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"So sorry to hear this. Please feel free to reach out if you need a complete stranger to talk to, that certainly has helped me in the past. I would say, someimes sites like this do not help us with our good mental health but there are plently of support grpups/forums out there to help support you through this period. Another good way to help identify your triggers or areas that make you feel low is to write things down and what you may need to do to changes things or your mindset For example "Hate my job" a column then for what can you can change I could look/find a new job, I could speak to my boss about.x,y,z 2. I am unhappy in my relationship Talk to them Leave Etc etc It helps break things down and you can set achievable goals Practice mindfullness and wellbeing It's very hard and pretty much everyone struggles with their MH at some point in their life, of course that doesn't make it any easier when you are the one going through it. All the best x " Great advice x | |||
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"You ever feel so low, useless, depressed, anxious and so fucking fed up you can’t see any point? I have a great family , never touched drugs , own my own home , cars,and work but feel 100% lonely Maybe,," To be honest, thats exactly how i feel | |||
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"You ever feel so low, useless, depressed, anxious and so fucking fed up you can’t see any point? I have a great family , never touched drugs , own my own home , cars,and work but feel 100% lonely Maybe,, To be honest, thats exactly how i feel " You might be surprised at how many men are lonely and feel like this. I hope you and the OP manage to deal with the issues you are having. We all have demons. | |||
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"You ever feel so low, useless, depressed, anxious and so fucking fed up you can’t see any point? I have a great family , never touched drugs , own my own home , cars,and work but feel 100% lonely Maybe,," Don't have family and don't work but feel the same and know how easy it would be to dissappear before many would notice. Hopefully you and others like you are stronger than I am and find your way out | |||
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"• CALM (Campaign Against Living Miserably) - support for men and anyone struggling with mental health, including suicide prevention resources. • Andy’s Man Club - free, peer-to-peer talking groups for men, with groups across the UK. • Never Throw In The Towel Project - A movement built on resilience, lived experience, and the power of community • Men’s Minds Matter - focuses specifically on male suicide prevention and improving understanding of men’s mental health. • Movember - resources covering mental health, suicide prevention, connection and men’s wellbeing. • Mind - information and support covering a wide range of mental health issues, with specific resources relevant to men. • Samaritans - confidential emotional support for anyone struggling to cope. • ManKind Initiative - support and information for male victims of domestic abuse. • Men’s Health Forum - UK organisation focused on improving men’s health, including mental health. • Papyrus - suicide prevention support for young people under 35. • NHS Every Mind Matters - practical advice and tools for looking after mental wellbeing. • SHOUT text support service which is free and available 24/7. I copied this from the other thread and this info came from a profile Samantha_Jade " 
Excellent post..
Op, and anyone else reading this (in some ways especially thise who dont feel able to say so on here but share the feelings the Op has done) please reach out to anyone you feel you can talk to..
A period of poor mental health is absolutely nothing to be ashamed off, it doesnt make you 'weak or less of a man' etc to talk to someone about it..
But please do talk..
Best wishes to anyone going through this, stay strong in yourself and reach out..
You will get through it.. | |||
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"You ever feel so low, useless, depressed, anxious and so fucking fed up you can’t see any point? I have a great family , never touched drugs , own my own home , cars,and work but feel 100% lonely Maybe,," I feel you pal. Easy to have everything through hard work and feel lonely. Women see men as an option simple as. They will also drop you like a stone for the next best thing. Harsh but true. | |||
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"You ever feel so low, useless, depressed, anxious and so fucking fed up you can’t see any point? I have a great family , never touched drugs , own my own home , cars,and work but feel 100% lonely Maybe,, I feel you pal. Easy to have everything through hard work and feel lonely. Women see men as an option simple as. They will also drop you like a stone for the next best thing. Harsh but true. " I am sure you meant to be supportive But maybe don't bring your own issues with women, which the OP hasn't even wrote, into a thread like this | |||
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"You ever feel so low, useless, depressed, anxious and so fucking fed up you can’t see any point? I have a great family , never touched drugs , own my own home , cars,and work but feel 100% lonely Maybe,," Around 12 years ago, I was feeling all those things and it led to a breakdown and I still don't know why it affected me so bad 😔 Anyway, I did finally get some help - both from friends and a counsellor, and slowly got back on track 🙂 Check out all the advice and options given - it may look daunting but there'll be things that suit you ✔️ I found the simple advice of feeling sunshine on your face helped me - doesn't sound much but those little things helped and made me appreciate what I do have 🌞 Take care and good luck 🤗 | |||
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"You ever feel so low, useless, depressed, anxious and so fucking fed up you can’t see any point? I have a great family , never touched drugs , own my own home , cars,and work but feel 100% lonely Maybe,, I feel you pal. Easy to have everything through hard work and feel lonely. Women see men as an option simple as. They will also drop you like a stone for the next best thing. Harsh but true. I am sure you meant to be supportive But maybe don't bring your own issues with women, which the OP hasn't even wrote, into a thread like this " I'll say what I need to cheers 👍 | |||
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"You ever feel so low, useless, depressed, anxious and so fucking fed up you can’t see any point? I have a great family , never touched drugs , own my own home , cars,and work but feel 100% lonely Maybe,," Maybe consider speaking to a therapist. | |||
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"You ever feel so low, useless, depressed, anxious and so fucking fed up you can’t see any point? I have a great family , never touched drugs , own my own home , cars,and work but feel 100% lonely Maybe,, I feel you pal. Easy to have everything through hard work and feel lonely. Women see men as an option simple as. They will also drop you like a stone for the next best thing. Harsh but true. " Probably look at what it is about you that makes you so easy to drop like a stone, rather than projecting your problems with women onto others. | |||
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"You ever feel so low, useless, depressed, anxious and so fucking fed up you can’t see any point? I have a great family , never touched drugs , own my own home , cars,and work but feel 100% lonely Maybe,, I feel you pal. Easy to have everything through hard work and feel lonely. Women see men as an option simple as. They will also drop you like a stone for the next best thing. Harsh but true. Probably look at what it is about you that makes you so easy to drop like a stone, rather than projecting your problems with women onto others." I don't have problems pal 😉 The women I meet know I'm decent. You think What I'm saying is not true 🤔 Women do see men as an option simple as and yes they will drop you like a stone to move on to the next best thing. Men do it too. | |||
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"You ever feel so low, useless, depressed, anxious and so fucking fed up you can’t see any point? I have a great family , never touched drugs , own my own home , cars,and work but feel 100% lonely Maybe,, I feel you pal. Easy to have everything through hard work and feel lonely. Women see men as an option simple as. They will also drop you like a stone for the next best thing. Harsh but true. Probably look at what it is about you that makes you so easy to drop like a stone, rather than projecting your problems with women onto others. I don't have problems pal 😉 The women I meet know I'm decent. You think What I'm saying is not true 🤔 Women do see men as an option simple as and yes they will drop you like a stone to move on to the next best thing. Men do it too. " Then you’re obviously attracted to the wrong sort of woman, it’s not an issue I’ve ever had. | |||
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"You ever feel so low, useless, depressed, anxious and so fucking fed up you can’t see any point? I have a great family , never touched drugs , own my own home , cars,and work but feel 100% lonely Maybe,," Never expericed this myself but a bloke I work with has and I never understood it as he had a lovely gf and his kids were great ( in the 20s ) but always made time for him , he worked with me and we work as a gang and all got on pretty chilled work and work all the country , but he used to say he felt on his own , it got really bad so he was told to go to the doctors ( not a thing men do ) and they discoverd ( after quite a while ) he had a thyroid problem. So the. Only advice i could possible give is pop to the doctors maybe ? Hope things improve for you 🙏 | |||
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"You ever feel so low, useless, depressed, anxious and so fucking fed up you can’t see any point? I have a great family , never touched drugs , own my own home , cars,and work but feel 100% lonely Maybe,, I feel you pal. Easy to have everything through hard work and feel lonely. Women see men as an option simple as. They will also drop you like a stone for the next best thing. Harsh but true. Probably look at what it is about you that makes you so easy to drop like a stone, rather than projecting your problems with women onto others. I don't have problems pal 😉 The women I meet know I'm decent. You think What I'm saying is not true 🤔 Women do see men as an option simple as and yes they will drop you like a stone to move on to the next best thing. Men do it too. Then you’re obviously attracted to the wrong sort of woman, it’s not an issue I’ve ever had." Not an issue I've had either. I know what I like and don't deviate. I get what I want, not what I can get. All the above still applies 👍 | |||
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"You ever feel so low, useless, depressed, anxious and so fucking fed up you can’t see any point? I have a great family , never touched drugs , own my own home , cars,and work but feel 100% lonely Maybe,, I feel you pal. Easy to have everything through hard work and feel lonely. Women see men as an option simple as. They will also drop you like a stone for the next best thing. Harsh but true. I am sure you meant to be supportive But maybe don't bring your own issues with women, which the OP hasn't even wrote, into a thread like this I'll say what I need to cheers 👍" Sure, if it's about the thread. What you wrote is projecting what you think of women. That's not what the thread is about. Don't make someone else's reach out about you. That's what I'm saying. | |||
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"You ever feel so low, useless, depressed, anxious and so fucking fed up you can’t see any point? I have a great family , never touched drugs , own my own home , cars,and work but feel 100% lonely Maybe,," Talk to someone, a friend, family member, a stranger on the street, a problem shared is a problem halved | |||
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"Thanks to everyone for speaking I did read all x" I hope that people's comments, well the positive ones helped you OP. How are you doing today? | |||
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