FabSwingers.com forum: Read messages

By *n the Side OP Man
7 days ago

Newport

After the first message is read what is a acceptable amount of time to send a second

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By *hickthighs-26Woman
7 days ago

the land of vagina

Never. No reply is a reply

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By *tormQueenWoman
7 days ago

All over the place

"After the first message is read what is a acceptable amount of time to send a second "

I feel like this is a trap but....the acceptable time to send a second message is after they have replied to the first

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By *onin25Man
7 days ago

Durham

Assume you're talking on here and not a work email or a consumer complaint? If so wait for a reply. If you don't get a reply move on.

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By *oiluvfunMan
7 days ago

Penrith

"After the first message is read what is a acceptable amount of time to send a second "

If they’ve not replied to your message mate, only read it, welcome to Fab! 😁

Don’t you send another message, unless they reply to you 👍

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By *olo180Man
7 days ago

Greater London

Give it a few days to give them time to respond. Then delete your sent message and forget all about it, they are not interested.

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By *aven.Woman
7 days ago

About 5mins

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By *cott45hullMan
7 days ago

Hull

"Give it a few days to give them time to respond. Then delete your sent message and forget all about it, they are not interested. "

Also make use of the notes if you can so you doubly know

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By *lderflowerAppleWoman
7 days ago

Hampshire

"After the first message is read what is a acceptable amount of time to send a second

I feel like this is a trap but....the acceptable time to send a second message is after they have replied to the first"

This!!! 👆🏻

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By *carlettsWoman
7 days ago

Somewhere out there

"After the first message is read what is a acceptable amount of time to send a second

I feel like this is a trap but....the acceptable time to send a second message is after they have replied to the first"

this

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By *WB85Man
7 days ago

Staffordshire

Yeah as above....if they dont reply, its not an invitation to send another.

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By *uicy_peach79Woman
7 days ago

Edinburgh

Only send if they reply

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By *heron ShanMan
7 days ago

Durham

I never usually add to these types of questions but:

Never, if she messages back then great.

if you get into chatting, only reply back when she responds to you.

If you feel you have a connection then leave it up to her if she would like to take the conversation off line on whatsupdoc or other apps, video called or even other modern app.

Women get crap on here all the time and there has to be a mutual energy, trust and time.

I don't message people and I only put time into the women that message me who I feel has the same energy as me but, I very picky and my time is worth more then using it on people I don't connect with. What I'm looking for is someone with specific qualities and energy.

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By *uicy_peach79Woman
7 days ago

Edinburgh

"I never usually add to these types of questions but:

Never, if she messages back then great.

if you get into chatting, only reply back when she responds to you.

If you feel you have a connection then leave it up to her if she would like to take the conversation off line on whatsupdoc or other apps, video called or even other modern app.

Women get crap on here all the time and there has to be a mutual energy, trust and time.

100% this

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By *aulie400Man
7 days ago

Galway

If you don't get a reply...don't message again

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By *vaRoseWoman
7 days ago

Ankh-Morpork

After a first message? Don’t

Several dozen messages in already, and chatting is friendly? then by all means send a follow up. If that’s ignored then move on

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By *ust a little bit moreWoman
7 days ago

kendal

Normal people will tell you 'after a reply'

But some of the male fraternity will give you answers varying from 5 mins, to 24 hrs.

And some will sau send a 3rd, 4th amd 5th, and then resort to personal insults if all else fails.

Depends who you ask really 🤷‍♀️

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By *rEssKayMan
7 days ago

It varies

"After the first message is read what is a acceptable amount of time to send a second "

40-50 years maybe. They might be looking for something different by then.

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By *amantha_JadeWoman
7 days ago

Never. If they wanted to reply, they would.

Repeat messages are incredibly annoying. I just blocked someone who’d sent a third message.

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By *iver78Man
7 days ago

barton upon humber

Never ever , same in real life , never chase anyone for attention ,

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By *oddess_MelissaTV/TS
7 days ago

wilts

Give it a day for one more try, I sometimes skip past or forget to message back.

Never send a question mark or two - I hate that

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By *oldmilkMan
7 days ago

In trouble, apparently…

And if you get a reply that simply says “thanks” or otherwise clearly doesnt carry the conversation forwards, then it’s a sign the conversation is over.

People sometimes reply out of politeness, but this doesn’t mean they want to carry on chatting with you.

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By *hitehorsefunCouple
7 days ago

Wantage

Any clues on this scenario all you budding agony aunts.

Couple winked us, they've been on over a year and no veri's. We messaged back with a Thanks, yes we'd be interested in chatting, meeting or whatever you deemed appropriate. One week and no reply. But then another wink from them. Eh?

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By *hitehorsefunCouple
7 days ago

Wantage

Oh and they fabbed our pics

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By *oldmilkMan
7 days ago

In trouble, apparently…

"Any clues on this scenario all you budding agony aunts.

Probably a bloke messing around. If there’s no commitment to a conversation, I’d just block and move on.

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By *hitehorsefunCouple
7 days ago

Wantage

Cheers, we've certainly moved on. Every chance it's a bloke we suppose.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
7 days ago

Central

Message new people, until you get a reply. Ignore who's been messaged and not replied

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