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"Why does everyone live so far away? Everyone from the forums, that look good for a potential meet, live so far away 🤷🏽♂️ Can't you just move a little closer?" That so true, and it doesn't matter where you live, they are always somewhere else, go figure | |||
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"Now here I am again in this mean old town And you're so far away from me Now where are you when the sun goes down? You're so far away from me You're so far away from me So far, I just can't see You're so far away from me You're so far away from me, alright" We're all in dire straights then | |||
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"Drive Get a train The oh they live too far away thing is just an excuse when you're just not that bothered about meeting them. Ive gone to the Highlands from brum to meet a girl, not a problem travelling " | |||
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"Just out of interest, how far is too far? In other words, how far are most people willing to travel?" When was meeting usually an hour max. For reg meets a lot lot further as trusted them to show up | |||
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"It’s the curse of fab. But if you moved and lived 150 miles away it would still be the same " Absolutely true | |||
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"Drive Get a train The oh they live too far away thing is just an excuse when you're just not that bothered about meeting them. " Agree... if you were really that interested you would make the effort. | |||
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"Drive Get a train The oh they live too far away thing is just an excuse when you're just not that bothered about meeting them. " I met a woman from Kidderminster once, halfway at the Village hotel in Warrington, we had a fantastic day rate play 😉 But that was back in the day, when people wanted to meet, and get this; actually answered messages! 😮 | |||
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"Drive Get a train The oh they live too far away thing is just an excuse when you're just not that bothered about meeting them. I met a woman from Kidderminster once, halfway at the Village hotel in Warrington, we had a fantastic day rate play 😉 But that was back in the day, when people wanted to meet, and get this; actually answered messages! 😮" People do answer messages, to those they are interested in. | |||
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"Drive Get a train The oh they live too far away thing is just an excuse when you're just not that bothered about meeting them. Agree... if you were really that interested you would make the effort." It’s not always about not putting the effort in. It’s not as simple as that. Lots of people have hugely busy lives with work, children, etc It’s not always realistic to have the time in a week to have 6 or 7 hours free to travel to meet…and especially if you want someone regular. | |||
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"Drive Get a train The oh they live too far away thing is just an excuse when you're just not that bothered about meeting them. Agree... if you were really that interested you would make the effort. It’s not always about not putting the effort in. It’s not as simple as that. Lots of people have hugely busy lives with work, children, etc It’s not always realistic to have the time in a week to have 6 or 7 hours free to travel to meet…and especially if you want someone regular. " No one said it was easy. But I guess it depends if you'd rather meet someone you actually like or just make do because they are near. | |||
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"Drive Get a train The oh they live too far away thing is just an excuse when you're just not that bothered about meeting them. Agree... if you were really that interested you would make the effort. It’s not always about not putting the effort in. It’s not as simple as that. Lots of people have hugely busy lives with work, children, etc It’s not always realistic to have the time in a week to have 6 or 7 hours free to travel to meet…and especially if you want someone regular. No one said it was easy. But I guess it depends if you'd rather meet someone you actually like or just make do because they are near. " I would only meet people that I like and never ‘make do’ for locality. Have travelled and willing to travel but it’s not about being easy, it’s the reality of logistics and people’s real world lives. To maintain a regular physical relationship, distance is a factor. | |||
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"Drive Get a train The oh they live too far away thing is just an excuse when you're just not that bothered about meeting them. Agree... if you were really that interested you would make the effort. It’s not always about not putting the effort in. It’s not as simple as that. Lots of people have hugely busy lives with work, children, etc It’s not always realistic to have the time in a week to have 6 or 7 hours free to travel to meet…and especially if you want someone regular. " Yes, the practicalities of life have to be considered | |||
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"Drive Get a train The oh they live too far away thing is just an excuse when you're just not that bothered about meeting them. Agree... if you were really that interested you would make the effort. It’s not always about not putting the effort in. It’s not as simple as that. Lots of people have hugely busy lives with work, children, etc It’s not always realistic to have the time in a week to have 6 or 7 hours free to travel to meet…and especially if you want someone regular. No one said it was easy. But I guess it depends if you'd rather meet someone you actually like or just make do because they are near. I would only meet people that I like and never ‘make do’ for locality. Have travelled and willing to travel but it’s not about being easy, it’s the reality of logistics and people’s real world lives. To maintain a regular physical relationship, distance is a factor. " If you're looking for a relationship then yeah. Most that complain about distance is just referring to people they chat to or they like the look of but use the old ah they are too far away crap. You haven't met them yet so let's slow it down with the regular thing. And regular can be every few months. I just don't see why you wouldn't make the effort for someone you like. Even if you can't see them every week, I mean who wants that anyway!! | |||
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"Why does everyone live so far away? Everyone from the forums, that look good for a potential meet, live so far away 🤷🏽♂️ Can't you just move a little closer?" Not only me then. | |||
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"Drive Get a train The oh they live too far away thing is just an excuse when you're just not that bothered about meeting them. Agree... if you were really that interested you would make the effort. It’s not always about not putting the effort in. It’s not as simple as that. Lots of people have hugely busy lives with work, children, etc It’s not always realistic to have the time in a week to have 6 or 7 hours free to travel to meet…and especially if you want someone regular. No one said it was easy. But I guess it depends if you'd rather meet someone you actually like or just make do because they are near. I would only meet people that I like and never ‘make do’ for locality. Have travelled and willing to travel but it’s not about being easy, it’s the reality of logistics and people’s real world lives. To maintain a regular physical relationship, distance is a factor. If you're looking for a relationship then yeah. Most that complain about distance is just referring to people they chat to or they like the look of but use the old ah they are too far away crap. You haven't met them yet so let's slow it down with the regular thing. And regular can be every few months. I just don't see why you wouldn't make the effort for someone you like. Even if you can't see them every week, I mean who wants that anyway!! " You should see my Google calendar and you’d maybe understand why I’m sympathetic to distance 🤣 | |||
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"Drive Get a train The oh they live too far away thing is just an excuse when you're just not that bothered about meeting them. Agree... if you were really that interested you would make the effort. It’s not always about not putting the effort in. It’s not as simple as that. Lots of people have hugely busy lives with work, children, etc It’s not always realistic to have the time in a week to have 6 or 7 hours free to travel to meet…and especially if you want someone regular. No one said it was easy. But I guess it depends if you'd rather meet someone you actually like or just make do because they are near. I would only meet people that I like and never ‘make do’ for locality. Have travelled and willing to travel but it’s not about being easy, it’s the reality of logistics and people’s real world lives. To maintain a regular physical relationship, distance is a factor. If you're looking for a relationship then yeah. Most that complain about distance is just referring to people they chat to or they like the look of but use the old ah they are too far away crap. You haven't met them yet so let's slow it down with the regular thing. And regular can be every few months. I just don't see why you wouldn't make the effort for someone you like. Even if you can't see them every week, I mean who wants that anyway!! You should see my Google calendar and you’d maybe understand why I’m sympathetic to distance 🤣" To be fair you're in London, if you can't find anybody close by then...  | |||
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"Drive Get a train The oh they live too far away thing is just an excuse when you're just not that bothered about meeting them. Agree... if you were really that interested you would make the effort. It’s not always about not putting the effort in. It’s not as simple as that. Lots of people have hugely busy lives with work, children, etc It’s not always realistic to have the time in a week to have 6 or 7 hours free to travel to meet…and especially if you want someone regular. " I know it's not easy pal, anything you have to put effort into is never easy though is it... also for some people regularly could mean every month, not weekly. | |||
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"Drive Get a train The oh they live too far away thing is just an excuse when you're just not that bothered about meeting them. Agree... if you were really that interested you would make the effort. It’s not always about not putting the effort in. It’s not as simple as that. Lots of people have hugely busy lives with work, children, etc It’s not always realistic to have the time in a week to have 6 or 7 hours free to travel to meet…and especially if you want someone regular. No one said it was easy. But I guess it depends if you'd rather meet someone you actually like or just make do because they are near. I would only meet people that I like and never ‘make do’ for locality. Have travelled and willing to travel but it’s not about being easy, it’s the reality of logistics and people’s real world lives. To maintain a regular physical relationship, distance is a factor. " I totally agree with this. Location is everything for ongoing regular meets. | |||
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"Drive Get a train The oh they live too far away thing is just an excuse when you're just not that bothered about meeting them. Agree... if you were really that interested you would make the effort. It’s not always about not putting the effort in. It’s not as simple as that. Lots of people have hugely busy lives with work, children, etc It’s not always realistic to have the time in a week to have 6 or 7 hours free to travel to meet…and especially if you want someone regular. I know it's not easy pal, anything you have to put effort into is never easy though is it... also for some people regularly could mean every month, not weekly." Regular for me is about once a year! | |||
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"Drive Get a train The oh they live too far away thing is just an excuse when you're just not that bothered about meeting them. Agree... if you were really that interested you would make the effort. It’s not always about not putting the effort in. It’s not as simple as that. Lots of people have hugely busy lives with work, children, etc It’s not always realistic to have the time in a week to have 6 or 7 hours free to travel to meet…and especially if you want someone regular. I know it's not easy pal, anything you have to put effort into is never easy though is it... also for some people regularly could mean every month, not weekly. Regular for me is about once a year! " That often! Why can't we all be that fortunate. 😉 | |||
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"Drive Get a train The oh they live too far away thing is just an excuse when you're just not that bothered about meeting them. Agree... if you were really that interested you would make the effort. It’s not always about not putting the effort in. It’s not as simple as that. Lots of people have hugely busy lives with work, children, etc It’s not always realistic to have the time in a week to have 6 or 7 hours free to travel to meet…and especially if you want someone regular. I know it's not easy pal, anything you have to put effort into is never easy though is it... also for some people regularly could mean every month, not weekly. Regular for me is about once a year! That often! Why can't we all be that fortunate. 😉" I know, I'm such a whore | |||
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"I know this feeling ….. but it’s good to know they are out there and meeting is possible….. bringing Star Trek technology into fab would be my idea ….. beam me up ……. to planet Vagina 😉" "Ensign Davina's personal log: the USS Inseminator is under way to Vagina IV, in the Ph'uck Cluster. A transporter malfunction appears to have beamed a human male from the early 21st Century on board. While we try to ascertain what has caused this, he's been taken to sickbay where the ship's doctor will probe him for anomalies..." | |||
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"I know this feeling ….. but it’s good to know they are out there and meeting is possible….. bringing Star Trek technology into fab would be my idea ….. beam me up ……. to planet Vagina 😉 "Ensign Davina's personal log: the USS Inseminator is under way to Vagina IV, in the Ph'uck Cluster. A transporter malfunction appears to have beamed a human male from the early 21st Century on board. While we try to ascertain what has caused this, he's been taken to sickbay where the ship's doctor will probe him for anomalies..."" Its only in the north east. No need for dramatics 😘 | |||
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"Drive Get a train The oh they live too far away thing is just an excuse when you're just not that bothered about meeting them. Agree... if you were really that interested you would make the effort. It’s not always about not putting the effort in. It’s not as simple as that. Lots of people have hugely busy lives with work, children, etc It’s not always realistic to have the time in a week to have 6 or 7 hours free to travel to meet…and especially if you want someone regular. No one said it was easy. But I guess it depends if you'd rather meet someone you actually like or just make do because they are near. I would only meet people that I like and never ‘make do’ for locality. Have travelled and willing to travel but it’s not about being easy, it’s the reality of logistics and people’s real world lives. To maintain a regular physical relationship, distance is a factor. If you're looking for a relationship then yeah. Most that complain about distance is just referring to people they chat to or they like the look of but use the old ah they are too far away crap. You haven't met them yet so let's slow it down with the regular thing. And regular can be every few months. I just don't see why you wouldn't make the effort for someone you like. Even if you can't see them every week, I mean who wants that anyway!! Exactly this I’ve had two long distance relationships on here one 150 miles away and the other 250 miles and one lasted 4 years and the other 19 months " . My life is super busy and full so once a month ( sometimes twice on occasion) or every 7/8 weeks didn’t bother me | |||
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"Now here I am again in this mean old town And you're so far away from me Now where are you when the sun goes down? You're so far away from me You're so far away from me So far, I just can't see You're so far away from me You're so far away from me, alright" LOVE that song! | |||
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"Why does everyone live so far away? Everyone from the forums, that look good for a potential meet, live so far away 🤷🏽♂️ Can't you just move a little closer?" I know what you mean. Wish I was closer to a few ladies | |||
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"I know this feeling ….. but it’s good to know they are out there and meeting is possible….. bringing Star Trek technology into fab would be my idea ….. beam me up ……. to planet Vagina 😉 "Ensign Davina's personal log: the USS Inseminator is under way to Vagina IV, in the Ph'uck Cluster. A transporter malfunction appears to have beamed a human male from the early 21st Century on board. While we try to ascertain what has caused this, he's been taken to sickbay where the ship's doctor will probe him for anomalies..." Its only in the north east. No need for dramatics 😘" "Ensign Davina's personal log: Our mission on Vagina IV is to establish contact with the formidable leader of the Vaginarians, the Grand Poobah Thiktheighs. She has indicated that the Vaginarians may be ready to initiate relations with the Federation. We'll be meeting her so that she can open... negotiations. I'm looking forward to receiving her legendary hospitality... 😏🖖" | |||
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"I know this feeling ….. but it’s good to know they are out there and meeting is possible….. bringing Star Trek technology into fab would be my idea ….. beam me up ……. to planet Vagina 😉 "Ensign Davina's personal log: the USS Inseminator is under way to Vagina IV, in the Ph'uck Cluster. A transporter malfunction appears to have beamed a human male from the early 21st Century on board. While we try to ascertain what has caused this, he's been taken to sickbay where the ship's doctor will probe him for anomalies..." Its only in the north east. No need for dramatics 😘 "Ensign Davina's personal log: Our mission on Vagina IV is to establish contact with the formidable leader of the Vaginarians, the Grand Poobah Thiktheighs. She has indicated that the Vaginarians may be ready to initiate relations with the Federation. We'll be meeting her so that she can open... negotiations. I'm looking forward to receiving her legendary hospitality... 😏🖖"" "The grand poobah" 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 i am howling (at the moon) | |||
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"Damn! The nearest people looking for a meet on Fabswingers are 13 light years away! 😟" Sorry about that | |||
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"Damn! The nearest people looking for a meet on Fabswingers are 13 light years away! 😟 Sorry about that " Ah, an Adorian! Is it true your people are very blue...? | |||
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"Drive Get a train The oh they live too far away thing is just an excuse when you're just not that bothered about meeting them. Agree... if you were really that interested you would make the effort. It’s not always about not putting the effort in. It’s not as simple as that. Lots of people have hugely busy lives with work, children, etc It’s not always realistic to have the time in a week to have 6 or 7 hours free to travel to meet…and especially if you want someone regular. No one said it was easy. But I guess it depends if you'd rather meet someone you actually like or just make do because they are near. I would only meet people that I like and never ‘make do’ for locality. Have travelled and willing to travel but it’s not about being easy, it’s the reality of logistics and people’s real world lives. To maintain a regular physical relationship, distance is a factor. " Distance is also a factor in actually being able to find people who meet, as I explained in my ‘Single ladies within 5 miles thread’. Fab is more and more about fishing in an empty pond, day by day….. | |||
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"Drive Get a train The oh they live too far away thing is just an excuse when you're just not that bothered about meeting them. Agree... if you were really that interested you would make the effort. It’s not always about not putting the effort in. It’s not as simple as that. Lots of people have hugely busy lives with work, children, etc It’s not always realistic to have the time in a week to have 6 or 7 hours free to travel to meet…and especially if you want someone regular. No one said it was easy. But I guess it depends if you'd rather meet someone you actually like or just make do because they are near. I would only meet people that I like and never ‘make do’ for locality. Have travelled and willing to travel but it’s not about being easy, it’s the reality of logistics and people’s real world lives. To maintain a regular physical relationship, distance is a factor. Distance is also a factor in actually being able to find people who meet, as I explained in my ‘Single ladies within 5 miles thread’. Fab is more and more about fishing in an empty pond, day by day….." You just don't have the right bait | |||
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"Drive Get a train The oh they live too far away thing is just an excuse when you're just not that bothered about meeting them. " I don’t drive….sort of my choice but always happy to catch a train. If we get on well enough. Had many a fun weekend away for a meet. It’s like a mini break with a good time with someone you get on with. If they like a hike, it can be a walking weekend with us unable to walk properly after a hard but enjoyable night 👍 | |||
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