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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

A forum is to discuss certain topics, correct?

Ok, that being said. It's normal for people to have an opinion.

If an op makes a statement, has a request. Why does that give a person the right to cast a judgement.

Grrrrrr. This is a swinging site after all. That being said many have very different thoughts on turn ons, turn offs, kinks and other things.

My request, if you have nothing good to say, nothing suitable or relevant. Keep ya mouth shut and let ya little fingers have a break from typing and go play with ya dick or pussy.

Thanks rant over! Haters n wanna be judges bring it. Free spirited people stick up for this thread.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Presumably though you agree those who ask for feedback etc have to take on board what is said positive or otherwise?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Presumably though you agree those who ask for feedback etc have to take on board what is said positive or otherwise? "

If feedback IS requested defiantly. If NOT then stick with the topic right?

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire


"Presumably though you agree those who ask for feedback etc have to take on board what is said positive or otherwise?

If feedback IS requested defiantly. If NOT then stick with the topic right?"
you've only been here a little while. You will soon learn that no thread stays on topic

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By *kywatcherMan
over a year ago

Southwick


"Presumably though you agree those who ask for feedback etc have to take on board what is said positive or otherwise?

If feedback IS requested defiantly. If NOT then stick with the topic right?"

Defiantly is cool.. what is topic...remind me again?

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By *ngel n tedCouple
over a year ago

maidstone

Most threads get hijacked quicker than a car brit plated car driving through spain

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By *ngel n tedCouple
over a year ago

maidstone


"Most threads get hijacked quicker than a car brit plated car driving through spain "

wrote car twice....doh!

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

Oh the irony!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh dear - we are all entitled to an opinion. Personally I don't subscribe to the "haters" stuff (that's the polite way I could describe it) some threads are controversial and evoke feelings from different posters.

You'll learn.

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By *livia_KWoman
over a year ago

South London

I have no problem listening to others' opinions. As long as it's an informed opinion. Otherwise they're obviously just an idiot.

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By *livia_KWoman
over a year ago

South London


"Oh dear - we are all entitled to an opinion. Personally I don't subscribe to the "haters" stuff (that's the polite way I could describe it) some threads are controversial and evoke feelings from different posters.

You'll learn."

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Presumably though you agree those who ask for feedback etc have to take on board what is said positive or otherwise?

If feedback IS requested defiantly. If NOT then stick with the topic right?you've only been here a little while. You will soon learn that no thread stays on topic"

Been here plenty time yet new profile. Yet another assumption wrongly applied

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Oh the irony!"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP you're frightfully aggressive, may I suggest you calm down a touch

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just had a curry Pot Noodle and it was delicious.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Learn! Don't think so been here plenty long enough. Just not on this profile.

Haters n hijacking yup waste of everyone's time n agree idiots.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sad thing is, yes we all have an opinion, just a minority few think that their's is the only one which is right... Wouldn't the world be such a dull place if we all thought the same?

What ppl need to take on board is that every person is an individual with different thoughts, feelings, opinions. We just need to be open and wise enough to know everyone won't think the same as us, so be open to all opinions and not be stuck up our arse with our own!

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By *livia_KWoman
over a year ago

South London


"I just had a curry Pot Noodle and it was delicious. "

Lazy student food. Tut.

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By *hyllyphyllyMan
over a year ago

Bradford

I can be one of the worse for going off topic. Just look at this perfectly innocent topic...

http://www.fabswingers.com/forum/lounge/182196

It's just the way my mind works

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

What ppl need to take on board is that every person is an individual with different thoughts, feelings, opinions. We just need to be open and wise enough to know everyone won't think the same as us, so be open to all opinions and not be stuck up our arse with our own!"

This

The world would be a dull place if we all thought the same.

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By *hyllyphyllyMan
over a year ago

Bradford


"I just had a curry Pot Noodle and it was delicious.

Lazy student food. Tut."

pot noodle butties

Or Pot Noodle Sandwiches for you southerners

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Learn! Don't think so been here plenty long enough. Just not on this profile.

Haters n hijacking yup waste of everyone's time n agree idiots. "

And yet the irony being that less than ten minutes ago you tried to do exactly the same on another thread.... Petard and hoist comes to mind....

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By *livia_KWoman
over a year ago

South London


"I just had a curry Pot Noodle and it was delicious.

Lazy student food. Tut.

pot noodle butties

Or Pot Noodle Sandwiches for you southerners"

Pot noodle sarnies? You peasant

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By *hyllyphyllyMan
over a year ago

Bradford


"I just had a curry Pot Noodle and it was delicious.

Lazy student food. Tut.

pot noodle butties

Or Pot Noodle Sandwiches for you southerners

Pot noodle sarnies? You peasant "

Cor blimey gov'ner, would you Adam and Eve it, I got it Pete Tong

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester


"Sad thing is, yes we all have an opinion, just a minority few think that their's is the only one which is right... Wouldn't the world be such a dull place if we all thought the same?

What ppl need to take on board is that every person is an individual with different thoughts, feelings, opinions. We just need to be open and wise enough to know everyone won't think the same as us, so be open to all opinions and not be stuck up our arse with our own!"

bang on an besides my fingers dont need a rest

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sad thing is, yes we all have an opinion, just a minority few think that their's is the only one which is right... Wouldn't the world be such a dull place if we all thought the same?

What ppl need to take on board is that every person is an individual with different thoughts, feelings, opinions. We just need to be open and wise enough to know everyone won't think the same as us, so be open to all opinions and not be stuck up our arse with our own!

bang on an besides my fingers dont need a rest "

You must be great fun at an orgy....

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By *livia_KWoman
over a year ago

South London


"I just had a curry Pot Noodle and it was delicious.

Lazy student food. Tut.

pot noodle butties

Or Pot Noodle Sandwiches for you southerners

Pot noodle sarnies? You peasant

Cor blimey gov'ner, would you Adam and Eve it, I got it Pete Tong "

I'm Australian. I need a translation

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester


"Sad thing is, yes we all have an opinion, just a minority few think that their's is the only one which is right... Wouldn't the world be such a dull place if we all thought the same?

What ppl need to take on board is that every person is an individual with different thoughts, feelings, opinions. We just need to be open and wise enough to know everyone won't think the same as us, so be open to all opinions and not be stuck up our arse with our own!

bang on an besides my fingers dont need a rest

You must be great fun at an orgy.... "

I can keep this up alllll night long

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sad thing is, yes we all have an opinion, just a minority few think that their's is the only one which is right... Wouldn't the world be such a dull place if we all thought the same?

What ppl need to take on board is that every person is an individual with different thoughts, feelings, opinions. We just need to be open and wise enough to know everyone won't think the same as us, so be open to all opinions and not be stuck up our arse with our own!

bang on an besides my fingers dont need a rest

You must be great fun at an orgy....

I can keep this up alllll night long "

ok Lionel Are we singing now .............. lol

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By *irtyGirlWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

Opinions are like arseholes, everyone has one!

Hello Thursday!

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester


"Sad thing is, yes we all have an opinion, just a minority few think that their's is the only one which is right... Wouldn't the world be such a dull place if we all thought the same?

What ppl need to take on board is that every person is an individual with different thoughts, feelings, opinions. We just need to be open and wise enough to know everyone won't think the same as us, so be open to all opinions and not be stuck up our arse with our own!

bang on an besides my fingers dont need a rest

You must be great fun at an orgy....

I can keep this up alllll night long

ok Lionel Are we singing now .............. lol "

shhhh you your off topic unless you fingers need a rest

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By *livia_KWoman
over a year ago

South London


"Sad thing is, yes we all have an opinion, just a minority few think that their's is the only one which is right... Wouldn't the world be such a dull place if we all thought the same?

What ppl need to take on board is that every person is an individual with different thoughts, feelings, opinions. We just need to be open and wise enough to know everyone won't think the same as us, so be open to all opinions and not be stuck up our arse with our own!

bang on an besides my fingers dont need a rest

You must be great fun at an orgy....

I can keep this up alllll night long "

Reminds me of that Lionel Ritchie song...

Well, my friends, the time has come

To raise the roof and have some fun...

All night long, all night, all night....

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By *livia_KWoman
over a year ago

South London

HAHAHA snap on the Lionel Ritchie song...

But are we gonna get in trouble for going off topic?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"HAHAHA snap on the Lionel Ritchie song...

But are we gonna get in trouble for going off topic? "

nope it was an opinion which you appeared to have agreed with lol

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By *hyllyphyllyMan
over a year ago

Bradford


"HAHAHA snap on the Lionel Ritchie song...

But are we gonna get in trouble for going off topic? "

What's the topic again?

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester


"Sad thing is, yes we all have an opinion, just a minority few think that their's is the only one which is right... Wouldn't the world be such a dull place if we all thought the same?

What ppl need to take on board is that every person is an individual with different thoughts, feelings, opinions. We just need to be open and wise enough to know everyone won't think the same as us, so be open to all opinions and not be stuck up our arse with our own!

bang on an besides my fingers dont need a rest

You must be great fun at an orgy....

I can keep this up alllll night long

Reminds me of that Lionel Ritchie song...

Well, my friends, the time has come

To raise the roof and have some fun...

All night long, all night, all night.... "

your all just out of order poor guy puts an interesting thread up an look you all take the pish. So so unfair tast

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By *livia_KWoman
over a year ago

South London


"HAHAHA snap on the Lionel Ritchie song...

But are we gonna get in trouble for going off topic?

What's the topic again?"

Fuck knows.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dislike the word haters. It's a silly term and doesn't really mean anything. Just because someone has a different opinion than you it doesn't mean they hate you.

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester


"HAHAHA snap on the Lionel Ritchie song...

But are we gonna get in trouble for going off topic? "

yep and again alllll night long

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"HAHAHA snap on the Lionel Ritchie song...

But are we gonna get in trouble for going off topic? "

Not at all....

The topic was "Going off topic"....

Anyway.... Looks like the OP has gone off....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"HAHAHA snap on the Lionel Ritchie song...

But are we gonna get in trouble for going off topic?

What's the topic again?"

Going off topic....

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester


"HAHAHA snap on the Lionel Ritchie song...

But are we gonna get in trouble for going off topic?

Not at all....

The topic was "Going off topic"....

Anyway.... Looks like the OP has gone off.... "

awww what we gona do now.

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By *hyllyphyllyMan
over a year ago

Bradford


"I dislike the word haters. It's a silly term and doesn't really mean anything. Just because someone has a different opinion than you it doesn't mean they hate you. "

"Haters" always reminds me of Epic Meal Time. No idea why

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well I am going off too ............ nite nite everyone ................ sweet dreams ................

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I dislike the word haters. It's a silly term and doesn't really mean anything. Just because someone has a different opinion than you it doesn't mean they hate you. "

I agree, how can someone hate another if they've never met or spoken!? It's just childish playground talk...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I dislike the word haters. It's a silly term and doesn't really mean anything. Just because someone has a different opinion than you it doesn't mean they hate you.

"Haters" always reminds me of Epic Meal Time. No idea why"

It's a silly word for silly people.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"HAHAHA snap on the Lionel Ritchie song...

But are we gonna get in trouble for going off topic?

Not at all....

The topic was "Going off topic"....

Anyway.... Looks like the OP has gone off....

awww what we gona do now. "

Me goin bye byes....

There's only so much fun a young man can have at one time.... And lord knows I need me beauty sleep....

Nite nite All....*waves sleepily....*

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I agree, how can someone hate another if they've never met or spoken!? It's just childish playground talk..."


"

It's a silly word for silly people. "

Pfft... Haters.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I agree, how can someone hate another if they've never met or spoken!? It's just childish playground talk...

It's a silly word for silly people.

Pfft... Haters."

Silly man.

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ


"I just had a curry Pot Noodle and it was delicious. "

Food of the devil

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire


"Presumably though you agree those who ask for feedback etc have to take on board what is said positive or otherwise?

If feedback IS requested defiantly. If NOT then stick with the topic right?you've only been here a little while. You will soon learn that no thread stays on topic

Been here plenty time yet new profile. Yet another assumption wrongly applied "
well if your not new you already know threads dont stay on topic

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I just had a curry Pot Noodle and it was delicious.

Food of the devil "

I wasn't exactly in it for its nutritional properties/

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

Crikey Crinkle, you got in a pot noodle

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By *lackshadow7Man
over a year ago

Toronto


"Oh the irony!"

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Theres a certain few on here that hang about the forums being keyboard warriors ...picking on people and stuff iv seen it ...horrible insecure bullys so i hardly come on here cos it boils my piss ha......"
Tats posted this thread but I totally agree... Especially with this comment. I have been made to feel stupid a few times when posting on my single profile .. It's one reason I think you don't get too many new people joining the forums. Nobody likes to feel shunned by a clique ~ nails

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Theres a certain few on here that hang about the forums being keyboard warriors ...picking on people and stuff iv seen it ...horrible insecure bullys so i hardly come on here cos it boils my piss ha...... Tats posted this thread but I totally agree... Especially with this comment. I have been made to feel stupid a few times when posting on my single profile .. It's one reason I think you don't get too many new people joining the forums. Nobody likes to feel shunned by a clique ~ nails "

Just keep posting. Banter is good and for that you need a range of opinions. If the same people posted all the time with the same opinions it would get boring.

I agree with your op about no need for negative comments but I think the same in real life too. And I mean negative as in mean/ rude etc.

I like it when people disagree and have different opinions as it's banter and makes it interesting.

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

There's loads of New people posting just lately. Some muck in with the banter some dint. Guess which ones stick around longest.

I have to agree that sometimes hijacks take the piss. Just last week a few forumite completely hijacked a thread without offering any advice (which the OP asked for) and I felt I had to say something as it just seemed disrespectful.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Theres a certain few on here that hang about the forums being keyboard warriors ...picking on people and stuff iv seen it ...horrible insecure bullys so i hardly come on here cos it boils my piss ha...... Tats posted this thread but I totally agree... Especially with this comment. I have been made to feel stupid a few times when posting on my single profile .. It's one reason I think you don't get too many new people joining the forums. Nobody likes to feel shunned by a clique ~ nails

Just keep posting. Banter is good and for that you need a range of opinions. If the same people posted all the time with the same opinions it would get boring.

I agree with your op about no need for negative comments but I think the same in real life too. And I mean negative as in mean/ rude etc.

I like it when people disagree and have different opinions as it's banter and makes it interesting. "
oh I do keep posting... My single profile is Seareena... You may have seen me. I obviously love the forums I am too often but I still think the nasty ones should stfu

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Theres a certain few on here that hang about the forums being keyboard warriors ...picking on people and stuff iv seen it ...horrible insecure bullys so i hardly come on here cos it boils my piss ha...... Tats posted this thread but I totally agree... Especially with this comment. I have been made to feel stupid a few times when posting on my single profile .. It's one reason I think you don't get too many new people joining the forums. Nobody likes to feel shunned by a clique ~ nails "

Shunned.... 55 replies to Tats' post, which is more than most regulars get on a serious topic...

None of the opinions returned were malicious, quite the opposite in most cases...

It is true that most found difference and/ or irony in the original premis.... But from there to utilising the "clique" word is a leap of faith which always provokes contention... Which you will be aware of, as you are not new to this site....

For me... The fact that another's opinion differs from mine makes neither of us idiots.... And I for one look forward to your future postings....

Have a bubble-some day both....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Theres a certain few on here that hang about the forums being keyboard warriors ...picking on people and stuff iv seen it ...horrible insecure bullys so i hardly come on here cos it boils my piss ha...... Tats posted this thread but I totally agree... Especially with this comment. I have been made to feel stupid a few times when posting on my single profile .. It's one reason I think you don't get too many new people joining the forums. Nobody likes to feel shunned by a clique ~ nails

Just keep posting. Banter is good and for that you need a range of opinions. If the same people posted all the time with the same opinions it would get boring.

I agree with your op about no need for negative comments but I think the same in real life too. And I mean negative as in mean/ rude etc.

I like it when people disagree and have different opinions as it's banter and makes it interesting. "

I love a good topic to chat about and I totally agree but when people are blatantly taking the piss out of someone for spelling and stuff etc etc ...its not on iv seen it and thought thats just outright bullying and nastyness normally cos there that insecure and probably lonely

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its my opinion so it right same as with yours is right to you so at times they dont match so lets beg to differ as they say

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

So it's a bit confusing with tats and I both posting. I (nails) am new... Tats... knows the ropes. It's true I am learning but I used the "clique" word because I feel it applies. Not always a negative thing. Good that there is a community here. Just a shame some like to make people feel stupid instead of encouraging the banter... That's what I think we are trying to communicate here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

While I agree on some points, I do think the word clique is banded about and is not the case.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So it's a bit confusing with tats and I both posting. I (nails) am new... Tats... knows the ropes. It's true I am learning but I used the "clique" word because I feel it applies. Not always a negative thing. Good that there is a community here. Just a shame some like to make people feel stupid instead of encouraging the banter... That's what I think we are trying to communicate here"

I would argue against that and the regulars ("clique") stick up for new posters if they are unfairly treated.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Presumably though you agree those who ask for feedback etc have to take on board what is said positive or otherwise?

If feedback IS requested defiantly. If NOT then stick with the topic right?

Defiantly is cool.. what is topic...remind me again?"
a Topic is a peanut bar covered in chocolate if my memory serves me right

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just a shame some like to make people feel stupid instead of encouraging the banter... That's what I think we are trying to communicate here"

I'm here quite a lot and I've never seen you post.

Today is the first time...which thread are you referring to?..

There are a LOT of people and a LOT of different characters, not everyone is going to have the same viewpoint(s).

Your posts in this thread make me feel that you think everyone is out to get you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just because your paraniod doesnt mean they AREN'T all out to get you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Threads dont stay on topic ever.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"So it's a bit confusing with tats and I both posting. I (nails) am new... Tats... knows the ropes. It's true I am learning but I used the "clique" word because I feel it applies. Not always a negative thing. Good that there is a community here. Just a shame some like to make people feel stupid instead of encouraging the banter... That's what I think we are trying to communicate here

I would argue against that and the regulars ("clique") stick up for new posters if they are unfairly treated."
yes seen that as well and it is a good thing... It does counter the few who I feel are just brewing snide comments in order to look clever.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I just had a curry Pot Noodle and it was delicious. "

Lol this made me giggle out loud xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

In the end it is our opinion. Read it and make of it what you will. We don't think people are "out to get us" we are simply stating that there are a few people on here who use the forum in a negative way and it detracts from your community. I personally love the forums. Wether you have seen me posting on Seareena or not makes no never mind. I have learned many things and I will continue to comment and read. I am however not going to stay quiet when I see new people trying to join in and nasty people pouncing in with sarcastic "wit" . I will say no more on the matter... As I'm sure you will all be pleased to know ~ Nails

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester


"So it's a bit confusing with tats and I both posting. I (nails) am new... Tats... knows the ropes. It's true I am learning but I used the "clique" word because I feel it applies. Not always a negative thing. Good that there is a community here. Just a shame some like to make people feel stupid instead of encouraging the banter... That's what I think we are trying to communicate here

I would argue against that and the regulars ("clique") stick up for new posters if they are unfairly treated."

I agree I know I try my best to help newbies. I remember only to well when I 1st started on here an I remember those who helped an encouraged me an the 1s who tride shooting me down. Luckly for me im a big engh boy to know it takes all sorts an that's what makes it fun.......iv had side splitting laffs on here more arguments than iv fingers 1 or 2 bans oops an also tears an hart felt sympathy on some things iv read an posted an for me thats what its all about the only thing I do know is when it stops being fun I want be here any longer..

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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago

In Your Bush

Admin should write some code, so that every time someone types clique, it converts it to Angel Delight

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Admin should write some code, so that every time someone types clique, it converts it to Angel Delight "

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester

Angel delight.......who said that

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Presumably though you agree those who ask for feedback etc have to take on board what is said positive or otherwise?

If feedback IS requested defiantly. If NOT then stick with the topic right?you've only been here a little while. You will soon learn that no thread stays on topic

Been here plenty time yet new profile. Yet another assumption wrongly applied well if your not new you already know threads dont stay on topic "

So if milk didn't really taste like milk that would be ok too, right?

We are grown up enough to know threads don't stay on top, but going from a sexual request to watching Liberace on Saturday at the cinema. That is silly, it's not facebook.

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

what a joyful thread to start the day off....

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By *unky monkeyMan
over a year ago

in the night garden

I love my angel delight. If it wasn't for my angel delight I wouldn't even log in. We have so many angel delight in-jokes that it can be confusing for newbies but I don't care, they make me feel validated and special. I love being part of an angel delight and I love my fellow angel delighters.

Have you seen my bottom everyone?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I dislike the word haters. It's a silly term and doesn't really mean anything. Just because someone has a different opinion than you it doesn't mean they hate you. "

Opinion is one thing, believing YOU have THE opinion turns me right off. Friendly banter is great, but there are a number of malicious posters here who seem to get off on put-downs and nastiness.

Where's me Crunchy Nut Cornflakses gone?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like angel delight butterscotch would be my flavour of choice

And talking of arses opinions are like arseholes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well the forums would be very boring if we all had same views. And even with different views people can be nice to each other . When at times some cant its time to turn off Fab. x

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By *ensualtouch15Man
over a year ago

ashby de la zouch

It's a public forum , suitable for all manner of conversation Styes , ranging from witty nonsense banter to serious rational debates and all in between x

Do you think anyone who disagreed with your op should not have commented ? Suggesting some opinions should not be aired is the equivalent to censorship

All that said personal attacks are not nice , I'm of the opinion debate a subject and articulate a reasoned perspective , not disagree give no reason and then report to name calling, however let the name callers show their colours so they can indeed be assessed on their merits or lack of

As for going off topic , it's healthy and can give new perspective or insight . an op can pop back at any time and ask to come back on track

Rather than biatch about those who disagree or become personal use them as an incentive to raise your game if you think them wrong articulate why , if someone is being nasty the whole forum will see for themselves

And mainly enjoy the forum don't take anything to heart but once released into the public domain do not be precious about a post or op

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Has anyone said opinions are like arseholes we all have one yet?

Someone usually does and I hav'nt read all the replies

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

We are grown up enough to know threads don't stay on top, but going from a sexual request to watching Liberace on Saturday at the cinema. That is silly, it's not facebook. "

I don't think the forums are for you to be honest.

$0.92 I've upped my tips!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"HAHAHA snap on the Lionel Ritchie song...

But are we gonna get in trouble for going off topic?

What's the topic again?

Fuck knows."

Who is fuck and does he know where my glasses are

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By *ensualtouch15Man
over a year ago

ashby de la zouch

Love it when a lady sits on my face that usually ends up as

Fuck nose

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Love it when a lady sits on my face that usually ends up as

Fuck nose"

Do you have my glasses?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A forum is to discuss certain topics, correct?

Ok, that being said. It's normal for people to have an opinion.

If an op makes a statement, has a request. Why does that give a person the right to cast a judgement.

Grrrrrr. This is a swinging site after all. That being said many have very different thoughts on turn ons, turn offs, kinks and other things.

My request, if you have nothing good to say, nothing suitable or relevant. Keep ya mouth shut and let ya little fingers have a break from typing and go play with ya dick or pussy.

Thanks rant over! Haters n wanna be judges bring it. Free spirited people stick up for this thread. "

Couldn't have put it better ourselves!

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

I've read through this and I'm going to toss my tuppence in to the mix.

There are those that goad and are malicious on threads. Some will ignore them and others will rise to the bait. You can usually work out who is deliberately poking the fire and trying to start a keyboard riot as they will keep coming back when the topic reverts to some semblance of good debate.

Good debate reflects a range of opinions and not just those in support of the OP. Your OP basically asked for "free spirited people to stick up for this thread". I found that a little oxymoronic.

A little levity can help with a thread sometimes.

There are different types of thread posters. Those that start a thread and return to it, tend it and guide it back on topic, if they feel that is needed. Those that post and sit back and watch, never posting again. Those that feel that once they have posted that thought they then participate, possibly not even defending their original post, and let it run its course.

What is the real difference between Facebook and this forum? Almost every day someone will say that this isn't Facebook. Both are driven by the postings of a disparate group of people, some of whom will know each and most of whom have never met.

Simply, a thread hijack is only successful if others join in. On its own it is a single post that people can choose to acknowledge or ignore.

Those are my thoughts for free.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Topics

Angel delight

I'm of to the sweet shop, anyone want anything ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Topics

Angel delight

I'm of to the sweet shop, anyone want anything ? "
pick and mix , lol like nuts ,

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester

Lickerty 1 question what does oxmoronic mean ??? an yep spot on post like I said ferther up takes all sorts

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound


"Lickerty 1 question what does oxmoronic mean ??? an yep spot on post like I said ferther up takes all sorts "

An oxymoron is a speech with contradictory terms. The easiest example is something like "to make haste slowly".

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo

In summary: If you treat other people with respect, you can't go far wrong. Don't forget that the forums are meant to be fun, if you find yourself fuming and writing long angry messages you're probably best taking a break from it.

To the OP, your posts seem angry...maybe have a read of the summary at the top of the rules before you post , I have pasted it for you at the top of my post.

Don;t forget, if you think someone has broken rules anywhere, report the post

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