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By *icecouple561 OP   Couple
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4 days ago

East Sussex

I just read something on another platform written by a woman saying that her fiance goes straight to his friends house after work and doesn't come back until around midnight, every single night. She wonders if she's over reacting by asking him what's going on. Apparently fiances friend and his mother have told her she's controlling and selfish.

Apart from the fact that the likelihood is that none of this is true, are people really that indecisive and unable to see the writing on the wall in giant, neon block capitals?

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By *WB85Man
4 days ago

Staffordshire

Sadly this wouldn't surprise me, some people are incredibly naive and easily taken for granted.

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By *oldmilkMan
4 days ago

In trouble, apparently…

As with most things like this written on social media, context is everything and you often don’t see the context of posts like this.

Who’s the real party who’s committing the abuse here? The fiancé, the fiancée, or the friend and his mother?

It could also, as you suspect, nothing more than an attention-seeking post in search of confirmation bias.

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By *asualConnectionsMan
4 days ago

bristol

She needs to leave him and find somone who actually wants to be around her I get having time with friends is important but that is complete bs obviously he just wabts her at night for a quick fuck and that's it

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By *aomilatteCouple
4 days ago

Midlands

Is it Renè from Hello Hello? 🇫🇷

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By *ino200Man
4 days ago

Bournemouth and London


"I just read something on another platform written by a woman saying that her fiance goes straight to his friends house after work and doesn't come back until around midnight, every single night. She wonders if she's over reacting by asking him what's going on. Apparently fiances friend and his mother have told her she's controlling and selfish.

Apart from the fact that the likelihood is that none of this is true, are people really that indecisive and unable to see the writing on the wall in giant, neon block capitals? "
What is the writing on the wall perhaps he doesnt want to decorate again its the 2nd time in ten years ya know

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By *icecouple561 OP   Couple
Forum Mod
4 days ago

East Sussex

I think fiance is gay or bisexual and has decided he prefers his friend.

OR

She's a massive nag and a bit of a bridezilla and he's too scared to break things off, or too comfortable with the current situation.

OR, the most likely scenario

She's imagined the whole thing and posted on social media for some weird attention thing

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By *iver78Man
4 days ago

barton upon humber

Not sure tbh I have a mate who goes to my house ( when im away ) just for a break from his wife and kids lol

I was suspicious that he was using it for other purposes but. Iv checked my ring doorbell and unless he has a ninja coming round its deffo just him !

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By *icecouple561 OP   Couple
Forum Mod
4 days ago

East Sussex


"I just read something on another platform written by a woman saying that her fiance goes straight to his friends house after work and doesn't come back until around midnight, every single night. She wonders if she's over reacting by asking him what's going on. Apparently fiances friend and his mother have told her she's controlling and selfish.

Apart from the fact that the likelihood is that none of this is true, are people really that indecisive and unable to see the writing on the wall in giant, neon block capitals? What is the writing on the wall perhaps he doesnt want to decorate again its the 2nd time in ten years ya know "

I certainly hope it's not

Live

Love

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By *ino200Man
4 days ago

Bournemouth and London


"I think fiance is gay or bisexual and has decided he prefers his friend.

OR

She's a massive nag and a bit of a bridezilla and he's too scared to break things off, or too comfortable with the current situation.

OR, the most likely scenario

She's imagined the whole thing and posted on social media for some weird attention thing"
I think you hit the nail on the head lucky swing

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By *icecouple561 OP   Couple
Forum Mod
4 days ago

East Sussex


"I think fiance is gay or bisexual and has decided he prefers his friend.

OR

She's a massive nag and a bit of a bridezilla and he's too scared to break things off, or too comfortable with the current situation.

OR, the most likely scenario

She's imagined the whole thing and posted on social media for some weird attention thingI think you hit the nail on the head lucky swing "

What's the reasoning behind that though. I know people are odd (except me I'm normal 😝)but why would you want people to feel sorry for you

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By *aven.Woman
4 days ago

no


"I think fiance is gay or bisexual and has decided he prefers his friend.

OR

She's a massive nag and a bit of a bridezilla and he's too scared to break things off, or too comfortable with the current situation.

OR, the most likely scenario

She's imagined the whole thing and posted on social media for some weird attention thingI think you hit the nail on the head lucky swing

What's the reasoning behind that though. I know people are odd (except me I'm normal 😝)but why would you want people to feel sorry for you"

More for attention I would guess. No publicity is bad publicity as they say.

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By *icecouple561 OP   Couple
Forum Mod
4 days ago

East Sussex


"I think fiance is gay or bisexual and has decided he prefers his friend.

OR

She's a massive nag and a bit of a bridezilla and he's too scared to break things off, or too comfortable with the current situation.

OR, the most likely scenario

She's imagined the whole thing and posted on social media for some weird attention thingI think you hit the nail on the head lucky swing

What's the reasoning behind that though. I know people are odd (except me I'm normal 😝)but why would you want people to feel sorry for you

More for attention I would guess. No publicity is bad publicity as they say. "

I guess but I hate being pitied and would rather have no attention at all.

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