FabSwingers.com forum: Help me!!!!!

By *pt75 OP Man
1 week ago

nantyglo

Advice for help in getting replies, meets and verification as I've been on here for god knows how long and have had nothing

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
1 week ago

East Sussex

Are you making sure you fit the criteria of the people you message?

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By *veragecouple2000Couple
1 week ago

South Wales

I always recommend finding a group social you can attend xx 😘

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By *ssexlad36!Man
1 week ago

Hullbridge, Essex

So as per the other 100s of thread regarding advice, a social or club is your best bet, looking at your profile, it only states about sex, not everyone woman wants to read that, it doesnt say much about yourself or anything else you are interested in, try and look at your profile and make changes, make sure anyone you message you fit their criteria otherwise they wont reply, chat in the forums and show people what you are like, dont just make it sexual, it will help!

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By *he MinionMan
1 week ago

Surrey

Copy what Rexy does.

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By *pt75 OP Man
1 week ago

nantyglo

"So as per the other 100s of thread regarding advice, a social or club is your best bet, looking at your profile, it only states about sex, not everyone woman wants to read that, it doesnt say much about yourself or anything else you are interested in, try and look at your profile and make changes, make sure anyone you message you fit their criteria otherwise they wont reply, chat in the forums and show people what you are like, dont just make it sexual, it will help!"
thanx I'll take that on board

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By *pt75 OP Man
1 week ago

nantyglo

"I always recommend finding a group social you can attend xx 😘 "
thanx for the help

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By *007ManMan
1 week ago

Worthing

Join in with forum/cam room chat op. Make friends is a good start.

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By *vaRoseWoman
1 week ago

Ankh-Morpork

"Advice for help in getting replies, meets and verification as I've been on here for god knows how long and have had nothing "

Photos - lovely to have face pics but one looks disdainful and the other makes me think you’re disappointed

Bio… WALL OF TEXT. It’s one massive block. It also opens with a want to meet anyone. That comes over as utterly unfussy and any hole will do.

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By *ister MeanerMan
1 week ago

Manchester

Get a few socials under your belt to show you’re not a liability.

Plus accept the fact lads outnumber lasses by a silly margin (wouldn’t be surprised if it’s 10:1 or more).

Plus socials are fun! Had my first one a few weeks back and it was legit a good laugh just hanging out with someone equally open minded chatting about life & the world without a single inclination to play!

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By *atural_born_thriller_xMan
1 week ago

cockwelwyn

Come up with an unusual fetish x it’s gets you noticed x watermelons seem popular today x the all time favourite was the tow bar man he probably reached cult status on here x

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By *kphooey43Man
1 week ago

Barnet

"Come up with an unusual fetish x it’s gets you noticed x watermelons seem popular today x the all time favourite was the tow bar man he probably reached cult status on here x "

Pineapples seem appropriate for this site.

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By *amantha_JadeWoman
1 week ago

Profile is the first step:

More photos that are good quality, recent, and sexy/suggestive rather than a wall of dick pics. Have a look at other popular male profiles from the forum lounge for ideas - there’s some great ones.

Break up your bio into paragraphs so it’s easier / more pleasant to read. Add in more specifics about the type of person you’d like to meet and what you’re into.

Remove your status saying you don’t care who verifies you - comes across as desperate.

Are you reading profiles of those you are messaging to check if you fit what they’re looking for?

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By *issy LanaTV/TS
1 week ago

Slough

Gr8 advise from Ashley, making a change in your profile will help.

Still keep it real, no shame in being honest (afterall, it's a sex site).

My only advise would be to let go of expectations and simply roll with the flo.

What's meant to be will be, since it's just a matter of time...!

I luv meeting peeps at saunas and club, most of whom happen to be on Fabswingers.

Best wishes OP.

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By *ull of PuddinWoman
1 week ago

isle of munters

You had some good advice on the other threads

For me I can't read your bio, I can't read block writing. I always suggest breaking up the bios into paragraphs to make less eye strain.

I can't comment on anything else because I skip bios that are block

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By *eautyandthebeast86Couple
1 week ago

Somewhere in Norfolk ask :)

Great you have face photos on but a friendly bit of advice is smile ! You look annoyed in both photos slightly. A smile goes a long way and is likely to attract more people

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By *rLucky777Man
1 week ago

Leeds

Be tall, handsome, funny, charming, generous and kind.

With a six pack, strong arms, be a multi millionaire and also be able to fly like superman.

Probably still won’t help tbh. Delete fab and join a Pilates class.

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
1 week ago

Reading

I'm afraid your age and not being able to accommodate will hurt your chances but good for you for being honest. As others have said, make your profile more readable - I thought the text was pretty good. And more photos especially one with you smiling, even if you don't like your smile.

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