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"My taste in women has definitely aged with me. I like women more my own age or a little older, it feels weird checking out a 20 year old at nearly 40" I seem to have gone the opposite , in relationships when very young with older women, now prefer younger | |||
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"I now like really strong cheese. " Me too and port, wine, whisky, rum , olives, sushi, champagne where I was 18 I wouldn't touch any of that - beer cider & chips! | |||
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"My tastes in good and drink have matured. I’m now a huge lover of the arts and, sadly Nolene walks in the countryside too" I definitely understand the arts more in the last 20 years , I never really got it tbh until about 30-35 | |||
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"At that age I was easily influenced, by men, by drink. Young, dumb and kinda hot. Now none of those things! I think I value people a lote more, and myself actually. Though do still have a thing for (slightly) older men...not the bad boys. Plus I like olives now. And rum. And time on my own in the middle of nowhere. " Now older wiser and still kinda hot  | |||
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"We like museums much more and watching each other have sex with someone else." In a museum ? That's v hot, I think I have a story about that..... | |||
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"As a person I’m definitely still evolving and learning about myself and I love that I’m definitely less tolerant to other people’s shit now though and after being in. DA marriage for over 20 years where I suppressed my feelings and voice I’m very open now about my life and speak openly about the challenges I’ve had or have I still like men who can make me laugh, that are great conversationalists and still don’t have a type looks wise " It's obstacles and challenges make us, and the mistakes , you've certainly had many challenges and keep improving with age like a fine wine  | |||
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"I would simply say, through life experience, travel and personal growth I'm a completely different person to when I was in my 20's. Some of my tastes have matured and others which only served my ego. I have confidence, have self worth comfortable with who I am." I can relate to that and remember a little from your other posts, but I disagree you/we are completely different people, that person was always there in waiting. It's good to understand that and figure the things that diddnt change | |||
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"I don’t think my tastes have changed always preferred ladies over 40 and still do , food wise I’ve always been a fussy eater and still am drink wise I don’t drink any fizzy pop like I used to these days still enjoy a good ale and a quality dram . Still a music lover and art appreciation in many forms too " Have your music tastes changed? Can you listen to the music of your youth all the time it in smaller doses ? | |||
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"Partners - I quite like men now. Didn't date a man until I was in my early twenties so yeah that's changed a fair amount. Even things like personality/temperament. Over the last couple of years I've got better at working out what is for me and what isn't. Friends - not really, no. I've always been friendly with lots of people, have a very small circle of those I'd class as friends. Food and the arts - slightly changed. I've gained a greater appreciation of musicals and the sheer volume of work that goes in to them. ❤️" 
I was converted to musicals by my children, love them now, never understood them
Before ! In fact kids have a lot to answer for.... Taylor Swift, Rudimental | |||
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"My tastes in good and drink have matured. I’m now a huge lover of the arts and, sadly Nolene walks in the countryside too" Note to self - don’t type a forum post while brushing teeth and looking on fab 
Food and Drink*
*Relaxing walks in the countryside | |||
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"My tastes in good and drink have matured. I’m now a huge lover of the arts and, sadly Nolene walks in the countryside too Note to self - don’t type a forum post while brushing teeth and looking on fab
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*Relaxing walks in the countryside "I was feeling sorry for poor Nolene (is she Jolene's sister?) sadly walking in the countryside  | |||
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"As a person with no artistic talent. I used to think fine art was for people that could actually "do art". Not anymore, I marvel at the works I see in galleries everywhere. I can lose hours looking. As I've got older I've worked out that subtitled films aren't all high brow, they just require a little more focus. It's no measure of quality either, there are some good foreign films and some bad foreign films. Just like there are everywhere else." Yes, I think as a young person I diddnt understand art at all and was more into a movies or books story not realising in good films it's just a vehicle for what the writer/director wants to say about life/the world. But tastes haven't changed im still interested in the same concepts but interpretation has matured | |||
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"My tastes in good and drink have matured. I’m now a huge lover of the arts and, sadly Nolene walks in the countryside too Note to self - don’t type a forum post while brushing teeth and looking on fab
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I was feeling sorry for poor Nolene (is she Jolene's sister?) sadly walking in the countryside "If poor Nolene is 25-40, pretty, filthy and needs a walking partner I'm in | |||
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"My tastes are still evolving but at a much slower rate. I have a far smaller circle of friends than at 18-20 when I was still learning what qualities made for decent ones. My taste in men has matured in that I like the same qualities but in older guys. Food, drink, art music, literature etc there's so much to see and enjoy but in the time honoured phrase ' I know what I like', however I'm willing to give new things a go. I remain interested in new experiences if all kinds but I'm much more selective about what I'll try. There's a lot to be said for contentment " Yes I think wisdom is realising there's so much value in culture and arts to experience but being more selective on what and why. | |||
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"My taste in food has changed a lot. I still like what I've always liked, but like a lot more stuff than I used to. (Yet to retry sushi!) Taste in men is pretty much the same. Always been a sucker (not literally), for an amazing sense of humour. " Yes literally  | |||
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"My taste in food has changed a lot. I still like what I've always liked, but like a lot more stuff than I used to. (Yet to retry sushi!) Taste in men is pretty much the same. Always been a sucker (not literally), for an amazing sense of humour. " We share a sense of humour! We have to as you ain't fucking got one!
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"My taste in food has changed a lot. I still like what I've always liked, but like a lot more stuff than I used to. (Yet to retry sushi!) Taste in men is pretty much the same. Always been a sucker (not literally), for an amazing sense of humour. " I think that's common isn't it, I still like kebab chips and a beer but also added new stuff  | |||
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"Grew up hating Olives, now I love them. Grown to adore mature cheese 🧀 Music, I was just into mainstream music in my teens. I've since developed a taste for opera, Latino pop music and even the odd gangster rap. 🤷🏽♂️ You never know where you're going to end up in life." Olives are just the best aren't they ! I'm in Istanbul today there's so many kinds but can't see my favourite Kalamata anywhere | |||
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"My taste buds have changed over time. I don't like sweets anymore but I do like desserts more than I used to. I still like mature women but now I'm also finding women younger than me attractive. I stopped listening to music for a few years as it gave me a headache. Now I listen to afro beats as well as old school stuff from 90's-00's. My film tastes have changed. I don't really care about visuals. The story matters more to me. The standard of writing has dropped or studios are actively stopping good writers from coming up with something worthwhile. So many films with potential to be good end up ruined by the writing. Or maybe there's too much politics in filmmaking. I'm disillusioned with politics. The parties are the same just different colours and badges. They all drink in the same pub." Yes, mainstream movers have gone downhill massively because of the funding needed and how cheaply Netflix and other produce formulae based stories. But the indie and the stuff of the film festivals is just as good as it's always been. | |||
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"My circle of friends is definitely smaller. Life is too busy to hang out with people out of necessity." Agree. I think as time speeds up you realise you shouldn't ever tolerate bad people or even further, choose only the best of the best, people that enrich and challenge you to be the best version of you, lift you up. | |||
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