FabSwingers.com forum: Is it love?

By * Wear Black OP Man
2 weeks ago

Malice

You can't stop thinking about her. Her smell, her smile. The way she touches you.

The feeling you get when they touch you. That feeling. You sink into their arms, into their warmth. You've never met anyone like them.

Your phone pings and you're on it. It doesn't ping and you still check, just in case you missed the ping.

They have reached something inside you that no one has before.

You try to be cool. You tell yourself that she'll want you more for not hanging on, tell me if I'm wrong? Tell me if I'm wrong.

But you're a mess. She's ruined your life and you love it. The power she has over you is immense. What could be? The life you could have. Imagine that connection forever.

I mean fuck, she's the most beautiful woman you've ever met. You love her.

Right?

Or is it just limerance...

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By *each needs some creamWoman
2 weeks ago

Ilfracombe

It's probably Lust not love. A lot of people get the two mixed up.

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By *hamallamadingdongMan
2 weeks ago

London

I believe in a thing called love

Just listen to the rhythm of my heart

There's a chance we could make it now

We'll be rocking 'til the sun goes down

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By *oldmilkMan
2 weeks ago

In trouble, apparently…

Most people aren’t here for love.

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By *lowupdollTV/TS
2 weeks ago

Here. There.

Love is…

Wanking with candles.

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By *amantha_JadeWoman
2 weeks ago

Tricky, very tricky. I often wonder this about someone I was seeing years ago… can’t get him out of my head.

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By *hamallamadingdongMan
2 weeks ago

London

"Tricky, very tricky. I often wonder this about someone I was seeing years ago… can’t get him out of my head. "

Alright, Kylie 😜

Good tune though 😂

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By * Wear Black OP Man
2 weeks ago

Malice

"Tricky, very tricky. I often wonder this about someone I was seeing years ago… can’t get him out of my head. "

It is. Especially if they have traits that make you chase. Limerance is the chase.... but if you never really catch.

Well damn.

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By *hamallamadingdongMan
2 weeks ago

London

Limerence is fantasy-driven, future-oriented, fixated on an idealized projection, and functions similarly to an addiction. - search engine.

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By * Wear Black OP Man
2 weeks ago

Malice

"Limerence is fantasy-driven, future-oriented, fixated on an idealized projection, and functions similarly to an addiction. - search engine."

And it is all consuming

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By *actile TensionMan
2 weeks ago

Sussex

Hold it down boy youre heads getting blurred

I know you cant stop thinking of her

By all means you can vibe with this girl

But just dont mug yourself thats all dont mug yourself

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By *ad NannaWoman
2 weeks ago

East London

Probably just that will cool with time.

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By *issBellaWoman
2 weeks ago

Town

"I believe in a thing called love

Just listen to the rhythm of my heart

There's a chance we could make it now

We'll be rocking 'til the sun goes down"

I came here to post this

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By *ulie.your. bottom. slutTV/TS
2 weeks ago

Near Glasgow

"Most people aren’t here for love."

True, but love doesn't ask your permission to enter your life. It comes in and knocks you out.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
2 weeks ago

East Sussex

Love is when you can still feel the way the op describes after experiencing food poisoning, overnight delays at airports, catastrophic arguments and annoying habits with each other.

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By *orkshire_WonderWoman
2 weeks ago

FabWorld

"Most people aren’t here for love."

I don't think anyone is! Hardly the right place for it.

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By *ustYouWoman
2 weeks ago

Glasgow, west end

"Limerence is fantasy-driven, future-oriented, fixated on an idealized projection, and functions similarly to an addiction. - search engine.

And it is all consuming "

It IS all consuming. I too suffer limerance, usually over dominant men who I absolutely dont have anything in common with. Seeking approval sets off a chain reaction, so I try and stop that cycle before it starts.

I hope you recover if its limerance, and if she feels the same as you? Its surely love.

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By *iver78Man
2 weeks ago

barton upon humber

It could be love , but I find thatvall that gooie stuff wears of after about 3mths

but embrace it while it last

Coming of a man with 3 kids to 3 different women and whose longest relationship was 18 mths so pro ably the last person. To give any advice about love 🤭🫣 or anything tbh lol

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By *carlettsWoman
2 weeks ago

Somewhere out there

Is this love that I'm feeling?

Is this the love that I've been searching for?

Is this love, or am I dreaming?

This must be love 'cause it's really got a hold on me

A hold on me

Sorry read the thread title and this popped in my head

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By (user no longer on site)
2 weeks ago

"Is this love that I'm feeling?

Is this the love that I've been searching for?

Is this love, or am I dreaming?

This must be love 'cause it's really got a hold on me

A hold on me

Sorry read the thread title and this popped in my head

That will be an earworm all day 🤣

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By *eliWoman
2 weeks ago

It's limerence.

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By *heron ShanMan
2 weeks ago

Durham

"Love is…

Wanking with candles."
This cracked me up, thank you.

Well said though.

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By *iltsTSgirlTV/TS
2 weeks ago

Chichester

You all need to learn how to be in control of your emotions with logic and not the other way around. Life is simpler when you function logically

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