That's why. | |||
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"Forum fishing pond- bad, bad idea! 🎣 🚫 I’ve met many people socially, but I have zero interest in developing sexual connections with male forumites. No thanks. That is why I never join in the flirting threads as I have zero interest in anyone so there is no point really. Some ladies I would, though.
We also have to remember that the forum is only a microcosmos of the Universe that is Fab.
As said above, my most significant and long-lasting connection came after a first message with a blank profile but a gorgeous face photo sent. 🩷🎀"I love a bad idea 😇😇 | |||
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"Forum fishing pond- bad, bad idea! 🎣 🚫 I’ve met many people socially, but I have zero interest in developing sexual connections with male forumites. No thanks. That is why I never join in the flirting threads as I have zero interest in anyone so there is no point really. Some ladies I would, though.
We also have to remember that the forum is only a microcosmos of the Universe that is Fab.
As said above, my most significant and long-lasting connection came after a first message with a blank profile but a gorgeous face photo sent. 🩷🎀
I love a bad idea 😇😇"You’re the exception to the rule that allows the Fab Universe continuum, my dear…. (dears) Otherwise a Fab implosion would have been imminent. 🤯🤯🤯🤯 | |||
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"In all the years ive been here ive only been with about three people from the forums. My meets come from the main site, either they've pmed me or ive peed them" I’m surprised they want to meet if you’ve peed on them.  | |||
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"In all the years ive been here ive only been with about three people from the forums. My meets come from the main site, either they've pmed me or ive peed them I’m surprised they want to meet if you’ve peed on them. "ha ha your the only person to pick me up on it | |||
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"In all the years ive been here ive only been with about three people from the forums. My meets come from the main site, either they've pmed me or ive peed them I’m surprised they want to meet if you’ve peed on them. ha ha your the only person to pick me up on it"I’m tuned in. | |||
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Jump at anything that catches interest. I don't really let myself be straight jacketed, to only doing things certain ways. My only guidance is I'm usually fairly slow. But I might go fast, if the right people influence it.
Look for lots of opportunities and if you're also optimistic, you'll be excited. Make your rules  | |||
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